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Also, why only talk sexual when you can be sexual (kino escalation)? I'm totally with you here brother. I actually find the best approach is to not talk sexually at all. It's all about kino escalation in my book. This will show that my mind isn't on sex, it's on having an awesome conversation with you, and it just happens that my hand is on your waist and tickling your side, or stroking your thigh. Sorry I didn't hear what you just said, get over here, lean on me and wrap yourself around my arm …
/r/seduction12/05/12 03:46 AM
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:)
/r/seduction29/04/12 04:18 AM
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No worries, glad to have given you something cool to read!
/r/seduction29/04/12 04:17 AM
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Thanks man! Pretty proud of myself this weekend.
/r/seduction29/04/12 04:16 AM
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I answered this elsewhere: I was mistaken.
/r/seduction29/04/12 04:14 AM
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I swear I can hear panties getting wet every time a girl learns I'm a single dad. For the longest time I thought it'd be a turn off, then I found quite the opposite. My favored method is to not mention it, and just pick up the girl as you normally would. I get pretty far and will get a number or a kiss, then when we start to make plans I'll mention that I can't one night because I have my daughter, and suddenly she can't get enough of me. I'm also a very good dad; I won primary custody and my ex…
/r/seduction29/04/12 01:45 AM
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I've got to disagree with the never, but I bet I'm in a bit of a different situation to you: I have a kid. That changes everything, including what you want from women and relationships. (Plus can I just say that having a kid is probably the single best pickup technique in history. When I'm out with my daughter I get women checking me out and asking me out on dates on a daily basis. Holy shit it was a game changer.)
/r/seduction29/04/12 01:32 AM
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I agree that it's hard for recovering AFCs to be alpha all the time but this one example is such an important thing to get right.
/r/seduction29/04/12 12:21 AM
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You're right of course. How "deep" do you consider a good relationship time? I've had a lot of girlfriends but they always happen quickly, and frequently burn out after a month or two.
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:46 PM
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The next step to losing your virginity? Having sex.
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:44 PM
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The belly poke is awesome. You don't need our help!
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:43 PM
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Totally with you here man. The answer is "no" (or "yes", if applicable).
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:41 PM
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Thanks man. It's been an eye opening week. I totally rocked it though, feeling great this weekend. I'm definitely in the LTR mode these days, seeing if I can seal this girl.
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:36 PM
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Don't offer to pay. Sorry, just don't. If she's coming to have fun with you she should be financially able to do so. Best case: SHE pays, then you can get the next meal. Kino is key dude. Don't grab her boobs or molest her thighs, but touch her arm when you tell a joke, lean in to whisper, hand on the small of her back as you are going through a door, brush "food" off her lip (even if it's not there). May I recommend always trying to get a corner table (or bar at a sushi restaurant); kino is har…
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:34 PM
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I actually don't like that, to me it shows you are a follower, not a leader. It's fine for conversation with friends of course, but with girls you are trying to pickup you need to let her know you are the social calendar, and if she wants to have fun she should stick close.
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:28 PM
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First: you win some you lose some. Carry on regardless. Don't circle, we aren't doing THAT kind of hunting. Go straight for the kill. She probably noticed you and thought you were circling her, hence awkward. Don't talk about the weather, it's the single most boring subject in history. The second you said she was taking pictures I thought you were going to ask about that, it's such a perfect opener. "Taken any good shots?", "What are you shooting?", "Have you seen (nearby location) it's great fo…
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:26 PM
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Hahaha awesome. Thanks for the heads up!
/r/seduction28/04/12 10:58 PM
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Alright so you suck at kissing, and various other things too, but kissing is easy to fix. Here's "sedditaway's tried and tested make out guide". Now first up, I'm of the belief that kissing is one of the absolute most important parts of getting the girl. If done right it makes her feel amazing, it's a gateway to great sex, and she will be putty in your hands. First up, know that there is no "right" way to do it. It's very like sex: everyone likes something different, and doing the same thing ove…
/r/seduction28/04/12 10:14 PM
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Glad you came back and saw the update man! Thanks for the advice and kind words. I really wanted to share the experience with others because it was quite eye opening. The moral of the story is the same as always: assume attraction, no excuses, rock that shit. I did nothing except be the best me. I feel awesome today for making her feel awesome. I would love to get into an LTR with this girl, she's really high value and hot too, but I maintain that it's not oneitis: if nothing comes of it that's …
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:45 PM
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That's a great response, I do similar responses to other things but I wish I'd used that.
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:40 PM
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Yeah I didn't mean it as a bad thing, it was clear she wanted to. I'm not used to taking things slowly, normally I fclose on the first date. I'm pushing my boundaries here!
