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Discussionselfishsister123/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:01 AM
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I am a simple woman with simple desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:26 PM
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Q4W: What is your ideal man? Ladies, what is your ideal man? What do you expect? How does he looks like? Mildly attractive, so a nice face, taller than me (I’m 5’2, so most everyone is) but it’s not a deal breaker, not morbidly obese or anything. Nice eyes is a major plus. Does he need to be well dressed? Well groomed? Hygiene is super important to me. He doesn’t need to be manscaped or wear designer clothes, but if I can tell you haven’t showered/brushed your teeth/used deodorant recently I’m n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:12 PM
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Unless the person’s a virgin, of course. And a hobby is almost never considered for employment reasons - but like. Still. The states almost unilaterally gives people sox weeks to search out specific employment opportunities before beginning to pressure them to find any job, and most states continue to let you turn down jobs entirely unsuited to you - especially jobs that are demeaning and dangerous, like sex work. Most women will choose to apply to be waiters before they become prostitutes, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:59 AM
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Then... you still can’t draw in women who don’t have previous experience in sex work (because having a “hobby” of having sex isn’t the same as previous employment experience), and anyone who doesn’t actively apply can, for the first few weeks of unemployment, continue to turn down any job offers not in their field.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:42 AM
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Nope. Doesn’t quite work like that. For “turning down a job” to count against losing unemployment (something you wouldn’t know unless you were doing something unscrupulous in the first place) it needs to be a real offer - no AI. And still, because it is more dangerous than other avenues of employment (unless you’re testing every John that walks through that door for HIV, herpes, and HPV, then the dangers of catching diseases is distinctly non-zero) women who were previously working in jobs that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:35 AM
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Eh. It still doesn’t matter if they’re not applying there. Like I said - unless you’re reaching out to people who are on unemployment, they are not required to seek out any particular job. As long as they are looking for a job, and showing they’re applying to places, then they’re able to collect unemployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:22 AM
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Sorry, must have missed the line. But yeah. Basically, it’s the same thing that keeps people collecting unemployment from being told to just “drive Uber” - technically everyone can do it, but it’s a shitty job with low pay and no benefits as well as being a private contractor gig (all brothels operate by hiring their girls as private contractors), so unemployment offices don’t tell people to start driving Uber so that they stop collecting unemployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:12 AM
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I mean... same thing for men? But there’s factors you haven’t considered: 1) Disease! So anyone immunocompromised or, you know, who doesn’t want to get herpes can say “I can’t be a prostitute because the dangers of contracting [HIV, herpes, HPV] are too high.” When it comes from people who were doing jobs that don’t include a high risk of contracting dangerous, life threatening illnesses, this allows them to claim that prostitute is much more dangerous than their previous employment. 2) Think of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:05 AM
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Men did make sex slaves. Sorry, I just ... men were also sex slaves. In Rome they were castrated on top of it, too. When it comes to slavery, in most parts of the world it was equally awful for both genders. You just see a shift more towards modern times where men were more often brutalized and women were more often sexually brutalized, just because we started falling into patterns where homosexual desires became shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:20 PM
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Hahaha says someone who’s never been cat called. Dude, it’s not a compliment if someone’s screaming about how nice your ass looks specifically because they know it’ll make you feel demeaned and inferior. Which is, like. The only discernible reason a man would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:11 PM
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Eh. It’s all physical? It’s the same as turning off porn and concentrating on the feeling of your hand. People are capable of it, but they just enjoy having a partner/subject to concentrate on more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:13 PM
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The definition of the “no-Pill” is “not red or blue pill; outside of the dating dynamic”. Unless you’re exclusively picking up prostitutes or abstaining from relationships altogether, or not straight, then you’re blue, red, or purple on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:11 PM
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Except I don’t experience the second half of that. Dude, I know what sexual attraction is, i know what it would be like to experience it, our media is drenched in sexual content and innuendo, and I definitely know that I don’t experience attraction to people. I want to jill off to people just about as much as people wanna jill off to dogs or horses or plants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:09 PM
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My ultimate plan is own a farm in Oregon, so... maybe. Sometimes I want to. Sometimes I remember that I don’t like people very much in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 11:24 PM
