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Are you better off without her? If not make it so you're better off without her and you'll be happy and not even care if you see her. She's an ex for a reason and you're just gonna be better and get better. Make it so when she sees you she'll need support not you, the only way to do that is know you're the best and whoever is with you is lucky. I sometimes wish I'd run into my ex just so she can see how well I'm doing, how better I look, etc. But I can care less if I do, it's just me feeling goo…
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:02 AM
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Seddit helps improve yourself a lot but nothing beats actually doing it. You can plan all you want but just so you know it'll never go as planned. Just know you can't fake it, you gotta just do it and you are who you are, if the girl likes you then great but if she doesn't then it wasn't meant to be. The more I experience things the less time I spend on seddit and planning in general. The more experience I get the more I understand what seddit is about. As for making moves I never force it, I ju…
/r/seduction19/10/14 03:57 AM
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When you say people say you look younger it's most likely your face. I myself get the same thing. What I do is take it and turn it into a joke depending on the kind of person you're dealing with. When I was 21 people thought I was still in high school or barely 18. How do you work on your game? Same as everyone else, picking up isn't about how you look so how you look shouldn't affect your game. I think what you're trying to ask is how do you look older to attract girls more of your age. You say…
/r/seduction11/06/14 09:43 PM
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I know guys who say how awesome it'll be to bang the girl also but I just never understood if they said it and hid their actual needs to kiss and cuddle her or are they actually like that. I personally cannot do that, I've tried ONS and I always have some sort of care for the person. Not necessarily feelings but I can't hit it then quit it and ignore them. That's just the type of person I am though, I have also been a very long term relationship and new to most of this so it might need some time…
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:49 AM
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Not if the girl wanted only a ONS also.
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:46 AM
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This. Goofy and fun always works. Just have a good time and it'll resonate towards them. Approach them in a fun exciting manner and you'll be one step closer. Look for girls giving you eye contact and go in for those as those are usually guaranteed to want to dance with you.
/r/seduction29/05/14 02:29 AM
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I don't mean it in a way of forcing it that you're faking it but forcing it that it makes it' unnatural. When you concentrate on doing something so much it won't come out as fluently and just not as well. I find the best times I've had is when I just enjoy myself, not really worrying about being "alpha" just be yourself and the more I do something the more naturally things will just come. For example one time I was just in the zone and having fun when I began talking to a group of girls, I put m…
/r/seduction25/05/14 10:07 PM
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Practice makes perfect, you're concentrating on being "alpha" too much. You're making it sound like something more forced than natural. Just enjoy your time and don't try too hard.
/r/seduction25/05/14 04:16 AM
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I loved the compliments and people noticing I got bigger and more muscular. It just made me want to workout more and I've been on a halt lately with how busy school has been. I have standards too and like a certain type of girls, mostly 5'6 or under and petite. But when I feel like I'm the same size of a girl it just doesn't sit right with me. I somehow look smaller than I actually am so that weight gain will put me at a perfect size I'd think. Also I HATE pressure or when someone says, "talk to…
/r/seduction09/05/14 09:13 PM
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I agree, approaching is fun. Unfortunately I have no day game at ALL. I find it very difficult, at night however I could do it with a little warming up. I'm working on my day game though, eventually I'll do my first approach during the day, at least by this summer/year. I'm 5'8 and weigh 160, quite fit.. Not where I want to be but good enough. I know some people who are my height or taller and weigh the same but they look more built, like bulk wise not necessarily muscular either. I don't know w…
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:16 AM
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I'm horrible with names, always ask their names and forget it 5 minutes later. I have no clue why but I gotta remember their names more often.
/r/seduction28/04/14 11:09 PM
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Good job and wow 33 approaches in a month, I don't think you're giving yourself the credit you deserve. That's quite impressive. Hopefully you can do well because I'd think oneitis possibility with this is very high. This doesn't really matter but I gotta wonder are you a good looking guy from your perspective or what other people have said?
