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I just got a job offer to my dream job!! I am so excited
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:10 PM
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I am definitely taking this time to focus on me and my daughter. She deserves better. I deserve better. I don’t want her thinking that he is what men should be. How can I raise a strong woman when I let him drag me down l.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:32 PM
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There haven’t really been any sad times. Last time I left (I know I went back. I was STUPID) I cried all the time. This time it was a weight immediately lifted. I know I made the right choice. Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:31 PM
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Let’s play 20 questions, I’ll go first. ..are you a virgin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:22 AM
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I don’t believe he is calling you a bitch. He is saying he isn’t a bitch in response to your “I like my guys gentle” so I’m guessing he’s saying he isn’t gentle? I’m not sure. But he is referring to himself as the bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:56 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:53 AM
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That is the problem with men. They don’t see an issue with them doing it because they’re more vIsUaL, but if their girlfriend/fiancé/wife did the same thing they’d be alll pissed off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:11 PM
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Same! What type of woman wants to go to a strip club when she’s going through a rough time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:17 PM
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He was just googling for how to terminate rights to avoid child support. I’m glad it wouldn’t be considered kidnapping. When I left last time he demanded to see her every weekend, and he demanded that be our custody agreement. I said no. And he trashed me to his family and friends saying I wasn’t letting him see his baby. But then he was also looking to terminate his rights as a father lol. My child is breastfed exclusively and uses me to sleep. He wouldn’t dare separate her. He couldn’t handle …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:57 AM
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Well he was looking for ways to get out of child support when I left for only a month. So it goes to show how good of a father he is when he’s not forced to be one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:22 AM
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I do have an amazing support system. I am just worried about him coming after my baby and trying to take her from me. It is rough. Finding this sub I realized fast that my partner is a serious LVM and I deserve a ton better. I’m too young to put up with this crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:21 AM
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Wow. This is a lot. I appreciate it. I will try to respond to all parts. Nothing is in my name, regarding house, bills, etc. I have my own phone plan (he tried to put me on his. I said no) Yes. He has all the power and he knows it. He drained my savings account when we moved in together making sure I had nothing left. Then he was gracious enough to pay my bills. As soon as I got my stimulus check he stopped paying my bills and I am draining that money as well. My baby is almost a year. I did wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:19 AM
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No he normally just gets the stuff I need. I’ll ask for it and then he gets it. It’s very humiliating. I feel like a child. No benefits. The state knows I live with him and his income is too high. They do it by household income. I was ineligible already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:50 PM
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I thought I HAD to tell him I was leaving because of the baby. Couldn’t he say I kidnapped her? Don’t I have to have contact with him because of the child? I know the last time I left he was googling ways to give up parental rights so he could get out of paying child support. I don’t know if he’d go through with it. I kind of hope he does, so he can be gone for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:29 PM
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No shared accounts. I have tried. He told me no. If I need stuff I have to ask and he says yes or no. I do fortunately have a HUGE support system of family and friends. There is no saving in secret. I have no access to money. The thing is, I furnished almost the whole house with my furniture that was hand me downs from my grandparents. It’s all valuable and I can’t just move it out without him knowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:26 PM
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We do live together. I am a SAHM because daycare in my area is more expensive than I would make working. So he decided it’s best I stay home. Which I agreed to because of more time with my baby. But now I realize I have no leg to stand on unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:05 PM
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Oh I don’t plan on dating for a very long time. I have no real interest in it right now. I just wanted to see if there was hope for a single mom in today’s world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:56 PM
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But he denies cheating. The only proof I have is my 2 negative tests during pregnancy, and the positive one in November. So, wouldn’t it be a huge game if he said she said?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:29 AM
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