seldor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Hardcase Newbie: Today I did my first sit-down approach!!!! Disengaging early will also give OP the confidence to approach next time.	/r/seduction	03/07/16 01:13 PM
–	Hardcase Newbie: Today I did my first sit-down approach!!!! Good on you for being quick to disengage when you saw it was pointless. Nothing worse than a creepy/thirsty dude telling himself he's being suave and confident when he really isn't welcome.	/r/seduction	03/07/16 12:15 PM
–	anyone daygame with a camera? any suggestions on what to do or how you would approach it? Sounds creepy to me. I don't know why any girl would allow a strange man to photograph her.	/r/seduction	01/07/16 09:42 AM
6	Early 30 year olds out there, how well do you do with younger women? It gets much easier. 30-35 year old men still enjoy the 25 year old lifestyle, they don't look particularly old, they have experience with sex, and they have their shit together. 25 year old women love that.	/r/seduction	01/07/16 12:03 AM
1	Learn to blurt out what's on your mind. "I really want to fuck you in your arsehole. Oh, I'm sorry, I don't know what came over me. I just blurt things out whenever I think them"	/r/seduction	29/06/16 09:44 AM
1	How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything... I realised this a few years ago after a break up. It wasn't a messy break up, but it was still shit. I'd been missing her really badly, and I was convinced that I just needed to see her one more time to feel better. She'd moved on, but she reluctantly agreed to come over for a coffee. She probably knew better, but I was insistent, so she came. There we were, sitting in my kitchen drinking coffee. It was kind of boring and kind of lame. Even though we were friendly and talking , it was clear that…	/r/seduction	29/06/16 06:40 AM
–	How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything... I made an edit.	/r/seduction	28/06/16 10:05 PM
–	How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything... Let yourself feel bad then. You said it's only been a month. That's not very long. There's nothing inherently bad about feeling bad, iykwim. It's normal, don't fight it. Accept that you currently feel bad, and that you will feel bad for a while, but understand that there will be an end to this feeling. Also, don't dwell on it.	/r/seduction	28/06/16 12:03 PM
–	How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything... My biggest piece of advice: remember that the girl you miss in your mind is not the same girl that exists in reality. You've literally created a perfect version of her in your mind, and you are comparing everything you'll ever do in your life to this perfect version. Of course you'll be sad if you've lost "the perfect girl". In reality though, she isn't perfect. She's just some girl in the world that stirred up these feelings in you. These feelings are yours, not hers. Think about it: how well d…	/r/seduction	28/06/16 11:55 AM
–	I'm not very witty. How do I react when a girl gives me a hard time, in a playful, flirty way? I'm pretty hung over right now and can't really think of an example, but "agree and amplify" is a standard seduction tactic when faced with shit tests like you describe. If you try the reddit search function or google, you'll probably find a better description than I can give.	/r/seduction	25/06/16 11:59 PM
1	I Trying to keep eye contact but it just feels so awkward for me Don't stare Make eye contact for just long enough that she knows it isn't an accident. You also need to make sure YOU are the one to break the eye contact, otherwise it comes off as creepy	/r/seduction	25/06/16 11:39 PM
–	Was this a typical flake, or did I just read too far into it and simply assumed she flaked? Sounds like she was never that into you.	/r/seduction	25/06/16 10:53 PM
–	I'm not very witty. How do I react when a girl gives me a hard time, in a playful, flirty way? Agree and amplify.	/r/seduction	25/06/16 10:45 PM
2	One Way to Build Sexual Tension Sure, but it would still be an awkward situation of it did happen.	/r/seduction	29/05/16 02:00 AM
–	One Way to Build Sexual Tension Whoa dude, have you had your Ritalin today?	/r/seduction	29/05/16 01:59 AM
–	One Way to Build Sexual Tension I can see this failing horribly with the wrong girl. "Kiss me at every red light" "No" "Oh. Ok then, that's cool" *Pulls up at red light. "So... Read any good books lately?"	/r/seduction	28/05/16 01:33 AM
1	How to end first dates if there's bad logistics? What exactly are you asking?	/r/seduction	25/05/16 11:25 PM
12	How do I cure oneitis of 7 years? The girl you love in your mind is not the same girl who exists in reality.	/r/seduction	25/05/16 12:00 AM
1	Got a girl's number. Now what? A few days before you want to meet up.	/r/seduction	21/05/16 05:48 AM
1	Got a girl's number. Now what? Text her to set up a date	/r/seduction	21/05/16 02:07 AM
