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Can confirm this phenomenon. If you can't seal the deal while watching this movie you are doing it completely wrong.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:03 PM
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See a therapist. It helps to talk things out with someone, especially issues from your past you think may be affecting your behavior. Always be seeing multiple women is another technique to avoid getting overly attached to one.
/r/seduction05/11/13 09:43 PM
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This might clear things up
/r/seduction05/11/13 08:03 PM
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"You're not taking me seriously! You're just like the other guys!" "The other guys couldn't put up with your shit either apparently" jk but not really.
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:57 PM
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"I know how you feel, girls keep grabbing my ass too and treating me like a piece of meat." Joke and reframe, don't sit there letting her talk about herself nonstop like she's the most important thing in the universe. You're important too and you have better things to do than listen to her rant about how awful it is being beautiful. She gave you a slight IOI complaining about shitty boyfriend, which could also just be her trying to use you as a doormat for complaints.
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:11 PM
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Next time get a phone number, not a facebook contact. Neediness differs in your emotional needs and in turn what those emotions project through your actions. Easiest way to avoid seeming needy is to not be needy in the first place (stay occupied, have multiple women in your life).
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:40 PM
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main point: don't ever directly link to your website. people don't like it. otherwise do your thing bud.
/r/seduction23/10/13 07:26 PM
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Hey man, I see you posting from time to time. Generally you seem to know what you're talking about, but I think the way you present things makes people feel like you're just trying to drum up business. If I were you, here's what I would do: copy the exact same title from your blog post and copy all or some of the body of text into your post here on /r/seduction. Then at the bottom provide a link to your post on your website. Being directly linked to your site is imposing. If people truly want to…
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:34 PM
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Good shit man. You had the perfect mindset for outcome independance (worst case scenario I play darts with this dude and have a good time). If you had an opportunity during darts or pool to isolate your girl, I might have taken that opportunity to get an early kiss in. At the end of the date you could have also told her friend you're gonna steal your girl away for a couple minutes so you can kiss her goodbye. Overall you did much better than most people would have done in a surprise 2v1 scenario…
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:20 PM
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Will do good sir. Keep on doing your thing!
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:20 PM
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True. So I was just being lazy, I'll agree. I was going in with the goal of bringing a chick home, but I guess that's a bad approach considering potential time investment with one chick will work against my night and the factors that will have to be in my favor to actually succeed. What's a strong goal to set then?
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:44 PM
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I've been low on cash lately, so mostly been doing online gaming (OKC) for the past few months to minimize investment at the bars. I've been very successful, but I'm looking to hit the bars this weekend completely solo. I have no AA or problems interacting with hot women, but given I'll be alone I'm worried I may fall out of state if I don't get good results after approaching a couple sets. Obviously I'll be aiming for outcome independence to minimize my disappointment, but what are some good ti…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:02 PM
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I'm 25. Time span? I've been pretty sociable my whole life, but I'd say about a year of working to go to being like this with women.
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:41 PM
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I don't like inviting girls back for a drink unless I feel like the chemistry is solid enough where she's at the point that you could just say "let's hang out at my place" and she would say yes, without even needing an 'excuse.' Reason being: why have a drink at your place when she could have a drink at the club and have fun for another hour with other people, plus there's her ex who she probably wants to see what he's up to. I prefer tying in part of the emotional connection I've made with her …
/r/seduction22/10/13 12:36 PM
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How receptive to pickup do you think a girl will be if she is physically running in the opposite direction from you? Don't waste your own time--it's not worth the effort unless you're just doing it for your own entertainment.
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:33 PM
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So figure out the logistics or don't post asking for advice on things that aren't possible
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:00 PM
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Pretty much sounds like she ran away from you when she saw you coming. She might have a boyfriend and wanted to avoid the interaction completely or had something else going on completely out of your control. Just shrug it off.
/r/seduction17/10/13 07:55 PM
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There's a fine line between nonchelant and completely disinterested. IMO you've already established that you could take it or leave it, and she has sent signals that she may be or is interested. Just ask her out. You can even make it sound platonic so she doesn't feel special. If she says no or flakes then who cares. After that you can completely ignore her pretty much until she begs you to hang out and puts forth all the effort.
