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I completely disagree.
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:30 PM
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Read Married Attraction Plan and/or Married Man's Sex Life Primer. Has anything significant changed in her life our your life?
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:09 PM
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This could be a deniability thing. Perhaps she wanted to give you her number, but didn't want to feel like a cheating slut. This is sort of like a girl saying she will go back to your place with you but she isn't putting out... when we all know if a girl goes over to a dude's house in the middle of the night SOMETHING is likely to happen. She just doesn't want to feel cheap.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:12 AM
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what's ff? Was hoping someone would have a link to the program.
/r/RedPillBooks25/08/21 06:13 PM
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She is detestable based on her actions and her weight sure isn't helping things. How is ending up with her "winning?" This is a good reason to escape an awful situation. You'll be the only winner at the end of this.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:57 AM
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is this a joke?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:39 PM
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FREQUENTLY: writing fiction meditation reading lifting weights and moderate jogging LESS FREQUENT LATELY: playing guitar, bass, piano boardgaming martial arts (kung fu, jujitsu, classical fencing) (this has all been on the back burner for awhile)
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:53 PM
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In a sense. I mean, we are already dependent on getting adequate mineral intake and consuming food... this is just doing so in an intentional and targeted manner. Also, there is a world of difference between taking all the stuff you were before and a couple of gentle supplements. Do what feels right to you.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:22 PM
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most people are deficient in Mg and Zn so for ZMA you should be fine People drink green tea every day for their whole lives. L theanine should be fine in moderate doses. I'd do research if you are mega-dosing. Disclaimer: I am speaking generally here and any of my comments in this thread do not constitute medical advice.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:36 PM
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L theanine is an amino acid, naturally found in great abundance in green tea ZMA is a combination of zinc, magnesium and B6 that has synergistic effects with regards to sleep. They calm down the nervous system. It is as natural as any vitamin or mineral supplement.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:37 PM
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L theanine will help calm your racing thoughts ZMA will be calming and improve sleep quality Glycine improves sleep quality Melatonin is a hell of a lot better than sleeping pills and can help tell your body its time to sleep. I recommend the Onnit brand of sublingual spray. Beyond that, exercise and meditation are very helpful. You could try acupuncture to regulate your nervous system and brain activity.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:29 PM
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nothing wrong with a small ass. I'm an ass man who prefers small and round. If yours is flat, you're in luck as several months of exercise will grow your glutes and start to fill it out. For the most part, focus on what you can control. Make your body as good as you can with a reasonable amount of effort. Get good in bed, both for your man and for yourself. Most men will be very pleased with a thin girl enthusiastically looking after his needs and enjoying herself in the process.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 09:16 PM
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That is a defeatist attitude. On the one hand, statistically I've heard men are more likely to be struck by lightening than make a new friend as they get older. However, the best friends I've ever had were guys I met in my 30's. What do you like to do? There are usually groups centered around most activities you could join. More generally, fraternal organizations in some areas have lodges that skew towards younger guys. I might be worth looking into that or some sort of volunteering organization…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:02 AM
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Those interventions are great, but he needs to do something about the high levels of chronic stress related to his work. If he doesn't get that handled then any improvements will be minimal.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 03:39 AM
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One option would be to check out the "growyourclit" subreddit. You don't have to go too wild, but even a modest enhancement could really increase pleasure and make it easier to get off. A more modest option is to give him more foreplay. If you get him really worked up ahead of time 10 minutes could be plenty. It is also important that you TELL him that you are really learning to enjoy intimacy with him but you struggle after 10 minutes, so he doesn't need to hold back. He could be intentionally …
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 02:33 PM
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in my experience, the nagging increased once we had kids. Kids can really do a number on a woman's mental and physical health. Post partum depression/anxiety is a bitch. Sleep is never going to be as good with young children as it is without so then add sleep deprivation crankiness into the mix. Breastfeeding further mucks with hormones and most kids are so clingy that even the most loving and affectionate girls often just get touched out by the end of the day.
