| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | Be the prize.Haven't visited the sub in probably a good year now. It seems that none of the advice has evolved. | /r/seduction | 17/08/16 05:45 AM |
| 3 | This realization just hit me hard. And I'm glad that it did.It all makes great sense to me. By the way, hilarious stuff here. | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Text FlakeThe way I see it, you have two options: Go see the movie with another girl. Go alone and enjoy having all of the popcorn and soda to yourself since you didn't have to buy an extra ticket. This new girl doesn't respect your time, so move on. Simple as that. | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 05:58 AM |
| -1 | A 17 year old protesters gets triggered and falls apart crying when having to face basic logic and facts that men have less rights than women in the US and the Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's disturbing children like her have been brainwashed their entire lives to believe feminist bullshit.Now let's not fight fire with fire here... | /r/MensRights | 24/04/16 09:15 PM |
| 7 | Sucking at something is the first step to becoming sorta good at somethingway to be optimistic. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 07:20 PM |
| 12 | Boredom is toxicIf a girl is contacting you always assume she wants to see you and make a definite date and get off the phone. Spot on, man. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Happy Holidays :)I think you're on the wrong sub. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Less Reading, More Doing.It's so easy (and at times satisfying) to just sit on your ass and read material on here. You feel like you've gained all of this knowledge but you never actually go out there and do shit with it. You will learn more from one approach than you will by reading 100 posts on this subreddit. So go out there and fuck up. Stutter. Fumble. Learn. "But what if I get rejected or what if I'm not good at this?" Fuck you, have you even tried? | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 03:11 PM |
| 8 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?That just sounds needy. Calling her out for flaking expends far more effort than simply moving on, wouldn't you agree? | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 12:55 AM |
| 4 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?I think I've lost touch with my game. I've reverted (almost entirely) back into my nice guy patterns and have lost sight of how an attractive, confident man should operate. This isn't good. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?I should re-read Models. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:56 PM |
| 3 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?Got it. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:50 PM |
| 0 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?I definitely get the hint that she's not interested. However, do I put the ball in her court or just leave it? | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?Problem is: I see her everyday (campus). Just ignore her IRL too? | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Best Ways of Calming down when you're with a Girl you like?the fuck man | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all do to self-amuse when going out?Well if you're inside, you may as well find the bathroom. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What do y'all do to self-amuse when going out?Urinate in public. But don't be a fucking idiot about it. Pull out your phone and pretend to have a really angry conversation with someone, all the while, whip out your dick (just the head!) and let it peak out of your zipper. Then urinate. Don't be afraid to get those last pumps out too. When you're finished, in one swift motion, pop your foreskin back into your pants and continue like nothing ever happened. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 6 | How To Create Romance By Getting Into Arguments And Not Paying For DrinksThey had me until around 7 minutes when he basically tells you to change your behavior and values in order to make a girl like you. According to Tyler, if a girl is pressuring you to drink or smoke (even when you don't want to), that you should do it anyway because that's the only way she'll fuck you. So basically he's teaching an army of spineless men to put pussy on the pedestal. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | [Question] You're at the bar alone. How do you break the ice with somebody and strike up a conversation?A classic example is from Models, where a guy opens girls by asking, "Can I pee in your butthole?" Sure 9 out of 10 girls shot him down, but there's always one who won't. Remember that, kiddos. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 04:28 AM |
| 4 | [Question] You're at the bar alone. How do you break the ice with somebody and strike up a conversation?You: "How much does a polar bear weigh?" HB: "Um, I don't know, how much?" You: "Enough to break the ice. Name's /u/tysonchickennuggets." If this doesn't get you fucking laid then get the fuck out of my face. | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 04:13 AM |
| 2 | What has been YOUR most memorable experience cold approaching?Okay, now I have to hear this story. | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What has been YOUR most memorable experience cold approaching?What made them memorable to you? | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Lying is good practice.If you're never going to see a person again, why not be the most honest version of yourself? Fuck man, what do you have to lose? | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 02:49 AM |
| 9 | I did it!!B your L on her T's. | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 04:40 AM |
| 10 | If you could build an inner game "kit" (a bundle full of advice, sayings, realizations, and books) what would be in it?My survival kit would have to include: Models by Mark Manson Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover | /r/seduction | 23/10/15 12:13 AM |
| 0 | [FR] she started talking about a guy she liked on a date.You are totally awesome, and almost certainly the best choice for her. I wouldn't look at it from this standpoint. Look at it as: You're awesome, but you need to find out if she's equally as awesome as you are. That way you're seeing yourself as the prize, and making sure she's the best choice for you and not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Night/club gameAll men are just squirrels, looking for a nut. This is why Post-Modern-Progressive Feminism needs to be instilled in today's society. | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 04:10 PM |
| 4 | How do I set boundaries with women?Well that was easy. Case closed everyone, let's eat. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 07:10 AM |