/r/seduction17/10/13 07:42 PM
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You've created this ideal woman in your mind, who you admittedly barely know, and are obsessing over her. Although you are using it as a 'tool' for self-improvement, this is far from the healthiest way to go about it.
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:32 PM
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Girls give their numbers out like candy. It's a social thing; often they may have no desire to see or speak to you again. Build a connection and give them a reason to want to see you.
/r/seduction16/10/13 08:13 PM
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Just don't make the dates a big production: you want them to be simple, fun, and cheap. I emphasized casually mostly for your mindset, which should be not to get emotionally invested until they earn it.
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:01 PM
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Be good at sex Do not mention other people you are seeing, or even that are in fact seeing others, there is no reason to discuss this Assume they are seeing others Do not agree to be exclusive (you can put this off by saying you're not ready to be in a relationship)
/r/seduction16/10/13 03:47 PM
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Try the mall. Think stores where attractive females your age would work, but have a reason to be in the store.
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:26 PM
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Don't go searching for a relationship. Search for women who you enjoy spending time with and just go on dates casually. Date multiple women at the same time, and one of them may develop into something. Searching for a relationship is a surefire way to be disappointed.
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:14 PM
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Ok the cupcake thing is a definite NO. This is trying way too hard and telegraphs that you need to give them gifts to win their approval. You win their approval with your personality, not to mention the roommate could be a huge bitch who you don't even need/want approval from in the first place. If you were already making cupcakes for your mom's bday and had a couple extra, fine, but don't go make a dedicated effort just to win this girl over. It is part of their responsbility (especially the on…
/r/seduction11/10/13 01:22 PM
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Just like I said before, if he manages to get another ride home from her, make a move and go in for it. Sure, there's a chance she'll stop him and not be open to it, but she may also let it happen. Once he frames himself sexually she's more likely to be open to other advances.
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:24 PM
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You can rebuild attraction by making unexpected calculated advances. He's at a point right now where she has him pinned as being easygoing--if he makes a confident, sexual move, I think there's a strong chance it will work out.
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:57 PM
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With more experience you'll learn to read the signs better and act on them. I don't really agree with HappyJerk's take on this; I think your line "fitting me into your busy schedule," while not the best line, isn't that bad considering the circumstance where she claims to have absolutely no free time. If you say it in an extremely sarcastic way, it works here. And don't put yourself down anymore by referring to yourself as beta. You're awesome.
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:53 PM
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You've already had multiple opportunities being driven home by her to initiate contact. Technically, those drives home were short dates. If you believe you're reading the signals correctly, you should have gone in for the kiss/short makeout before stepping out of her car and going into your home. Get her to drive you home again, and do exactly this. Make it short but passionate, like you've been holding back, then pull away first and say goodbye nonchelantly. If she's really into it you can ditc…
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:32 PM
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This can't be emphasized enough. This is how I was in like high school before I knew what the fuck I was doing. It's a daunting thought to just start approaching women, but you need to get into the real mindset of being confident about doing it. The only way to do that is just literally approach as much as possible. Once you feel confident initiating you will want to learn how to frame the interaction sexually. For now just focus on initiating.
/r/seduction09/10/13 09:14 PM
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Approach, introduce yourself, "Hi I'm ColombianAssPirate." If you pick up on anything she's carrything, wearing, of note, you can compliment or refer to that as a basis for initiating conversation. Once you have her in conversation you're golden. From now on every cute girl you see, just approach them this way. You may be nervous or fumble the first few times, but get it down to the point where you come across as a cool, confident motherfucker. You don't need to be necessarily clever or have a g…
/r/seduction09/10/13 09:03 PM
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You're right I have been on the other end plenty of times guess I just forgot how the other side feels. Well if I couldn't do anything differently here and it's just shitty luck I'm happy with that. I'll just keep on doin my thing. Bout to meet a sexy blond right now actually, hopefully this will fill the old blond's spot in my mind lol
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:35 PM
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That's exactly what it feels like, like being broken up with, which makes no sense because there was no relationship. But like you said I guess there was some kind of emotional connection, just not the traditional connection you see in a relationship. But my question is why does she seemingly not care at all? That's how I want to be all the time.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:11 PM
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