/r/askMRP03/06/21 11:15 PM
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Great you are actively working on getting in shape! That is something meaningful that you can control that benefits you, him, and your marriage. After skimming the comments, it seems pretty clear that the root of all this is chronic work stress. It sucks, but he needs a different job. It might take awhile to figure out, but this level of stress will make his remaining years miserable and send him to an early grave. If he has the time, he could try and learn some stress management techniques but …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 09:33 PM
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I would avoid just planning your day without his input. That will just cut him off more and increase the separation. I'll also assume you've put in some effort to be in shape and attractive. My first thought is to reflect on if you are nagging and/or correcting him all the time. This kills attraction and breeds resentment. If it is a really serious issue, talk about your concerns. Most things aren't that important and let him do things the way he wants. Make sure you aren't harboring resentment …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 09:28 PM
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If I'm understanding him correctly, all the ingredients are mixed up and he takes 4 caps a day. I'd take a day or two off and let your digestion normalize, then try taking just 1 cap a day for a couple days. If that is going fine, increase to two, etc...
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:54 AM
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Maca alone did this to me. Cramps and diarrhea both. I reduced dosage and slowly increased it over time and now tolerate it just fine.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:53 AM
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One thing to consider is that making a passion your career can suck the joy out of it. Sometimes it is better to find something you don't mind and find valuable to do for money so you can fund your passion separately.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:11 PM
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do you have room to jump rope? That would be even better.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:39 PM
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I'm 39 and in a similar boat. I buzzed it super short and like it well enough - definitely an improvement on the thinning covid-induced mop i had before. I'm doing nizoral and microneedling to keep what I have for awhile longer, but I have no doubts I'll end up smooth and bald in the end. I've read to many horror stories with blood pressure issues associated with long term rogaine use so I don't want to take that route personally. I figure all things being equal most dudes are at least a bit hig…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:00 AM
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Man, I wish someone had given me this advice 25 years ago. Well said.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:43 AM
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Get/stay in shape don't worry about women, focus figuring myself out get a solid career and wealth plan and start implementing it
/r/askTRP19/05/21 10:51 PM
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seriously it is the porn and masturbation. Cut the porn out forever, and cut out masturbation for at least 90 days. It may take that long for things to get back to normal
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:12 PM
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it depends on how we define average. One average is "half the population is more attractive than this dude and half the population is less attractive." Another average is "right in between attractive and not attractive." These are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 03:00 AM
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look at angion method, I've heard it helps on both fronts
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:07 AM
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if you're 5'11.75, just say you're 6 ft. close enough.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:24 PM
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I'm in the process of switching careers to nursing to make more money and have more career options. Another healthcare option would be radiologists - they make decent money and have less schooling required.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:22 PM
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The guy who wrote MMSLP is a nurse. If he can be alpha enough as a nurse, I'm sure you can be alpha enough as a surgeon.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:43 AM
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Wow good job! Be aware of a "flatline" effect that can happen to men in his situation. He may get very depressed, irritable, and limp for up to 90 days or so after stopping porn use as his brain rewires itself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 06:34 PM
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sooner or later the porn will break his brain and his dick. It is socially acceptable these days to watch a ton of porn and jack off all the time but that doesn't mean it is healthy or functional. That said, it is very addictive and I'm not sure how you could successfully change his behavior. He has to want to do that himself. That said, you could communicate in a non-nagging, non-judgemental way about how you are feeling and how you miss having great sex with him. Ultimately though, he has to w…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 06:30 PM
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I'm a married man w/ two children. The reality is that having babies changes a woman's body in unpredictable ways. It sounds like you are making a significant and sincere effort to be as attractive and healthy as reasonably possible under the circumstances. Keep it up, and make sure you are attending to your mental health which can get pretty wonky post partum. Keeping up the bj's is great for now but at some point you've gotta just accept that things are different and get back in that saddle. I…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 06:22 PM
