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I mean hey, if you want consequence-free sex at the cost of tons of kids growing up with 0 support, go for it.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 06:27 AM
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That's an interesting point! Since making the post I also realized that the claim is actually that more women are *diagnosed* and *treated* with different mental/medial issues, so the actual number of men and women having these issues may be more proportionate in reality, it's just that male cases are not as well-documented.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 07:15 AM
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Your last sentence is key. I read a lot of people's experiences with terrible therapists who are either incompetent or just straight up malicious. Therapy should be criticized and shitty therapists need to be called out, but I feel a lot of people just wave their hand and disregard it completely without understanding the basics of what it's supposed to do and how it's supposed to work.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 01:08 PM
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You have a point, however Therapy isn't about "sitting down and sharing our problems", that's the no. 1 misconception about it, and unfortunately I see it all the time in this sub. You go to therapy so a professional can guide you through figuring out where the root of your emotional problems are and with that knowledge you then work together on finding solutions to those problems and become a happier, healthier (and often times better) person. Most people who perpetuate this "trauma dump" or "v…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 11:55 AM
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Again, playing the victim point competition with a healthy dose of whataboutism. Fuck this subreddit used to be so good.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 05:10 AM
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Indeed. It's ironic that feminists often claim how feminism benefits even men, even though feminism often doesn't even benefit women, but harms them. Althought I'm not sure why that's relevant? I wasn't arguing in favour of feminists or feminism.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 01:33 PM
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I wouldn't say men have "rights" that women don't (besides being topless in public as previously mentioned), but I'd concede there are certain societal norms that suck for women, eg. the rising demonization/ridicule of stay-at-home moms, viewing women as pickmes for talking about men's rights issues and while the whole "women get raped/attacked in public more than men" thing is bullshit, women do get their more than fair share of verbal sexual harassment in public that I don't think men do (keep…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:50 PM
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I’m not entirely sure it’s completely fixable, but I’m not an expert obviously. It also doesn’t sound very fair for women like that to use sick days, as obviously they get sick as well like all people.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 10:59 PM
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Honestly it’s not such a bad idea in theory, with some caveats. My best friend has period cramps so severe she literally can’t get out of bed. In that case, yeah, give them menstrual leave, provided they have a doctor’s note proving their menstrual pain is preventing them from being able to work. For women with mild or no menstrual pains, get your ass to work.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 05:35 PM
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Good job getting that innocent kid killed ya fuckin cunt
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/23 05:04 PM
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Very good points.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 09:13 PM
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Bro above is literally just pointing out an obvious truth. He’s not saying it’s good or bad to feel offended at any of these hypotheticals, he’s just saying that if you applied this same mentality to any other group than men, it would be frowned upon and deleted.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 09:01 AM
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So basically what you’re saying is never have kids? Because having kids literally requires you to put others first instead of yourself (or else you’re a shit parent). Also I’m happ this kind of lifestyle worked out for you, but I very much think you’re the minority and it’s terrible advice for most men to follow your example. There’s a reason the depressed zoomer-coomer and the incel are well-know online steretotypes. Because porn isn’t a relationship, and generally you can’t satisfy someone’s d…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 12:49 PM
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I’m really into K-pop personally, thanks to my fianceé.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:41 AM
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On a semi-related note I also hate how when women cheat, people seem to feel it reflects worse on the man than the woman. Like it’s not “man your wife/girlfriend is such a pos for cheating” when a woman cheats, it’s more “haha look at this loser his wife/girlfriend cheated on him, he must be poor/boring/have a small dick/whatever”
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:04 AM
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No. This is the one disagreement I have with the MRA community in general, I don’t think the solution is to let men opt out of the responsibility of creating a child because women have that privilege. The solution is to make women equally responsible.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 09:36 AM
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I agree With her Now apply the same to women and we’re golden.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 10:06 AM
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So when a woman hurts another woman that also doesn’t matter?