/r/seduction28/04/14 11:06 PM
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Good for you, I was dumped and got out of a VERY long relationship, about 6 years. It was harsh and I didn't like it very much because I knew what I wanted, she however didn't so she wanted to see what was out there. Nothing to do but let her go now and I better myself, worked out, saw results, went places we would always talk about but never went because she was never solid on her decisions. I'm the type of person that would go with the flow, I'm very easy going, I know what type of guy I am an…
/r/seduction28/04/14 10:46 PM
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Unless you have great pictures you're not gonna have much success. I myself have pictures, not great at all since I don't take many.. Just not my thing but I'm going to start making it a habit, always good to have pictures to look back on and not be boring, great conversations also when you show the girl you're talking to at a bar or something. Despite not having great pictures I still get some responses and had a date and a few possible ones who flaked. So it's very different, much more effort …
/r/seduction19/04/14 02:12 AM
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I'll be sure to look into that next time, thanks.
/r/seduction09/04/14 10:28 AM
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I've picked up on the staring at me, getting closer, and physical contact but how easy is it to pick up on dilated pupils? That seems like something you gotta look very close for.
/r/seduction09/04/14 10:19 AM
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I usually just laugh about it and say something sarcastic. Her: "Why are asians smart, especially in math?" Me: "Oh you know, when I was 3 I already knew Calculus." That's just me though, that's all I can come up with during a time like that so I just say it. I say this laughing or smiling so I don't offend someone. Saying it with a straight face just means you're offended. Trust me, some people are just ignorant and don't know much about asian culture. As for breaking the stereotype, I don't th…
/r/seduction09/04/14 10:12 AM
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I usually do, I think the reason is not good looking enough but more of what to say. The best ones I've usually had was not knowing what to say and just going along with the conversations. I try not to plan what I'm going to say as I know that's a bad way to approach. Also on my looks, I don't think is bad at all and once people get to know me they usually enjoy my company a lot. I don't let looks get to me too much because that'll affect my confidence in myself. I know I'm not some hot celebrit…
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:48 PM
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I guess the only way is to warm up a bit huh? I wonder if people who approach a lot can just do it without a warm up? It sucks because when I was out and didn't really warm up yet I became a bitch and couldn't approach but as the night started to end and go on I talked to girls fine but by that time it was the end of the night already. However I felt like I could talk to anyone at that time.
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:39 PM
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Don't try, do it! As much as I understand where you're coming from, I don't want you to get attached like this after a first date. Although what you did in the date didn't ruin your chances, being too attached will. I don't know how busy your life is but keep busy in your life so you don't get into that zone of being attached. Not wanting to fuck up could also fuck it up, take some risks, if you're going on a second date and if you really read her signs right on the first date then go for that k…
/r/seduction04/04/14 01:20 PM
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Although most people at bars are sometimes there for hookups, there are still girls who don't normally go out, going to bars. It's a normal thing to do and I think you can still pick up some quality girls at the bars. Unless you want a girl who doesn't drink or goes out at all, reads on a friday night, and spends most of her time at home then maybe the bar is not the best place. But are you only looking for strictly girls on campus because you can hit on a girl while walking on the street, etc. …
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:17 AM
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I find it mostly because you're not calm, a little too excited. Slow down your pace and you might find it helping a bit.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:34 AM
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I don't text to talk about things at all, for example what is your favorite food, etc. Unless that was a build up to ask her out on a date to a place she likes or something. But if it's leading to nothing but just your own curiosity you shouldn't text, that's something you talk in person about. Leave texting to strictly setting up a meeting. Having said that, I do use text playfully about non-sense stuff. Role playing if you can call it that, just making up stupid stuff that the both of you can …
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:32 AM
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Maybe try to not set yourself up to be this great guy in the beginning? However, once we go out for about a month, the girls really gets to know who I really am. I'm self-absorbed, materialistic and shallow. That tells us you know you're not the person who you set yourself out to be in the beginning. Either change that to be a better person or be that self-absorbed, materialistic, and shallow person in the beginning. Although I don't think you'll get any good quality girls by being that person s…
/r/seduction26/03/14 09:53 PM
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Coffee? I usually stick to drinks for first dates, quick and allows you to see if you want more. If there's chemistry then just wing it from there.
/r/seduction26/03/14 09:48 PM
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Should've set up that day over her place with her within that week.
/r/seduction26/03/14 10:24 AM
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Also shows that you can't take matters into your own hands later when she texts you instead of you initiating a text. Puts way more pressure on her to contact you first since most girls wouldn't want to do that. You're giving her control instead of taking control like you should be. There's situations for this of course if you don't have your phone, etc. but I rather get her number instead of giving her mine.