| 407 | So a girl complimented me..."Calling me cute, offering me free food, the fuck are you trying to pull, m8?" | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?Yes. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?A few years ago, I was in an utterly toxic relationship (although I would never had admitted that at the time). I fell head over heels for this girl for all of the wrong reasons: She was really, really hot, and I put her on the highest pedestal possible. She was the only girl that I've told "I love you" to, but really I was just in love with the validation that she gave me. I couldn't shake this voice in the back of my mind telling me, "you don't deserve a girl this hot." Back when we broke up I… | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?For sure man, I've noticed that it can be exceedingly difficult to find a girl who is very self-aware and responsible (key components that I seek to form a connection with a girl), and this is mostly due to the age of the girls that I interact with daily. That's not to say that the reason I'm not very successful is all of their fault. I have my own problems to work out before I begin dating again, but for now, I'll stick with just having a fun time. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?While I know that I shouldn't be responsible for a girl's feelings, it's real easy to feel guilty when you have to reject a girl. Perhaps it's the whole empathy thing kicking in. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?I've turned down some pretty attractive girls due to their very unattractive behavior. But then again, I've stayed talking to shitty girls because of how attractive they are. God, I really need to sit down and figure myself out. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?Bing bang boom, how do we fix this? | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?You'd be correct in that I haven't dated many girls, that's not to say that I'm poor at attracting them. I tend to stay out of a committed relationship because I don't want to get hurt like my last relationship. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?Couldn't have said it better myself, chief. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 02:50 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?The more I think about it, the more sense this makes. I've noticed that once I've become emotionally invested in a girl, I will subconsciously sabotage myself by cutting her off emotionally, as not to allow her to hurt me. Fuck man, this goes deep. I think you're right. | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 01:27 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?Ouch. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?I'm definitely not looking for anything serious, but have a general idea of what I want. Could have to do with me being so young. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?Just making a jest. But seriously, thank you for giving your input. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 04:58 PM |
| 17 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?It seems to me that most people would be excited to find that their "crush" likes them back, but when I do, I just think, "Wow, she's really needy." Or something along those lines. But then again, this mainly happens with the girls who just go out of their way to impress me or want my attention. Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 04:55 PM |
| 9 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?Well they can't live up there, can they? There's the whole oxygen thing, limited supply of food, and did I mention that it's cold as shit up there? Fuck that. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 04:50 PM |
| 0 | [Question] Why do some girls only be around guys?Already -1 karma. Looks like it time to pack up and take this on over to /r/TwoXChromosomes | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Talking slowerAnd I have autism because I got a flu shot. | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 08:08 PM |
| 8 | Idealizing every girl I meet?From here: http://markmanson.net/procrastination If you haven't read Mark's stuff, I highly recommend it. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 12:00 AM |
| 11 | Idealizing every girl I meet?The reason you're procrastinating making plans with her: The more something threatens your identity, the more you'll avoid doing it." Find out what's holding you back. | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about Vadim?I think he's funny. Very entertaining videos. | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 04:24 PM |
| -1 | Seduce the world around you.I'll seduce as I please. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Advice for high school?Every morning when you wake up, look in the mirror and say you're the man Well that just sounds pathetic. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 05:06 PM |
| 2 | "No more Mr.Nice Guy" will it help me?"I'm here to have fun. These girls are just part of the adventure." Don't see them as the end goal. When you're at a bar, think of it as your own private birthday party, and when you're approaching a girl, "Hey, I haven't met you yet," with a smile. | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 09:46 PM |
| 6 | "No more Mr.Nice Guy" will it help me?Models is about achieving True Confidence without having to resort to pickup lines or phony behavior. Many men today have this misconception that in order to attract women, they need to alter their personality depending on which woman they're trying to sleep with. This behavior, at the core, is needy and False Confidence because it demonstrates that you are more invested in the girl's perception of yourself than you are. Conversational Example: Man with FC: "As a teenager, I once skipped school … | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | No matter how bad you think it is, if you invest in yourself, you will progress.Love your name. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 12:19 AM |
| 10 | How did you go in for the first kiss?For God's sake, shut up and kiss her. | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 02:10 AM |
| 19 | "Give her the gift of missing you."You're like a guru, dude. I think I speak for everyone when I say that we appreciate your insight and contribution to this sub. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 04:23 AM |
