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Life is a numbers game because numbers are just representation of life. Sure each individual encounter is a seperate event where your actions matter, but yeah obviously there is nothing that guarantees success. In the grand scheme of things each encounter has a certain chance of success, The more encounters you have in theory the better at it you get so it can be said you rate of success is in a sense a function of the number of times you approach. If you integrate that over the number encounter…
/r/seduction31/10/17 02:50 PM
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Eh it isn't the individual conversations as it is the accumalation. Its more like damn, I went a whole week talked to a ton of people and the interesting ones were all older and tied down.
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:45 AM
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Yeah I am still not sure what a shit test is? Like are girls really giving you some social test that you pass or fail? I always just thought it was a part of banter. I mean my family gives each other shit tests all the time. My friends seem to as well and I certainly do. I just thought it was something you laugh with or reply if think of something witty.
/r/seduction24/10/17 03:42 PM
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ah Okay that makes sense You are talking about a fairly complicated unknown style, that needs a certain amount of space and style of music. This is not going to be pulled off in a bar with a random girl. No duh at a festival for it you are going to be popular. Its two different worlds. At a festival everybody is their to dance the style even if they do not know it. You are not going to convince a random girl to dance this just the two of you doubly so if they do not already dance. The only thing…
/r/seduction24/10/17 03:26 PM
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No clue. I was going to say that at least on the approach looks matter quite a bit, this sub glosses over but as a person that has yo-yo weight issues and has danced for a bit, its way easier to get a girl to dance with you if you are somewhat attractive (percentage wise you should never strike out). If you actually get them to dance you can build natural chemistry besides dancing is sexy. But really you have to be doing something you are not mentioning. If a girl dances a style and knows you da…
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:47 PM
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Super unlikely if it is a repeat occurence, I am not saying you aren't real (its the internet) because i know people in real life like this of both genders. But they are the exception most girls want attractive guys, sure a lot of people will settle for less than their physical ideal but they won't be put off of it unless they suffer some some repeat trauma and even then they are more than likely to repeat mistakes. I would guess it has to do with his personality but I do not know from his writi…
/r/seduction20/10/17 08:19 PM
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Poor, I guess I have something tonight but I am not sure what the fuck it is and if it will go well, my school is way worse than I thought it would be. In general life is good I am going out and having a lot of fun. Socially is a crap shoot I am making friends but in terms of circles while I have been out with a few there not really my people. This whole thing makes me realize I am naturally shit social with practically everyone but can thank my parents for having enough experience to act normal…
/r/seduction20/10/17 06:57 PM
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Chad is what a neckbeard or social misfit calls a normal guy, more or less definitions very and refering to yourself as a chad is kinda weird. ONS- One night stand AFC-American Football Conference
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:59 AM
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LOL what kind of girl has the cardio to dance for an hour straight?
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:29 PM
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Not OP but picking West coast swing would probably be the easiest. Its super versataile you can dance it to pretty anything, girls don't really need to how to do much, and it is really easy to change position (open, closed, close) if you need to warm her up a bit and transition to other things. Really it depends on you target audience White Girls -West coast Hispanic- Bachata Black- Hip Hop Asian-IDK But if you know how to dance you can pretty much make anything work IMO. I actually like dancing…
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:23 PM
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Its probably more like you do not want posts in here linked to your main account. Like who knows your main username? It would not supprise me if my sister knew and I would not want her reading my more private stuff.
/r/seduction26/09/17 11:34 AM
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Its not luck, people want to have a good time, if it looks like you are having a good time other people want in.
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:40 PM
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You don't even need to have a social circle just some aquainteces to dap up when you roll in is generally enough IMO, even a random guy helps at times. Seems like if I start a random conversation with a nearby guy half of the time girls will show up and get dragged in.
/r/seduction23/09/17 04:57 PM
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I mean its not a big deal, there are so many people between clubs, classes, night life, the bus and other shit. I do not have the time or energy to gameplan for everyone. Its not like I am going to run out of new people at college and having a better social standing never hurt either plus its helpfull in the acedemic sense as well.
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:23 PM
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I feel yah Sitting in class next to random girl but am zonked out, move over so her friends can sit, hot Friend is happy and starts conversation I am dead to the world but I can hold a conversation on auto pilot. Next class sitting next to another attractive girl, same girl sees me sits next to me at the other side with a different cute girl in tow. FML I am to dead to do anything despite sitting with three of the best looking girls in the class. Already have the one girls number and the other t…
/r/seduction13/09/17 12:07 PM
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Yeah can confirm I have a good phych and anti depressents are a game changer do not lose large swaths of your youth
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:16 PM
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Not give a fuck? It sounds bad but it works, it changed my life litterally overnight. Hot girls might generally not want to fuck you if you are ugly (I am way fatter than I have ever been so i feel your pain). But on the other hand they seem the most receptive to a conversation out of the blue.
