| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | The Alpha Battle | seduction000 | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 06:51 AM |
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| 1 | The Alpha Battlebe patient and meditate through all your reactive behaviours That's good advice, at least until I find a way of changing my behavior that allows me to better deal with alphas. Fortunately, the relationship is mostly positive, and it's an old friendship, so it's not so bad. The reason why I'm asking is because this is not the first time I've dealt with this kind of one-upmanship. It feels wrong to always run away from it. There's got to be another way. Sometimes avoidance or packing up is not via… | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with AlphaThis is awesome. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with AlphaYes, it's always our choice whether to engage. However, what if choosing not to engage means moving out or finding a new job? Not dealing with an obnoxious person is understandable, but sometimes it's to one's advantage to deal with that person in a way that makes life much easier. For example, my previous roommate was a girl who turned out to be emotionally vampiric, unstable, naggy, possessive, controlling. It was exhausting at first and I found myself wish she would change. Then I realized th… | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha BattleI agree though: I will not change him. But I believe it's possible to change myself to live in these situations better---just like how it's possible to change myself to interact in a better way with girls or people in general. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha BattleYou and I share the same approach---avoid. But that is not a sustainable coping mechanism. What if I end up working/studying/living in a place with someone similar again? Do I just run away? In this situation, moving out is not an option. I just moved in and I'm here for at least several months. What's more, I am working with him on long-term projects. I need a better solution. Does anyone know where I can get help with this? | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 04:30 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha BattleGood point, but I think it may make things worse: He has plausible deniability, so it just makes me look like I'm creating drama and "being too sensitive," which just makes the problem worse. If a person talks to me, I usually drop whatever I'm doing and pay attention because I always felt it's more polite that way. Today, I tried ignoring him unless I felt it was really important, and it seems to work better. However, the overall alpha game is something I'm new to and I'm still figuring out how… | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 11:54 AM |
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