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:00 PM
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On a more positive note, this sounds like a good company.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 04:40 PM
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Yeah you’re probably right
/r/MensRights15/11/22 05:53 PM
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Modernwomaninrecovery is the name of the sub, her username is Ann3Nym.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:36 PM
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Women can opt out of motherhood in most first-world countries. Men can’t. I think the solution is to hold women equally responsible, rather than giving men a chance to exercise the same degree of irresponsibility. This is one of the few questions where I’m in disagreement with the majority of MRAs, who appear to be mostly pro-choice.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 09:43 AM
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I always say if you haven’t been called an incel online for an opinion of yours, you’re doing something wrong.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 08:48 AM
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I love how OP pretends this isn’t about anti-abortion vs pro-abortion and then goes on to write a pro-abortion post. To answer your question, no. Men already have the right to decide if they want a kid or not, as do women. They can decide to have or not have sex, and they can decide to use protection or not, in the vast majority of cases. The only caveat being that for men, I think making an exception for rape actually makes sense, since “financial abortion” doesn’t include murdering an innocent…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 10:53 AM
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I seem to recall that it’s actually true - strictly mathematically speaking. It’s not due to discrimination or sexism , but men generally do earn more money, don’t they?
/r/MensRights04/06/22 05:41 AM
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Considering the tone of the ending, I hardly believe either (or both) Flynn or Fincher intended the film to convey a pro-feminist message.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 09:56 AM
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Interesting take, two remarks I have 1. If I understood the film correctly, the child wasn’t that of Affleck’s character, but Neil Patrick Harris’. 2. Regarding your last paragraph, are you saying that what the wife in the film did is women’s nature in general, or just that if a woman is like that, they can’t hide it from other women?
/r/MensRights23/03/22 09:11 PM
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True, even though in some regards it’s not as bad as more woke countries like US and Australia, eg. we don’t diagnose our boys with ADHD for being energetic and medicate the shit out of them, feminism generally isn’t as prominent here as in other western countries.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 04:38 PM
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Is the link I provided in the post not adequate? Unfortunately I couldn't find it on the government website, but it is on the parliament's page, in Hungarian: https://www.parlament.hu/irom39/02627/02627.pdf
/r/MensRights11/01/22 04:29 PM
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The problem with that is that it would imply that women and men have certain inherent (or at least general) psychological differences, which is a notion feminists and the establishment don’t really like. (Since they base their goal of “equality of outcome” on the idea that women would make the same decisions and do the same things men would if they weren’t controlled by the patriarchy.)
/r/MensRights01/01/22 11:06 AM
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I read it comes from "based on itself" to express how people like that don't seek approval from others. Tbh I don't think anyone knows for sure lol
/r/MensRights14/12/21 03:10 PM
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Until some time ago, yeah. I thought that at least we could agree that men hurting people is bad and should be prevented in as many cases as possible. Turns out they don’t actually want that unless it involves female victims.
/r/MensRights12/12/21 07:31 PM
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Yes, that is why what the last quarter of my comment was about. I’m not radical, I do not believe it is nature or nurture exclusively, which is why I sad we need to make progress and encourage men to consider other options besides traditionally masculine jobs. That said, I still think that the majority (to which degree, whether 60% or 90% I have no idea) will still prefer fields that are very competitive, have high pay, object-oriented rather than people oriented, etc. But what matters is that s…
/r/MensRights07/12/21 11:50 AM
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Traditional gender roles aren’t inherently bad. I’m personally of the belief that even if we achieved a utopia where there are no societal expectations (which is of course impossible), gender roles would still exist because the majority of men actually do want to work high-paying, competitive jobs, and the majority of women actually do want to either be homemakers or work in fields like early education, healthcare or social work. Of course forcing these roles on people who would prefer to go in …
/r/MensRights06/12/21 11:04 AM
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I mean, I’d take endorsement of gender roles (which largely remain even in countries with high gender equality/“female empowerement”) over all-out feminism any day of the week.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 10:36 AM
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Considering that most of the western world’s countries have aging populations I’d say it is kind of a relevant issue, at least in Europe/North America.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 10:29 AM
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A man should have a say in abortion as long as he’s required to put any of his resources towards the child in the event that they’re born. The argument “the woman is the one giving birth, it’s her choice” isn’t valid in a lot of cases, because while the women has to give birth, the man has to financially (and otherwise) take care of the child. The unprotected sex was consensual, therefore both parties’ responsibility, and the consequences are also shared, although differently. Now if the man can…
/r/MensRights04/12/21 10:36 PM
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You are aware that not every country's military has soldiers go around third world countries raping and ravaging, right? Or are you one of those people that isn't aware there are other countries besides the USA?
