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sedditgirl/r/seduction16/12/10 12:11 AM
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This is exactly true. I have attractive friends who have "low esteem" in a way--they do know they're hot of course, but for some reason they really depend on male validation. You would be surprised how powerfully they react to negs and how much they crave attention. However, for more mature women, you do have to present an honest and caring persona. But you have to affirm your masculinity at the same time.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:27 PM
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One tenet of seduction is that women don't know what they want. By reading about what works with women and by thinking about my interactions with men critically using pick-up concepts and terms, I've began to understand what I do want and what I do want and what types of men I'm looking for. I also like to hear about what men enjoy in women--though of course as I understand being hot is the #1 factor at least at this age. Plus, it's fun to spy on the boys' fort!
/r/seduction25/12/10 10:10 PM
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who says "erroneous"??
/r/seduction23/12/10 05:25 PM
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You seem like you know what you're doing, and good job approaching someone sitting alone! Just be sure you don't accidentally say something awkward when you ask her out. She probably didn't plan to give a guy head in the bathroom when she went to the club, and perhaps she's unsure about where things will go from here or what you think of her, so be cool!
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:10 AM
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dude you are so awesome
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:14 PM
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It's like having a personal slave, and yes some girls will take advantage of that Exactly. There are plenty of dysfunctional people of all genders out there and some people enjoy having power over others. Most normal people don't like that feeling of power. It's disorienting, and if a guy is bending over backwards for you, it makes you wonder what is wrong with him. This is because usually you get this type of treatment before the guy has even really had a chance to fall for you--it's obvious th…
/r/seduction21/12/10 05:05 PM
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I'm not sure at what point I suggested that you will get treated rudely or impolitely when you acknowledge your anxiety. I don't think that's what would happen, I was just trying to say that one of the basic tenets of pick-up is that you're trying to make interactions pleasurable for everyone, and am saying that most of the time acknowledging your anxiety does not make the interaction more pleasurable for the woman.
/r/seduction21/12/10 07:51 AM
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I would recommend that you do not acknowledge your anxiety as a rule. Of course I think it depends on the girl you are trying to pick up. It's a little difficult to explain, but if she is a cute girl who seems very sweet and maybe doesn't get approached that often then maybe she could relate, and it makes it possible for you guys to connect. If you are talking to a girl who is definitely attractive and seems confident and at ease, then it won't help for you to say you feel anxious. Why is this a…
/r/seduction21/12/10 07:07 AM
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20 people a day seems really intense, good for you! I don't have any book suggestions but I would recommend, as dashingprince suggested, to talk to people around you. Talk to the kinds of people who want to be talking to you, or who are stuck, and/or looking for some entertainment. For example, people selling produce at the farmer's market, people serving you coffee, behind the counter of an empty neighborhood store, relaxing at a local park, riding public transportation with you...Definitely ta…
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:07 AM
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I don't think he literally means beckoning someone with your finger. In a cafe situation, presumably this girl is in near range and you are more just making friendly "well? go ahead and talk to me" type motions.
/r/seduction21/12/10 05:55 AM
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the HB4 plan is completely creepy. It's beyond tryhard. The best thing would be to try to arrange another hang out, or get your friend to invite the HB9 out with you (also check with him that he didn't want to get with her)
/r/seduction21/12/10 05:39 AM
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Yeah, especially if she mentioned she just broke up with her boyfriend it's a pretty solid sign she's looking for some rebound fun
/r/seduction21/12/10 05:36 AM
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I've actually had this happen to me. I go to read a lot at cafes and sometimes I'm just distracted from my book and I'll accidentally make eye contact with someone. Sometimes it is handsome young men who are also reading!! Which is always exciting :) I know what you are talking about when you say you're looking past them but they think you're looking at them. I don't know if he was doing it on purpose or not, but this happened to me about a month ago, and I went on a couple of really great dates…
/r/seduction21/12/10 03:06 AM
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I think you have a really great point--don't give them the vibe that you are a potential SO. Make it known that what they can expect from you is great sex, and that is what you expect from them.
/r/seduction17/12/10 05:02 PM
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This isn't pick-up advice, sorry, just for certain situations. Of course you think a lot about social situations. I think most people here (on seddit and on reddit in general) probably think a lot about everything a little "too much"! And it has been a huge realization for me that people really don't want to think a lot. The biggest jerk can talk himself up and everyone will walk away thinking "man that guy is so wonderful!" I read into everything people do, and I do so quite well, so I have a r…
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:59 PM
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Hmmm...Yeah I think you should definitely leave. I think I might have mentioned this, but from a woman's perspective, sex is of course amazing, but having a guy stay over, the kissing and cuddling, is wonderful and kind of an end in itself. So whenever you stay over, it's almost a beta move because she's getting something and you aren't (at least not to the extent that she is because you want the sex!) I don't have any ideas for how you could bring up that you don't want anything serious, but if…
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:50 PM
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Well, from what you're saying it seems that the women you're dealing with just do not hear or understand you when you say you do not want a relationship. It's true, you don't want to be classless so there's no way to really just say "oh baby let's go have the sex"--but work on communicating to them that there is no long term potential. For the freeze-out: to be honest, I am not too knowledgeable on what should be reasonable expectations datewise for sex. Are you bringing them home on the first d…
/r/seduction17/12/10 05:06 AM
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Why are women not attracted to humility, modesty, or even skepticism? Because they think if someone is confident, there might be a reason. I think some of it has to do with the fact that people don't want to think that much about others. If someone acts super confident that means they invite you to do things with them, and act like they can get away with inviting you out for Saturday night on Saturday morning. It takes energy and thought to question what someone is telling you about themselves. …
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:56 AM
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If you don't want making out and bjs don't settle for them. You said it yourself: you are that guy who just want to have sex. As a girl, I've experienced the freeze-out when I didn't want to have sex with someone. It was frustrating that the guy wasn't going to give me delicious kissing and cuddles, but I guess it's fair if he doesn't get sex. I would just get dressed and leave, it wasn't that awkward. However, some girls may not be so committed to actually not having sex, they may just be throw…
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:35 AM
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I'd like to add to the "making decisions" bit. Being decisive is something which is really important to keep up. However, sometimes you get tired of constantly making the decision. So sometimes you can just tell her "pick a good place for us to go to dinner on Tuesday" or "I'm sure you can plan something fun for us for Sunday." In playful terms, let her know that she better live up to your fun standards. As throwawarrarst said, and as should be obvious, never ever ask "where do you want to go? w…
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:24 AM
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aw...well I don't know that my advice will be useful per se, I've just been reading for so long and I want to contribute and I don't want to...pretend to be a guy?