| 25 | "Give her the gift of missing you."Thank you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | The Place Women Should Have in Your LifeFor us newbies here, could you please elaborate on what that means to you? | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Even when I act confident (body language, posture, walking with my head up) and dress well, I almost never catch girls on the street looking at me twice. Is that an indication that I'm not good looking enough for women? To be a ladies man?If you "know" that you're good looking, then why do you have to prove yourself to strangers on the Internet? | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to when a girl complements my eyes?There's a difference between "not giving a fuck" and just being an arrogant douche. It will probably work in your favor though considering that you're gaming girls who've only recently hit puberty. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 01:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I respond to when a girl complements my eyes?Lol no. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 02:45 PM |
| 5 | How do you keep a girl from developing too much feelings for you?You're not responsible for her feelings. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:20 PM |
| 1 | 13 Girls In A Week!!! Proof!Why do you feel the need to prove yourself to anyone? | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Comfort Zone Challenge: Dance in publicGreat way to unstifle and feel completely unself-conscious before approaching. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | 3 Tell-Tale Signs That She Wants to Kiss YouSHUT UP AND KISS HER! | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Why Attraction Has an Expiration DateHow did you evolve from that? | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How to not give a fuck without being obvious that you're trying not to give a fuck?By not giving a fuck, it shouldn't mean that you are indifferent towards everything, but rather taking those fucks and applying them to shit that actually matters. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:51 PM |
| 3 | How to not give a fuck without being obvious that you're trying not to give a fuck?The reason for you giving a fuck about rejection and always saying the right things is due to you being more invested in girl's perception of you than yourself. I'm not going to lie, I struggle with these problems as well. Let's get rejected together! | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 03:53 PM |
| 3 | How to win friends and influence people.This post has absolutely NOTHING to do with How To Win Friends And Influence People. Your post doesn't even contain information on how to make friends All you say is that the key to confidence is surrounding yourself with friends? Dude, I have no idea what message you're trying to send with this post. | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Using Penis to attract girlsThis is fucking great. | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 03:32 AM |
| 78 | What's the etiquette when standing in line with a girl on a first date?And this is a bad idea why? I fucking love Chipotle. | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Need massive amounts of help.Oh well it seems that I had misinterpreted the message. Thank you for clearing that up. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Need massive amounts of help.I'm not a big fan of this book because it recommends that you don't express yourself honestly and suppress your emotions. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 12:48 AM |
| 3 | She's a slow/bad texter -- what can I do?Isn't it exhausting worrying about these types of things? Text when you feel like it. Prioritize your fucks differently and give them to more important matters. EDIT: A word. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 12:46 AM |
| 2 | She's a slow/bad texter -- what can I do?I hate to break it to you, but you sound very invested in her. More invested in her than you are in yourself. And that's not a good thing. I'm going to be completely honest here, there was a time when I would watch my phone and wait hours on standby for her to reply back to me. The longer she took to reply, the more I felt that I said something wrong and the more I felt that she was uninterested. Because chances are, she's either busy, or the truth that's harder to swallow; She's not as invested… | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 12:27 AM |
| 6 | How about this line?Goddamn it, man. Just say what you feel. Fuck canned lines. | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Simple tricks to impress girls?First of all, don't be in the mindset that you must impress a girl in order to get her to like you. You're not anyone's jester. That being said, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't dress well, exercise, or style your hair nicely. I suggest (and yes of course it sounds cliché) that you let go, relax, and be yourself. There's no need to do the "What's that behind your ear?" And then pull out a quarter. There's no better way to make an impression on someone than being as genuine and "real" as poss… | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 12:44 AM |
| 1 | ACNE FUCKS UP MY GAMEMy regimen is not a cure-all for everyone's skin problems. Check out the sidebar over at /r/SkinCareAddiction for basic information. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | ACNE FUCKS UP MY GAME/r/SkinCareAddiction will change your life, man. I cannot thank them enough for helping me with my horrible acne. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 04:31 AM |
| 14 | "Always assume attraction"Listen man, I happy that you've had some success with women. I truly am. But I'm a bit annoyed that whenever I come to this sub, it's the same 5 things posted over and over again. And that worst part is that each person that posts it believes that they are the FIRST person ever to discover that "all you need is confidence!" or "all you need to do is workout and then you'll be ALPHA!". It's honestly nothing against you personally, OP and i hope that you don't take it that way. Go out there and lo… | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 04:45 AM |
| 2 | "Always assume attraction"This sub needs more OC. It's just jam-packed with shit like this. | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 04:03 AM |
| 10 | A lesson from a friend: you attract what you are.We all tend to feel most comfortable, most "at home", with persons whose self-esteem level resemble our own. This means that persons of low self-esteem will attract those who experience low self-esteem. The same goes for individuals with high self-esteem. Low self-esteem seeks low self-esteem. One of my favorite quotes by Nathaniel Branden: "The most disastrous relationships are those between persons who think poorly of themselves; the union of two abysses does not produce a height." Thank you f… | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:08 AM |
| 5 | When do I go for the kiss?Shut up and kiss her! | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Older guys: how do you reply to "How old are you?"Nothing wrong with honesty. To OP: Not everything is a shit test. If she thinks you're too old, move on. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Any books on how to small talk?No More Mr. Manson: The Game Edition. | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 04:04 PM |