/r/MensRights28/11/21 06:58 PM
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While I’d agree with other issues/questions, regarding the gender pay gap there were so many people taking it apart and destroying it that I think OP isn’t as biased, and is rather curious. Like an “I believe you, but can you provide sources so I can support my argument if I’m debating this? thing. Edit: it’s also possible that English isn’t OP’s first language, believe me we can word our shit in really weird ways.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 05:33 PM
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No one “created” them, it’s just that a lot of what civilization is today was created through wars (to acquire/keep land) and construction (to build towns/cities), both of which require physical strength, and since men are physically stronger, they were the ones who fought wars so their people could settle, as well as build the houses where people could live after they settled. Obviously these are just 2 examples and happened centuries/millenia ago, but you get the point. Even today, buildings a…
/r/MensRights28/11/21 04:20 PM
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There’s a reason “strong independent woman” is an expression, but “strong independent man” isn’t. Men are expected to be strong and independent, society depends on it.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 10:54 AM
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Is it really uncomfortable/makes you nervous about accusations and such?
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:37 AM
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Agreed, I definitely think more men working in FD fields will happen, and it is undeniable a positive for certain fields such as early education, because boys need more male father figures. Edit: undeniably
/r/MensRights23/11/21 09:17 PM
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Yeah that's basically my viewpoint as well.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 09:07 PM
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So I googled Whisper Network and supposedly it's an informational chain for women to spot and warn about sexual predators at the workplace? Most of the results were about a book written by Chandler Baker that's "examining the #MeToo movement", I'm not sure I found the information you were talking about. I will look up Blizzard as well though.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:42 PM
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So you think it's because men are viewed as having sexual ulterior motives for wanting to work in these fields? Interesting. Do you think they'd still be female-dominated if these stigmas weren't around?
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:35 PM
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Well, call me stupid or ignorant, but this comes as sort of a shock? I mean I knew that these things happen, but I didn't think they were so common that men are generally afraid of working with women.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:31 PM
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That would imply a requirement of self-control and forward-thinking, feminists aren’t fans of that when it comes to women.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 02:03 PM
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That's not an answer. I didn't ask why men don't work in these fields, I understand that that we have dispositions that make these kinds of jobs less appealing than they are for women, what my question relates to the fact that few women working in STEM is looked at as a problem that needs to be fixed, while there being equally or even fewer male nurses, social workers or kindergarten teachers isn't. Why do we want to make IT jobs more suitable/appealing to women, but we don't share the same atti…
/r/MensRights04/11/21 10:33 AM
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that's right I'm just fucking stupid I apologize
/r/MensRights29/10/21 08:49 PM
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I could understand preferences based on experience, but the ads they post literally have "xy apartment for rent for female students" or just simply "women" or "female"
/r/MensRights29/10/21 01:18 PM
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The article in question was supposed to be about domestic abuse in general (hence why the proportion of genders were discussed in it) but it spiralled into the usual “men majority of perps women vast majority of victims” talk without addressing the domestic abuse problems that mostly affect men and also cause the onstensibly low number of male victims.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 07:37 AM
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Thanks for the information and sources, unfortunately it's very hard to talk about subjects like this in my country (Hungary) because these types of things are rarely studied or examined, most people just go off police reports, which - as explained in one of the articles you linked - are biased.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 10:40 PM
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Wow, yes, masculine toxicity is indeed a much better way to refer to it, it’s such a simple change but it makes the term so much more accurate, thank you for this, it puts my views on the subject into a very concise term that isn’t the popular original phrase.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 01:07 PM
