sehecman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How to be caring but not come off as desperate?		sehecman	/r/seduction	05/03/17 01:23 AM

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3	Dating women & petting cats They had us in the first half, not gonna lie	/r/seduction	06/12/19 10:30 PM
1	The truth about dating women - A woman’s perspective Which is maybe true but stupid af. What if I just don’t get any joy out of being mean and don’t feel the need waste my time? Seriously, I find it hysterical that being a dick to others is basically a type of showing off in our society.	/r/seduction	06/12/19 10:17 PM
1	For those with oneitis, this video is for you. It's funny you should say that, I'm fairly certain where I went wrong was also waiting too long. I spent several weeks trying to "get ready" before finally asking her out. We went out a couple times and it was ok, but I think she'd already lost her initial interest. When she talked to me about this she literally said "I don't see you that way anymore. I did." So yeah, pretty gut wrenching stuff. I'm glad I went out with her, but easily wish I'd asked her out much sooner.	/r/seduction	19/07/17 02:18 PM
1	For those with oneitis, this video is for you. I don't know what her reason is but she's been pretty clear	/r/seduction	19/07/17 03:57 AM
1	For those with oneitis, this video is for you. I suppose. But it's just tough to believe I'll find someone who DOES feel the same and whose company I'll enjoy as much as I did hers. And I know that's generally an easy trap/fallacy, but this girl was hand-crafted to fit everything I look for. When people ask for my type it's weird now because I already happened to meet someone who fit it.	/r/seduction	19/07/17 12:15 AM
3	For those with oneitis, this video is for you. Yeah this... didn't help me much. With the girl I'm into I'm conscious of many of her flaws but my passion still keeps winning out. I think the tough reality for me might just be that she is best for me, but that she'll never feel the same.	/r/seduction	18/07/17 05:25 PM
25	Approach Sucker!!!! Approach!! On the contrary, I'm very socially anxious, and definitely made things awkward. When I first went to ask her out it was at the end of an event she'd participated in. She was still hanging around. I found her, babbled like an idiot, and danced around the question, like I was trying to get her to read my mind, because I was WAY too nervous to dive in. Clearly weirded out, she sort of was just like "well I need to go because my ride's about to leave" and walked out the building. For a moment I was …	/r/seduction	25/06/17 05:27 PM
42	Approach Sucker!!!! Approach!! It really is that simple sometimes. I was once TERRIFIED to ask this girl out because she seemed so perfect that I was already labeling her "out of my league". Luckily some friends encouraged me to go for it. So I spat the best game I could for awhile, but I was still too big a wuss to actually ask her out. I thought I was failing terribly. One night I finally said fuck it and just asked her out, and she to my total shock said yes. The lesson learned: just go after who you want. You never know i…	/r/seduction	25/06/17 03:54 AM
1	How to be caring but not come off as desperate? Got it. My game with her has been struggling since though. Any suggestions for turning it back around?	/r/seduction	05/03/17 05:06 PM
1	How to be caring but not come off as desperate? Thanks. Yeah I think I just got overly excited and leapt at what I felt was an opportunity to gain ground without even thinking about it. I need to stop pushing things aside "for her" I suppose and continue living my own life. Do you think much would be gained if I simply owned up to the stupidity of it?	/r/seduction	05/03/17 05:47 AM