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/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:36 PM
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It means you take TikTok video and make it your opinion. It's not actually your opinion, otherwise you wouldn't need TikTok video. And all your posts are like this. One of your previous posts was that men should ask explicit consent for every fucking thing, even holding hands. Now you say men shouldn't stop after rejection. You're just a rage bait troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:52 PM
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Yeah, I am better person than someone who thinks with their genitals 24/7 Sure about that? You're 24/7 online to shit on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:31 AM
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Most people reproduce. Most people's stories aren't personal to me. But if I take care of a child from a criminal who broke up with the mother during pregnancy and didn't pay child support, instead chose to change both first and last names. And taking care is up to providing both billing address for school and physical housing at another address. Then it's personal. Point is, it's not my child, I will never reproduce due to socioeconomic reasons. You do realize the redpill belief basically says …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:37 PM
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Purple pill because I acknowledge that it's redpillers who reproduce. Based on stories of people I know IRL or know their PII. But I don't have the power to execute redpill for myself and so I am morally right. The flair isn't bluepill because thanks to bluepill I am a self-proclaimed male victim of reproductive right violations and I don't have a Stockholm syndrome to use bluepill flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:59 AM
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Also, I have a post listing the ways the redpill doesnt believe in male accountability. The biggest one is the actions of male criminals and blaming it on single moms Then I have yet another reason not to go redpill. Not because bluepill works. For me it doesn't. My worst experience with women is that I a male victim of SA, CSA, DV. All thanks to bluepill. But at least I am morally right. For example SA i only joked I was going to do this to her in return but didn't actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:38 AM
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No it doesn't. Where? From my experience it's women who lack self-control and accountability. My first intimate experience with girls was their SA towards me. Took me 17 years to realize it was SA in the first place. And talking about accountability, women who friendzone guys and in a friendzone tell how they have sex with other guys, essentially telling friend he isn't worth having sex with, ruining his dating prospects, I think yeah such women should be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:05 AM
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After death of that asshole criminal she wanted me so clearly women don't want just asshole criminals. And even if talking about the fact she reproduced with him, it's because she is a piece of shit woman herself. Low IQ alcoholic psychopath whom in the end I refused giving my genes to. I think we can agree men should know better and don't think about women who want asshole criminals, because why would a man want such a woman? Good man doesn't want a woman who wants bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:46 PM
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who have no sense of accountability? So women? Based on my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:25 PM
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I don't get upset my bullies get more female attention. I just notice it and use it when telling people not to ask me where children. So let's talk about "Nice guy finish last" in the context of reproduction, incuding female bullies. In my teens I was in a long distance friendzone with a girls 600 miles away. I fell in love with her and allowed her to exploit severe power imbalance. She did CSA on me (online peer-to-peer sexual abuse) and essentially told me I am not worth having sex with. Over …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:09 PM
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Nice guy isn't just the one who commits less felonies, but also who doesn't use his criminality as a mating strategy. Instead he does the opposite — no relationship until his criminality is over, he makes sure he is officially clean and the feds aren't after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:59 PM
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If they can raise them then they can afford them. By constantly begging people for money? No thanks, I will pass. Plenty of people in the world poorer than you are still having children Hmm, I live at work and sleep on the floor on a yoga mat, but I guess my phone and laptop mean higher net worth than some parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:41 PM
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Having ≠ being able to afford. They rely on social welfare and are under constant financial stress. I've witnessed this IRL. So I would say it's poor and stupid people who reproduce. In the example I've witnessed, mother doesn't even believe Americans were on the moon. So maybe I am poor, but at least I am not going to reproduce with my zero home ownership, no savings, and 300 credit score.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:52 PM
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People can afford to have more children Sure about that? but they'd prefer to spend their money on other things I for example am not able. For example have never been on vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:43 PM
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I am male and have also never been to prom. Thanks to female classmate with the biggest tits, HS album doesn't even contain my pic, lacking in both group and individual, despite me not being homeschooled and I was in school on the day of taking pics. Talking about BJs, I was in a friendzone with a girl who told me over a phone how she sucked some guy's dick and then "you're probably very bad opinion of me right now". I assured her it's fine. And fantasized about her sucking mine. But she left me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:21 AM
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In my teens instead of love I got • SA • CSA • hypersexuality (my own) • hypersexuality in female peer • peer pressure to have sex since 13 • sexual orientation disorder • classmate bullying me to the point some female classmates didn't even talk to me and he then laughed at me and didn't understand why I thought girls won't have sex with me, then criticized me for not wanting children. As OP mentioned BJs, that classmate ruined my confidence then told me he can convince a woman to suck my dick.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:51 AM
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Stop projecting. Men aren't women. All the blue pill has got me is CSA (online peer-to-peer sexual abuse), guilt, peer pressure to have sex, thinking I am not worth having sex with, etc. It took me 15 years to understand that it's about her. And after what she had done there was a what I would call "red pill woman" whose approach was asking me whether I want to have sex. Due to trauma I didn't even believe and didn't understand. It took me 13 years to consider the possibility that woman was into…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:19 AM
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Not sure if sarcasm or not. She didn't stop when I told her I am 29 (back then) and even attempted lying about her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:47 AM
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Female uni classmate's approach was asking me whether I want to have sex. I effectively rejected her (sex-related psychological trauma baggage). But after that I remember her advances during all the 4 years we studied together. Highly doubt she wanted just to fuck. She was even asking how much property I had. It actually confims your post that at age 18 her behaviour wasn't peak wisdom, asking me such question in a class full of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:33 AM
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Yes. I have recently realized I am not romantic at all, I don't even buy flowers. What does my romantic attraction mean to a woman? Effectively nothing. Especially if in the end I make her miserable. So because I am not a husband material, women better not have sex with me, unless explicitly stated no LTR, only ONS/FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:17 AM
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public transit That's where a minor approached me first. Gotta be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:30 AM
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Girls' sexual attraction towards me started at age 13, one year before I even started thinking about having sex with girls and not just masturbating to porn. They would approach me first, try to dance with me, hug me and take pics. Though it doesn't mean I started having sex at that age. 7 years later I was a 20-year-old kissless virgin. So it's not imagining things, OP told you his experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:23 AM
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From my anecdotal experience, girls matured faster than me and it even traumatized me. Yes, it's about sex. Not sure the details would be appropriate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:52 AM
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I agree that it's also about criminals but because they choose to be criminals and also date women at the same time. For example if I were a criminal, dating wouldn't be on my mind. I would even reject women in case of them approaching me. So that she doesn't witness her boyfriend arrested, boyfriend prosecuted, boyfriend put in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:13 PM