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He didn’t say it’s an “amazing” country, he just said it will soon be a stronger country.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 06:12 PM
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Hey there, Hungarian here, Fidesz is NOT far right or fascist, their main flaw isn’t radical policies (altho they do have some more radical ideas as of late) as much as blatant corruption and populistic methods. I’m in no way a supporter of Fidesz, but a lot of what you hear about them in international media is just exaggerated bullshit to demonize them instead of giving fair criticism. Edit: also the reason Fidesz has been in power for 10 years isn’t necessarily because most of the country is u…
/r/MensRights11/09/21 06:05 PM
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Yes, and that’s one of the most important aspects of the JP phenomenon. I’ve seen people claim he doesn’t say anything profound or any advice that’s not obvious, but that’s the point. He gives great advice to men who were never taught these basic things because of the fatherlessness epidemic. The fact that tens of millions of young men look up to a person whose advice and guidance is almost equivalent to what your dad is supposed to teach you speaks volumes about how men get screwed over by not …
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:53 AM
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Because that’s not how intelligence works.
/r/MensRights27/07/21 06:22 AM
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Then why do you feel the need to point out that “it’s men’s fault”? Like ok, I think the very fact that men are superior in terms of physical strength is enough for people to deduce that most violence against men occurs by the hands of other men. It doesn’t need to be said, and it’s something that feminists frequently bring up as if that invalidates the problem. Even if you don’t have the same intention, bringing it up does make it look like that.
/r/MensRights16/07/21 02:48 PM
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Source for the sex trafficking? I think saying that sex trafficking is so prevalent that it accounts for a staggering 80-20% (or at least in that ballpark) difference in terms of homelessness is very much a reach. Regarding war, I agree with you, however I think that point is meant to be seen in the context of how people treat war as a female issue, there are a lot of instances of people talking about war with the “men are dying, women most affected” attitude, which is obviously false and biased…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 02:44 PM
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How is that relevant though? This mentality treats the relationship of genders as if it’s a war between two teams. “Your team gets hurt more? Well it’s your team doing the hurting, so not our concern!” Shouldn’t we care about violence towards any gender regardless of our own, because we’re all humans?
/r/MensRights16/07/21 02:31 PM
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Yes, saying that Breaking Bad, Fight Club, Taxi Driver and Joker are more culturally significant than Thelma and Louise is definitely personal bias. What quantification you want? Let's start with Google searches Thelma and Louise gives you 24.2 million results, Breaking Bad 1.23 billion (with a B) Awards? Thelma and Louise: 50 nominations, 24 wins, Joker: 235 nominations, 118 wins (source: IMDB) Fight Club has an entire section on its wikipedia page dedicated to "cultural impact", and I assure y…
/r/MensRights02/07/21 04:25 PM
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I don't really see women idolizing Harley Quinn as much as identifying with her and feeling sorry for her (which is a whole other issue relating to the perception of women reflecting on attitudes towards fictional women)
/r/MensRights02/07/21 04:03 PM
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I never said idolization is the general attitude men have in regard to these characters, but it's borderline become a stereotype lately and it's a relatively common occurence if you go to for example any Breaking Bad community/forum. Sure, generally people have a negative view but there's probably a reason the "you missed the point by worshipping them" memes/conversations have a lot of characters in narratives where masculinity is a major theme.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 04:02 PM
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It probably does apply to both genders, but it's MUCH more prominent in men, this is apparent just based on the cultural significance of the stories I listed, not to mention the whole media-debacle about Joker's relation to "incels" around its release. Go to any online forum related to these works and you'll find numerous examples of people (again, mainly men) either idolizing these characters or talking about others idolizing them, it's a common conversation, which isn't surprising, since again…
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:32 PM
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Maybe, I'm still trying to figure out this question myself, and that's why I posted this here. I'm not trying to convince anybody as much as just wanting to hear different viewpoints, and since most of the characters mentioned in the post are in narratives dealing heavily with the theme of masculinity and its place in society, I thought it was relevant to the sub.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:22 PM
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Like I said, it was on a PPD post, I’m not saying this is my view on the issue, I was just interested in hearing what people on this sub thought.