/r/seduction18/03/14 09:02 AM
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If it feels right just do it I always tell myself. There's no set rules that you shouldn't do, girls who say they don't kiss on first dates will most likely kiss if it went great.
/r/seduction16/03/14 09:52 PM
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A lot of kino from both sides and I really did enjoy the date, couldn't have went better imo. Did kiss close and that was it, I didn't want to push any further and at least keep her wanting more.
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:08 AM
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Thanks, glad to say it went somewhere because of what you said. Just enjoying my time, at first it was nerve-racking like any other first date may be but all I could do was be confident and go for it since those nerves usually go away after some time together.
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:06 AM
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Thanks, it went great! Not many moments where we didn't say anything. As for falling for the girl? I'm not sure, she seems like a great girl but it might take a few more dates to decide if I want to continue. I've never really dated like this so it's really an all new experience for me. The only GF's I had was from school and those were on a different level.
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:05 AM
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I don't want to disclose the exact age but we're in our mid 20s. I've been told I'm good with words, had a girl question if she should meet me because I'm too good with words and sound like a player. I really don't see it, it might be natural but I honestly just say what comes to my mind. I also read some other people's lines and make it my own, I use it just for fun not necessarily to guide me. Use emoticons or smiley faces to get a point across with jokes/teases/sarcasm. It can mean a differen…
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:59 PM
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Oh i'm escalating right off the bat since it's a great opportunity to, hugs at first and maybe hand leading through the door. There's no better opportunity to sneak in some kino like that imo. I just dislike when my nerves get to me on first dates, last time I had a first date I don't even remember but I wasn't the person I am today. I don't get as much anxiety talking as before so maybe that has changed. We'll see on the day of.
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:06 PM
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So at first when I got tinder I didn't take it serious, I joked around and came on very strong. Sexually joking a lot, doesn't really work with a lot of girls unless you get girls that are DTF already and you're not going to get those unless you have incredible features and aesthetic. You're gonna run into a lot of boring girls who responds with one or two words but once in a while you'll get one that responds well, those are the ones you can get somewhere with. Keep in mind in my opinion I'm no…
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:02 PM
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You're right, now that I think of it like that. There's nothing to lose. I guess I'm just worried of it going bad but again it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:23 AM
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It does seem to fade but it doesn't. It only feels like it's fading because you know how to introduce yourself from numerous approaches but it's still there. What helps me is approach one person, the second person will always be easier. Every time I get one out of the way first the second one is always tremendously easier. It works for me and I'm sure a few others also, don't know why but it does. Also doing it without thinking works wonders, don't let yourself think about what to say and just g…
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:50 AM
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That's easy, "How do you like <show>?" "I heard that <show> is funny/good/interesting, what do you like about it?" "That's show is my favorite" "I watched that once, it was boring. I didn't like blah blah blah" "I heard that show is similar to <show> which I really like, have you watched that?" "My friend likes that <show> I don't see why." Idk my examples probably wasn't much better but there are so many ways you can just respond to that. I usually try to make fun of them for following the crow…
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:43 AM
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I have a friend who's probably an inch taller than I am but he looks like he's probably 3-4 inches taller. Girls tend to go to him instantly but he always ruins it by coming on too strong, sometimes it works but most of the time it doesn't. I'm around 5'8" and although not as tall as I want to be but after talking to the girl for a while it doesn't matter. Be confident funny and not confident cocky. A little cockiness is fun but don't be overly cocky. The fact that you're letting it affect you p…
/r/seduction07/03/14 04:39 AM
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I agree, after improving my pictures a bit by adding another one and changing how I approach, it's gotten a lot better. I tried being very blunt and sexually playful at first but it doesn't work with a lot of girls so I toned it down and just be funny and talk and it has worked wonders. Tinder helps improve the text game tremendously.
/r/seduction02/03/14 08:17 AM
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She's having sex with someone and on tinder, if you ask me it seems like she just wants sex. Opening it with a joke is always good. What are you looking for out of this?