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When I was 12 i started chatting with a girl 600 miles away and we eventually became long distance childhood best friends. My father told me to marry her. To which I don't even disagree, I fell in love with her, told her to move to my city and joked about her taking my last name. But the feelings weren't mutual, my face wasn't her taste sex-wise. Counting from the day we started chatting, 5 years later I terminated all communication without any explanation (you can google why empaths leave witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:18 PM
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My parents made me a childhater at age 10, neglected my mental health, helicopter parented me, advocated for me not having sexual experience as a minor, and deny autism. So… this is it. No grandchildren. Ever. Because to younger sibling they have done even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:08 PM
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Checks out. Could have probably had sex around age 14 if not autism, bullying, poor mental health, etc. This is what actually prevented teenage pregnancy, not condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:34 AM
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Just pay for it. You dont have to say anything other than it was a one night stand, which technically it is. Especially if she isn't a sex worker per se but still charges money for hookups. I once even gave only half the money and we still kissed on the lips. Not a sex worker because she told me all her PII (not fake). Not my first, though. Just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:30 AM
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From OP's comment: If I could give advice to young men at there. Don't fuckign WAIT for experience with women, the sooner, the better. Regarding "the sooner, the better", I remember girls' sexual attraction towards me at age 13, for example. Up to sexual assault. If I did on them what they did, it would be immediate reprimand from administration. But as they were girls, they faced zero consequences. Not only that, but boys even criticized me for not following girls' advances and demanded that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:00 AM
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I remember girls showing interest in me at age 13 during summer between 7th and 8th grade. Back then I freaked out and rejected them brutally. In the Simpsons remember the scene from S13E04 "A Hunka Hunka Burns in Love" with Waylon Smithers and strippers? It's used as a meme but incorrectly. He would never have the urge to touch those women, but as a meme it's used as if the strippers tempted him. My situation as a meme. So yeah, it's decided as early as middle school. And I ruined it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:52 AM
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Deleted anyway https://www.businessinsider.com/app-store-remove-viral-tea-dating-apps-over-privacy-violations-2025-10
/r/MensRights23/10/25 04:07 PM
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The oldest GenZ are in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:38 AM
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Incorrect. You just proved that for men nothing matters. Would fuck a TV if horny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:37 AM
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I am not an incel even by these standards, but this is ridiculous. Having girlfriends means romantic success, which includes sexual success. But not the other way around — sexual success doesn't necessarily mean romantic success. https://np.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/16tscm2/cmv_i_think_inceldom_is_simply_an_extension_of/k2hxw17/ Oversimplification: You reduce inceldom to a simple desire for sex, ignoring the emotional and psychological aspects of it. Incels often long for companionship,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:33 AM
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Yes, for example female peer who friendzoned me and called her best friend. She is fucked up beyond belief. On her social media she had pics of her hugging and even kissing with a man. Did I have pics of myself hugging, let alone kissing? No, never ever. And compared to her I am not that fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:15 PM
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If you're going to say that women can pursue men (which happened to me), you need to clarify that it happens much less frequently. True. You don't think it happens every time, actively, or like many women do: "I looked at him for 10 seconds and blinked three times. He should see that signal and come to me!" True. But I suck at reading even more obvious signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:24 AM
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After all, women don't pursue men, so all a man has to do to remain romantically alone is simply exist. Not true from my experience. But there are still points left to disagree with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:10 AM
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Or he is a victim of bullying, CSA survivor, victim of mental health negligence. in HS classmate who bullied me the most, then laughed and didn't understand why I thought women weren't going to have sex with me. The level of hypocrisy and gaslighting. I am like, you're the main reason why I think so. every girl in this guy's life has found him undesirable Not true. in HS a 10/10 girl (i've got her pic) approached me first and asked for my number, we then texted on social media. And in uni female…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:50 AM
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in HS female classmate offered to choose clothes for me. Her words: "you don't want to stay a virgin, right?". It's virgin shaming in disguise at age 17. Then at uni what I thought was being laughed at for being a vigrin at age 17 and it took me 13 years to understand she was probably into me but her way to flirt ended up being bullying instead. Then at age 20 being told at the end of the date "if you continue behaving like this, you will stay a virgin". After I've done nothing wrong. Not to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:14 PM
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Being an amazing person got me CSA, bullying, sexual development ruined, being laughed at, and so on. Yeah,sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:46 PM
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Alright I was talking about myself. Disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:47 PM
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Maybe. Just speaking from experience as a former 20-year-old kissless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:34 PM
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Finally! Opinion which makes sense. And I think higher n count women are the best because more chance she will have sex with me. Virgin woman? If she didn't have sex with anyone, why would she have sex with me? Virgin men are trash. They are virgins due to negative traits, not positive. Unattractive, doesn't shower, doesn't know how to make a woman be interested in him, mental illness… And if he is a victim of bullying and/or a CSA survivor and that's why he is a virgin, once again he is a virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:07 PM
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To your first paragraph I would like to add CSA prevention, including peer-to-peer sexual abuse. And age inappropriate behaviour. Someone sending 10-year-old me closeup pics of vaginas and telling me to masturbate? Not OK. 13-year-old girl publicly announcing what kind of boys she wants to be fucked by? Not OK. Peer pressure to have sex at age 13 once again not OK. If school touches such topics at age 17, students would just laugh. Damage has already been done. *— Daughter, you are 17 already, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:06 AM
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Absolutely unfactual. Where are you getting this information? Your life experience? Then sheesh, sorry, dude. From my anecdotal experience, women are very sexual beings. I could even discuss sex with a female uni classmate who had a boyfriend but she liked my profile pic. For example information about who I had sex with. But understanding boundaries was very important. One wrong piece of information disclosed and she would reply "go fuck yourself". Nevertheless she never called me a creep or som…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:02 PM
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wdym? I didn't send her my nudes. She told me to forward to her the screenshot from the scammer who allegedly sent her my nudes. I don't send her my nudes on purpose. I even cropped out the nude part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:15 PM
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I am a victim of sextorsion. Scammer made up false accusation that I sent nudes to his 14-year-old sister and now he will forward them to my acquaintances if I don't pay ransom. Of course I didn't pay and he started sending and I got screenshots that he sent it to her. And that's why I contacted her. And you know what? She replied she didn't receive anything. Weird. And tells me to send it to her (the screenshot). Effectively meaning woman who wanted to have sex with me now demands my nudes lmao…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:06 AM
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Of course I am moving on. She is married and has a child. I have no business with her. Except this year I already contacted her on social media to tell something very important. Not relevant to her behaviour 13 years ago whatsoever. So as I have already contacted her, might as well wish her Happy New Year, explain myself and tell her that this year I forgive her. The problem was another woman. New year, new me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:59 PM