/r/MensRights29/06/21 07:13 AM
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Yeah exactly, behaviour is a big part of it. Attraction isn’t just looks, how you act and talk also has a lot to do with it. Petite women don’t act, or sound like children, they just look more childish, but if you talk to them or spend time with them they still obviously feel like adults.
/r/MensRights18/06/21 02:30 PM
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All I’m saying is that men who jack off to Lolicon are weird af at best and probably have pedophilic tendencies at worst.
/r/MensRights18/06/21 02:20 PM
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While you are absolutely right, I don’t think that really matters in this context, the part of feminism that’s relevant for MRAs is how it pertains to men and men’s rights. While the core defining ideas of these different forms of feminism may differ, it is most definitely correct to claim that feminism generally is opposed to most goals of the Men’s Rights movement or at the very least heavily disagrees with its methods and proposed solutions. (Of course that statement isn’t the same as “all fe…
/r/MensRights12/06/21 07:12 PM
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Yup that’s why I said “sabotaging men”, shutting down conversations, lobbying/protesting for preventing changes that would benefit/help men or for changes that would further hurt men, that all constitues “sabotage”, but is not necessarily misandry.
/r/MensRights12/06/21 07:34 AM
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Yeah exactly, they like to pretend sabotaging men or sharing bigoted, misandrist opinions are the minority in feminism, not the norm, which it obviously is if you go to any self-described feminist community on the internet.
/r/MensRights12/06/21 07:14 AM
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I'm not sure I understand what you mean.
/r/MensRights12/06/21 06:59 AM
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Thank you very much for the thorough answer!!
/r/MensRights06/06/21 06:53 PM
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I apologize then for misunderstanding you, and pleasantly surprised at how unbiased you are in your assessment. I’m more right leaning (altho I wouldn’t go as far as to say right-wing) but I never viewed left wingers as stupid generally, there are radical nutcases on both sides. I’m not familiar with US higher education either but from what I’ve read or talked to people about, it seems to me that right-leaning people tend to have more appreciation for trades and other less education-demanding jo…
/r/MensRights06/06/21 10:40 AM
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Isn’t that maybe because academia itself is extremely left-leaning in almost all ways possible, at least in the US? So of course people who spend more time in that environment are going to adopt that worldview. Also thinking that IQ is the end all be all of intelligence is pretty short-sighted.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 08:52 AM
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I’m not saying that attractive guys can’t be creepy, I’m saying they seem to get more leeway than unattractive guys. But now that I think about it, I guess that seems to go both ways, you’re right. I stand corrected.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 07:43 PM
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Hardly. The way most feminists I talked to justify OnlyFans and shit like that is “well if women are gonna be sexualized they might as well profit from it” which again, translates to “I only dislike being sexualized if I don’t directly benefit from it”. It’s not “idc she should be able to do whatever she wants” it’s “you go girl, it’s empowering because you profit from the oppression you suffered” Another big problem they have is sexualizig fictional characters, when Scarlett Johansson poses nak…
/r/MensRights08/05/21 07:37 PM
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I think he’s trying to make the point that it’s perfectly reasonable to want to be sexualized sometimes while not wanting to be sexualized other times, which is fine, but my point is that feminists claim that sexualizing women generally is bad, but they constantly celebrate women who sexualize/objectify themselves.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 07:03 PM
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You’re using radical examples, while I’m using perfectly plausible ones. The same behaviour that’s creepy from an unattractive guy is “cute” from a hot guy, and I shouldn’t even mention that feminists constantly bitch about women in films/games being sexualized yet when women are treating their bodies as products it’s empowering. But sure, let’s talk in implausible examples
/r/MensRights08/05/21 05:48 PM
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Fair enough, I admit I maybe should have said “feminists” instead of women. Still, I feel most of the time it’s not just being sexualized that bothers them, it’s other factors.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 05:44 PM
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I mentioned the second one you stated.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 05:43 PM
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Yeah, why not objectify yourself for a quick buck, ruin your future, while exploiting lonely people through lies and deceit? I swear I'll never fucking understand some libertarians.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 07:37 PM
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“Dumb link” yeah okay
/r/MensRights16/01/21 10:41 PM
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The problem is that most people don’t distinguish respect as in admiration, recognition, etc. and respect as in basic human decency. Both definitions are valid, but it should always be specified which one is being discussed.
