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Outer Game sel9/r/seduction30/05/22 03:49 PM
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sel9/r/seduction29/05/22 08:13 PM
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sel9/r/seduction31/05/22 06:35 PM
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sel9/r/seduction10/08/22 03:28 AM
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sel9/r/seduction16/05/22 05:42 PM
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Have yourself a drink and enjoy yourself. You’re at a bar with 3 hot girls. Play it cool, play it calm. This is a bar not a playground. Don’t try too hard in being “fun”
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:09 PM
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is this more of a askSeddit type of post? Genuinely don’t know.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:43 PM
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Touch Grass
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:09 AM
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Tried to sleep with her during make out, turned me down. The back and fourth convo was through text. I Wanted to get straight to the point. She’s beating around the bush telling me she just wants to go with the flow with no end goal of sleeping or relationship. Basically we’ll cross that bridge when we get there. Seems like a waste of time to me
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:42 AM
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And didn’t I say I showed her I wanted to sleep with her during the make-out and she turned me down? Ofc I was a lil upset, so I just said fuck it, im not wasting any more time. She’s gonna tell me right now what’s up
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:38 AM
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Listen tho. Gave her an ultimatum first time around after a few months. Told her, “if we don’t make out, im just gonna assume there’s other guys in the picture and decide if I wanna stay around or not after tonight.” Boom. Make out.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:36 AM
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Make out session in the car, on top of me, so of course. Hip movement and everything. Still surprised she turned it down
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:33 AM
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So it’s called being autistic by being bold and straight forward with ur intentions?
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:32 AM
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Depends on what your intention is. If you want a relationship, a little chat before planning the next date wouldn’t hurt. If all you want to do is hookup, keep it at scheduling the date and scheduling only. Leave the talking for later. As for how long you should wait, I wouldn’t think about it too much. Maybe the following day, giving it enough room to see if she contacts you first. If not, just be the Cool Guy and talk to her.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:18 PM
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at the beach at night? thought about it.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:07 PM
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definitely not a relationship. Im going in, and out, OP. IN AND OUT.
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:46 AM
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Talk to me OP. what do you think? in serious need of help
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:43 AM
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I did actually, Make out session in fact. Very smart with the little hints she throws at you, which is why I believe she’s interested in hooking up. Not only that but the vibe she gives off just shows that she’s down with anything you say. But there’s still an atmosphere of confusion due to a bit of her absence but not wanting to drop me completely, you know?
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:03 AM
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Recently no, doesn’t take initiative to contact me first, and neither do I show her that I’m bothered by it. At the same time, I don’t want to take my foot off the gas because if I do, then I might just lose for trying to act like “the prize”. So I just text her whenever I’m bored to make plans and she’s always happened to say yes
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:55 AM
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Im going through something similar myself. Only thing is, when I text her it’s usually to make plans, and she never hesitates to say yes. Don’t know if she wants to lead me into being friends with benefits because of the way we act we in person or if she wants to have me as “backup” like OP says. Help!!
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:46 PM
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You think so? as woman-like as it sounds, maybe just the lack of attention is what has me thinking about it. Maybe I’m in a good position
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:43 PM
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I would try and set up a date. Most girls get bored of the texting back and fourth for hours. Just be like, “I think we should go out sometime” and boom, you’ll have your answer.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:36 PM
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I just need a little help. That’s all.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:17 PM
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Letting women pursue? Im all for it. What’s wrong with it?
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:47 AM
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understandable. im only allowing the pursuing because based off of my understanding, women like doing it from time to time. so basically what you’re saying is the pursuing can still be going on, just don’t make it to the point where she’ll “catch on”. Having the laid back attitude won’t really make it seem so manipulative.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:46 AM
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She will be getting the attention she wants so bad if she tries hard enough, and i won’t make it easy. Reaching her goal knowing its deserving would feel much sweeter to her. Also, desperation and manipulation don’t go hand in hand. If me remaining distant and giving you crumbs here and there make you desperate to the point where you want to sleep with me, I think the desire had to have already been there. A hook up can be obtained anywhere with anyone. So why insist? Not because of manipulation…
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:26 AM
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You all are looking at it one sided. Making it seem as if I’m the villain because her desires / attraction for me have gone up while all I did was remain distant. You all don’t look at how she’d be able to be manipulative after hooking up with me. You would assume she’s doing it because shes afraid I will leave when in reality, she’s doing it to have me head over heels for her.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:52 PM
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I remain grounded with a pokerface. Told her we’d find out along the way if we take things serious or not
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:40 PM
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The chick wouldn’t do anything she hasn’t already thought about doing. The feeling of missing me would just make that desire sky rocket
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:38 PM
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Don’t understand how, We never dated, and neither did I hide anything in the time that we did talk. Her wanting to hook up would be a decision that she makes, not one that I tell her to make.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:15 PM
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Not really being manipulative. Just showing her not to take anything for granted. And if that comes with fear and having to do something for somebody to stay, then that’s her way of thinking.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:13 PM
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Funny thing is, I was the only honest one when it came to communication. Not receiving the same energy back was just a turn off and decided I didn’t want to do it anymore. Seems like now she regrets it and has something to prove.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:10 PM
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