seeuwhenip Archive

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1	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? Believe it or not it's easier in a relationship. You're definitely going to have deeper conversations and observe more with a woman you're with than by hooking up. You're both guarded when you're just in it for sex. You're both presenting the sexy and fun versions of yourselves and actively trying not to get attached. There is not one thing wrong with no strings attached sex if both parties are into it. If you are the sort of guy that comes naturally to then more power to you. Trying really hard…	/r/seduction	29/04/22 09:54 AM
2	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? Dude is telling you. Spend a lot of time and try real hard if you're going for volume. It's the "brute force" method to human relationships. Just try every combination until one works out or you get locked out lol. It's not precious. Or you develop a genuine understanding of women and how to communicate with them. Understanding is the actual password (or at least gives you like the first 8 characters. You still need to find the capital letter and symbol I guess).	/r/seduction	28/04/22 10:32 PM
2	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? Is one more person enough?	/r/seduction	28/04/22 08:07 PM
7	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? Yeah, in that case it's all ego and it'll never be enough. How many women do you think it would take? What would you learn, that you're desirable to multiple women? How many would be enough for you to be secure? These aren't rhetorical, they're actual literal questions to consider. If you're in a relationship you like, give it a go. If it doesn't work out you'll have more confidence having been in a relationship than you would have from "hoes".	/r/seduction	28/04/22 07:10 PM
3	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? Why would brief relationships with many women help you with a longer term relationship though? You really don't know a person until you've been with them for a while in an actual relationship (trust me, you and her both will still be putting on a bit of a show). "Hoe" implies easy sex without a relationship to me.	/r/seduction	28/04/22 07:03 PM
26	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? Noooooooo. You can have sex with one girl a 20 times and be just as well off as if you slept with 20 girls 1 time. I had a friend who was a bartender when I was in my early 20s and mentioned feeling a little insecure because he was always with these beautiful new girls. I had been seeing a girl for a few months and we had been all over each other and he was like "Dude, you've probably had more sex than I have this year just over this summer" and it did kinda make me think. You want to learn how …	/r/seduction	28/04/22 06:36 PM
3	People ghost me after I talk to them Sounds Iike you're doing what you need to be doing, which is practice. As long as you're putting her experience of the conversation first you'll get there. It helps not to fixate, there's never any shame in bailing on a conversation if it's not going easily, they will probably appreciate it. Not every interaction is supposed to end in a date, sometimes you're laying groundwork. You might see them again some day and there could be familiarity and positive vibes there.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 02:13 PM
8	People ghost me after I talk to them Mindfulness. Notice what you're doing and how they're responding. Build in opportunities and routes for the other person to "escape". People are a lot more comfortable with you if they feel the freedom to leave as they please, and it really is all about comfort. Also, talk less about yourself and ask more questions. You have to really care about what you're asking about too, only weird people are able to fake it convincingly and if you haven't had to figure that out already you're not that kind …	/r/seduction	24/04/22 01:48 PM
5	How do I become comfortable talking to people in general? It takes practice, in real life and not on the internet. There's no short cuts. Some people have a natural facility with it. Some people have to learn it. A big part of it is dropping the presumption that you're going to be seductive, charismatic or mysterious in your conversations. Be honest and interested, and try and take note of how you're being received. You need to learn the signs of when a woman is uncomfortable, or bored or wanting to be left alone because a lot of them are taught never …	/r/seduction	19/04/22 06:44 PM