1	Setting boundaries (Mark Manson's Models) Cringe. Dude, holy shit. Ok. First thing: girls have an entire life outside of you. She's been busy living her life, and isn't going to drop everything just for you. You're desperate, she's not. If she's interested, she'll reply. You can't make her desperate. Seriously, you can't get upset that she sees things differently to you. Second thing: if you don't like a situation, you are entitled to leave at any time. Don't like when a woman doesn't reply? Great, that means you don't like her and you …	/r/seduction	20/05/16 10:27 PM
1	Sometimes I get tired... Most women I meet are totally into what you are describing.	/r/seduction	20/05/16 10:16 PM
18	Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5? To add to that: Pottery class "friends of the hills/library/parks, etc " Art class Team sports Cooking class Through friends Wine tastings Book club Movie club Community gardens	/r/seduction	20/05/16 08:32 AM
1	How do i seduce married women? You have to offer them something exciting and challenging. Sometimes it can't be done.	/r/seduction	19/05/16 01:02 AM
3	Let's face an uncomfortable fact. Women will not fulfill us or fix our problems. Quality post	/r/seduction	17/05/16 12:02 AM
1	Best way to ask a girl out after making out with her at a party? "hey what are you doing later today? What to get some coffee?" Shit, she's clearly into you, dude. Just go for it.	/r/seduction	15/05/16 02:29 AM
1	How to keep a conversation going? Dude, best saying ever.	/r/seduction	14/05/16 04:39 PM
1	Do young women try to seduce "quality" males just for the sport? People do all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 01:41 AM
1	Do young women try to seduce "quality" males just for the sport? People do all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 01:41 AM
2	Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scary Women don't engage in "female pick-up" forums. That's just fact. They learn this stuff after being hit on a million times. Guys generally don't have the same experience, and so need to seek this information out.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 05:33 AM
1	Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scary Regardless, women don't seek out this kind of strategy.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 04:39 AM
1	Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scary Women kind of do it as a natural thing. It could be that she is genuinely not interested. Guys do it to appear uninterested and aloof.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 03:29 AM
5	Do you keep having amazing sets that look like they're down, but never hear from them again? 2 subtle techniques I learned from women (who did it on me) that skyrocketed my game... I swear to you it's so simple its scary Can confirm this works. Don't answer ALL of her questions, particularly in texts. This will create the condition where she wants to ask you more questions, and know more about you. It constantly leaves her wanting your attention. This gives you an advantage, as you can better direct the conversations by rewarding the questions you want to answer (by answering them). Great post OP.	/r/seduction	09/05/16 11:47 AM
2	What the fuck is wrong with me ...? Im not in a rush to date again or anything So what's the concern? I smoke weed and I feel like that it has been adding to my anxiety for the past year Very possible. Sometimes long term effects of drugs can take years to develop. Try quitting and see if it helps. This is really getting to my head I think it is ALL in your head. Seriously, you shouldn't let it be bothering you. You don't have to be switched on and bringing your A game all day everyday. You are allowed to relax and not give a fuck…	/r/seduction	08/05/16 12:10 PM
1	If you’re asking women for dating advice, you’re probably making a mistake. Here’s why. That's actually great advice. You must have misunderstood it. Be your self means be genuine. Be real. Actually be interesting in reality. Don't make shit up that you can't follow through with. Share yourself with someone. It doesn't mean that you areh irresistible as you are, it means "don't be fake". Love will find you when you stop looking means that finding a partner shouldn't be your only interest in life. Girls are interested in guys who have shit going on	/r/seduction	05/05/16 09:59 PM
1	Will women ever care how men think? Your thinking is really confusing and kind of empty. Women solve problems all the damn time. Women also care what men think, and get frustrated when they can't "figure it out".	/r/seduction	05/05/16 11:16 AM
3	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. That's less than 3 hot girls a day. Even though I don't go out in public everyday, I definitely have days where I see 20 times that many hot girls.	/r/seduction	30/04/16 11:06 AM
1	Gaining weight/muscle makes a huge difference? Almost every post I see about general advice says the same things: be confident. lift weights. dress well.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 10:09 PM