| 2 | How I learnt to kiss girls within minutes after I meet them.It's his thing. No point in trying to discourage him. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Are "shit tests" even worth passing?Everyone is manipulative some of the time. Manipulative behavior isn't limited to women. We're all human. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 07:48 PM |
| 3 | I love shit testsI know that all I have to do is not fuck up. This line reeks of insecurity. If you're doing your best to not "fuck up", you are more invested in her opinion of you than yourself- A horrible mindset to be in. Why is being yourself so hard to do? So what if you say something that she doesn't agree with? Why is it considered "fucking up" if you're just being yourself? As for shit tests: What’s the difference between shit testing someone and simply doubting them? What’s the difference between a woma… | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 03:42 AM |
| 1 | is being upfront too bold?Being direct and honest 100% of the time is the BEST way. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Are "shit tests" even worth passing?What’s the difference between shit testing someone and simply doubting them? What’s the difference between a woman making fun of your job to see if you’ll defend yourself to her or her legitimately being unsure if that’s what you do for a living? The answer: Her intentions. One is manipulative. One is simply being genuinely uncertain and wanting to know more about you. BOTH are done because she’s interested in you, but we’ll leave that alone for a second and focus on the manipulation. How do you… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Mark Manson: The Subtle Art of not GIVING a FUCKRight on. | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop seeking validation from females?Well if you need to be worshipped in order to feel good about yourself, you have flawed self esteem. | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve my self-image? srsNot only should you look at the positives, but more importantly, you need to look at your flaws and accept them. That doesn't mean that you have to like them, but accept them. OP: Go read The Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden. It will help you gain a much, much better understanding of your emotions and how to improve yourself . | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 12:22 AM |
| 7 | Kaley Cuoco-Sweeting: I Don't Consider Myself a Feminist?The reason her last name is hyphenated is because she's best known as "Kaley Cuoco" and not "Kaley Sweeting". In conversation if I said, "Hey have you seen that new Angelina Pitt movie?", the average person would be confused since she is most commonly known as "Angelina Jolie". It's not that big a deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 09:13 PM |
| 1 | The New ADHD Debate Every Woman Should Know AboutAm I missing something or does this information actually pertain to self-improvement? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 08:42 PM |
| -4 | Question for hardcore redpillers. Need advice.Set boundaries and punish those who cross the boundaries. What do you mean by punish? If someone asks a favor, be sure to get something in return. (Even if it is something like, "Okay, I'll do this for you. Can you pick me up a burrito from Chipotle?" Incorrect. It's okay to do a favor for someone without any intention of getting something back. It's called being a decent human being. Would you deny a homeless person a dollar for food because he wont wash your laundry? I wasted some of my youth … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Is this a lost cause?She sees you as a brother? Dude by this point, she has zero sexual attraction towards you at all. Move on. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Need Help To Get In The Game!What is your reason for wanting to get in "the game"? | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Really cool tips on how to have confidence with women!Don't click this shit. It's a clickbait article that links you to a video to make you buy their book. MOVE ALONG | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 04:58 AM |
| 13 | I came across some notes that I wrote in 2012. I thought these tips might be beneficial to some of you guys. Sorry it's quite long. I clearly had a lot of spare time on my hands. (From a female perspective).Say we look beautiful and then say she looks even more beautiful without makeup on. Let's say my girlfriend and I were getting ready to go out. She spends an hour and a half in the bathroom doing her hair, make-up, and whatever else she does in there. When she comes out, she usually looks gorgeous, but this time, she tried some new thing with her hair or makeup and it doesn't really look that good. Now most guys would tell her that she looks stunning despite how they truly feel, but not me. Why … | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm writing a book on my exploits!Considering the numerous amount of books already written on picking up women, it will be difficult to have your book sell copies- let alone be published. If you want my completely honest opinion; no. I would not buy your book (but then again, I mainly read books based on psychology). I'm sure that you have great stories in there but I'm not very interested in paying money to read about a guy that exploits women and sees them as nothing more than a number. Seduction is an emotional process. Meani… | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Boldest and extreme styles, tactics and techniques of game...Open with the line "Butt cheese". Credit | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I am just too emotional, any tips?The Six Pillars of Self Esteem has tons of information in it and it would be difficult to soak all of it in at once. It's completely understandable. Now about the smoking: Smoking is not an effective way to erase emotional pain (not to mention that it causes health issues). Being around smokers all of my life, I understand that it helps to "take the edge off". But it's not a healthy way to go about relieving stress. Smoking is an escape from your problems, not a long-term solution. What is causi… | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 07:11 AM |
| 4 | Boldest and extreme styles, tactics and techniques of game...Gonna sound real cliche here but: Be yourself. You don't need tactics or pick-up lines, man. I want a challenge. I'm craving it. Here's a challenge: Go out and have fun being yourself. There's no need to put on a facade. Don't think of that attractive girl standing across the room from you as an HB7. Remember that she is a human being too with emotions just like you. TLDR; There's no need for special tactics or techniques to make girls like you. | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 06:47 AM |