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And asking someone if they want to have sex with you is extremely blunt and clear She didn't explicitly ask about sex with her: — Psst, ever had sex? — What? — I said ever had sex? — No — Wanna? Then my awkward answer which she laughed at. Point is, could be interpreted as asking whether I want to have sex in general. Now I understand how stupid it sounds, you don't need to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:51 PM
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I don't disagree. But before that she publicly asked uni classmates for my pic, so one classmate took our group photo, scanned it, cropped just my face and uploaded, once again publicly on social media. At that time I didn't think about myself as attractive, so told myself "I will not forgive this".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:49 PM
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If you're asking about the one who was into me, it was in uni. She was 18 and I was 17. So me technically underage, but where I live age of consent is 16 and 1 year age gap is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:37 PM
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That same year, just months before, I had been in contact with a woman who friendzoned me but still discussed sex. Because of this, my poor brain thought being asked whether I want to have sex doesn't mean anything. I automatically thought "ah shit here we go again". A woman who asked me whether I want to have sex, I also liked her looks-wise. But thought of her personality as a bully instead. Because of another woman who damaged my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:19 PM
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Someone straight up asked you if you wanted to have sex In class full of people and outside of relationship? Yes. But I didn't understand. and you’re resentful that no one told you that this person was attracted to you? No, do not make stuff up. I am really wondering how it works. Because in the past every time I told I was allegedly laughed at for being a virgin at age 17, nobody pointed out she was into me. It's just a fact, no resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:13 PM
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No, she didn't know it. Have you read the next sentence? That I acknowledged CSA only 13 years later. I didn't realize she was into me because of repressed CSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:10 PM
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she attempted to stroke my dick with her foot That's SA, at least technically. Talking about technicality, in my case an adult woman asked an underage CSA survivor whether he wants to have sex and then even laughed at his answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:55 PM
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I guess. Don't ask a man his salary, a woman her weight, a CSA survivor whether wants to have sex. So I realized after acknowledging CSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:34 AM
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No, it took me 13 years to consider the possibility she was into me. Liking all my profile pics and asking whether I want to have sex. Not a single soul told me before I figured it out myself. How does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:54 AM
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in HS female classmate offered to choose clothes for me so that I am not a virgin (her words). Effectively saying "change your style and women will fuck you". To be fair, that's on top of conventional attractiveness and 6'2" height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:37 PM
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just cause I couldn't make eye contact Talking about that girl from my initial comment, I would stare directly into her eyes and she and her friends would laugh and semi-jokingly say they are scared. I was practicing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:42 AM
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I think it's cultural. And your social circle. in Russia, for example, I've been pretty successful with women platonically. Maybe my Reddit comment history says otherwise, but it's because of focusing on bad memories. And interpretation. For example girl from uni, who liked my profile pic, rejecting going to see a movie with me platonically because she has a boyfriend. Unfortunate, but at least not because she doesn't like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:08 AM
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Literally can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:02 PM
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Women make men happy. But men aren't entitled to women. It's that simple. Would I be happy if someone gave me $3k gaming PC for free? Absolutely. Am I entitled to it? Guess. Dangerous men are the problem, not women who don't give them sex. Imagine becoming violent because I wasn't given $3k gaming PC. Such entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:48 AM
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My parents are even worse. They advocated for me not having sexual experience as a minor and deny autism. Guess who will never have grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:01 PM
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I do find it weird when 11 12, 13, 14, 15 year Olds date bc lmao God damn why exactly are they dating? What's the rush? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13d30be/cmv_missing_out_on_teen_love_as_a_male_can_be/ Also, if at age 13 girls are interested in you, but you think they are making fun of you and so you push them away, it's a sign of poor mental health and will result in more problems down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:00 AM
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But making kids? That entirely relies on external whims. Some people are permasoftlocked out of this whole meta regardless of their will. Yeah, the concept of having children is absolutely alien to me. Seeing children makes me think "hmm, interesting…" But I don't have such thoughts about taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:17 PM
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30M "No pussy no work" is actually about emotional connection with a woman for whom a man does self-improvement. For example me at age 14. It's been this way for centuries. Incels just made it about sexual intercourse and employment. 9.5 years ago I abandoned my hobby projects and deliberately chose minimum wage job. 7 years before nopussynowork.org (BTW doesn't open for me right now, hmm…). But that was due to poor mental health and no reimbursement, not because I thought I did so much, where i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:22 PM
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my Gen X parents (i am a late millennial) are such helicopter, it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:20 PM
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A female friend actually compared my face (school photo) to Avril Lavigne somehow. I am reading your comment thinking about it and actually read "Avril Lavigne", no way!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:49 AM
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Yes. For example asking people for my pic and outside of a relationship asking me in person whether I want to have sex. Back then because of my mental health I thought she was making fun of me. It took me 13 years to consider the possibility she wanted to have sex with me. Now imagine if I approached a woman in such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:22 AM
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I also don't understand. I am a man who wants casual sex because the first thing I do is giving her an orgasm and I don't slut shame. For example I had an ONS where giving her orgasms was the first thing I did and she came 4 times in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:11 AM
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Not just the aging population. If I am not entitled to sex, then you aren't entitled to me creating future adults who would provide water, food, electricity, build roads and buildings, etc. Point of view I saw on Reddit and liked it. By the time my antinatalism views aren't as strong, I am financially ruined and it makes zero sense to put children into this. I was told in Discord PMs to "impregnate a woman" (direct quote). In my reply to him, childfree and antinatalism mentioned zero times. Inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:28 PM
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You accidentally a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:00 AM
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Напишите еще раз, но по-русски Рожают от тех, с кем трахаются. Что непонятного? А не от тех, кого френдзонят и во френдзоне кидают на деньги, например. Или рассказывают, как кому-то на улице сосала. И называет своим лучшим другом, за то что всё это выслушивает и никогда не осуждает. Соответственно откуда дети? Уж краснотаблеточник должен понимать, что не со всеми занимаются сексом. Иначе не понадобилась бы красная таблетка в принципе.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:17 AM
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Non-parents should be judged as less-than. How is it going to work? Please answer considering the sub we are in where women tell men they aren't entitled to sex. "Just masturbate, you aren't entitled to women's bodies". "Non-parents should be judged" implies they have sex in the first place. If you claim you're RP, you should understand this isn't necessarily true, especially today. In the paragraph above by "have sex" I mean non-transactional of course. You don't reproduce with a woman who char…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:10 AM