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:03 PM
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It is the same girl. I was mistaken about her not drinking, and I was just saying I picked her up with day game to give context. It's not a big business thing, it's hard to explain.
/r/seduction28/04/12 04:57 PM
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No I didn't get turned down; I didn't go for it.
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:54 AM
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I want to call you an asshole but you're not far off the mark. I prefer not to call women bitches though. I have enough experience to know how to do all that without going to practice. I think what I'm actually going to do is the opposite; day game a bunch of girls and just get their numbers. That's what I need work on, not the dominating.
/r/seduction24/04/12 05:00 AM
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Hah, it does read that way but no. I actually don't sleep with girls who are drunk if at all possible, sober sex is so much more fun.
/r/seduction24/04/12 04:06 AM
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The heart racing eye contact is a good metric mate, I know what you mean. We've had a couple, perhaps three.
/r/seduction24/04/12 03:56 AM
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I like your thinking. An outside date next is a must I feel. We are almost certainly going hiking in two weeks, I'd rather get something in before that though. Grr.
/r/seduction24/04/12 03:54 AM
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Yeah it's a fun movie!
/r/seduction24/04/12 03:00 AM
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Actually, I have an idea on how to squeeze in a weekday morning date now I think about it... She doesn't work Thursdays and I'm free that morning, we could have a picnic breakfast.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:59 AM
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I actually did have beer on our second date. Good ideas, too, thank you. She and I are both older than the average sedditor I suspect, and "cheeky" activities are definitely more of a turn on at this age. When you get old and have responsibilities, breaking the rules is even more attractive.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:45 AM
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You know what, as I've been thinking on this today I realized that I effortlessly fclose, not kclose. I'm good at building severe list for various reasons (I have an accent... Try it). I need to work on kclosjng. What's your pro tip Tofu?
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:42 AM
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I need to see if there's a mini golf course nearby, that's always popular.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:39 AM
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I'm partially with you, partially against. You're right that I'm putting her too high and that's damaging. And I also could have tried to manipulate the situation into a more kclose friendly environment but something made me not want to. I'm not looking for one ... Fuck I can't even bring myself to keep writing that bullshit excuse. This girl is special, she threw off my game, and I fucked up. She isn't the only special one but she's better than my previous girls and that confused me. I'll do se…
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:39 AM
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Agree on too early. If anything holding off will fucking build attraction. If she wants you and you deny her for a few more days, that's totally in line with standard pickup procedure. I'm an in demand dude; you want me to kiss you? Well let's see if I still like you on Friday. Take the pussy off the pedestal and concentrate on being in demand. It's supply and demand, if the supply dries up the demand will escalate.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:32 AM
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I'm actually very good at "I'm a super busy dude"; I literally do have many high priority things in my life. And apologies for taking so long to reply to you, your advice is absolutely on the mark. I've got to step back, organize some other shit in my life, and in a week or so she'll hopefully be yearning for me. This waiting is going to suck.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:29 AM
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The HB rating isn't just beauty though, I thought it was supposed to incorporate social standing and self worth, among other things. My target is not an actress, I would say she is as attractive as many though.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:25 AM
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I've never done saucy betting. I like the idea though.
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:23 AM
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I disagree. I love movies, but to me "kino " in a movie theater is teenagers making out. You can't talk, you can't learn about each other, it sucks.
/r/seduction23/04/12 11:54 PM
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THAT'S where that reference is from.
/r/seduction23/04/12 11:52 PM
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Rare, beautiful, and hard to catch.
/r/seduction23/04/12 10:54 PM
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You're right. I was wrapped up in how good she was I forgot myself. I did start trying to fight it but not well enough.
/r/seduction23/04/12 10:53 PM
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Fuck you're right. I'm new to the city though so I don't know my way around. I'll remedy that before next time, or I'll get her to lead.
/r/seduction23/04/12 10:52 PM
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No, you're right. I am experienced, I've just been set back a bit by her. I'm used to effortless pickups, literally, so I am just out of practice. It's fun, lots of it.
/r/seduction23/04/12 09:15 PM
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Agreed, but I think it's an important common ground, so we know what we're talking about.
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:54 PM
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Actually I have none; she's not even on Facebook!
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:54 PM
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I rock at cooking. And I think that's the right choice.
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:52 PM
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A mythical beast that's beautiful and uncatchable. :)
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:52 PM
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You're right, she's not a 10 but she's very close. Normally date 1 or 2 is sexy time for me; I'm sort of not counting our first dinner as a date as the friend was ever present. I'll definitely try and cook dinner with her; my place isn't fit for full on entertaining at present but it soon will be.
