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seeing_it_in_red/r/askTRP24/05/15 08:40 AM
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For the Red Pilled men that lurk here. Weight loss helps not because it makes you look better (though that does help). It helps you build that confidence up. If you think you look good, you will feel good. Game, Frame and Abundance are what gets you laid. There are older men (50+) who can still go out and get one night stands from women half their age simply because they know how to speak to women and escalate the conversation. Yes, looks are important, but there are 150kg+ men that get laid sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:10 AM
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While good friends build each other up. Great friends will have the courage to criticize their friends if they are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:03 PM
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The IOI eas being asked to her room, now you dud miss that signal, however you should of stated from the get go that you where not going to sleep with her due to the living arrangements. You might be able to save it so as to avoid looking for a new housemate. But you need to establish HARD boundaries. If you can't then you need to evict her or find a new place to live.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 12:48 AM
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That seems to betray some level of insecurity on your part huh. Bit early for the personal attacks dear. As Pigeon-in-Boots said below, it is a preference, especially going by OP's question of what I want for Standards in a Partner. In this case, I'm basing this off if I was looking for a LTR, AKA proper commitment. Someone who has worked in the sex industry or in your case, been a sugar baby, has shown to me that they have a price tag, you pay the entry price, you can go for a ride. And after a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:51 AM
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Leads to the nature of transactional sex, where sex is withheld unless you recently brought or spent money on her. At that stage you are better off just paying a sex worker upfront for your physical needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:32 PM
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You need to be careful doing this, in this day and age people will look for anything that can be used to ruin your reputation. TRP is seen as a group that promotes the abuse and hate of women. While of course not true, this is how the mainstream sees the group. A good way to test this is to simple make up a story how some dude was talking your ear off about "redpill xyz" and how you look into it. Then just quietly sit back and let the conversation unfold.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:31 AM
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Its been said tons of times about not talking about TRP. However if you feel you need to for whatever reason mention something that is Redpill, you have to frame it differently. Usually in such a way that it sounds positive or that the person you're speaking to feels like they aren't being attacked. I would of worded what you said along the lines "I read a thing about women having more emotional intelligence then men" Or "that guy seemed a little too nice", depending on context. I'd suggest look…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:19 AM
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You are undervaluing frame control and charisma. Yes lifting is, and will forever be important. As it helps build your frame and self confidence as you build your physique. But a decent amount of women love the 'large and in charge' guys as well. And I don't mean the fat nerd in their mothers basement type. I mean fat guys who know they are fat, own it and don't give a flying fuck they are fat. You have to remember back in cave man days, being fat meant an abundance of food and resources, which …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 02:10 AM
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All polite really is, is showing a base amount of respect, even if that person is below you. While its a fictional reference, the movie Kingsmen comes to mind. 'Manners make the man', you can still, gain muscle and be fit, and be well spoken. This also creates that contradiction within your frame that can draw people in. As this trips up peoples internal sterotypes.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:42 AM
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The thing is, polite and nice are two different things and this was mentioned ages ago in a thread on the main sub. You can be polite without being nice. Polite is telling someone where to go if they're lost. Nice is going out of your way taking them there. People seem to get these two things mixed up. You can be polite without being nice, You can be polite while holding frame, infact you can use being polite as part of your frame.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:29 AM
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Baby faced and overall young looking at the age of 30 as well. One of my faves I like to use, "I know, I'm going to great at 50"
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:59 PM
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A simple 'busy ATM, will check later' works as well.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 12:42 AM
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My philosophy for stuff like this is 'A velvet glove over an iron fist' These type of things always depend on context, and whether you're someone who mixes up the differences between 'Nice' and 'Polite'. Offering kindness/being nice is only bad if you let people abuse it, or haven't got the frame to back it up. Being nice and kind only truely means something if you are willing to put the recipient on their place if they take advantage of you. I personally try and keep my kind acts for people who…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:04 AM
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Going with what the original post is. If you're a single guy (or even have a partner yourself) and she mentions a partner of any kind it basicly screams of 'abort misssion', careless if you're trying to get into her pants or not. Here are my thoughts on why 1) 'A boyfriend being mentioned usually hints she isn't interested in you.' In which case, why would you continue trying to charm her? Its a losing battle. 2) Is the boyfriend there? In which case it could spell danger. Is he going to be aggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 02:03 AM
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I find this post is less about 'starfish' sex and more about if one is not as aroused as the other. Which in LTR, can happen after a while. Now, sometimes, our sexual urges don't always line up or sometimes in my case, the mind is willing but the flesh isn't. My GF is like this too. Usually my partner and I switch between who is often intitating bedroom activities. However, regarding unenthusiastic sex. Sometimes both of us have sacrificed our bodies for the other even if the other one isn't. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:44 AM