1	Gaining weight/muscle makes a huge difference? Don't say female. Say women or girls.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 03:25 PM
1	Gaining weight/muscle makes a huge difference? That's pretty common advice on this sub	/r/seduction	28/04/16 03:24 PM
3	How come a woman doesn't seem to obsess over a guy as much a guy would obsess over a women? Are you fucking kidding? I take it you've never had an annoying girlfriend before.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 11:30 AM
1	How do I stop my self-confidence from being tied to my success with women? Step 1: don't place your happiness in the actions of other people.	/r/seduction	24/04/16 09:48 PM
1	The friendzone is when 2 people have a vagina What the fuck are you on about? I'm just saying, a woman not wanting to pursue a sexual relationship with you is not any reason to interpret her actions as malicious. Seriously, no one owes you shit. If you feel unjustly treated because someone doesn't find you attractive, it's no one's fault but your own. Man up and accept that friendship isn't a bad thing. That's not white knighting. That's just not acting like an oblivious and entitled dick. Plus, making friends with attractive women is in yo…	/r/seduction	22/03/16 04:29 AM
1	The friendzone is when 2 people have a vagina Just because they don't want you fuck you doesn't mean they think less of you. Like I said, no one puts you in the friendzone except yourself. No girl is obligated to fuck you just because you like them. They'll only think less of you if you act like an entitled douche.	/r/seduction	21/03/16 09:47 PM
1	"tonight Im suppppperrrr tired, but definitely another night." How to respond? Just ask her what day she's free.	/r/seduction	20/03/16 08:12 AM
2	Some women are straight up rotten. Don't think you're home safe just because your shoes are across her doorframe Sounds like you fucked up or were otherwise too pushy. Pretty obvious you were unwelcome. You should have left it earlier.	/r/seduction	20/03/16 05:33 AM
1	Older guys of seddit that have had a lot of success in the game, how much money do you actually spend on women? Is it possible to do it without spending a dime on her? You do NOT need to spend a lot of money on girls. I am 33, and incredibly successful with women. I haven't gone without sex for longer than a few weeks years, and I regularly have more than 2 girls going at the same time. I am dirt poor. I am at uni (yes, at 33), on government benefits, am a single dad, and live modestly. My car is 12 years old. My clothes come from Target and places like Walmart. I can't afford to go to fancy restaurants or clubs. Money has never been an issue. I actually do no…	/r/seduction	12/02/16 09:58 PM
1	You can get PTSD from a psychologically abusive relationship What does this have to do with this sub?	/r/seduction	10/02/16 12:26 AM
1	Connecting with a girl Talk to her. Ask her questions, and listen to the answers. Relate these answers to your own experience. When the time is right, communicate these experiences and how you feel about them, drawing on the connection to hers to illustrate your point.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 12:52 PM
9	Not all girls like alphas There is no such thing as "alpha" or "beta", and thinking there is will only hold you back. A woman will like you if you develop a bond with her. Seduction should be a way for you to identity what it takes to forge that bond, and use it to satiate your goals (which should be mutual with her btw). Of course, these goals are usually sexual, which is fine, but you should be honest about that. If you start trying to be "alpha", you'll just lose yourself, and become judgemental of people you see as "…	/r/seduction	29/05/15 12:42 PM
1	I want to change my life. Going into college next year. I find talking to old people to be really good practice here. Old people fucking love polite chit chat with strangers. You never want to offend old people, so you don't say stupid stuff. You might say boring stuff, but that's not the same. Old people are also pretty respectful with strangers as well, so you won't feel like an idiot if the conversation dies. Finally, you probably don't care about really becoming their friend, so it removes outcome dependence from the conversation. You can just be…	/r/seduction	18/03/15 10:22 PM
10	I want to change my life. Going into college next year. Good advice in your second paragraph. Other stuff I would add for a newbie: make eye contact with people, hold it a little longer with hot girls. Smile at people. Talk to strangers in a general chit chat way when appropriate, then when that stranger is a hot girl, keep the conversation going a little while longer. Don't feel you always have to hit on girls; sometimes its nice to just engage temporarily without thinking about doing anything more.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 09:39 AM