| 40 | I am just too emotional, any tips?Trust me when I tell you that it gets better. Time heals. For the time being, you shouldn't focus on trying to get with girls. Right now is a time for you to invest in yourself. Spend time with yourself. Learn what you've always wanted to learn. Explore places that you've never been to. Learn how to play an instrument, go mountain biking, whatever your heart desires (and is legal of course). This is a time of growth. Sure it sucks really fucking bad right now but think of it this way: What if it… | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Shit testsWithout context of any kind, it's very difficult to help. That being said, try not to overanalyze every single interaction that you have with girls. ALSO Your intention is what matters, not what you say. | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of losing, I wanna win!There's nothing wrong with opening by stating that you find her attractive; As long as it is genuine. Like /u/jacks_not_surprised stated, showing your intention early on helps to polarize her, allowing for the conversation to become more sexual-oriented (if she responds positively, of course). | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 05:13 AM |
| 1 | When she's gaming youPlaying hard-to-get is what a man of low confidence does. A man of high self esteem and high levels of confidence will see a that a girl that plays games is not worth his time, and will simply end all communication with her. | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How to Avoid the Friend-Zone: Unveiling the SecretLet me save everyone's time so you don't have to read the article: Make your intentions clear the moment you meet her. | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 04:02 AM |
| 3 | How to make the first move on a girl that you already know likes youA few dates? Go for a kiss halfway through the first date. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Going on my first Tinder date tomorrowI agree. Movies for first dates are a terrible idea. Make sure that you go do other things with her before and after the movie like ice cream or something. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 10:50 PM |
| 11 | How to get "In-State" w/o alcoholMy personal method. | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why women want their man to be "sensitive"Yeah you tell 'em! All women are Nazi-feminists! I am so ALPHA! | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 01:33 AM |
| 0 | AOC Online Academy: Worth $67 a month?First thing that came up for "AOC Online Academy" on Google: If this is what you're talking about, you might be on the wrong sub. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 10:13 PM |
| 36 | I never feel satisfied unless I'm having success with girls.. help?You use the affection that you get from girls as an outlet to validate yourself. It seems that you're much less invested in yourself than you are in other girls. You need to invest in yourself more and do other things than JUST trying to pick-up girls. What do you like? Mountain-Biking? Writing? Playing an instrument? Find something that you like to do and focus only on yourself. Put your needs before anything else. This might sound selfish, but it is vital to your self-development. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Where does jealousy come from and how did you get rid of it?Jealousy stems from low self-esteem and insecurity. It sounds like you lack confidence in yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 02:46 AM |
| 12 | 8 PUA lists, averaged.The only book you need from that list is Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 10/10/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my chin is ruining my ability to interact with females. Do you guys think it would be a reason for a girl to be turned off?I'd kill for a chin like that. You could be a model, dude. You have nothing to worry about. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?You shouldn't ever go out with the goal to make someone like you. It's gonna sound extremely cliché but just go out and be yourself. Who gives a shit if they don't like you! You don't have to be twice the man you already are. Here's an idea; you already are The Man. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Peacocking? See my results.How is this helpful? It's just a slide show of you and music in the background. I'm not seeing any results. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Dont trust advice you get here blindly! sometimes people post opposite recommendations. every advice must be tailored for your situation. What works for someone, may harm you.So why should I trust you? | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 02:54 AM |
| 23 | How to make eye contact?I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 01:10 AM |
| 23 | How to respond to girls that want to text.This could go terribly wrong. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Help MeYou're in luck. /r/fPUA | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Trying to find my "style" of game. How can I bring out my most natural game?I literally faked crying last weekend, faked being mad, faked being emotional to get out and into the worst and best situations. Why fake emotions when you could express them honestly? | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Was I thrown a shit test or was I being a d***?Why do you care so much if she has a little weight? It's not like she looks like this. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Was I thrown a shit test or was I being a d***?Don't do things for girls expecting them to do something for you in return. It's a bad mindset to be in. And you did sound like an asshole by alluding to her being fat. I'm sensing some Nice Guy traits from you, I suggest that you read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Also, you both already know what each other looks like, just set up a date through text and talk to her then. I wouldn't suggest socializing on social media with someone I just met. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 04:11 PM |
| 1 | *MUST READ* Great Post That Sums Up Inner Game FlawlesslyActually my friend got into this PUA stuff, and he scares away all the girls that I hang out with. I literally cant hang out with the dude anymore because he always turns it into some kind of competition. I tried going to a few bars with him but he made such a fool out of himself that I just dont want to be around him anymore. And yes, everything he does is what this subreddit talks about. Its freeking pathetic. Your friend sounds like an asshole. I wouldn't hang out with a "friend" that tries t… | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 02:59 AM |