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:52 PM
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Yeah I can't take her hiking for almost two weeks, unless I pull in some serious favors that I don't want to have to. That's actually pretty much arranged already, I'd just love to get another date or two in before then. I am also a pretty awesome cook, that would have to wait til at least next Monday though for various reasons. And thanks for the support. I think this is the first time I've been nervous about a girl in about five years. You're totally right about AFCs; when we were out playing …
/r/seduction23/04/12 05:25 PM
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Hmm the weather has been kind of shitty recently, but I'll definitely look for something like that nearby. I'm new to the area and she's a local, so I could see if she can suggest somewhere.
/r/seduction23/04/12 05:19 PM
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Fair enough, it's been a while since I was chasing high school girls (I'm in my 30s!). I wasn't really meaning SHE was playing games though, instead that freezing out is a pretty shitty game to play. I get what you're saying though, perhaps it does work. Also, this Thanksgiving I am thankful for older (by which I mean late 20s) women who actually know that they want to fuck, and are damn good at it. :)
/r/seduction26/11/11 06:29 AM
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Freeze out sounds like you should just give up and go home, honestly. I wouldn't want to be having sex after that kind of behaviour. Perhaps it works, but is it really wholesome? (serious question) There's enough women in the world who want to have sex, if one really doesn't to the extent that you have to start playing games like that, move on.
/r/seduction25/11/11 10:43 PM
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When you're with her, put your damn phone away. It's rude.
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:48 AM
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True Romance. Not because it will help you get laid (the movie you choose doesn't matter at all), but because it's an awesome movie so even if you don't get laid you'll have seen an awesome movie. Truthfully; I'd pick a bad movie. That way 20 minutes in you can say "this movie sucks, let's fuck".
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:14 AM
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Narcissism never hurt anyone!
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:05 AM
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Dude if she's completely naked she wants to bone. Just be respectful and draw back a little, then push again in a few minutes. Be playful, and fun. I had sex with my now gf the first time we had the opportunity despite 45+ mins of LMR and the fact that she was on her period! It was amazing, neither of us regretted it, and we had fun.
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:05 AM
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Doing precisely what you suggested seems like a really bad idea. You don't want to break off contact, just pull back a little. Say "that's fine" and continue where you left off; kissing, stroking, etc, then shortly after start to escalate again. Don't guilt trip her into sleeping with you.
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:01 AM
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Seddit really has an image problem, but anyone who's stayed a whole should know that it's not ably objectifying women it's about making yourself the best person possible so you can make women feel great too. The OP seems like a standup gentleman, so what if he wants to further his relationships with women. And who cares about terminology, it means you can avoid tedious descriptive phrases like "I started chatting I this really pretty blonde with a great body who was really comfortable, an ok bru…
/r/seduction19/11/11 08:24 PM
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Hey good work, seems like you're confident and you've made some attractive women like you. I haven't seen anyone else mention this, which surprises me because it's surely the core of seduction anyway. Perhaps you're doing it already, but I thought it'd be worth bringing up. Don't concentrate on fucking. Just have a fun time, and make her enjoy spending time with you. It seems like you're good at this, but you are perhaps having a paradigm shift when you want to turn the situation into sex. Have …
/r/seduction19/11/11 08:14 PM
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I think it's really important to distinguish between niceness and kindness. This is absolutely key. A lot of my friends refer to me as being extremely "nice", but I'm very far from the "nice guy" you're describing above. A lot of my hot female friends (actual friends; not girls that I would try and sleep with) defend me to the ends of the earth and during my recent divorce are up in arms against my ex because I'm so "nice", and they think she's a fucking lunatic for letting me slip away. But I'm…
/r/seduction24/10/11 04:55 PM
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No worries mate, I hope you find the girl of your dreams. The key for everything is to not just accept the status quo; fight it and own it. Some of my best friends are women and I always follow the advice I wrote above. I listen to their problems but I make it a semi-date - even if we are both in relationships - and at the end of it these girls have got my back whenever I need them, if it's to hook me up with their friends, to go and pick up a girl for me, or just to come with me as arm candy to…
/r/seduction19/10/11 11:59 PM
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Ok so there's a lot of things wrong with what happened: He should have moved her Sitting in a parking lot is just a horrible location. It shows you have lots of free time and that you don't care about where you are. So, he should have moved them, be that to a coffee shop, a bar, a restaurant, one of their homes, done some shopping, or even just taken a walk in the park. If you're not able to move her at that second then make a fucking date of it. "Look Carly I hate to do this but I've got a meet…
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:04 PM
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