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Outer Game sefan78/r/seduction20/07/25 08:34 AM
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I’m a 5’9 brown guy and my experience with white women has been way better than brown women. Grew up in Canada so I guess I can connect better with em.
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:51 AM
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The area I lived in at the time kinda sucked. Like my high school would have police there every other day for some incident. So they were everywhere. I’d just daygame at malls and the street and I had dating apps. Also I had a lot of friends from other schools so I’d meet through them.
/r/seduction01/12/25 12:57 AM
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ion blame u i like some of em too. i just don’t talk to them for my own safety 💀 idk my city is full of them. i also was kinda a cornball and wore fake jewellery and acted like i was gangster too. worked with them but not anyone else.
/r/seduction01/12/25 12:53 AM
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Last one i dated tried getting her cousin to jump me after it ended. Had one other that slashed my tires.
/r/seduction01/12/25 12:27 AM
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I got hit with a ‘you’re fucking ugly’ once. I was ugly tho at the time I ain’t gonna lie. This wasn’t a cold approach though. My most brutal cold approach the girl just walked away mid convo.
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:19 AM
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I hate these AI posts but daygame is great i’ll give you that
/r/seduction16/11/25 08:15 PM
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Fuck dating apps. Used it once during covid and never again.
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:23 AM
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I’m born in Canada but my Parents Pakistani and they also are pretty Canadian with the way they act. Not traditional at all which definitely played a role in who I mm today. Despite people saying white girls don’t go with brown guys, I have more luck with white girls than any other race. Seems to be because I just connect with them easier as I was raised in a similar household.
/r/seduction22/10/25 07:20 AM
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You’re going overboard but right message. I limit junk food and social media and I never watch porn like ever. But I listen to music all the time, and I occasionally do watch TV. Never an unhealthy amount but I do. And drinking alcohol is fine if in moderation too
/r/seduction20/10/25 12:29 AM
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I been considered attractive since high school. It definitely helped because women approached me but shit never took off til i gained confidence
/r/seduction01/10/25 02:49 AM
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I’ve been on dates pretty much every day of the week lol. But weekends are usually easier for people so most dates end up being on weekends
/r/seduction12/09/25 04:44 AM
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I agree that the environment is everything but it’s not incredibly hard to meet women as a gym-and-work guy. Personally, I’ve met a lot of women at the gym. Definitely harder than the club but not extremely.
/r/seduction05/09/25 09:31 PM
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Thanks bro. Respect to everyone here though fr. Anyone trying to get over their fears or just improving themselves in general has my respect.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:31 AM
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I only know one other guy who’s cold approached outside of me where I live.
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:34 AM
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Yeah man reps are key. I used to be petrified by the idea of approaching women back but now I find it relatively easy and I’m sure I’ll only get better with time.
/r/seduction24/08/25 06:46 AM
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I don’t think it’s rude. My friend met his current girlfriend by approaching at a restaurant.
/r/seduction23/07/25 02:52 AM
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Well in that case I had 3 fumbles just last night. Made eye contact with 3 girls who smiled at me and ian do shit 😭
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:51 PM
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Haha what u do? I be vibing sometimes girls come to me and it leads to something but I have no idea how to actually approach the girl.
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:40 AM
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When I started i would do like 5/week to get comfortable. Now, probably once every week or 2. Usually when I’m out, I try to be quick because I gotta lot on my plate right now. This is daygame though. I also go to clubs/bars at least every other week and usually I approach about 5 women.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:44 AM
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You definitely need both. Amount of times I’ve had a girl into me but then I fumbled in the past is insane. Worked on my game and my dating life has been much much better
/r/seduction11/07/25 07:07 AM
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This resonates so much with younger me
/r/seduction04/07/25 01:16 AM
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Agreed. Dating apps kinda suck for me. I get matches but not many dates and when I do, the dates are never the same as dates with women I’ve met through daygame or activities. Also to OP - as someone who also sucks at texting, id also recommend daygame as you don’t need to do as much texting to arrange a date.
/r/seduction03/07/25 12:31 AM
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I would never fuck with a woman that’s married and has a kid. If she has a boyfriend, maybe but anything past that is a no.
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:44 AM
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Yeah. I’m much more confident with approaching now, I’m better at talking to people in general and I’m better at flirting. And I’ve gotten a lot more dates with cold approach. I also feel my social skills in general improved a LOT.
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:06 AM
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Good on you for starting early. I started at 21 and I am glad I did because it’s definitely helped me with speaking to women and get out of my comfort zone.