| 1 | *MUST READ* Great Post That Sums Up Inner Game FlawlesslyYour trolling could use some work. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I'm 19 and looking for advice with womenI can also vouch. Models=Good. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Accidental embarrassing textGlad that she was cool about it! She definitely digs you, man. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 07:06 PM |
| 1 | New to seduction and doing what I assume most new people do - reading The GameThe Game isn't a book that you should be reading for newbie advice. From what I've heard, it's more of a story about the authors journey of seduction and not an instruction manual. Since you're a beginner, I HIGHLY recommend that you read Models by Mark Manson instead. I suggest that you put down The Game now and start reading THIS. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like it when a guy plays the innocent, shy type of a guy ?!Depends on the girl. The majority of women out there want a confident man that knows what he wants and not some "shy" little boy. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 09:06 PM |
| 2 | High school kidSounds like he's not outcome-dependant and doesn't see rejection as a bad thing. As to where his confidence comes from? I wouldn't know, I don't know him personally. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Is RSD Julien fucking insane?Real Social Dynamics. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The Adam Levine RuleWhat's up with all of these [insert attractive male celebrity here] rules? First the Brad Pitt rule, now Adam Levine. What's next? The Steve Buscemi rule? | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 09:19 PM |
| 3 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartWell it usually depends on the day. But for the most part, my anal seduction success rate averages 83%. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 09:14 PM |
| 5 | What to do when another guy puts his arm around the girl you're gaming?If you're less invested in yourself than you are in a woman, you're doing it wrong. FTFY | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 07:29 PM |
| 0 | What to do when another guy puts his arm around the girl you're gaming?It sounds like you would flip shit and threaten to kick my ass if I even talked to your girlfriend. No offense but you don't seem very friendly or secure. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 06:54 PM |
| 2 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartOops my bad. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 03:19 PM |
| 11 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartSome of what the article says is alright except for the part about using self depreciating humor and the "brag-bite". The brag bite is pretty much just a humble brag and humor that is self-depreciating isn't really my thing. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Reputation as "honest"Would you rather be known as the guy that is a compulsive liar? Trust me, I knew one. And no one liked him. Honesty is great. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm giving up on seduction and pick upWhy? | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 09:00 PM |
| 1 | My pickup line that has a 100% success ratePlease don't post when you're drunk. I can barely make out what you're trying to say. That being said, don't use that line. Or any canned line for that matter. just be real instead of memorizing a bunch of shit off this sub Guess what you're doing? Telling us to memorize your "100% success rate" line. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 02:56 AM |
| 17 | [FR] Going clubbing alone is a good way to practice not giving a shit about rejection, and meet homophobesI lost it at "I kissed him back". Absolutely loved your FR. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 06:56 PM |
| 5 | I'm constantly being berated by other "alpha" guys....and it's hilarious.Models definetely helped change my perspective on things. Great book and a very great guy. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do with a girl who maybe plays hard to get?If I were you, I would ask her out on a date (preferably in person). Say you'd like to go get ice cream with her or something like that. Something fun. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 04:14 PM |
| 0 | A bit clueless. Help??she might try a standard I have a boyfriend shit test. pass it and go on Here's an idea: If she says she has a boyfriend, stop thinking of it as a shit test. It means that she's not interested in you. Would a confident, single woman tell a guy that she has a boyfriend if she's not interested in you? No. If you expect every woman to shit test you, you won't find yourself having as much success than if you expect every woman to be straightforward with you. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do with a girl who maybe plays hard to get?Girls give out their number to pretty much anyone if you ask. Even if they aren't attracted to you. You sound very invested in her. You're worried too much about how long she takes to text back when it shouldn't matter. She's busy? You should be busy too. Go occupy yourself with something productive or something that you are passionate about (No video games or netflix) instead of sitting next to your phone checking it every minute for a response. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 03:02 PM |
| 6 | How I Open Girls"I like to dissect girls. Did you know that I'm utterly insane?" | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 07:05 PM |
| 3 | How to deepen my voice?Source? | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 07:35 PM |
| 1 | List of unattractive things/traits?Don't be someone who doesn't connect with others And Dont be emotional Well how will I make a connection with her otherwise? Edit: just re read it and saw that you said "emotionally". My bad. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 09:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] So I got a stripper's number...I totally hit off with a few of the strippers Lol you do know that it's they're job to act like they're genuinely attracted to you right? | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 07:20 PM |
| 5 | What to do when girls generalise you as a "player"Check sidebar. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Kino not working, help!How do they women react exactly when you touch them? | /r/seduction | 30/08/14 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Kino not working, help!Are you comfortable when touching them or is it forced? If you're not confident then when you are touching a woman, she will notice that and it will make her feel uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 30/08/14 01:36 AM |
| 22 | Feeling inferior to a girl and it's fucking up my confidence.Whenever I put a girl on a pedestal, I remember this: She poops too. | /r/seduction | 30/08/14 01:01 AM |
