sector9love Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into you This sounds exactly like this new dude I’m talking to. FWIW, he described his most recent “break up” exactly as you said …he was “too vulnerable” after his long term relationship ended. Idk what that means but my hunch is that he’s still not over his ex, tried to rebound, and realized that wasn’t soothing his bruised ego.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 06:46 AM
11	Film: Good On Paper Same girl same. Watching that movie was pure joy - in a weird way it felt like partial vindication for my stupid mistake haha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 10:54 AM
2	Everywhere I go I see references to porn addiction ruining the ability to have real relationships Literally is this about my ex?!?! Story time. He told me he “randomly saw” a video of a girl putting a whole apple up her butt...and he had to take a second to decide if he was turned on or disgusted. Um. Excuse me what?! How could any sane person watch that without being disgusted? To my ex’s credit, he did say he was “kinky” on our first date. However, he didn’t say he had fetishes, meaning extreme sexual paraphilias (psychological disorders). Out of ALL of his truly bizarre and disturbing ddl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 07:33 AM
2	Be careful if you join Telegram Wondered what the blue messaging app on my Narc / NVM ex’s phone was... Knew he was talking to women on there but still have zero idea how he actually finds them. Is it like insta where you can message anyone?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 06:58 AM
1	There is no obligation for you to stay with an unaffectionate man. “Living with an adult child is no joke” 👏👏👏 PREACH!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 09:49 AM
5	Weekly FDS Check-In Yep this literally JUST happened to me. Four dates and asked to commit....and to delete OLD apps at the same time. I deleted mine (like an absolute idiot!!). As things started turning sour, I decided to trust my intuition and snoop. Caught him red handed with several fake social profiles (dressed as a woman but that’s for a different convo), saying he was single, and actively engaging with other people. Lesson learned - if he’s way too quick to commit he is mate guarding.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 03:00 AM
3	Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them? Spittin facts ma’am. Seriously needed this thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 04:17 AM
1	Just don't need any more BS from 2020 Love this!! Galentines are the best!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 07:21 PM
17	Just don't need any more BS from 2020 Just me January Fuck scrotes February Marry myself March Yep	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 02:08 AM
1	COVID is not an excuse to accept low-effort dates. If sitting and having a meal with someone is too risky, stay home. Thank you! Yes I’ve read some of the links but not all. I surmised that having him invest his time in planning and/or money in our first date was important to weed out LVM. Wanted to confirm. Cancelled the “date” - no regrets!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 02:06 AM
3	From my time online dating. . . This response made me LOL. Nice work	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 01:50 AM
3	Good morning FDS Amen sis!! Need to write this on my mirror or something lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 01:47 AM
1	COVID is not an excuse to accept low-effort dates. If sitting and having a meal with someone is too risky, stay home. So does this mean I should NOT go out for a first date/ “beach date” with a guy from OLD tomorrow?? It sounded sweet at first...but is this LVM ish? Newer to FDS...ladies, please help!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 07:23 AM