seddit_throwaway_123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
81	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way	Field Report	seddit_throwaway_123	/r/seduction	18/06/14 07:44 PM

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2	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way Whatever stupid stuff. Five fabourite things about summer etc. When they respond, I try to immediately emotionally escalate by sharing both positive and negative feelings in a direct and unironic way e.g. riffing on ehat they said and how it relates to my traumas and difficult issues. Today I told a 21 yo girl we have trouble sharing our feelings with a friend which has made me bitter and guilty and she immediately told me she was sad she was alone today.	/r/seduction	20/06/14 09:43 AM
2	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way I also have to add something my therapist told me. Still being insecure I take a lot of this stuff to my own feelings when I should instead turn it around to her feelings. Instead of saying I'm hurt, I should have asked why she had trust issues. I've since done that a lot more to good effect, especially when women resist sex. When they ask how many one-night stands I have I just flat out respond by asking why they're ashamed about casual sex.	/r/seduction	20/06/14 09:37 AM
3	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way This isn't some random dribble by the way. This was something I could actually see in her heart even though I think she couldn't herself. It's something that Brene Brown talks a lot about. I think a big thing is also that once you set yourself vulnerable your emotional reading skills improve dramatically. You relax about all the game and performance and start seeing things so clearly on an intuitive level, which really improves your capabilities of reading the subtext beneath her words and behav…	/r/seduction	20/06/14 09:32 AM
2	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way I have huge trust and rejection issues. Not just with women but from my early childhood, family and friends. But I don't want them. Hence I'm willing to put up with the pain of working on these issues. And talking helps. There's an initial pain period. About 6-12 months for me. The hardest thing I've done in my life. So worth it.	/r/seduction	19/06/14 10:22 AM
1	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way People change when they're ready. It wouldn't have worked on me just a couple of years ago. But when I'm so sincere and real with these girls and it's just the two of us in a private place, people escalate emotionally pretty quickly and start opening up when you do.	/r/seduction	19/06/14 10:20 AM
3	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way I've done big things in my life, really scary things, travelling, career, extreme stuff. And this is the most fucking difficult thing I've ever done. I was anxious for the first 6-12 months and have only recently been able to start laughing and crying at this sort of stuff instead of being terrified. The key is to have trustworthy close friends you can talk about these sort of things with and to take it slow. Maybe you haven't had a family and close friends who you can really talk about anything…	/r/seduction	19/06/14 10:19 AM
1	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way I don't share everything. There's a couple of topics that are still way too touchy, such as the fact that I was bullied in school and a couple of things from my childhood.	/r/seduction	19/06/14 08:24 AM
2	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way 24, 26 and 29 years old.	/r/seduction	19/06/14 08:14 AM
5	[FR] Three tinder-dates using Mark Manson's way Well, as you can guess, I talked about my feelings. I said I was hurt that she thought I was playing. She apologised.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 11:23 PM