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Of course. If it was your first relationship. Your teens is when you're allowed to make mistakes otherwise unforgivable in adulthood. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13d30be/cmv_missing_out_on_teen_love_as_a_male_can_be/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:05 AM
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Among the problems is missing out on teen love. In my teens my kindness got me only friendzone and she would tell me in details how she has sex with someone else. Mature women having sex with me before age 16 would be rape. So first sex only at age 20 with an older woman 18 years age gap. So yes, mature women appreciate kind men. But it doesn't erase missing out on teen love and the implications are very negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:26 AM
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"I don't discriminate" sure sounds better than "somebody please fuck me already" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:19 AM
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Odesa I am actually from Russia but proper English writing is from Ukrainian, not Russian. You can be sure anyone from Ukraine, especially since 2022, would correct you. I am here to give them a BSOD lol. But congrats on a 21yo chick. I would kill for that. Have never gone to a party though. Instead at age 17 probably there were women who wanted to have sex with me, and it took me 13 years to understand why I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:06 AM
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Suppose a guy gets friendzoned and in a friendzone at best is scammed money from and at worst is told in details how she has sex with someone else. Or how he goes on a date and after talking nothing about sex and not touching her, at the end of the date is told "virgin" as an insult. That's a future incel content consumer. Tell me how a woman is a victim and how such women shouldn't be held accountable. As has already been written in another reply to you, most incels have had some negative exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:51 PM
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Truly autistic lol. Sorry if rude, wasn't my intention. Point is even if you can satisfy a woman, after you talk to her she says "fuck off virgin", thus not giving you a chance at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:02 AM
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Yes, in case of autism for example, you can give a woman 5 orgasms in a row but you two will not get there if by the way you talk she concludes there is no connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:51 AM
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Sometimes it's mental health. For example thinking you're unattractive while actually being conventionally attractive, just not everyone's taste. And for example girl at uni who I thought was making fun of me, only 13 years later I considered the possibility maybe she wanted to have sex with me. Otherwise why would she like all my profile pics? Before that asking whether I want to have sex, for context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:31 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1munli4/autism_is_the_biggest_barrier_to_dating_and/n9oop6z I know a guy on the spectrum who is good-looking. He gets countless matches and likes on apps but often when the woman tells him after a date that there "was no connection" […]
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:57 AM
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When you're nobody and have nothing to lose, sure. Like I am. At least I can't see your profile history because it's set NSFW by Reddit. But all of China knows what I comment, and even upvote/downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:22 PM
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I wonder what percentage when it actually was NT woman abusive towards ND man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:17 PM
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Horrible. Throwing and kicking stuff, for example. Because of him, the idea of being a father disgusts me and for my children I don't want such a grandpa. Even a sex worker asked me about my "parents' grandchildren" (direct quote) during our first time, but my answer is "definitely not".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:37 PM
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Point was about money. Beer and Netflix are relativile cheap. I have never been on vacation and don't even have a passport after the last one expired with zero stamps so there was no reason to renew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:54 PM
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have a nice trip to the ocean Otherwise good point. Not this one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:35 PM
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You never see sexually successful people arguing that being tall = immoral Hmm… I am 6'2" and my personality is for example spending $100 out of pocket on SSD, RAM, Windows license key, and a mouse for a 15-year-old laptop belonging to people who had threatened to call the police on me because I steal expired food. And they don't even know I spent money. Them giving me a cake is already more than I expected. But I can understand how sexual frustration made him go into "die motherfuckers die" mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:00 PM
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Yes, instead I should manipulate women into having non-transactional sex with me. Not social trash at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:38 PM
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Disagree on "undesirable". With my looks women like me first on dating apps but I still pay for sex. Escorts are wonderful people, if chosen wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:35 PM
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in Russia women who don't consider themselves prostitutes still charge money for hookups with attractive guys who know how to make a woman cum, thus prostituting themselves. Sometimes it's even a guy who sets the price. For example there is a woman who posted an ad that she will fuck for money. I contacted her and set the price. We met in the evening and going down on her was the first sexual thing we did. She said she came 4 times in a row. Also said didn't cum for more than half a year prior a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:50 AM
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Opening up about childhood trauma to a woman you've known for 10 years and in the end hearing "go to your zoophile and her mother". Before that two people had already warned me not to open up or else it will be used against me. They were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:20 AM
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We cant eat their pussy Speak for yourself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:19 AM
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5 men at once is an unfortunate life lesson for them, regardless of her consent. My situation was the opposite, she arrived for a threesome but the second guy didn't arrive. So I got explicit consent for a twosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:31 AM
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So what? It's legal. Do whatever you want. Jesus Christ… No wonder you have to change accounts for privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:07 PM
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The law is clear having sex with minors is legal in my country. And with my looks the lie about my age would be totally believable. So by your logic… Nvm Aren't there young women who actually want to have sex with much older men? I see hundreds of them on dating apps. And to them you don't need to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:39 AM
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Yes, for example a blowjob girl who texts me first so that I arrive and give her money, she says she likes sucking dick. I also know her social media profile — she is a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:52 AM
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Fat women fetish exists. Have you ever heard about fat men fetish? There are fat escorts. Have you ever seen fat male escorts? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1l7sn1h/men_and_women_mostly_have_similar_dating_struggles/mwz9yla/ Should I post the name of the dozens of subreddits where men masturbate to fat women? From slightly chubby to holy shit that poor bed? Women are the one having extremely narrow standards when it comes to physique. When people hear about fat women fetish, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:07 AM
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I never has a regular woman ask me to wear a condom. Not even once. Don't you think that it's because it's expected? I for example once gave a woman pack of condoms in which we were going to have sex. My idea, she said nothing about condoms prior. Which is exactly the reason why I always wear one. If you always wear one, as you should, maybe that's why women didn't need to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:19 AM
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Yes, for example I had a female friend who wasn't attracted to my face but it wasn't disgust if she kissed on the cheek. Feminine in question is that she compared my face to Avril Lavigne lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:08 AM
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Stalking wouldn't be possible without prior knowledge of PII, that was his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:15 AM
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Doxing done to a woman is for example finding out her social media and texting her that you want to have sex with her once again. It's stalking. Just because she had sex once doesn't mean she wants more. In my country it is said "sex is not an excuse to know each other". In his case doxing done to him is women finding out his address and arriving to destroy his property, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:50 PM