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:04 AM
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Are you suggesting to you it sounds more like a patronizing phrase, like a pat on the head rather than a demonstration of sexual interest?
/r/seduction17/12/10 01:38 AM
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I feel welcomed.
/r/seduction16/12/10 08:39 PM
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Thanks, I've been wanting to comment on the discussions here for a while, and I'm glad the response is generally slightly skeptical but friendly. I don't remember any posts with women like you mentioned, and I don't know why that would happen.
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:42 PM
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Yeah, honestly, some people are just the worst. They have no passion, no interest, and they just aren't present in conversation. I am a straight girl and I encounter the same problem just trying to talk to girls (and guys) to make friends. But sometimes, even though a person may not have much to say to you, or in response to you, it's good because you've made a social connection and practised articulating yourself. Even if people will not give you anything by talking very little, it's great to l…
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:38 PM
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Yes a lot of my friends are male and we go out together sometimes, it does help with larger groups. But I don't know if I've really approached it formally before, none of my guy friends are into pick-up as far as I know. I do try to give them tips on getting ladiez using what I learned here!
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:33 PM
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yup. I read the forums once of my local lair and it was really terrible. Seddit has a lot of guys who really are here for self-improvement and not everyone is just looking to score with bitchez, so you gt some different types of questions and advice.
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:31 PM
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fake breasts=canned openers sexy butt from using a stairmaster daily=developed ability to flirt easily I would not be into the idea of really hearing about your pickup experience if you are a guy. Once, a guy actually mentioned to me that he went sarging with some local pickup guys! I mean, of course I don't want to hear about it. I especially don't want to feel like I am just practice for you, like you promised you'd approach an HB8 and you're using me as an experiment to calibrate your humor o…
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:27 PM
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Well, the key to being an interesting guy isn't even actually doing interesting things, it's your willingness and ability to talk about them. It's one thing if you say "oh yeah I play guitar, what do you play" "nothing" "oh...can I kiss you? please let me buy you a drink...sorry I'll leave" It's a different story if you say "I play guitar, what do you play?" "nothing" "Oh, well have you thought about taking up an instrument? I think it's one of my favorite things to do..." "Yeah I always wanted …
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:22 PM
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Yes this is really interesting, thanks for all the ideas. My curiosity is partly because I was intrigued with the types of strategies that guys use to approach women, but it's really just fascinating to think about improving the way that you interact with people. Pickup offers a vocabulary (e.g. social proof, dhv) which helps deconstruct and comprehend a social situation.
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:14 PM
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Oh cheddar, you're so snarky, and you're right, we should talk more. I should give you my number!
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:11 PM
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too late philosarapter. You will be stuck listening to me talk about the other men in my life and buying me drinks forevaaaaaaar!!!!!
/r/seduction16/12/10 07:05 PM
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I actually appreciate it when men can be a little sweet if they are being all alpha the rest of the time, and it's important to feel like the guy is generally kind at heart. I think a lot of women agree with that. However, being nice is of course not enough, because, as everyone on seddit knows, girls tend to really want someone who is interesting. That's why such an important aspect of pick up is to really become an interesting person. This idea has been enormously helpful to me in becoming a b…
/r/seduction16/12/10 03:53 AM
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It's okay, I forgive you. I'm not only a girl, but also quite magnanimous.
/r/seduction16/12/10 03:43 AM
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Well, I've actually heard "nice nails, are they real?" several times, which you think wouldn't even exist anymore. But more importantly than that, I think it's really great what the men on seddit are doing. I mean, sure you have guys who are just interested in sleeping with as many women as they possibly can, but there are tons of other guys trying to do this who aren't PUAs, so I think vilifying pickup is a waste of time. I hear on seddit a lot about how once a guy is good enough you can't even…
/r/seduction16/12/10 03:39 AM
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could you just hold my purse for a second?
/r/seduction16/12/10 03:32 AM
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Thanks, I enjoy your comments! (despite the fact that some of them come from a state of intoxication)
/r/seduction16/12/10 01:16 AM
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Thanks, but I'm not really interested in taking a class. Believe it or not, a lot of things like text game, making definitive plans, teasing, kino, etc. are useful not just if you are trying to have the sex but also for developing connections with women and men.
/r/seduction16/12/10 12:41 AM
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