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:54 AM
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I've only been on the west side so I'm not sure how it's like there but I'd say it's just very diverse here. Unless you're going to a certain area where there's only one ethnicity, like China Town or something, you'll see all kinds of ethnicity. How old are you btw? Just don't worry about dating or getting laid and just have fun, making friends is easier than it looks. All it takes is for you not to be a weirdo and a hi. Learn to converse with people and in turn you will converse the same with g…
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:49 AM
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Oh I understand, that's gives me a good idea why you get that type of outcome. Not sure how it compares but California here, I know people here a bit more diverse. Personally I am very into white girls but I really don't have a filter where I want to only talk to white girls, I'd like to be with one but I'm open to all. I get matched with way too many asian girls.
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:42 AM
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Where do you live? You must have great facial features
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:32 AM
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Where are you from? I got matched with too many cute asian girls and some cute white girls, some are pretty hot but the personality is lacking so the conversations are horrendous.
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:25 AM
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Use it however you like to but that's what it has became. You shouldn't strain too much over tinder, just have fun with it and if you don't get matched.. who cares. Just like getting rejected in real life, laugh it off and forget about it. Make sure you have good pictures also because that's what it is all about. If you don't look good at all, you're not getting matches or will only get bad ones.
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:16 AM
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This, ONLY THIS. This guy knows what he is talking about. Seduction does help with girls, more importantly it teaches you just to be that person a girl wants. The person a girl wants isn't just someone chasing girls all the time, it's somebody who has a life and can live without a girl, has friends, and is the guy who everyone wants to be friends with. I read all this stuff to help get me girls but over time I see how it made me a better person with everyone in general. Go to a bar and meet anyo…
/r/seduction02/03/14 03:12 AM
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I always respond back to those "Hey cutie" messages, most of the time they're bots. Actually from what I remember all the time they were bots for me. Girls don't open much for me and when they do I ignore the boring ones. I respond to the girls who open and actually say something about my profile. I usually don't respond to "hey" unless I find them attractive, if they're somewhat decent and is creative it does make me want to talk to them a bit though. IMO I'd say people's expectations goes up a…
/r/seduction02/03/14 02:54 AM
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I think Tinder doesn't really represent the pickup community that's for sure. I would suspect the pickup community to be pretty diverse. Tinder is completely different from the pickup community also, very different. If you look incredibly good on tinder you don't need any game at all and you can still score.
/r/seduction01/03/14 03:39 AM
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Where did you get that statistic from? In the end it doesn't really matter if you're white or not, if you hit on a girl correctly the attraction will be built up. Initially they might not go for you but trust me, your personality will trump over looks any day. Tinder is majorly white girls and guys, and yes they have a better chance of matching since it is quite a superficial app but as far as it goes, I'm not white and I had some decent girls matched with me.
/r/seduction01/03/14 03:32 AM
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I always go out with the mindset of meeting people, not to score or find someone. As much as picking up girls is good, befriending people are just as good. Just have fun and be open to meeting anyone. An example is I was out and happen to see my ex going to the same place, am I gonna let her stop me from going there? Not at all, I go where I want when I want. I met 3 great people that night and had a good time just talking, I wouldn't have had that opportunity if I let expectations or obstacles …
/r/seduction01/03/14 03:27 AM
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I'd like to think I have ok eye contact, I don't really get nervous looking at people but I think I do a bit since I'll wander off looking at their teeth and other parts of their face. Not sure if it's the same as not being able to keep eye contact. Does anyone else do this? What do you consider great eye contact? Never even looking away from their eyes?
/r/seduction25/02/14 01:28 AM
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That's the intentions I got but it could've just been this Valentines weekend. So many girls immediately cuts me off. I was dancing with these 2 girls a good amount of the night, they kept telling me they don't wanna dance with me but could have a dance battle. I thought to myself whatever, I'll just dance by myself and occasionally come in and have some fun with them. After a while they opened up and actually asked where we were from, etc. I thought to myself, finally they let loose a bit but t…
/r/seduction18/02/14 10:04 AM
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Wish I saw more girls and less couples this weekend for that. I was going to either get a bunch of girls who want to get away from the Valentines madness at home or get a bunch of couples who are going away for Valentines, unfortunately I saw mostly couples. The girls who I did talk to were either strippers or prostitutes. Some girls even had a shield around them and gave me a cold shoulder which I didn't care but on top of that their friend stepped in and blocked faster than I could even respon…
/r/seduction18/02/14 10:01 AM
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It's a bit difficult with the music blasting so I try to dance with them first before I talk to them. It usually works. Even when I ask their name it's so hard to hear it.