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No. Hookups usually know only each other's first names and that's not enough info to stalk someone. I've had history of a hookup telling me all her PII but this is unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:22 PM
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Doxing in this context is finding out personally identifiable information about an individual. When he says "you've doxed yourself", it means you yourself told a woman your PII.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:05 PM
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— Dad, what does safe sex mean? — Son, it's when a woman know neither your last name nor your address On a serious note, in this context he meant women using knowledge of his PII to do bad things to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:56 PM
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For example I don't but how much of identity are we talking about? Woman I've lost count how many times we met, I told her my last name several times and even joked she will soon know my SSN. But that's not normal for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:22 PM
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You are supposed to get married when you're an adult. Pair off, date, get engaged, marriage, and kids. A man who is told by his parents and colleagues (who are married with children) not to marry, is going to listen to them, not you. You have no power. And do I know such a man? Of course I know him. He is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:48 AM
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Hmm… If she will never know, can't argue with that. But for example that minor, half a year later I discovered who she is. That piece of shit attempted lying about her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:23 AM
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Don't you think lying about your age to have sex with a younger woman can actually be seen as a predator? For example at age 30 i was told I look 18. So when a minor wanted to have sex with me when I was 29, it makes sense. She was 17 and to her I looked like a minor myself. I told her I am 29 and in the end we didn't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:39 AM
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Text through SMS, i mean traditional SS7 SMS through carrier, not RCS, not iMessage. So that law enforcement has clear text that she arrived specifically for sex. BTW verbal consent is not necessarily enthusiastic. Verbal consent can be "OK fine go ahead". Where is enthusiasm? In case anyone asks no, she didn't go to the police. It would be false rape allegations so it would be her committing a crime. Maybe she was even kinda happy. But certainly not happy happy. My advice is get enthusiastic co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:19 AM
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At age 14 i was introduced to two girls, one thin and one chubby. I liked chubby more. Anyway, all the time I was near them, my dick was hard. I literally touched them zero times. I thought once about placing my hand on one girl's shoulder, but in the end didn't. Non-zero possibility I would ejaculate. It's all about self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:52 AM
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You have a point. I watch porn since age 9 and when for example girls were showing signs of their sexual attraction towards me at age 13, i thought they were making fun of me. It can be seen as being mocked for hypersexuality, similar to bullying nerds by exposing their hobbies to them. Then porn consumption continues due to problems with women. But maybe shouldn't have started watching porn so young in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:05 AM
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wdym? That's not chubby at all. Talking about me, yes, I have fat women fetish. Fucked a landwhale once even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:49 PM
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No, I am not asexual. I am a sex addict. Sex addiction is an incredibly deteriorating illness that, in many cases, stems from traumatic incidents that happened during the years of development. My message to the attacker: And now it's coming clear That I don't need you here And in this world around me I'm glad you disappeared
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:42 PM
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Yes. I am 30 and last week I went on a date which ended with a kiss on the lips then on the same day had unprotected sex with another woman and came inside. The first woman actually told me to come to her place to fuck (non-transactional), it's me who decided taking things slowly. Today I was invited once again to get my dick sucked by a woman right in front of her husband. They said it's because of how much I cum. I asked about vaginal (in a condom, of course) and they replied no, only blowjob.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:00 PM
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Thin, tall, long hair, model face, etc. Also 100% Russian. I think the main reason why we didn't even go on a date was because at that time I was in love with short and overweight half-Lebanese. I fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:34 PM
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in HS a 10/10 girl approached me first and asked for my number. Guess where did we chat? That's right, social media! I was stoked because I definitely didn't think I am attractive back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:16 PM
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Yeah what do they mean a 30yo didn't have social media growing up? I am 30 and I had. BTW three girls from uni liked one or two of my profile pics and one even liked all three of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:55 PM
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I think only if both neurotypical and conventinally attractive. What I was told: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1luspli/women_preach_confidence_but_get_annoyed_when/n20kfbb/ If you are actually conventionally attractive but you are stuck on this forum, you are probably autistic. The redpill won't help you. They will teach you to build a false persona that is fundamentally not compatible with the actual you. This will cause more issues down the road, especially after you get mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:09 AM
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Now I suggest autistic guys to look for autists who are into sex like them instead of joining TRP. Yep, that works. When I try into relationship, all I get is "virgin" as an insult, like at the end of my first dating attempt. But when it's specifically about sex, it just works. BTW i had a female friend in my teens who discussed sex with me despite friendzoning me, so I suspect female autism. In the end it was for the best we didn't have sex, but your point still stands "autistic guys to look fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:58 AM
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They would get even more pussy if they were hot but also kind. Are you sure? Women sometimes even approach me first but kindness has never gotten me pussy. Or maybe I am an autist like I am told here and women hate autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:30 AM
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I respect women but they don't even respect me back, let alone give me sex. Instead they use "virgin" as an insult, tell me how they don't believe shy grownups, ghost me, and so on. I get non-transactional sex by kinda disrespecting women instead (but still consensual and under no intoxication). And in the majority of cases don't even give them a single orgasm. You know which women orgasm from my oral? Sex workers and other women who have transactional sex with me. Forcefully presenting bad boy …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:26 AM
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But why? Talking about college, freshman year and at age 17 a girl even asked me whether I want to have sex. We weren't in a relationship even. She also liked all my profile pics on social media, other 3 girls liked one or two. I fucked up and didn't have sex with any girl in college whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:46 AM
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I've been testing condoms since age 14, unfortunately at that time just testing because I fucked up. In HS some girls really liked me, for example 10/10 girl asking for my number, but in the end we didn't have sex (my fault).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:38 AM
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The latter. Emotional and psychological gratification that comes from feeling desired and validated by my partner’s attraction to me. Am male. Women cumming from my oral, it's wonderful. Unfortunately my female peers missed it in my teens due to my alleged autism. So all I had is hear a classmate bragging how he ate a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:06 AM
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Is your second paragraph sarcasm or not? Only at age 30 i realized girls liked me since age 13, it's just that I thought they were making fun of me and rejected them. Now it's my worst trauma. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1lxmkb6/we_should_start_sexualizing_men/n2xr9iz/ Women already sexualize and objectify men. But only who they find attractive. I for example remember being sexualized and objectified since age 13 (peers). Girls directly showing off their sexual intentions. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:56 AM
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Siblings I rather not have, we don't talk even. Their social ineptitude is astonishing. Cousins very long distance and because I was introduced to my slightly older female cousin in my teens, I didn't see her as a relative and even got an erection sitting near her. Eww! Point is this isn't "see as equals" and "get along OK with".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:52 AM