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Scribe is right in that something like this needs to be prevented in the first place. But no one is an all seeing god. I'm not American. But if something like that happens. Get recording right away, phone, tapedeck. Whatever you can do to record the interaction. I know the odds are stacked against men, more so in America. But that doesn't mean you can't come out on top. Just means you need to be prepared, work harder and keep others guessing your next move. If you can might be time to lawyer up …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 02:51 AM
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What about situations where you can't walk away? I do 100% agree with you, that you should never strike a woman, and not for any moral high ground. But because of how easily it can ruin your reputation and future. Now the reason why I ask this, is there are either people working in industries, (police, security, bouncers to clubs etc) or in situations where woman will resort to group attacks or even weapons. You can find videos of shit like this on other subs or youtube, where thankfully, the wh…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 07:39 AM
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As far as I'm concerned, you're always entitled to the ability to defend yourself. Its when excessive force is used that the issue gets blurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:22 PM
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Likely a few ways to handle it. Personally, if she is going to act single. Then mirror her actions and he should of done the same himself. Make passes at every woman he finds attractive. Another option is just to pull her up. But you need to be careful doing that as the risk of coming off needy or weak. My final suggestion would be to use embarrasement with agree and amp. Give very detailed responses on things she likes to do on mens laps etc. Turn her red in the face.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 07:12 AM
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Based off what he could change immediately. Hairstyle, slouching, clothes, forced smile. Camera is also too close up as well. Even for someone without muscles, good clothes and how to wear them as well as posture can be a big start. An alpha can still be an alpha wearing rags and being unkempt. Muscles will help as well. One thing I've learnt is mens fashion is also in the subtelites. Two of the same type of men can be wearing the same suit. But having either cleaner or more expensive shoes, cuf…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:07 AM
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Slightly disagree. It comes down more to player skill. A good dnd player can minmax. A great player can think through their character, be in their shoes and make choices basee off a written character. Like a paladin that will murder innocent goblin children because thats what there character would do. Not because its what they would do in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 09:16 PM
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Rogue/monk or Rogue/duelist was my combo for pathfinder and 5E (I should play other classes). But I like the highly agile style and mobility of those classes. I like to hit hard fast and then get out. But that said if shit goes down. I can stand toe to toe with the big bad while my team mates get the wounded to safety. While the utility and skills a rogue gets means I have a tool for nearly every situation. I'm also a red pill supporter if my name doesn't give me away. The only problem I have wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 09:06 PM
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Knew a woman that got a full sleeve tattoo of an owl and background to hide a really bad birthmark on her arm (the mark was rather large, ran the full lengh of her arm and look liked she had been burnt. It was rather red.) Little tattoos in simple location like shoulders for me are fine. Ones that can be easily concealed if need be. Areas that I personally think are bad are tramp stamps back of the neck, breast or tattoos near the groin. Face ones scream major issues as well. The design of the t…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:15 PM
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Personally it depends on the reason for tattoos. It is personal preference. If its tasteful then I don't see the issue with it. But do take it as a warning sign. Usually the type of tattoo or location can determine if a woman is worth dating.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 12:56 AM
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Go no contact for a few days or pull her aside and tell her she is being unreasonable. Even stop doing the nice things. You don't reward bad behavior. So the more she acts up. The more you step back.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:31 AM
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Well this is one of the times you reward her yourself and promptly. She did something rather big here that you approved off by her not accepting the money. So you should reward her. She needs to see all is ok for not taking the money. Give her comfort and or do something for her from you.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 03:11 AM
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Even if this guy is a troll. Personally he is doing it wrong if he is comparing himself against someone. Unless this guy is causing direct competition. You focus on yourself and forget everyone else.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:57 AM
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I dig it. After you've been working a project for a while. Its always nice to throw a bit of new paint onto it once you feel its complete.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 12:41 AM
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I think tattoos without a good meaning are warning signs, location and type of tattoo matter as well. Knew a woman who had the name and date of a dead family member tattoo on their shoulder blade, easy to hide, but if she wanted to show it she could without coming off trashy. There are exceptions to every rule, but your point is still very valid.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 12:28 PM
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Some women are better off not fucking as they can be either good wingwomen or support, if chasing girls or trying to improve and need a womans opinion on something. You just need to maintain either zero physical attraction from bith parties. Or keep them interested in you but not sleep with them.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:45 AM
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It really just comes down to the question. When is physical violence justified and to what extent? Self defense is self explainatory. If you get attacked you have a right to defend yourself (Execptions are of course involved but most will agree defending yourself from harm is ok). But in a non threating social setting? I personally don't agree with hitting someone as it shows a loss of frame. Slapping, well depends on lasting damage. Either way, in this social climate, whether its right or wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 07:22 AM