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It’s cool, meeting an ace person isn’t exactly common. I usually handle it by myself - I could date, but I work 50-60 hours a week (usually from 7am-8pm on weekdays and 5-10 hours on the weekend) so the few times I’ve managed to meet someone it’s fizzled out and, honestly, it seems like a lot of work when most days I want to pass out after work or catch up on my personal projects. I feel like if I weren’t ace this current state of affairs would be a little more depressing (I work in an extremely…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:50 PM
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Eh... I mean, I do? But it’s not an “I want to fuck this person” feeling. It’s more of an “ooh, an orgasm would feel really good right now” feeling. (TMI, but I can track my cycle by how horny I am.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:57 PM
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It’s shorthand for “asexual”, since I don’t experience sexual attraction. It’s sort of like being colorblind except it has to do with sex: I understand, on a few levels, what makes people conventionally attractive (ie - symmetrical features) but like a colorblind person looking at a rainbow, I couldn’t really point at two separate people and say “this person is more sexually desirable” because I don’t experience sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:49 PM
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Yoooooooou know a lot of assholes. More importantly - did the girls know they were lying? Because I’m talking about a situation where the girls know - of course they’re not going to like him! No one likes a liar or a fake. And apparently Malcolm was a bad liar, because he had been called out before in public for being a liar and continued to do so. I’m saying that if all the women in your life say this guy sucks, listen. In the OP, they didn’t even list why the girls didn’t like him, only that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:12 PM
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Hahaha I like the assumption that a guy lying doesn’t immediately make him super unattractive??? I am ace, I don’t give a fuck whah people look like, I just hate people lied to. There’s a reason my flair’s a “no pill” dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:39 PM
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Dude, the guy said in his reply to this post that Malcolm did, in fact, lie a lot in small, inconsequential but obnoxious ways. It’s not “they thought he was a liar” it’s “he’s a fucking liar and I hate him”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:38 PM
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Fun scientific fact! People are actually really really good at tell when people aren’t being genuine. Women are slightly better at it for a variety of reasons (some of it’s the ways our brains are structured, some of it’s because we’re socialized to be a little more cautious and conscious of those warning signs, and some of it’s because girls are more likely to have experience with creepy men than men with creepy women) but if you ever have that gut feeling that a person just isn’t “right” you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:04 PM
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Yeah. It sounds like Malcolm might be a “Nice Guy” - the kind of guy other guys thinks is nice, but whom women see as someone very different. The minute I noticed a guy lying, even if it was just stupid stories? I wouldn’t say anything, but I sure as hell wouldn’t like the dude, and I would probably find any reason to rag on him (or her).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:44 PM
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“He’s such a liar” and “I just don’t like him” are huge red flags for me. Lying is gonna make him unacceptable in anyone’s eyes. And people go by their gut feelings all the time (I “just didn’t like” one of my parent’s friends once; then he started making creeping comments and cornering me as soon as I turned 18 and I realized that I “just didn’t like him” because he was giving off hella creeper vibes).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:18 PM
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My parents (the quintessential oversharers) had a dead bedroom for four or five years? Something like that. They diagnosed the issue, fixed them, and went back to having way more sex than their kids would like to know about. I think if you’re experiencing a period of stress (financial, familial, work related) and you have a dead bedroom, then you work through that stress and see if the problem fixes itself. Then you go to counseling if it doesn’t, and then you consider divorce, if it absolutely …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:47 PM
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So you’re a guy talking about other guys, but you didn’t mention any details about why your GFs hate Malcolm. They would have said something specific - did he smell? Did he chase after that girl for weeks and make her feel like she had to cuss him out to get him to stop? Basically, when you see a nice guy, are your GFs seeing a “Nice Guy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:43 PM
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Mutually drunk sex isn’t rape, but - if the person is far more drunk than you are (incapable of saying “yes” is one of the more common ideas of “Too drunk to consent”, but I think anyone using intoxicants to coerce people is a little scummy) then it’s rape. Basically if you can’t sign a contract, if you wouldn’t legally be allowed in any other circumstance to make a legally binding agreement, then you’re too drunk to consent. “I got drunk and passed out and someone raped me” is rape. “I got drun…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:14 PM
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Part of me thinks it was just laziness (she claimed it was an accident) but really think that my grandmother simply didn’t think it would have such a profound effect on my mother and so she did it because it would be “getting back” at my mother for the tenseness over the holidays. My father (her son) is pretty convinced that it was done maliciously though, for the great offense of Existing While Sick and Happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:42 PM
