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| 1 | Current situation: How to seduce the ones who are interested, but with the cool distant exterior | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | seeeker775 | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 06:36 AM |
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| 1 | For you guys out there who are highly successful with women, what are some of the steps you take on the early dates to ensure high sexual tension between you and the woman is building?I think a lot of the teasing/negging/pick up stuff does not work reliably. What I do is first I sit kinda close to the girl. Extremely mindful when we sit down at a place, to avoid face to face dining position. Face to face like at a restaurant table is the WORST. You want to be sitting side by ride, or at least at an angle. Then make a lot of eye contact (but not weird staring, there is a difference). M and show you are listening. THEN… I look her up down at some point so she knows I am checkin… | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What’s the first word i should say to my crushAnal | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step?She’s half interested, but not enough to commit. Meaning, she’s not interested. She’s probably waiting on better options too. These are games. Just ignore her and move on. Caution: when you ignore her, there is the possibility that in a week she will message you. This means her options have run out for now and she’s finally hitting you up. Overall though this is not a recipe for love. Just move on. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysYes I am aware of that too. | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysI’m in Nashville. People are certainly friendly here, but I thought being a regular in the community would lead to a more general friend group and socializing outside of the dance events. It didn’t really. I would go to classes and socials totally alone, and I’d have to really psyche myself up to walk in cold. Then I’d dance for a while, or try to dance, nobody would talk to me, then the pressure in my head would get to be too much, so I’d bail. There were certainly some fun nights, where I felt… | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysOh sure, all true. If you are competent and fun and smiley, you will be seen as such and not creepy and women will seek you out to dance. That happened. But in six months I was never hit on once. Not a single time. And I’m a good looking guy. That’s how weird it was. Maybe I could have done more, but I was already out of my comfort zone and you try not to beat yourself up. Who knows. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 27 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysI have some experience with the dancing method. Couple years ago I moved to a new city and knew no one. I started going to salsa classes multiple times a week, then the regular weekly socials - salsa and bachata. For six months I was heavily immersed, multiple times per week. Two observations. It will immediately kickstart your social life. If you want/need to mingle in a new circle and immediately be in diverse, active social environments, get into salsa. You will meet a ton of girls quickly. P… | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 3 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysGo to salsa classes regularly. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 05:19 PM |
| 3 | How to Have Women Come To YOUMeh.. sometimes they will chase you, but most times they will not. A unique situation may come up when the chemistry is perfect for her to take the lead, but this is not a formula you can replicate reliably. It’s really about supply and demand, women generally have a lot more options than men do. It’s that simple. This is why chubby/ugly women hit on us sometimes, because they have to. If you really want women to chase you, move to South America. Your plate will be full. As far as chasing, they … | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 06:30 PM |
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