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Women are walking male autism detectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:50 PM
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My anecdotal experience disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:53 AM
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Women already sexualize and objectify men. But only who they find attractive. I for example remember being sexualized and objectified since age 13 (peers). Girls directly showing off their sexual intentions. But due to teenage mental health negligence and because I didn't consider myself attractive back then, I thought they were making fun of me and rejected them. These memories now give me Interstellar vibes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIUhpzv47YQ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:10 PM
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in Russia women charge money for hookups with attractive guys who know how to make a woman cum. Despite mutual attraction and pleasure, it's transactional by definiton. BluePill woman on this forum even claimed they all faked their orgasms because of transactional. But they didn't. When they don't cum, they tell me directly. But even then, a sex worker who doesn't cum from oral still told me she likes how I do it and that she doesn't like how most guys do. Another sex worker came. in November 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:15 PM
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IDK, doesn't work the other way around. For example I tell myself "refrain from talking about sex". This results in shyness since I am a pervert, and women immediately sense that something isn't right. They tell me how they don't believe shy grown ups, block me, and so on. Today for example was chatting with a woman and we had it so good, she even started discussing sex with explicit details, all until I sent her an innocent meme and she replied she is unfamiliar with it. Now doesn't even answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:01 PM
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A 6' tall guy with the right facial features and a full head of hair will never be perceived to be arrogant. If he got confidence. But what if he didn't? I am 6'2" with the right facial features (i get compliments from women) and a full head of hair. And if a woman senses lack of confidence, for her it's an instant turn off. That's why I say that going RedPill would make me drown in pussy. Feel like I am punished for not falling for PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:38 PM
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In this economy no support for people in their prime fertility age at best, and sometimes having a family impossible at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:54 AM
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Be rude only to creeps and you're good. Not to guys who are just awkward and woman's response is "virgin" as an insult, because then my survival instinct is no more 3 hours one way for a date to end like this. I am sure you don't do this, only some other representatives of your gender. Thank you for your understanding. But about BMI yeah, r/NobodyAsked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:30 AM
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How come women care about misogynistic thoughts if they give sex to criminals and RPs? RP is all about misogyny and those guys seem to be having a blast. While I for example respect women but in the end am called "virgin" as an insult despite not talking anything about sex. Isn't it about personality of a woman instead? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1lc8o5j/men_whats_the_worst_thing_that_happened_to_you/my2779x/ My first dating attempt and it made me tell myself "never again"…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:46 AM
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Typical feminist talk about misogyny while criminals and RedPillers get sex. In my case for example inceldom was caused by personality of women instead, including the one who I was in love with while she called me her best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:29 AM
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Of course. And bad attitude towards me like for example constant insults can make me no longer want to have sex with a woman who sends me nudes, has unprotected sex with me and cumming inside, sucks my dick, comes from my oral, etc. Amazing what a woman can do to make a guy who is very lonely want to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:54 PM
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Dump stupid ungrateful bitches like her, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:05 PM
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Funny how throughout my life I've been constantly hearing how I will marry and have children, up to the point this year in Discord PMs a guy told me to "impregnate a woman" (direct quote). And on Reddit what I read is that I am not even entitled to sex in the first place. And you know what? You are correct! Not them. Not entitled to sex is technically correct, the best kind of correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:58 AM
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as I have already said, even sex workers orgasm, let alone women who prostitute themselves but pretend they don't. Do I disagree with you they make sex transactional? No. But it doesn't mean they don't orgasm. Especially considering they actually think they aren't at work. They sleep only with guys they find attractive. They have fun but charge money just because they can. Here in Russia it's called vaginocapitalism, for example in incel community there is a meme about vaginocapitalistic guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:49 AM
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Maybe. But I didn't get an answer from you why do you think sex workers don't orgasm. You know a physiological reaction isn't tied to a monetary exchange? And just to be clear, saying “I once didn’t pay a woman I agreed to pay” is not the flex you think it is. She even agreed with my arguments why I won't pay her the full price and was totally OK with it if we kissed on the lips and later discussed our further relationship through SMS. I mean she rejected LTR because apparently relationship can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:38 PM
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You ruined the first two completely valid paragraphs I don't disagree with, with the last one. Why on Earth do you think they faked an orgasm? The second woman after PIV got her legs still shaking uncontrollably from oral I had given before. And it's not even about not being a sex worker per se. Actual sex workers also orgasm with clients, like in my case yesterday. I have also had history of actual sex workers sincerely complimenting my looks and kinda catching feelings for me, and I don't deny…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:13 PM
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First sentence yes. Not only high school. Even middle school, age 13. Age 17 in my comment above actually the 1st year of uni already. She is from another country, not even my country citizenship back then. But I had zero problems with it. For me it was even better. And I found her attractive. Second sentence no, didn't understand even. UPD I think I got it. You're talking about the last paragraph in my comment above. No, I mean after mental health negligence, women reject my romantic intentions…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:15 PM
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Why not sincere? Russian women don't think they are providing a service, they hookup only after exchanging pics. Actual sex workers don't require me sending my pics. And ordinary women charge money just because they can. No wonder the term "vaginocapitalism" originated here in Russia. You're from North America and I have already guessed right North American women don't do this, hence your misunderstanding. To prove my point further, ordinary women who charge for hookup don't limit the time spent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:44 PM
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wdym making women feel smaller? in Russia hookups charge money. They aren't sex workers per se. Woman who was sexting with me then IRL moans when I suck on her tits and says "oh I am so glad I arrived", cums from my oral, etc. And a day after texts me she liked our hookup very much. Charges money. Woman who immediately reacted with a heart emoji on my photo and IRL called me handsome. Came 4 times in a row from my oral after not cumming for half a year. Voluntarily swallowed my cum at the end of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:42 PM
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You framed buying sex as the fallback for men women won’t date, then acted like women lose the right to have opinions if they’re not attracted to you. That’s entitlement. Well in my case women lose the right to have opinions and tell me not to buy sex not because they are not attracted to me, but because of rejecting me by using "virgin" as an insult and other impolite sayings. Certainly won't be listening to them after what they've said. They aren't entitled to making me cry when rejecting my r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:06 PM
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Yeah, women won't have non-transactional sex with me, they will even reject me by using insults which make me cry as has already happened not once. So why should I care about their opinion? Especially taking into account Russian women who aren't professional escorts charge money for hookups with guys they find attractive and get orgasms from, thus making it transactional and it's under sex work umbrella. My question is why do Russian women prostitute themselves despite not willing to do sex work…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:49 AM