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:16 AM
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That's what I thought too but it wasn't as easy in the club as what I've experienced before, wasn't sure if it was this Valentines weekend and there are more couples out there or is it because of me or a little of both. I'll find out when I go out there again on a better weekend. Besides that, I did have a blast.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:57 AM
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Haha, yea I mean sure if you're ready then get married at 21 but from what I've experienced and many others also, your mind is too curious. I'm also glad I was let loose around this age also since I'm finally seeing what I've been missing and how blind I was. I'm still the same person but I'm realizing a lot of things I wouldn't have if I was still in that relationship.
/r/seduction13/02/14 12:49 AM
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Why should you let a specific age be the time you get exclusive? When you feel it's right then it's right. But usually younger ages under 25 aren't the best idea since people will be curious and change a lot around that age.
/r/seduction11/02/14 09:56 AM
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That makes sense. Yea unfortunately if a guy isn't doing anything to get out of that situation it's not gonna help them one bit. At least work towards it and have some effort.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:54 AM
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There you go, I understand your point now. But again I slightly disagree, you can be a very nice guy and still be fun and not a pussy also. So it's not necessarily 100% true that if people think you're nice then you're boring and a pussy.
/r/seduction11/02/14 02:07 AM
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what.did.you just.say? I.don't.understand.what's.going.on. You can be nice and not a pussy but you cannot be a pussy without being nice.
/r/seduction11/02/14 01:56 AM
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You're right, I don't see myself hovering. I usually just dance as I'm walking through the dance floor then once I make eye contact with a girl i'll just put my arms out and see if she wants to dance, if she reacts positively and starts dancing with me then it's on. Other than sometimes I dance with my back against another girl's back and of course butts will touch, if she continues to rub against me i'll just continue and go from there.. Sometimes that works also and other times they'll move aw…
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:39 PM
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For sure I always enjoy myself because when I do I know things just fall into place themselves. Maybe it's because every time I go to some of these places there's a 4:1 ratio of guys to girls so it's a little difficult to dance with a girl longer than you'd expect but I don't really care since I just have fun with everyone.
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:26 PM
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Yea I cannot go behind a girl and start dancing like that, it has to be in front or on the side. I usually start with my butt against theirs and see how they react.. usually they'll react well and I'll go from there.
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:21 PM
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Sounds like we're on the same page with that. I just don't see a lot of guys doing it so I was wondering... not that it matters since I don't really care and girls seem to like it.
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:18 PM
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Completely agree, some may say it's only a temp job. That's not the point, it'll just make everything messier than it has to be.
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:17 AM
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I know exactly how you feel, when you're already red and someone points it out it makes it worse. Honestly over time it'll fade as you get more comfortable, at least for me it did. You're just not comfortable doing it and your mind starts to think about the approach. Like someone else said here just play along with it if you want by making jokes about it. Other than that I think it'll disappear as you gain more experience.
/r/seduction02/02/14 10:46 AM
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You're at an average height I'd say, not quite tall but just enough to not be short. There is something you can change though, 130 lbs is fairly skinny. Get your weight up and it'll change how you look dramatically. Hit the gym hard as that'll get rid of that attitude you have and create a more confident one. Give yourself some love, take care of yourself and in turn it'll show in many ways. Is your buddy taller? More fit? You need to stop comparing yourself to others as that'll lead you towards…
/r/seduction02/02/14 10:35 AM
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I was thinking exactly this and read that, it was like you took the words right out of my mouth. Compliments are the easiest ways to start conversations.
/r/seduction02/02/14 09:48 AM
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Validate this first before anything, even average looking girls gets quite a lot of attention.
/r/seduction02/02/14 09:46 AM
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Haha this has got to be a troll.
/r/seduction02/02/14 09:43 AM
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Now imagine if you started flirting with them, making them uncomfortable since they don't like you. You're going to dread going to work. Work gossip are the worst, you have no idea if this is your first job. You're just making it more difficult for yourself but you live and learn so it's really up to you. We're just looking out for you.
/r/seduction02/02/14 08:53 AM
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You are overthinking this way too much. Ask her out and talk there, she's probably busy or that's just how she texts. Everybody has their own style of texting. You already made that attraction that night, she voluntarily gave you her phone number so that means she's interested. Just make the jump to do something with her.
