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Lifestyleselfieprovement/r/seduction31/05/20 04:07 AM
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Just put an arm around her and pretend to not know whats going on. That should both make her happy and not make you seem like a douche.
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:17 AM
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Generally, if a woman wants you they will approach in their own way, which isn't really an approach but more like removing obstacles for you to approach her. Hell, my current girlfriend used to just be a friend that had already turned down my advances. She never approached me, but she started acting in a way that let me know she had reconsidered (talking about spending more time together, talking about the sort of sex she wanted to try in general... etc). So yeah they do their own sort of pseudo…
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:04 PM
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Its bullshit. While its kind of true that cold approaches are not the best tactic, remember that a lot of mainstream dating advice is not geared towards trying to help you but rather preventing you from making anyone uncomfortable. Women are basically lying to you. It is not a malicious lie (I certainly understand why they would want to create boundaries with men they dont know very well), but it is a lie just the same. If you actually followed their advice to the letter you will basically becom…
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:59 PM
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I think your strawmanning of "ugly feminazis" is making you lose sight of the real motivations of women. All the women I consider worth dating would definitely consider many "pick up artists" to be horrible, and that's usually because they're at least intelligent and protective of their independence and self-respect, which I understand and value. They do enjoy being treated like women, but there definition of what that means is different from our interpretation of it. Yes there are women out the…
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:48 AM
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Okay I haven't been in the game for a while so take my advice with a grain of salt, but maybe when you ask for the second meetup, don't approach directly with "want to meet up" but approach indirectly with "(I am/me and my friends are) going to x/y/z, wanna come?" I think that puts out less "commitment" vibes.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:40 PM
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I'm torn a lot because a lot of Pick up artist advice is just horrible sexist shit but at the same time the mainstream dating advice you get is not designed to help you but rather minimize you as a discomfort for others. Its a tight line to walk and one way or another you need a thick skin.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:36 PM
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Less power than in the past. Its more equal now. Im not saying women should have more power than men.
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:08 PM
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Don't overthink it too much. I think most people metaphorically "puff out their chest" when trying to impress someone.
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:07 PM
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uh what
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:04 PM
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I agree with you, I think you misunderstood.
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:04 PM
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Yes ​ There are good rules of thumb but each person is different.
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:48 PM
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Read porn. ​ Not joking. Read porn and you will learn to write porn. Sexting is just writing porn but making the characters you and them.
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:47 PM
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He's joking. ​ And absolutely. There are many tall women who are insecure about their height and uninterested in men shorter than them.
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:29 PM
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I do not have much experience dating outside of western cultures. That said: be careful of those who whine and complain about western women. They are failures making excuses for their failures. Yes, men have less power in relationships than in the past. That is simply justice, a correction of historical oppression. But with change comes opportunity. Do not be afraid of feminists, their bark is worse than their bite. Treat them with respect as individuals and you might find that beyond the politi…
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:26 PM
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The only person who hasn't matured past your retard phase is you.
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:15 PM
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Hobbies, clubs, classes, work. Anyplace that forces you to be with those people.
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:14 PM
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In my experience social media is near worthless. I don't form valuable relationships on it and the people I see rarely care. I have had someone who rejected me message me saying that they changed their mind after they saw me on social media doing something cute. Some people have social media play a huge aspect in their lives and will think its strange if you aren't involved. Personally, I find that a turn off but keep that in mind. ​ Friend are without a doubt one of the MOST important tools for…
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:13 PM
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Don't assume that, sociopaths can become expert emotional manipulators because they are not burdened by being genuine. For the rest of us I mean, its really a spectrum between 0% being completely genuine and 100% creating a front. Being genuine has its pros and cons. It really depends on who you are and who the person is. For a relationship, you usually pretend to be a cooler version of yourself and relax it is the bond develops until they know the real you. For a hookup, you really don't relax …
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:03 PM
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Emotions should always be the why, never the how. Seduction is essentially emotional manipulation of someone trying to get something (relationship or sex) from them they do not want to give freely. Don't get me wrong, treat women with respect, treat them like human beings, but the whole point of this is a self interested acquisition of her time and energy.
/r/seduction26/09/20 06:29 PM
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Wow I really love this comment. This is basically my thinking as well.
/r/seduction26/09/20 05:24 PM
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yes its fun. ​ Unless you're talking about during Rona times. In that case, no, don't.
/r/seduction26/09/20 05:14 PM
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But what is passion and attraction if not sex appeal, if not mostly based on how you look? I can make them laugh, I can seem intelligent. Those combined I can do some decent flirting. What am I missing then?
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:55 AM
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Hone in on this particular woman for a while if you are attracted. Make her feel like she is the only woman in the world for a while. If she is available and looking, she'll like that. If she doesn't, then she probably isn't available or interested. NEXT! If you make 75% effort she'll appreciate you. People fall in love with the way that you make them feel. You want to see her how she sees herself: beautiful, smart, and with a ton to offer, too much! Let her know this. Make her feel out of your …
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:49 AM
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Yes but I knew some of these people very well and got along tremendously. but I'm just "not their type"
/r/seduction10/06/20 08:58 PM
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Not really, if you're concerned you're losing self control its a good idea to get someone else to weigh in.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:54 AM
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I've been rejected purely based on my appearance so it makes sense that I work on that.
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:50 AM
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I'm not unhealthy, I just want to be more attractive.
/r/seduction02/06/20 01:55 AM
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Why would I be emotionally invested in something that seems very cynical to me?
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:15 PM
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Thank you for your perspective! I'm glad someone gets where I'm coming from
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:10 PM
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Fair enough, but its not like I'm solely going after models and athletes here. I already take care of my appearance.
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:08 PM
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Call me a hopeless romantic but I see the whole love thing a bit differently than other facets of my life. If I get the sense that fitness is the deciding factor here, its suddenly a lot less fulfilling and I can't see myself loving that person. That said, I'll keep working out because why not.
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:06 PM
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Yeah I'm going to be honest I am really only working out for girls and vanity. And that's because I'm perfectly happy with myself otherwise. I'm not overweight, I'm not weak, extra strength won't benefit me very much.
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:04 PM
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A romantic relationship isn't and shouldn't be the same as a physical competition. If physical fitness is the deciding factor, I genuinely would not be interested in a long term relationship with such a person.
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:00 PM
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If I catch feelings, absolutely
/r/seduction31/05/20 05:59 PM
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Am I the only one who has a problem with the concept of "earning" love? I can honestly say if the deciding factor of someone being with me is my physical fitness, I am not interested in truly loving that person.
/r/seduction31/05/20 05:57 PM
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Thanks for the wisdom. There is more to life than chasing skirts after all.
/r/seduction31/05/20 04:49 AM
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