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Lol I went to your profile since I noticed you changed your flair and read this comment how you changed it, it even said "just now" about when you wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:40 AM
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I am not a victim of selfish women who don’t give me sex or a relationship. I am a victim of teenage mental health negligence. I mean there were girls who probably wanted to have sex with me, but I thought they were making fun of me and rejected. After that not a single female peer had non-transactional sex with me, only older women and gay men. And for example a woman who asked me at age 17 whether I wanna have sex and I rejected her, we now live on the same street but she has a husband and a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:31 AM
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What about hookups who charge money despite mutual attraction, making each other cum several times, hugging and cuddling, wanting to see each other again, and so on? Where is the abuse? And if a woman charges money, it's transactional by definition. The country where women do this is Russia. Maybe it's about a woman who prostitutes herself but pretends she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:13 PM
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Russia The last one replied to me "I have never said I want to fuck for free".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:22 AM
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Low tier women want you? Wow! Even them I don't get. I mean women don't have non-transactional sex with me, except a few I can count on my hand and that's lifetime history, not currently. Emphasis on non-transctional because in my country hookups charge money, thus making it transactional. They do this after face control and despite mutual attraction. But if they charge money, it's transactional. For example a woman claims she had a taboo not to fuck outside of a relationship, then straight up p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:28 AM
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No wonder men dont let themselves be vulnerable Women have the privilege to be vulnerable, for example platonic friend sharing with me her sexual deviations and I gave her full support. But when I share my sexual orientation disorders to a woman I have sex with, she then uses it to mock me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:16 AM
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Talking about romance and love, casual sex kinda feels like "exception confirms the rule". But hey, it's a nice exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:34 PM
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No, 80% is winning the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah, I live at work and sleep on the floor on a yoga mat. Credit score ruined for the rest of my life since coronavirus. Never going on vacations. And so on. Where’s the power of life and death I’m apparently having over women? And talking about women, they reject me by using "virgin" as an insult and saying "pretend I have a boyfriend", in both cases literally making me cry. I don't deny women's systemic oppression, but hearing that I am used to supremacy is very laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:47 AM
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Of course! I was politely rejected once and it's a good memory. Though it's the fact that she had a BF that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:17 AM
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Where are my billions? Where is my harem? Where is my luxurious villa? https://np.reddit.com/r/dankmemes/comments/chtycu/wage_gap/ Woman thought I make a third more, turns out a third less. So half what she thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:34 AM
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Yes, I am 30 and since age 20 have sex with an older woman 18 years age gap. She is my first. The most attractive woman her age I have ever seen. Sexual chemistry is also amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:21 AM
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Yes, I am 30 and since age 20 have sex with an oder woman 18 years age gap. She is my first. The most attractive woman her age I have ever seen. Sexual chemistry is also amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:03 AM
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Yes, I am 30 and since age 20 have sex with an oder woman 18 years age gap. The most attractive woman her age I have ever seen. Sexual hemistry is also amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:00 AM
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Not me. Me asking such questions would be hypocrisy. My standards are very low, trust me. If you want, I can elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:12 PM
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And even if to do with romance, it's about emotional connection. Not just inserting in vagina and ejaculating in a condom. Back to platonic relationships. I remember telling a guy at uni "Hey so are we going to KFC and then taking a bus to our district". And he says "I have already told you no, I am waiting for my girlfriend". And I was thinking like "yeah fuck you too I guess". Then when actually at KFC three of us, him telling his girlfriend in front of me I struggle to get a girlfriend. One o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:36 AM
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Didn't need to guess the username. I would fucking love women's attention. Like for example approaching me first and talking about sex, and even telling me to grab her and not let her go, with her laughing. That kind of attention. But for me to love it she must be at least of legal age, and I also prefer "half your age plus seven" rule. And before you feel flattered, they'd also fuck anyone (or sometimes anything) OK and? Go on. I even wanna watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:06 PM
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Of course! How is it a debate even? Did you people somehow forget about sexual attraction? Imagine a woman agrees to have sex with a man she isn't attracted to. No lubrication, vagina not opening enough to accomodate a penis, feeling disgust, and so on. You can't control who you're attracted to. If I for example have sex with a fat woman, it's because of fat women fetish. Not lowering standards. If I start making pelvic circles when sucking on her tits and I ejaculate in a condom after inserting…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:31 PM
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It was a date (kinda). I texted her on a dating website and we agreed to meet. She was asking questions about my prosperity and my answers were awkward, didn't expect it and didn't prepare. There was also another guy (her friend) which I also wasn't warned about. And for example when she asked me what I want, he immediately answered on my behalf "SEX". And so on. For my first dating attempt, it was a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:53 PM
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If asking explicit consent is because it's a hookup and not a romantic relationship, or even worse it's a consequnce of being abused, then no, it's not sexy. So a guy asking if he can approach you But that's already approaching. asking for your pronouns I am from Russia so just gonna skip on this one. asking if he can touch your shoulder What? Not even boobs, let alone ass or genitals? You're gonna kill me with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:14 PM
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Yes. But damage to mental health up to the point this is your first thought? In middle school a classmate texted me on social media "love you, aaaaaaa". And I immediately thought "probably hacked". Turns out yes, she had a guest who texted it from her PC which falls under "unauthorized access" category, proving me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:40 AM
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For me all no 3 times. Also, cuckoldry exists. I have sisters. Am I supposed to be happy if someone’s fucking the? I would. Or do you prefer for example a 20yo sister who is kissless, let alone a virgin, because she is a social vegetable and your parents are tired of her social ineptitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:15 AM
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What a woman would admire is, if other women WANTED to have sex with you, but you said no. Why though? In my case it's mental health. I mean I thought they were making fun of me, not seriously wanting to have sex. If they are attractive and about myself I didn't think I am attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:11 AM
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Well at age 17 my mental health was so bad, when I was asked whether I wanna have sex, I automatically thought she was making fun of me. Despite the fact that she is attractive and I would totally fuck her. Forgot about this one when writing top level comment to OP. Point is sometimes mental health should be addressed first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:16 AM
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At age 13 from two girls but I thought they were making fun of me. Boys tried to point out girls were interested in me. Didn't believe them. From this you can deduct my mental health state back then. And at age 29 a minor (17) called me handsome, approached me, offered a date, and was even asking questions about my sex life. Unlike in the first paragraph, in this case must not interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:25 PM
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With "females" and what's written the next, I am sorry for your current mental health state :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:06 PM