/r/seduction24/05/25 06:35 AM
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One tip I have - a lot of people ask questions that they think are the right questions to ask. For example, at college, the amount of people that ask questions about shit like what major are you in and stuff like that is crazy. And let’s be real - most people aren’t interested in talking about what they’re studying. Me - I just ask questions that genuinely interest me. For instance, I’m a huge music guy and whenever I’m just in a conversation with someone, I’ll bring up music and ask them what t…
/r/seduction23/05/25 11:45 PM
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You look like you’re forcing a conversation
/r/seduction22/05/25 12:44 AM
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Bro I was vibing with a girl who I thought was my age at a bar. We had a dope conversation. At one point, I mentioned that I am here cuz I’m on semester break and she asked me how old I am. I said 22 and she hit me with the ‘I’m too old for you’. She was 25 so it wasn’t even that bad 😭
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:59 AM
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When I cold approach I don’t immediately open like that. Not saying it’s wrong but I just don’t. I usually start a conversation related to the place I’m at. For instance, at a bookstore, I may ask for book recommendations and segway that into a short conversation then ask for her number.
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:53 AM
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I honestly just message whenever I get time too. Could be a few hours after or a few days.
/r/seduction18/05/25 01:32 AM
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Bro I find it easier when I’m alone lol. When I daygame with friends, it feels awkward as hell cuz my friends are just there waiting for me while I be talking to the girl.
/r/seduction16/05/25 06:04 PM
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I’ve met some dope women at bars personally.
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:35 AM
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This has happened to me before. Talked to a girl who was dry as fuck but later found out she was shy and actually liked me. However, if a girl is dry with me, I don’t engage further. Ball is in their court.
/r/seduction05/05/25 12:27 AM
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Eh. I’ve gotten initial mixed signals and hot and cold stance but have still gotten hookups later. Agree on the rest though.
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:14 PM
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Just date other women so you have more options. Usually helps with me. Though one time I had bad oneitis where despite dating other women I was attached to one.
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:48 AM
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Hey if another guy gave me advice I’d appreciate it personally.
/r/seduction27/04/25 08:12 PM
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6 bro
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:39 AM
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I did that my first few times. Had to really push to do the approach. Honestly with me it just happens. You get tired of walking for a few hours and you just do it to do it.
/r/seduction24/04/25 07:35 PM
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Both hurt but I’d rather do the approach and take an L instead of just thinking of what could’ve been.
/r/seduction24/04/25 06:58 PM
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I saw a dude approach 2 women at the gym today. It was crowded but nobody cared.
/r/seduction21/04/25 10:08 PM
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There’s some merit to this. I’ve seen guys date less attractive women and vice versa. I personally used to be pretty average looking and my dating life was decent still. Though I don’t usually see guys who are absolutely unattractive date super attractive women. You need to at the very least put effort into your appearance. Stay relatively fit, get your hair cut, etc.
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:21 PM
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Please try it and report back lmfao
/r/seduction16/04/25 12:01 AM
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Dawg what
/r/seduction12/04/25 08:13 PM
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Started in grade 10. Didn’t consistently do it until college though. I’m 23 now
/r/seduction10/04/25 03:09 AM
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My city is known for people being to themselves and not wanting to talk to strangers. Still cold approach whenever I have an opportunity and have had decent results. I do wonder what life would be like if I lived somewhere else but I agree with you - gotta push through it.
/r/seduction09/04/25 09:36 AM
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Good shit dawg. Always better to try and fail than to not try at all
/r/seduction02/04/25 06:43 PM
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Good advice. I caught myself analyzing today at the mall lol and missed an approach. Saw another woman later in the day and learnt from that mistake
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:16 AM
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I mean I have a fat homie that’s been with multiple attractive women. He ain’t rich or anything. Just a fun personality and had confidence. It definitely limits your chances but you can get some women.
/r/seduction27/03/25 04:41 AM
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6-8 is too much for me. I like talking to like 3 at a time. It gets too stressful when you’re talking to too many
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:00 PM
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On god bro. Used to always think I was in love back in high school.
/r/seduction21/03/25 08:44 PM
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I dated one once. Never again.
/r/seduction17/03/25 01:31 AM
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I’m not that great looking and my dating life is pretty solid. I don’t think it’s looks (well obviously take care of yourself and look presentable). It’s moreso the ability to connect with people.
/r/seduction14/03/25 10:15 PM
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I just have a lot of hobbies and I’m always out doing something which I guess they find interesting.
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:07 AM
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I just say something like “idk I’m pretty cool I guess” in a joking way. Never take the question seriously.
/r/seduction10/03/25 03:38 AM
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Usually, I just ask a question based on the environment we’re in. For instance, at the mall, I’d just ask if she knows any good places to eat here nearby. That or I give a compliment.
/r/seduction05/03/25 11:20 PM
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Depends on your situation. Sometimes, they just aren’t interested but other times, for me at least, I’ve had women who are rather dry until they’ve talked to me for a little bit and then they open up and start asking questions as well. As for how to respond after a response, it’s very situational.
/r/seduction19/02/25 02:26 AM
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