/r/MensRights06/01/21 09:51 PM
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I would be sexist if my statements applied to men in general, however, they only apply to men who feel disillusioned with society and choose to idolize these morally reprehensible characters. Nonetheless, I completely understand if I came across that way, because I didn’t put nearly enough effort into this post and the thoughts I expressed here. I will delete this post, because several people already pointed out the major flaws here (which I am genuinely grateful for) therefore I think its exist…
/r/MensRights02/11/20 07:01 AM
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I mean, I guess that’s fair? In no way was I claiming this is the definite explanation for this, I was just brainstorming and wanted to share my most logical possible explanation. Obviously it’s very hard to prove something like this with studies, I don’t see what that study would specifically be looking for. Maybe what experiences do men who idolize and think of them as good characters have? Nonetheless, you’re right, and I was aware I didn’t/can’t really prove my point, I was just looking for …
/r/MensRights01/11/20 08:10 AM
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Ah yes, because acknowledging that some people who happen to be male fit the description of “toxic”, that automatically means you’re a conformist. If you don’t think that characters like Walter White are toxic people, the problem is with you. “Toxic masculinity” as a concept is very misused in society, but that doesn’t mean males (just like females) can’t be called toxic. It’s kind of pathetic how defensive some people in this group get about this.
/r/MensRights01/11/20 08:02 AM
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Yeah, you’re right, I may have used the word “anti-hero” incorrectly. However, I’m not talking about interest or fascination. I find Arthur Fleck and Walter White interesting, I love them as fictional characters, I think they’re well-written. But I don’t idolize them or want to be like them. Some fucked up individuals genuinely want to be like these people, again, that’s not fascination or interest, that’s idolization, that’s viewing them as role-models, completely different thing.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 09:40 PM
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“Hey why do you think some men idolize and want to be like toxic male fictional characters?” “Well uh, women like toxic characters too!!!” You’re obviously not worth talking to, bye.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 09:35 PM
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Yeah, lets ignore that because it’s not the fucking discussion lmao The fact that you don’t understand that is baffling
/r/MensRights31/10/20 09:21 PM
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We’re talking about completely different things. Yes, women like bad boys. They don’t want to be like them. They want the bad boy to fuck them, they don’t look up to him and think “what would x do?” when making decisions. You’re talking about attraction, I’m talking about idolization.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 09:13 PM
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Any woman that can be influenced by a book by this woman to cut out all men from her life is not worth keeping in your life anyways.
/r/MensRights24/10/20 01:04 PM
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Yes, and the reason those complex social issues exist is “woman bad”. To be serious, I’d like to close this “discussion” with this: you made a generalization about half of the human population, your viewpoint is not something worth addressing seriously. Yet I did. I guess I’m the stupid one for wasting my time.
/r/MensRights23/10/20 01:55 PM
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Sir, this isn’t r/incel, please move along
/r/MensRights23/10/20 01:35 PM
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“Bro I’m not sexist bro all I’m saying is most women are vultures bro but I speak like ALL women are like that bro I’m just a realist bro” At least be honest about your biases. These guys looking for a relationship find it more often than you believe. It’s true that modern dating and marriage suck, but that’s also on men, not just women. People generally suck at relationships, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights23/10/20 12:09 PM
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It was written in my native langauge (Hungarian), but as soon as I translate it I will probably post it in this sub.