| 45 | What are some great ways to make women feel like they're the shit when you fuck them?What ALWAYS works for me is this strategy that never fails: After a little bit of foreplay, I lead her into the bedroom and start to remove her clothes. It's good to have some type of music playing in the background while this is happening (Metallica is my personal favorite). Once we are both completely naked, I make sure to push her onto the bed with all of my force, and look at her directly in the eye for a maximum of 5 seconds before I climb onto the bed. Now this is where the Chipotle burrit… | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 03:53 AM |
| 3 | How do you feel about giving a girl a small gift? She is is my class and we just barely know each other. She sits next to me.No. That would be weird as shit and would most likely creep her out considering you've barley even spoken to her. ALSO you have the wrong mentality. You barley know her and you're already highly invested in her and putting her on a pedestal. Read Models by Mark Manson and No More Mr. Nice Guy. | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "Ill only kids you if you do x...". What do you do?Well if you were with her for 10 minutes and she rejected you twice then that should tell you something. You most likely didn't generate enough attraction. If a girl says she'll only kiss you if [insert favor here], it will mean that you are highly invested in her and that will show. | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "Ill only kids you if you do x...". What do you do?It sounds like you were following her around like a puppy dog all night. You shouldn't have put in that much effort into a girl that wasn't very receptive and just playing games with you. Avoid those women. | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | White Knight help..Arguing with a white knight is like playing chess with a pigeon. All they'll do is knock over the pieces and shit all over the board. It's going to get you no where. You're not going to convince him and he's not going to convince you. It's pointless to argue. Check out this video. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 10:26 PM |
| 2 | How Being Vulnerable Can Make You Attractive to WomenDude you need to educate yourself. Big time. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 07:52 PM |
| 3 | What books should I read?Seriously OP read this book. Helped me a lot. Also read No More Mr. Nice Guy! | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 07:45 PM |
| 1 | The Art of Manliness presents: The Brad Pitt RuleIt's common "sense". Don't you have any common sense? | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Models & What Every BODY. Now what?Why would you approach a girl that you don't find attractive? To "sharpen your blade" so to speak? You wouldn't approach an unattractive woman with intention to be sexual unless you were desperate. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 04:45 AM |
| 2 | A video I made on unstiflingLooks like you had a lot of fun in this video man! Will definetely be trying this method! Question: We're you on any drugs or alcohol in the video? | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 02:52 AM |
| 11 | How do you guys make a girl laughTell her knock-knock jokes. If that doesn't work then pull out your dick, set it on your wrist and ask her, "Hey could you look at my watch?". Works every time. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 04:57 AM |
| 2 | One year after reading 'Models,' life is a lot better, but...."I need you to make a sandwich." "I need you to become a sandwich." | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 05:43 PM |
| 7 | One year after reading 'Models,' life is a lot better, but....Since I was a huge How I Met Your Mother fan when I first started game, it was a no-brainer that I'd act like Barney Stintson-I mean he gets all the ladies right!? This was when I didn't really have much knowledge of the "game" or even how to be socialize well. I took on his mannerisms completley, stole some of his phrases, and even started to wear a suit every now and then. I thought I was the coolest, smoothest mother fucker you'd ever meet. And you bet your ass that it was cringeworthy. I'd t… | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 05:58 PM |
| 3 | I'm 15 and mostly a newbie with AA any Advice to help my AA and any other newbie mistakesGo onto /r/highseddit it's more suited for teens trying to game. A lot of advice on here (like night gaming) is made for people who are older. | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do.I'm just gonna add a couple of things. Make conversations with the cleaning lady. Always good to just relax and be yourself. If they don't like the "true you" then who gives a fuck. One thing to add: When asking questions, ask questions that require her to think. Don't just approach women, approach everyone. Remember: You're not trying to be her friend. Make intentions clear. Read #5. Now for #10 that could mean a variety of things. Just for the record, don't go find a chick with serious mental … | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Girls trying to make you jealous/get your attention.Gotcha. Thanks for the help man I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls trying to make you jealous/get your attention.Why are women like this? | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Girls trying to make you jealous/get your attention.im 8 edit: and a half | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Are any of you in San Diego for Comic Con. Let's meet and do some daygame!What sets you apart from all of the other guys trying to get into their pants? | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Making the girl chase after YOU.Asked them. Haven't gotten a reply yet. In the meantime, could you give me your approach to making girls want you? | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Making the girl chase after YOU.So you're saying that I shouldn't chase her at all? I'm not sure what you're trying to say. | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Making the girl chase after YOU.I understand this is a pretty general question. | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 04:46 AM |
| 1 | When asking a girl on a date through text, which do you prefer?I like that. | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Just came back from a partyYou couldn't have asked a more general question. It may as well have been "How do I talk to girls?". As for the party: When you're at a party, get in the mindset that it is YOUR private birthday party when talking to a girl. How would you approach a girl you hadn't met at your private b-day party? Approach like that. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Friendzone? Where did that come from? It made more sense when it was LJBFHow can you be on this subreddit and not know what that means.... | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Help re igniting online conversationsStop being boring when texting/messaging. How do your conversations usually go? What were the last couple of messages sent between the two of you before it suddenly stopped? | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 06:24 AM |
