selfimprovementman21 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Doing everything ‘right’ - so why am I still invisible to women? This + a book as a foundation is crucial. I recommend models by mark manson at the stage you are at, OP	/r/seduction	06/05/25 06:41 PM
1	conflicted between desire to keep going and religious upbringing Interesting thoughts, I'll have to take that into consideration. I am not a no sex before marriage kind of guy, so I'd probably just decide to 'cash' in once my skills are a lot more developed, but it is probably true that I wouldn't get a lot experience with that deeper level of connection if I restrict myself too much. Hm, I'll ponder on it.	/r/seduction	20/03/25 08:45 AM
1	conflicted between desire to keep going and religious upbringing I considered this myself as a religious man, and I came to the conclusion that the skill of seduction is what I truly want. So I am going for experiences and stuff so that my flirting, looks, conversation skills, frame, presence, etc. means that I can go for any girl I want. But that doesn't mean I have to be sleeping around so much. I control whether I sleep with or kiss someone. Just because I can get them doesn't mean I need to, that is my basic philosophy. I am trying it and I'll see how…	/r/seduction	19/03/25 05:43 PM
1	How to make night game enjoyable? Make it like a game. Set one (1) objective at a time that is already quite easy. It could start at going there and sitting down, listening to the music for 10 minutes. Then you can go home. Then next time, you do that and then get a drink (non-alcoholic is fine). After this, you could do the above, and then dance for two songs. Hey, you could even try some dance moves or whatever. Keep in mind that the three above would take place on separate nights. The self-pride that you build from hitting th…	/r/seduction	18/03/25 10:45 PM
2	What made your success transition in seduction ? Wow, you have really developed your frame. I don't know if you know that term, but you got it. Many other people don't have it, I'll give you an example. They would not say that she is Hercules' daughter like that. First, they'd think "her biceps are big. What could I say about that that's she'd like?". Then stuff like "does she know Hercules? Oh, she might be insecure about her biceps. But maybe not? I could make a good comment later. Uh..." and so on. You see how this hypothetical man would be…	/r/seduction	16/03/25 09:04 PM
1	How I can close this girl? Start with models by Mark Manson. Read it cover-to-cover, write up the checklist, and focus on one aspect at a time. Review weekly on whatever you are working on.	/r/seduction	16/03/25 07:59 PM
1	I’m thinking about spending $150 on a photo shoot to improve my dating profile pictures. Is this a good idea ? Interesting. I'll save this and consider it if I go all in on dating apps	/r/seduction	15/03/25 04:12 PM
1	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well Interesting idea. Most people are unable to understand that this is purely a hypothetical question and not some post making excuses masked as hypothetical. I enjoy hypotheticals, so I'll take a swing at this. Okay, so in this world, self-improvement is normal. With Spartan-like discipline, men start to develop habits for good health (mental and physical), social skills, wealth (so in this case academics), etc., so that by the age of consent it is normal to be a gigachad by the standards of today…	/r/seduction	10/11/24 08:59 PM
3	Why Can't I Approach Too much outcome dependence	/r/seduction	29/09/24 08:35 PM