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And there are ways around that without walking around armed. Self defense classes are a good way to start. Being with friends or in well lit areas, generally the usual safety stuff that both men and women do to avoid getting attacked. And yes, legality does make it right or wrong. That is what laws are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:48 AM
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Call it what you will but that was what they where doing. Any sane person here knows its a terrble idea. You can hate the idea all you want. But they where not acting upon it and where not planning on harming anyone. Feminist on the other hand.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:11 AM
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You didn't read the part about it being illegal in my country. Australia, has a tough stance on being armed or violent. A knife is classed as a deadly weapon and in a similar category as a gun. There are a few execptions to the law relating to convenience. But self defense is not a vaild excuse. And walking around with a dangerous weapon is a serious offense with serious penetlies. I don't expect her to just sit around and get attacked. But she is not above the law in my country. There are other…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:05 AM
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Thats the problem. It's already pritty misrable. If feminist aren't constantly taking potshots at men in the frist world. We're getting blamed for the shit happening by the muslims, (IE. Germany/European refugee issue) arrest for manspreading on New York Trains. The failing for the legal system in cases for men vs women in false rape/devorce/child custody/physical violence. I mean shit. I've personally gotten into a altercation because I called a women out on walking around with a knife simply b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 02:12 AM
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This smells of a strawman.... but I'll bite before I go off and do other things. Its likely the angry ones that want women back to the 1920's standards. As for men that have embraced other RP views. I think you'll find its a case that most men see that women already have leniency/pussypass/protection from the law society or other requirements regarding the workforce. This comes back to alot of Red Pill believing most women don't have agency or responsibility regarding their actions and consequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:20 AM
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You nailed my taste of music on the head. I'll have to check them out I think my taste has been labeled as 'Punk rock' which is always emoish and about breakups. Really annoying. One of my other faves was Bring 'em Down by Lostprophets. Pity the lead singer was a child diddler though.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:30 AM
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Yes and no. I've never really like rap and always preferred rock. What pisses me off with rock and metal stuff is they lyrics usually consist about an old lover or basicly being hung up on one girl. I guess its the catch 22 I'm in.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:49 AM
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A few ways. If in a relationship. Just end it. Say you're not interested and move on. If someone is chasing you. Just show her beta personality types. Be needy, pay for things, be indecisive. Constantly talk abkit your day etc etc. Personally, just be straight up. If you're not interested. Just end it. Don't really need to explain it, give a vague response. And soft next. This will also help your reputation in a way if you do it right and keep a calm frame during her emotional ordeal.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:44 AM
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No I don't sorry. Only RP like book I got is The Art of War.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:12 AM
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Ite simple. Unsub from PPD. It vey rarely at all has anything useful on there. It is people arguing semantics and questioning every little detail about things you shouldn't have to worry about.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:02 AM
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Wow, fuck me, I'm on this list too, and I'm only a lurker that has been absorbing Red Pill for a few years. I mean, shit, I wouldn't even say I'm a notable RP'er
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 07:22 AM
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In Australia, we use it in everything we say.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 05:20 AM
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Yeah. Sleeping on it made me realize I was over thinking things. Still. Thanks for the replies.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 12:23 AM
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There is nothing more wrong here bar the fact the genders are reversed. He may of dumped her for his own reasons and this is her way of getting back at him. To be fair. The stuff she is saying about it being platonic is crap. But that should be standard RP knowledge by now.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:48 PM
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Coming from a friend I know that is a nurse himself. Alot of the older nursing staff actually prefer having a male nurse simply because men get shit done. Alot of the head nurses should be older women as well, so the amount of hamster and bullshit you'll have to deal with should be tolerable at least. Just make sure you speak clearly, firmly and at least loud enough so no one will claim credit from you and you'll be fine. Also, it doesn't really need to be said, but avoid shitting in your own ne…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:14 PM
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Because its based too much on an individuals perception and opinion. Where one man or woman can see their partner talking with another person as nothing more the everyday conversation, another might see it as flirting. It always depends on each and every individual situation and going into detail about EVERY possibility for every situation is usually a waste of time. You can cover a broad reach of each situation but not every tiny little detail. And talking about something for hours on end does …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 05:42 AM
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Checking the thread now, seems they deleted the post about the comments if the genders were swapped. I can at least respect the girl because she agreed she did wrong. But its sad to see how many people are trying to cover for her.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:54 AM
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I just researched this, its meant to be Satire. http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/thought-catalog-mistakenly-publishes-feminist-essay-article-1.1725651 Its it had me going. But its all bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:32 AM
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