| 13 | Just grow some balls already.He left himself open for that one. | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 11:17 PM |
| 7 | I noticed that if you go out to seduce girls, it is very simple.I know I can walk over to her, she won't reject me. Confidence isn't "she wont reject me", confidence is "I don't care if she rejects me or if she doesn't". | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 08:57 PM |
| 1 | When girls consistently flake on you!It looks like I'm heading over to /r/askseddit Thanks | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 02:05 AM |
| 1 | When girls consistently flake on you!I should have mentioned that I've known her for a while. | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Make seduction a hobby, not a job.How do people like RSDTyler still make it a hobby when that's what they do for a living? | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 06:14 AM |
| -2 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.Why is your name "blownstang'"? | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 04:56 AM |
| 1 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.Why did you even comment? | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 02:57 AM |
| 0 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.Haha gotcha | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 02:56 AM |
| 3 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.Check check and check! I'll make sure to show her my pecker on the first date as well. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 09:33 PM |
| 0 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.Take her out without communicating with her? makes sense | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Texting help for a 16 year old PUA beginner?Oh please don't remove this post, bro. I'd rather not have to post the same exact thing again just with a reworded title excluding the word "help". I realize that you're just doing your job but I've looked everywhere on this sub and cant seem to find a post that can help with this problem. Edit: Also I don't see why I have to follow the template example you require me to follow when making a self post. This is a pretty general question and really doesn't require me to tell everyone my life story… | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 07:25 AM |
| 1 | [HELP]Got a girls numberWell what you really need to do is fuck her right in the pussy. But on a serious note, bowling opens up some opportunities for kino like getting behind her and "Showing her how to bowl correctly". You could even tease her about how bad she is. Now for texting, I'd give her a quick reminder about the bowling date with something along the lines of "Hey I look forward to beating you at bowling ;)" Playfully tease her. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 07:20 AM |
| 0 | Texting help for a 16 year old PUA beginner?I'm sorry but where exactly do I need to fuck her? Pinpoint the exact location where I need to do the fucking. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 07:09 AM |
| 1 | What should I do?Honestly the best way to attract the guy for you is by being yourself. Sounds cliche but seriously just be Jatsa and you will attract guys that like you for who you are. Never change yourself to get the attention of anyone. If they don't like you then fuck em (not literally of course). | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Texting help for a 16 year old PUA beginner?So this is how you want our coversation to look? Her: Good morning :) Me: I'm in the middle of something can we catch up later? The next day... Her: Hey what's going on? Me: I'm in the middle of something can we catch up later? Eventually she will just think that you're just not interested in her. I know what you're trying to go for (making me unavailable for her will make her want me more) but that just doesn't seem like it'd work. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Got way too invested in a girl that it didn't work out with. Having a hard time bouncing back from her. Advice?Why is her attention on another guy? Because she lost interest in you. You bored her and/or didn't escalate your relationship further with her enough and now she's moved on to another guy. I can relate with the pit of depression part screwing with your game. Depression does suck. The best thing you can do now to get her off of your mind is fairly simple; meet other girls and focus on improving yourself. Set a goal to be 10 times more interesting than her. I know what you're thinking. "But 'seduc… | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Messed up with twins, did not know how to seal the deal. What could I have done different?While you were holding each other you could of easily went in for a kiss. And then from there things could have only gotten better. She probably wouldn't have went back to her cottage for sleep had you escalated further. If they were just looking for a one night thing then why didn't you take advantage of that? You could have made that night even more memorable for her. TLDR; Sometimes you just have to pull the trigger and go for what you want. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 06:41 AM |
| 15 | After number closing yet another girl during daygame I bursted out laughingYup it's really not that difficult. If you approach, you're already ahead of 90% of guys. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Messed up with twins, did not know how to seal the deal. What could I have done different?How was the kino other than just having your arms around each other? Did you make your intentions clear? IOIs? Where you at the beach the entire night? Did you kiss her? Did you even get her number? You didn't give us much information here, buddy. So you're with a girl and you've both been drinking and she's (at least I'm hoping) definitely interested in you. Why didn't you make a move and try to take her back to your place? How did you close? Help me help you. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 06:20 AM |
| 2 | When a girl says they would call you tomorrow, but doesn'tQuesition: I asked a girl for her schedule, set up a date for us, and then at the last minute she canceled. She was also free the very next day so I said no big deal let's hang out tomorrow, she says yes, and the cancels last minute. Is she still worth it? | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 05:59 AM |
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