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My mom has dietary restrictions due to her chronic illness that the entire family knew about (and it’s not gluten - it’s a specific, easy to eliminate ingredient). My mom was cooking with her and she made sure my grandma knew because otherwise the meal would be basically inedible for her. Grandma spiked the Thanksgiving mashed potatoes and didn’t tell my mom. My mom got to spend the next week kneeling to the porcelain god because it triggered an attack so bad that she couldn’t move or keep anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:33 PM
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My parents for about five years when I was a kid? But that was a series of events that lead to what amounts to an extremely stressful situation (three?? Deaths in the family, birth of Kid #6, Mom’s disabling illness coming back and the loss of her job over it, lost the house, I got sick, #3 had to be institutionalized, went NC with part of the family when Grandma poisoned my Mom, moved house 3 times, moved cities, Dad opened a new practice, all the kids kept coming out as gay ...) They found an …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:55 PM
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Your opinions on what you think is acceptable behavior is not the question I asked, but the fact that you went straight for assuming it was tells me that you’re actually far more intolerant than you’d like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 12:36 PM
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Apparently? I’m ludicrously oblivious (you only see what you expect to see, and I don’t expect to be considered attractive and have, according to several friends, completely missed more than one man blatantly flirting with me). I’ve been hit on by objectively attractive men, which I know was driven by attraction because they asked for my number without really knowing me. If I look like my siblings I’d be considered ridiculously attractive (of my sisters, two of them are considered pretty enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:23 AM
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I’m biologically female. I’m closeted, so I present as female - socially, I’m considered a woman - but l personally ID as non-binary. If I was out, I’d be presenting as a far more masculine individual. But I can’t because life is like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:50 AM
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Nah, but most people don’t understand what “asexual” is. I don’t feel physical attraction, period. Most women do, at some point. That’s the different between “low libido” and “asexual” - I have a libido, I just don’t find people physically attractive. If I did I’d probably be considered more sexual than is common? By what I’ve read, anyways. Also, not female. Just in the closet until I can get to a point in my life where it’s safe to come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:23 AM
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Nope. My mom went dead before I learned to speak - I was taught to speak loudly. The same way a person who is French doesn’t consciously choose to speak French, I don’t choose to be loud. It takes a lot of effort to be quiet. I have to change how I breathe, how I hold myself, the tension in my chest and abdomen, the air flow as I make noise. Because the pitch of my voice is particularly cutting - my mother can’t hear low or high pitched sounds very well, and each syllable needs to be clearly enu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:11 AM
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Nah. She did it because someone asked her for it and she realized that people would pay for it. She’s a smart business women who made something like $30k off of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:00 AM
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My mom’s deaf in one ear so all of us kids learned to pitch our voices a certain way to make sure she can hear us. Because of this, I speak incredibly loudly without meaning to - I don’t yell, but I consistently speak from the diaphragm. People can hear me from a half block away. I get called loud all the fucking time. Men, women, doesn’t matter. People don’t just ignore it when someone else is loud. I usually apologize, but it takes conscious effort to speak quietly, and therefore I usually shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:58 AM
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It depends on what jealousy is making me do - at one point I was jealous that a friend was more fit than I was, so I started working out. That was a jealousy-motivated action I indulged in because I knew it would only be a net positive. That same friend ended up dating a person I had a crush on. Jealousy, if indulged, would have led me to trying to hurt them for it. I addressed the emotion, acknowledged that it was existed, and then worked to find the healthiest solution. For me that was respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:31 AM
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That’s how my family felt - my dad has two kids from a previous marriage. No one felt that he was a “deadbeat” because Wife #1 was fucking crazy (but still got custody - gotta love the courts) and he continued to be a presence in his children’s lives, even after my siblings and I were born. You can be a good dad and be divorced. My Dad’s a divorce attorney, he saw it a lot. Sometimes people just don’t work, and it sucks, and that’s life. And sometimes people suck, and it’s usually 50/50 on wheth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:24 AM
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Abuse quite literally changes the structure of a person’s brain - the abuse becomes normalized and expected. When a person’s brain can no longer tell them THIS IS WRONG, RUN, then leaving becomes nearly impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:47 AM
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