/r/seduction01/02/14 03:52 AM
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I highly agree with this, I don't know why people do this.. There are so many other places you can meet girls. From all the experiences I've seen, it just doesn't work out one way or another. Just don't do it. On a rare occasion there are some couples that are mature enough for this but arguments will be brought to work eventually.
/r/seduction01/02/14 03:48 AM
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Depends what kind of girl she is but like someone else said, it probably doesn't matter anyways haha. Most girls I know wouldn't prefer Bad Grandpa
/r/seduction31/01/14 03:53 AM
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From how she was analyzing you and what you want, it seems like you both want something serious which is good. Honestly I'm not one for building attraction through texting but in this case you might have to do that a bit. I'm sure you both have inside jokes like "Don Juan" and more than that. Once in a while send something funny with that, send her a text like, "Hey I just got some ice cream and it reminded me of that day" just to keep that attraction level high. 3 months is a while and if you d…
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:48 AM
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It personally think your way works very well. When I go out and have fun, it'll just work itself. Conversations are effortless and it's just fun. Another way just like your "beast" way is just to talk to the first girl you see, ugly or not.. Just talk, it'll open you up fairly fast. Once you get that first girl out of the way it'll warm you up and gets you in that mood. Just like everything else you need a warmup to get you into the zone and that first or second girl will most likely be it and g…
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:41 AM
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You wanted me to elaborate on that story? All I can say is man you have it handed to you with that one. She pretty much told you she likes you and how you handled the situation with her mom. Once you impress a girl's parents they get attracted to you on a whole new level, what do you want with this girl? Long term? FWB? As the time gets closer ask her out when she officially moves in town. You seem like you overthink a lot of things, I do too but sometimes that's bad like this. You seem to be se…
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:31 AM
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Just have fun and converse with all of them, including the ones you might not be interested in. In the end you'll find yourself connecting with one of them more than the other, then you can push that further.
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:24 AM
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You talk to these girls how? It's most important with the impressions you leave on a girl, there's the friendly way and a more flirtatious way.
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:21 AM
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Also you gotta take into account that girl who was with her parents are WITH her parents. This is huge as most people wouldn't approach, you did and that showed you had balls and confident, this allowed her to see those confident traits in you which in turn made her responsive and shocked. You were respectful to acknowledge her parents first and then continued to show your confidence by complimenting her in front of her parents while majority of guys are even afraid to talk to a girl's parents. …
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:18 AM
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Everyone has their own quirks they do when they get nervous, if you know what it is then fix it mostly but making yourself more comfortable. Just keep practicing, eventually you'll see it less and less.
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:13 AM
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Good because I think if those traits are genuine others will recognize it and really like it back. Just continue to do what you do, don't let this minor bump slow you down as it really was not a big deal. Next time you get rejected, just try to find some humor in it because there's nothing else but to laugh about it. I've seen very bitter people get rejected and they will let it ruin their whole night, just don't let it get to that point and you'll be fine. I find evaluating it, seeing why it di…
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:01 AM
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Girls can still be a bitch and sweet. Honestly I wouldn't take shit from her, she might not mean it but you letting those stuff slide is making her somewhat more dominant. Trust me I've been with a very caring and sweet girl, always worries about me, etc. but she is a BITCH and I did stand up for myself but it only led to bigger shit. Like the other guy said, come back to smart remarks and put her in her place or else she will keep this up, you can only take so much before you explode. I don't k…
/r/seduction30/01/14 12:54 AM
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You're sorta expecting it to be a certain way which in turn could've put you in the wrong mindset of expecting a better outcome. You win some you lose some, just laugh about it and try again. Not everyone is gonna want to talk, some are bitches, etc. This was minor and maybe you didn't impress her enough for her to give you her time. If so just brush it off because you rather impress a few good ones than many ok ones. Just be yourself and if she doesn't like it oh well, you weeded out another on…
/r/seduction30/01/14 12:45 AM
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The more you think about something the more difficult it is. I found myself doing best when I just did it without thinking, then when I thought about it later it's exactly what I wanted. This is why there's that 5 second rule of just go and do it. Once you're in there it's not as bad as you made it seem. I get nervous before presentations and public speaking and most right before I'm about to speak but once I'm up there, it's isn't even that difficult. It could be just me overthinking but our mi…
/r/seduction29/01/14 03:51 AM
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Think about it. There are so many women out there or are you running out in your town? You shouldn't even think twice about doing that, it's wrong period and you're asking for nothing but trouble.