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:12 PM
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I mean I haven't played football since high school. I have had so many surgeries and health issues it does not even look like I played. My social interactions are way better now than back then just from growing up and practice and I am better with women and just people in general because I developed social skills. What do you want me to tell you? you do not have to love yourself you just have to not really care what other people think. Some people are shitty but I mean if you do not really care …
/r/seduction09/09/17 08:46 PM
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So from your history you are not a funny guy I am sorry. You are an annoying guy. I can relate a little with a lot of your stuff I was tested for a lot of stuff when I was little and never really fit either (like I am just super different just not clinical), and definitely cross the line a lot in social situations and can be a jackass. Social skills are like anything, they can be developed with practice. I personally did it by letting out me and having the world deal with it and saw what stuck. …
/r/seduction09/09/17 07:45 PM
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Yeah so this is not random at all she is probably with the other guy to some extent and they want another player. It was probably the whole point of getting drinks with you if I had to guess. The guy/girl probably has some threesome or cuck fetish IDK. So they need another guy. As for you? do you want to eifle tower a chick or be a bull? I mean I would do it just for the heck of it but thats a personal decision. But yeah this is not out of the blue and the tables are reversed (aka your not tryin…
/r/seduction09/09/17 05:16 PM
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Oh yeah I agree I have been hitting the friend trail way harder than the pick up game honestly with guys and girls around me for just being friends plus most of the clubs i have been looking at are hitting two birds with one stone so to speak. I regret not doing this the last time around when my body wasn't wrecked it would be so much easier. as for the text game IDK I am just bad at it and its like pulling teeth though I have been trying to find the right balance. I Have gotten to the point whe…
/r/seduction31/08/17 02:54 AM
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Yeah as someone who cold approaches a lot of random people when bored I have found this wierldy to be the case Outside of pretty girls being more likely be accepted in life and be involved in more social stuff, if a girl puts effort into how she is dressed it means she probably wants to be recognized. But yeah even when I am depressed and want to just talk to someone I often aim for pretty girls just because my enjoyable conversation success rate is way higher and it is often a lot less work to …
/r/seduction31/08/17 02:38 AM
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Yep, I already had a passable IRL game I guess though I struggle with depression. I just hated texting and always had a bad mindset on if girls were attracted. But its just different being told with actual words that I am good at talking. Especially since I was borderline with social developmental problems growing up. I had a girl text me first last night which has motivated me to go threw all the numbers in my phone that have been accumalating and at least sending out feelers.
/r/seduction27/08/17 12:46 PM
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I kinda agree with this. But I would caution needing to change before you can be comfortable with yourself. Like my body is wrecked from injuries and I know I looked like shit. But I have been having so much fun just attacking life and it shows. Like I have guys telling me how smooth I am and girls telling me how good I am at maintaining a conversation. I will be real it has not really translated yet and my text game is still a black hole but it is really fun and helps motivate me to improve mys…
/r/seduction27/08/17 02:36 AM
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well I am not sure how usefull my advice considering my track record But as someone who has been described as someone you know really well even though you have only actually know them a little. I think the key is being a tad vunerable. A slightly embarrasing but interesting story told with a positive and upbeat attitude gives both a positive impression and humanizes yourself.
/r/seduction27/08/17 02:29 AM
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Yeah this is so true, I just started doing this and it is really fun. If you approach like this most people have an instant positive reaction. They instantly smile now what happens after might not always go well but it is suprising how well the average person reacts to a cold approach when you seem happy. Now the drugery of texting after is what is getting me down.
/r/seduction27/08/17 02:19 AM
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One thing I might advise is approach everyone. Like the old lady in line at the store or some random guy at the bus stop if approaching girls makes you nervous. Just strike up a conversation. Its all the same really I did not even know about this sub or approacing until a week ago but a lifetime of just talking to strangers made it actually fun because now I have a purpose.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:36 PM
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Yeah same, Its not like i am attractive or have good style or anything. But 90% of the time if you say something mundane confidently with a smile on your face it will instantly get a positive reaction initially.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:31 PM
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Yeah I did not really know getting numbers was hard until reading this sub and I honestly did not think much of it since the talking is the fun part. But yeah getting into the dreaded texting is hard and is where I am really pushing myself now.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:24 PM
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Yeah I will try and its not the first time I have said something stupid. I am not going to stare thats a bit much i am not good looking.
/r/seduction22/08/17 03:46 AM
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Oh yeah I mean i have been expressive since being a kid the sync thing will take same work though I am pretty full go all the time and that definitely can be an issue.
/r/seduction21/08/17 10:24 PM
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The sync thing is probably a good Idea I am already pretty expressive and if anything am over the top.
/r/seduction21/08/17 10:14 PM
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Yeah I tried it a couple different ways it worked best when I was smiling but that could just be because i was enjoying myself and making her laugh.
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:44 PM
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Oh yeah I mean what do you think I was just doing the creeper stare from across the hall? Of course it was in the context of actually talking to somebody. But yeah it seemed to be working pretty well on one of the girls she at least seemed to notice and respond well. I did screw up my words in the final strech with her lol but we will see.
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:41 PM
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I mean yeah I am at college I wasn't joking about not having any issue with innitiating its pretty easy for me. I already tried it a couple times actually since your comment.
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:29 PM
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Yeah I tried it with more smilling on the bus home, it seemed to work pretty well in terms of response and I got her number. Edit: what do you mean by say something like say something to convey that you are interested in her?
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:16 PM
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I guess i meant not escalating in text just not trying to be overly friendly. I met another girl watching the eclipse and it was not perfect but it definitely came off a little better so I guess I will try with her.
/r/seduction21/08/17 06:34 PM
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Hmm the prolonged eye contact is probably a good Idea and seems easy enough, doesn't everyone look at the face though?
/r/seduction21/08/17 04:52 PM
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But yeah I guess my problem is that making friends and connections is currently my first priority. Maybe I will actually try a seduction day game when I am more established at my college (I am not a freshman but 23) and start out by setting the frame I look like shit right now anyway. I just kinda want both you know. But yeah its hard when you do not mind being friendzoned as long as you get friends. I probably should make it a habit to ask every girl for their number instead of just he ones I h…
/r/seduction21/08/17 04:50 PM
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