/r/MensRights04/09/20 05:36 PM
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Of course I'm not trying to downplay the importance of peers and general social attitude, the reason I'm talking about the importance of father figures is that unfortunately, a lot of boys are prevented from developing a relationship with their dads in the case of a divorce thanks to biased courts.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 06:10 AM
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That seems reasonable enough. Although with feminists using the word "men", it would kind of seem like they aren't specifically talking about upbringing? And I quite literally never heard your explanation, despite seeing "teach men not to rape" a gazillion times already on different platforms. My main problem with this issue is exactly this, feminists use this slogan, but they don't tend to offer a feasible solution. But alas, it seems we agree? I mean your comment talks about the importance of …
/r/MensRights22/07/20 05:47 AM
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First of all, “teaching consent” still sounds ludicruous. You don’t “teach” someone to not rape, the same way you don’t “teach” someone to not murder, to not steal, etc. These things are byproducts of healthy upbringings, not some form of training. As for which sex experiences SA more, the problem is that in the US, being made to penetrate doesn’t count as “rape”. Iirc that’s classified as “sexual assault”.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 05:33 AM
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Except this is literally a community dedicated to discussing men’s problems. Women’s issues - while real and just as important - are not a relevant topic here.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 10:12 AM
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I’m pretty sure your dad didn’t tell you that you’re a pussy for having emotions and mental problems. Also “opening up” DOES help, the problem is that what a lot of people mean by it is venting, which usually works for women but in most cases isn’t as effective for men. However, men still need to talk about their feelings and find solutions to their problems. You can be told to “man up” without being humiliated because of your emotions, and I’m sure this is what your dad did, or at least I hope …
/r/MensRights22/06/20 09:07 PM
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What about him?
/r/MensRights28/05/20 04:24 PM
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The video’s description also includes a section dedicated to “how women also aren’t believed” Why can’t we just discuss issues of men without bringing up women, or vice-versa?
/r/MensRights28/05/20 10:57 AM
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Eh, depends. Aesthetically, I’m sure there are people who look like Batman, but the point of him is that he’s possible, theoretically, but not in practise. I doubt any real human has his physical attributes, because save for Dick Grayson and maybe Damian Wayne, no normal human has his physical attributes even in DC.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 01:30 PM
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I mean, considering he’s going to wear a suit and the batsuit for most, if not all of the film, I think it’s fair to say his acting will be a lot more important than how jacked he is.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 06:33 AM
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Defining his career by Twilight is incredibly unfair. He’s been in countless other films since. Twilight’s been over for almost 10 years, get over it.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 06:11 AM
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I don't know how to feel about it tbh. On the one hand, I feel it's great that someone is taking a stand against unrealistic physical expectations for men. On the other, Batman should logically be jacked af. But I suppose if he's in the batsuit or wearing a usual suit for most of the movie it won't be that noticeable.
/r/MensRights13/05/20 08:40 PM
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Brush up on some studies about the effects of prematurely sexualizing and molesting children, please. You sound just as dumb as the cops from that South Park episode.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 06:29 AM
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It's fascinating that people really assume that if women are a minority in a certain field, it must be because they are discriminated against, not because they simply do not choose to work in that field.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 08:20 AM
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Not our problem. It's called being emphatic. Nonetheless, we don't know why these women think the way they do. Maybe they have been abused and had their life ruined by certain men. Maybe they're just brainwashed feminists. In either case, I think it's more sad than anything else.
/r/MensRights31/03/20 11:16 AM
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Nah, it’s just her mom. My gf is incredibly reasonable and supportive.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 03:45 PM
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I think International Men’s Day not being recognized by society is a societal issue concerning men. According to the sub’s description, that is also allowed here. I was just giving an example.
/r/MensRights20/03/20 03:44 PM
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