seddit2094 Archive

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3	when a guy jokes about having sex with you Like in class? I wouldn't do it, it's a bit of a faux pas. It usually is an indication of sexual interest to make that sort of a joke but I consider that to be generally inappropriate unless I have already had some sort of sexual encounter with the girl.	/r/seduction	26/09/17 07:52 PM
2	Trying to figure out what girls would be attracted to me and how to meet them as a struggling guy Wardrobe - keep everything simple, solid color t shirts with chinos/chino shorts/jeans for more casual wear, blue/white button downs with khakis/chinos/trousers for more formal occasions. Striped/patterned button downs work too. For shoes, white sneakers are in right now and go well with all your casual wear; formal shoes, pair brown shoes with blue tones and a brown belt, black shoes with black tones and a black belt, grey tones work with both colors. If you wear a watch, pair the band likewise…	/r/seduction	26/09/17 07:48 PM
2	Expand social circle in college/meet new people. What year are you and what kind of school do you go to?	/r/seduction	26/09/17 05:39 PM
1	Trying to figure out what girls would be attracted to me and how to meet them as a struggling guy Do you think you are attractive? It sounds like you have a good job, which is attractive. That's a good starting point. Are you physically attractive (tall, low body fat %, muscular)? Are you well groomed (smell nice, respectable hair cut, nice clothes)? Those are two things that you can change starting tomorrow that will make you more attractive to women. Once you tick off those boxes, many more women will be interested in you and you can start moving past your forever alone status. You don't n…	/r/seduction	26/09/17 05:38 PM
5	when a guy jokes about having sex with you It would really have to depend on context. I doubt I would ever make such a joke about a colleague, that would be incredibly inappropriate for most offices, particularly the ones I have worked in for my internships. For a fellow student, I would possibly make such a joke, but only really if the setting were right (party or date function) or I had a great rapport with a girl. If you're wondering whether he's interested in you, that at least indicates to me he has thought about sex with you and is…	/r/seduction	26/09/17 05:21 PM
1	(21M) Just broke up with GF of 2.5 years. Jumped on tinder and have had 0 matches in a week. Let's just go through the whole profile: Photos: You're a good looking kid and seemingly a reasonably good dresser. I think your second photo should be your lead, it looks like you're doing something fun and it's a good photo of you without it looking like you're dating the girl next to you. Your next photo should be you doing some sort of activity, e.g. playing a sport, at a concert, etc. Show off your lifestyle, essentially. Next photo can either be another good picture of you or another lifes…	/r/seduction	01/05/17 11:40 AM
2	Any tips on securing second date? Correct me if I have the timeline wrong, but I think you tried to do too much too soon. I can't speak for this girl specifically, but as a college student myself, my life is generally very busy and I only really have time on the weekends. I think your early persistence may have scared her off, in the future you should probably wait to ask a girl to hang out again. As for the current situation, you've taken two strikes, you have one more shot before you're being a weird cunt, so figure out someth…	/r/seduction	01/05/17 10:50 AM
1	I've pretty much accepted that I am not a party person and probably will never be. I think that's just the nature of cold approaches, success rates are overwhelmingly low, particularly during the day. You're going in and chatting up a girl without any knowledge of whether she is receptive to an approach, let alone one from you specifically. I think it's best to think of cold approaching as good practice for conversational skills, and anything else to come out of it is icing on the cake.	/r/seduction	28/04/17 07:52 PM
4	How do I get rid of my cringey personality? First off, embrace the weirdness. Focus on making yourself laugh and having a good time. Be more comfortable in your own skin. Not everybody is an incredible comedian, but I know tons of guys who are funny not because of the content of their jokes, but because of the execution. You've said that some people enjoy your humor: focus on appealing to those people. You aren't going to win over everyone, and sometimes if you have a quirky personality then the optimal move is to try to appeal to a niche…	/r/seduction	28/04/17 07:03 PM
1	I've pretty much accepted that I am not a party person and probably will never be. You're doing a great job putting yourself out there and actually going up and approaching people. I think your next step here is to change your mindset and how you think about women. Obviously I'm making judgements based only off of what you've written here, but getting laid is clearly on your mind, and it probably shows. That "desperation" you talk about is probably easily sensed by these girls and that is holding you up right now. Here's my recommendation, particularly for your time working in…	/r/seduction	28/04/17 06:52 PM