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| 8 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way? | seducedthrowaway | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 07:28 AM |
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| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?I'll do that more and see the results! I do understand what you're talking about though, sometimes when I'm in the mood of just relaxing I cannot just approach anyone. However when I've been hanging out with some new people all night and we converse all night long I feel like I could talk to anyone so thanks for the advice I'll practice that to warm myself up next time. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?I'm quite introverted also and would rather pick someone I have some sort of attraction to at least. May I ask if those girls are just random people you meet or are they someone you knew for a while, like an old friend. Ever since I've been single for about 4 months or so I've only been with one girl. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?What catches your attention when a guy talks to you? Most guys have the typical "Hi, how are you?" opener from what I heard but I feel like something unique with the girl is the better way. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?Yep I agree with you, I'm beginning to just converse with anyone, guy or girl. It might take a while but I feel like I'm slowly getting there, talking to strangers is easier than it was before. Haha, I agree with you.. Just wanted to be sure I'm not wrong with my decision. Sometimes he can be good but I'm not willing to risk that sometimes, it's just when he had a bit to drink he starts saying obnoxious things that does get me annoyed. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?Yea I can converse and am trying to converse with random people, guy or girl because in the end the conversations are fairly similar. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?Yea I know what you mean, I watched a video but forgot what it was called he was basically explaining how he has a 3 second rule, if you see someone go right away. Don't give yourself time to make excuses so I'm going by that rule for that but I don't mind or have a problem just talking to anyone. I'm just not interested in them in the end. I feel like I don't wanna go out with him anymore to pickup but wanted to explain my situation to see if others agreed with me. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?Ok glad I'm not the only one that thinks that, it gets terribly annoying, I rather go out myself than with him sometimes. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?That's what I meant, you're right I wouldn't say it in the beginning for sure. I'll say it when it can be taken lightly and not be creepy. And you are right, I kinda am a pussy to say it sometimes. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?Now that I think of it you're right, they're not taking him seriously. Maybe the fact that he's so out there will make me seem like a saint, lol. I'll give it some time maybe i'll get comfortable and can go along with his ridiculously out of this world pick up lines. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?I don't disagree with you at all, I'm just wondering if he's wrong the way he's approaching things or am I looking at it wrong? I know he tells me he doesn't care how they think and that's the right mindset but he literally doesn't care, even to disrespectfully say something to their face. I respect women a lot, probably too much sometimes that I get screwed over. I make my intentions clear but I will never pass any lines unless I can gauge the girl that she's comfortable around me enough to tal… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?That makes a lot of sense, I do usually talk to people and converse but it's just awkward when he puts me on the spot and say something like, "Hey my friend here is a virgin/looking to get laid" making some stories up, i'm not one. Just got out of a 6 year relationship so it might take some time to learn the ropes again. But that just an example of him making it awkward for me and putting me on the wrong spot in my opinion. That's about the only thing I don't like about when he talks, he'll be t… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?No, I don't see him getting any girl's attention when he's like that. Sometimes he'll say stuff like, "My friend here is looking to get laid" or something like that which is out of line for me. His motto is kinda just be forward and if they want it, then they want it. Other than that when he talks normal and just not say obnoxious things like that it does work. When I read about seduction I don't really see as being an asshole but more of a confident person who is still respectful? Am I right or… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?I don't have an issue trying that on people who I find attractive, is his approach the wrong way though? It seems like he would hit on any girl, while I like to enjoy my time until I see one that catches my eye. That's the only thing I'm not comfortable with, going around a place and just hitting on any girl, it makes me seem desperate and almost as if I'm only looking for someone to sleep with. I like to wait for someone that catches my eye, converse, then see where it goes from there, pretty t… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 07:51 AM |
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