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If I were in your situation, I'd be doing the following: 1) do everything in my power to get my head on straight and overcome self sabotaging behaviors 2) Learn dad's business inside and out so that when I take it over I know what I'm doing. 120k is good money and you'd have to be really passionate about something else to pass this up. 3) for the first few years, live cheaply and invest the remainder. You should be able to live on 40k a year easily in many places, leaving 80k per year to invest …
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:10 AM
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r/multiorgasmic If he's willing to do the work, you'll both benefit
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 02:37 AM
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I've noticed that my wife adopts my views frequently as well. Generally it is convenient but often she'll miss the nuance and take my view in a more extreme, more emotional direction.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:55 PM
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This is really good advice that I wish I'd encountered last week before submitting my resume. Regardless, thanks for posting this I hadn't encountered this idea elsewhere.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:49 AM
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Porn should just be avoided in general.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:19 PM
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I'm working through the NMMNG videos right now and this will be next. Thanks for doing them I find the context you give to be really helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/21 07:15 PM
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Would you be ok if you ended up with a daughter? Can't really guarantee sex of the baby afaik.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:15 PM
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I didn't know stamena included breathing techniques. Where are they? I just double checked in the app and all I see are kegel and reverse-kegel stuff.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:40 PM
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I've been using this actually. How long/what level did you start to notice improvement?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:42 AM
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I got that book back in college but never stuck with it. I guess I was always sorta skeptical. I'll give it another go.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:32 AM
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OYS #7 39 years old, 213.6 lbs, 5'11, Bench 300 lbs, Squat 267 lbs, HexDL 395 lbs, 21% bodyfat Married 5 years, wife 33 years old, together for 8, 2 and 7 year old girls BOOKS: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP READING: pook, nmmng videos Fitness: I'm continuing on alphadestiny's novice program and loving it. The bench variations are refreshing after stalling out on standard bench press and my squat is going up nicely without the problems I had previously. Hoping to get my lifts more balanced in retros…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 08:54 PM
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You must transcend the limitations of your bloodline. Do not neglect the cultivation o your serpent. You can break through this bottleneck! Check out /ajelqforyou and /angionmethod for the proper cultivation techniques.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:20 PM
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The whole Left/Right split is manufactured just to divide and control the population. They frame the issues in the ways that are beneficial to their corporate donors. Both political parties are screwed up.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:00 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation. I'll check it out. I already have some and am set up to compound it into a topical application for fewer sides but have too many reservations atm.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:52 PM
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It's ok to kiss as long as you have a latex dental dam separating your mouths. Everyone's saliva stays on their own side. You can kinda poke your tongues at each other too. If it gets expensive going through all those dental dams you can just mark your side of the latex sheet with a sharpy and reuse as needed. Can't catch anything from yourself afterall. If she's pure and not a hoe she'll appreciate your consideration.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:41 PM
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I keep going back and forth on finasteride. Taking anything that might break my dick doesn't sound like a good idea. I've also seen research indicating increased risk of dementia later in life associated with the decreased DHT levels - not to mention brain fog etc. I've been gradually thinning and am getting close to the point where I just shave it off and rock the intentionally bald look.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:02 PM
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OYS #6 Coming off a 14 day ban from last month which in retrospect makes sense. Trying to keep this focused more on myself. Physical Stats: 39 years old, 5’11, 217 lbs, ~25% bodyfat, 305 lb bench, 355 lb hex bar deadlift, 7 bodyweight pullups Relationship: together almost 8 years, 6.5 and 2.5 year old kids Books read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: listening to the sidebar videos analyzing each of the nmmng and wisnifg chapters, book of pook Career: No change here. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/21 12:34 AM
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It could take up to 90 days being completely porn free for things to start to normalize. It is really amazing how much that stuff can screw up a person's brain/dick.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:22 PM