/r/seduction21/01/14 11:12 AM
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My usual wing didn't go out that day but is it possible without a wing or am I going to come off as a creep?
/r/seduction21/01/14 02:58 AM
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As far as that goes, I still have a cock that's being blocked.
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:57 AM
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1) Yea I didn't want to kiss her hand either because it was too commanding for me but I kinda was in the IDGAF mood and probably made myself look more like a bitch than anything and you're right I forgot about that deal thing. I'll keep that in mind next time and will escalate that for sure. She was married so I didn't want to push the boundaries either. 2) The funny thing is some random guy was actually talking to her and he kinda wingman'd for me but I guess he didn't keep her interest high en…
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:57 AM
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As far as being alpha goes, you don't sound alpha enough imo. Calling her is going to show a lot of alpha traits, confidence, etc. Be bold, you can't show much of yourself through texting. But also I'm unsure of this situation because she could've gave you her number to contact her and meet up with the group.
/r/seduction19/01/14 09:49 AM
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Yea it does but I like to believe it doesn't matter and in a way it doesn't but I know there are some white girls that won't date outside their race and with me, I'm ok with every ethnicity.. Doesn't really matter to me. And that's why I'm ok with girls who prefer certain kinds of people since everyone has their preference but it's difficult to figure out if a girl is open to dating people other than their own skin color.
/r/seduction29/12/13 08:13 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate your input. I use to work at a restaurant and there were some very attractive girls that came in. What I did notice was when I was being serious and busy with a lot of work that I wouldn't get much feedback from girls. But on new years I had work and decided to just enjoy my time anyways and be less serious, that made me realize that it's a lot about how you interact with people. I had tremendous amounts of tips that day and a lot of girls enjoying me serving them. I even ha…
/r/seduction29/12/13 05:09 AM
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I still need to work on that, it was more of a friendly talk since I really didn't make it clear by saying she was cute or anything. Either way I did find her opening up a bit more but the conversation was just kinda not great despite the topics that were talked about was quite interesting. Her friend was a bit more responsive and it was better talking to her but she I didn't find her as attractive. Either way in the end I had a good time talking to them and it'll get better over time, I'm not e…
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:04 AM
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Yea I tried to avoid those interview like questions also but couldn't, it wasn't like questions after questions though. For instance she mentioned she lived in Thailand, so I brought up the topic of how was it there living with a bunch of guys who were so pretty, etc and we expanded on that. One thing I did was let her use my breathalyzer, while she wanted to hold it I insisted I'll hold it. Other than that you're right, I didn't use Kino or escalated much. I'll work on doing that next time
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:45 PM
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Haha, thanks for the heads up, good thing it wasn't anyone I know in real life who found out. Or do they!? Shh, it's our secret :)
/r/seduction27/12/13 03:45 PM
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I wouldn't want to do that to anyone's relationships just like you so I know how you feel, I had my own ex do this to me. It hurts like no other, I was mad at the world but these girls are just insecure, desperate, and they'll get whatever they can get as long as you seem nice. In their mind they're most likely comparing you to their BFs and of course when you're at that point, everything seems better. These girls are easy and at a point where they probably will do anything for fun and attention…
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:47 AM
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Is there a place you work at? I've gained a lot of confidence through work but that was at a restaurant environment.. Overtime talking just seems normal. If your work place isn't a place you talk much try talking to someone, anyone, about anything. Ordering a sandwich or drink? Try to find something to talk to them about, make it as if it's natural to talk to strangers and not something you have to push yourself to do. You gotta start somewhere so just do it, you don't have to start with pretty …
/r/seduction25/12/13 02:26 AM
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I'll keep this in mind, she was really easy to talk to.. She was very talkative. It could've went on longer if I wasn't done checking out. But yes I always try to cut it a bit short so they can want more.
/r/seduction24/12/13 10:14 PM
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Yea I didn't think it was a huge milestone but making conversations with people is big in my book. I don't like small talk so it's not something I do often. I didn't think it was a situation where I was gonna ask for a number and that's why I didn't but I guess situations like that will come and i'll know it, just wanted to know if I'm doing things right. I see grocery stores as a great place to meet women but I have a hard time starting conversations there when someone is at an isle.
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:56 AM
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