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She didn't like my behaviour (lack of romantic experience at age 20) and after talking nothing about sex I was told "if you continue behaving like this, you will stay a virgin". so I have come to a conclusion that I won't have sex with women who have shitty attitude towards me. It's about self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:07 AM
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Yeah, I also end sex session with PIV. After making a woman cum from oral. On a very rare occasion where I don't make, she tells me "I didn't cum. But I had a good time". Wonder if OP ever had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:30 AM
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Going by your logic, another one is if she is a pos but has nowhere to go with her child from previous marriage. Not necessarily that the current man makes a lot of money. In case of divorce she will receive nothing since all the property is owned by his parents, and she will live on the street with her child. Thoughts on this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:28 PM
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Similar to "males" but "women". Not judging, actually I also use this notation often.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:27 PM
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No. Never ever. The fact that I say sometimes I wish I was asexual. It's because, I will quote, sex addiction is an incredibly deteriorating illness that, in many cases, stems from traumatic incidents that happened during the years of development. And in a parallel universe where I am asexual women want to jump on my dick. What matters is that in this universe I am not asexual. Even developed sex addiction after what can be considered under CSA umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:20 PM
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Does "finishing" mean different things in different paragraphs? In the first that it's at the end of the chronological list for sex session, and in the second orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:55 PM
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Thank you, actually laughed. While in the office but today is a holiday in my country so fortunately nobody heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:43 PM
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You have a point. Woman marries not a man who he is now, but a man who he is 6 years later. And when he doesn't meet her expectations, she wants to go to the police to file fraud claim. To arrest him so that his cellmates fuck him in the ass for 6 years. Source: Russian standup comedy On the other hand, instead of creating fake personality so that I fuck a woman, I'd rather not have non-transactional sex at all. Because it's sex with my fake personality instead of me and transactional in disguis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:05 PM
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Woman at work literally told me in front of everyone she wants to slap my ass. Woman whose boss told another woman "because you've got the biggest tits" when answering her question about something. The worst was a guy grabbing my ass at work. But in my country sexual harassment policy is very lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:53 PM
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My slang is "ordinary", for example. I would like to hear your opinion whether it's good. Would you understand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:46 PM
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Hotel wouldn't return me my security deposit if we broke the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:20 PM
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No need. I had sex with a woman who made me think "you're going to drain my security deposit".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:14 PM
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Even overweight women can get easy sex and therefore have decently high standards for casual sex. True from my experience also.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:12 PM
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Yes, fat women fetish exists and 180 lbs doesn't even qualify for me to say I had sex with her because of the fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:07 PM
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If she did unprotected oral with you, then she probably did with her past partners, too. I must disclose I am very biased because I get transactional unprotected BJs (currently from only one woman who knows my PII) so of course it doesn't bother me. But isn't the risk much lower? Yeah, not literally zero, I understand. You risk the woman pregnancy trapping you. Your life as you know it is completely over if this happens. Woman doing pregnancy trapping not taking into account man can be such a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:50 PM
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and you want a family From a 25yo KV to a family? Sounds like a huge jump. But I guess it's just me. I mean, when the topic of children gets brought up, my reply is that I didn't fuck in my teens. Due to mistakes when young and horny (asshole gave me her attention), but this is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:20 PM
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Different people have different levels of niceness. And being too nice isn't good, it's cuckoldry. I am talking about for example a woman who you're in love with, but for her you're her friend and she tells you over the phone how she sucked dick on the street. And calls you her best friend. Apparently for listening to her stories and never judging her. It's not a hypothetical situation, it's a real example from my life. Ghosted her in the end. Unfortunately, this is what my niceness got me. Very…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:09 AM
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I know a woman who got pregnant and days later her husband cheated unprotected and also got a woman pregnant. They gave birth 3 days apart. Sometimes men would cheat on their pregnant women not even with women, but men. Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:02 AM
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I know a woman who got pregnant and days later her husband cheated unprotected and also got a woman pregnant. They gave birth 3 days apart. Sometimes guys would cheat on their pregnant women not even with women, but men. Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:00 AM
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I've had history of cumming right after insertion (both in a condom and unprotected). Or not even fully inserting, just the tip (in a condom).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:16 AM
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they are undesirable because of OTHER FACTORS Yes, for example for not having romantic experience at age 20 and she didn't like my behaviour. I didn't talk about sex. The opposite. I told myself "refrain from talking about sex". Women immediately detect the artificiality of the dialogue and in response some will use virgin as an insult. I didn't talk about sex and what I got for this is being told "if you behave like this, you will stay a virgin". I agree with another redditor that it's a loop. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:30 AM
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My exact concern and I am male. or even praise women for having sex since that’s what you want them to do with you? I praise women for having sex up to the point I had a female friend in my teens who told me she sucked dick and my reply was "it's fine". I was in love with her. Unfortunately, she didn't have sex with me in the end. Friendzoned instead. The more sex woman has, the more chances she will have sex with me. Doesn't always work, but at least it's logical, unlike wanting to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:59 AM
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Yes. In my teens I fell in love with short and overweight girl with mixed descent who looked older than her age. While I am 6'2", look younger, and one race. We are peers. She wasn't even always nice to me. Sometimes mean due to her poor social skills. I was sometimes even kicking stuff in my room after her mean reply to my question, for example "don't you know". Obviously I don't if I ask. Even made a meme about her and posted on my social media. She saw and asked "wait, is it about me". "Yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 09:45 AM
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Yeah, fortunately regret isn't rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:14 PM
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Question from another redditor: You disagree that shaming a man for never having sex makes it more likely that they become more desperate to lose their virgin card? I told you that not literal rape, but there is gray territory due to desperation to lose virginity after being shamed for being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:36 PM
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After "virgin" being used as an insult against me for the lack of romantic experience at age 20, got a one-time sexual partner at age 21. She explicitly consented, so not rape, but not a romantic relationship either. So when I try to make a relationship, in the end I am told "fuck off virgin". But when it's just about sex, they arrive, tell me their PII and immediately have sex. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:52 AM
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The most wrong thing about calling someone “incel” is the idea that men are entitled to sex. No, we are not. If a man rapes a woman, he will go to jail. As it should be so. Oh you mean man should have social skills, housing, money, etc, to seduce a woman and have consensual sex with her? My opinion is that this is also bad, of course not as bad as literal rape. Seeing r/Seduction subreddit makes me want to vomit and I am a man. Sex should be after mutual interest, not after “buying” a woman’s ti…
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