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This is not uncommon in California but you may have to drive a bit to find a good match.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:40 PM
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There are some newer lodges that have a lot of young dudes. It depends on the area.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:29 PM
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OYS #5 Physical Stats: 39 years old, 5’11, 217 lbs, ~25% bodyfat, 305 lb bench, 355 lb hex bar deadlift, 7 bodyweight pullups Relationship: together almost 8 years, 6.5 and 2.5 year old kids Books read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG Way of the Superior Man, MAP Reading: listening to the sidebar videos analyzing each of the nmmng and wisnifg chapters Career: No change here. Still working part time while directing more energy to career transition. Getting very close to a 6 month break from academia which …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 04:56 AM
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Fucking boring is correct. It was gotten worse since coronavirus but it was fucking boring before that as well. Between work, spending some time with the kiddos, school, and keeping/getting the house in order, it feels like every day is a hamster wheel. It is easy to blame my wife for this, or her poorhealth/depression/anxiety, but as captain it falls on my shoulders. The one successful thing we've been doing again recently is going to nature reserves around us to "hike." It is pretty minimal bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/21 04:55 AM
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Every person whose life is improved by the redpill is inspiring. Thanks for posting. Front squats always feel off for me as well so I do zercher squats instead. I highly recommend giving them a try as an alternative, if able.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 09:24 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. I love ginseng - though too much makes me irritable - and I just received my order of citrulline malate (which converts to arginine in the body) so I appreciate those suggestions confirming I'm on the right track. I have always made excuses to skip cardio but I think I just need to start jogging a couple miles 2-3x a week. I suspect it would benefit my weight loss efforts as well. Its funny/sad I'm willing to do HIIT and weird dick exercises to avoid just fuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 04:46 AM
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OYS #4 Physical Stats: 39 years old, 5’11, 218 lbs, ~25% bodyfat, 305 lb bench, 355 lb hex bar deadlift, 7 bodyweight pullups Relationship: together almost 8 years, 6.5 and 2.5 year old kids Books read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG Way of the Superior Man Reading: MAP - almost done Career: No change here. Still working part time while directing more energy to career transition. Social: Got together with some other parents and chatted while kids played at the playground. Not much but something. Also tal…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 12:22 AM
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OYS #3 Physical Stats: 39 years old, 5’11, 218 lbs, ~25% bodyfat, 305 lb bench, 355 lb hex bar deadlift, 7 bodyweight pullups Relationship: together almost 8 years, 6.5 and 2.5 year old kids Books read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG Way of the Superior Man Reading: MAP - this is just what I need to be reading right now Career: No change here. Still working part time while directing more energy to career transition. Social: Made plans to get together with my brother (who lives locally) for a bit after th…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 09:27 PM
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OYS #2 Physical Stats: 39 years old, 5’11, 215 lbs, ~25% bodyfat, 305 lb bench, 355 lb hex bar deadlift, 7 bodyweight pullups Relationship: together almost 8 years, 6.5 and 2.5 year old kids Books read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG Way of the Superior Man (should have waited on this one) Reading: MAP - this is just what I need to be reading right now Career: No change here. Getting caught up in school, continuing to work part time due to COVID. On track to be making a lot more money in 18 months or so.…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 05:06 PM
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I could up it to 45 minutes pretty easily but my focus has been more on increasing frequency rather than duration so far. Currently doing an upper lower split. Most sets I'm shooting to stop 1 rep short of failure. My goal is to work up to 5-6 sessions per week. upper: Bench press: 1 cluster set of heavy doubles x5, + 3x8-10, 90 second rests Pullups: 5 x 6-12 90 second rests dumbell shoulder press/ cable row super set, 3x 6-10, 90 second rests curl/triceppressdown superset 3x8-15 60 second rests…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/21 05:35 PM
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OYS #1 Physical Stats: 39 years old, 5’11, 215 lbs, ~25% bodyfat, 305 lb bench, 355 lb hex bar deadlift, 7 bodyweight pullups Relationship: together almost 8 years, 6.5 and 2.5 year old kids Books read: NMMNG, MMSLP, Way of the Superior Man (should have waited on this one) Reading: WISNIFG, sidebar, and re-reading NMMNG, re-reading MMSLP Career: Had been self employed working in alternative healthcare making 50k/year. Realized that I wasn’t going to be able to ever reach my desired standard of l…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 10:18 PM
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OYS #1 1/12/2021 Stats: 29yo; 5’10” 215 lbs, estimate 25% bodyfat Lifts: Hex Deadlift= 345x2, Benchpress 230 x 10, Bodyweight Pullups x 7 (home gym) Relationship: Together for 7.5 years, married for 4. Previously married (to someone else) for 6 years without kids Kids: 2.5 and 6.5 year old, the oldest has minor special needs Read: NMMNG, Way of the Superior Man (really should have waited on this one) Reading: WISNIFG, Sidebar, MMSLP I’m finally getting things in gear and am committing to stop sp…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 10:26 PM
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