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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Is it time to split? | seeking_answersx | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 05:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | Told wife that I will be filing for divorce.It's all her manipulation. Don't fall for it. Like when she cheated, she wants her cake and eat it too. Move forward with the divorce. She will cheat again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 01:19 PM |
| 11 | A random surprise this morning.That means she is low on drug money and needs you close but isn't ready to admit she did anything wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/24 12:44 PM |
| 10 | She filed for divorce, but now wants to call it offExactly right! If you don't do it now, she will 100% don't later. It may be in 5/10 years but during that time she will be doing nothing but preparing. Financially, emotionally and sexually. You are doing this FOR your daughter. She deserves to see you and eventually your ex wife happy. You're also teaching her perseverance. It will 1000% suck for the next 6-8 months but you will both grow accustomed to the new normal and will be better for it. Pull the plug (as you said) and then spend 8 months… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/24 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Met with Ex After 7 MonthsNicely done brotha!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 09:55 PM |
| 15 | Wife asked me to move out this morning…DO NOT LEAVE!! and if you did go back now! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How did you tell your wife you want to separate when you have kids?Unfortunately no, there isn't. And it's not because of your soon to be ex. It's because her family and friends will now shit talk you, and tell her all the things she is "entitled" to. She will start to believe it and will make it ugly. Trust me. First "request" will be something in innocuous and small like, "I'm a lil short and need gas in my car". As soon as you say "no", she will start with, "you filed for divorce and that's why I need money, so you owe me" and it's downhill from there. Word … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What is the psychology behind a man tolerating a bad marriage?Its not psychology... They're called wedding vows!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 11:38 AM |
| 3 | STBX is fighting dirty in custody battle.The best thing that can happen is she shows those to the judge. They will see her as being petty and vindictive Judges are people. They know things can be taken out of context. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Spy apps for evidenceDoesn't matter if it's an at-fault state. You cannot spy on someone without their knowledge and permission and then use that in a court. Even in one party states where you can record without consent, you cannot spy on someone because there is no consenting party. Therefore inadmissable. Now, if you were to get a private detective who can tell you something is happening and you find it through avenues you have access to (bank accounts) that is very much admissible. Also, in TX, does infidelity qu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Spy apps for evidenceAlso, emotional affairs are incredibly subjective and have no bearing in a divorce proceeding. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Spy apps for evidenceThere is no way bringing that to the courts attention goes well for you. First, you're saying she is unfit b/c of mental health (first place you will look like the bad guy) but she is good when she is on meds (2nd, you have no proof that if she isn't with you she won't be on them regularly) Next, knowing she will be at poverty level will cause the judge to add alimony. Next, she has a place to go (her parents), it just isn't appealing but the court isn't worried about getting the kids into a Hil… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Spy apps for evidenceDid the judge or your attorney ask you for something specific? Even so, if it is obtained illegally, it is not admissible in the court. Just like evidence in a criminal case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Spy apps for evidenceMaybe on Android definitely not with iphone but what are you trying find out? Just being honest.. unfortunately, the judge or whomever doesn't care what she says unless you are going to press criminal charges. Imagine if the courts got involved in every martial argument presented in divorce court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Spy apps for evidenceNone of them really work. Don't waste your money | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 12:32 PM |
| 2 | She's not in a hurry to get divorced all of the suddenGreat plan if hers. She make you push the divorce forward, and now she can tell the kid that YOU wanted the divorce and left her with nothing. Now she can go to the court, cry and get what she has in the original deal and more. Plus, the kid is in her side and she gets to have you fund her new single lifestyle! She's been planning this for years brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it time to split?Yes provided bills were paid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it time to split?I have full control but I didn't even think to check her retirement account. She has given me total control and she is on a cash allowance each week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Is it time to split?Both. We have a joint savings but she does not have access to it. It's just for our mortgage. Her spending has been her own money | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 06:13 PM |
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