selfjan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple. Why does women behave differently after sex though?	/r/seduction	21/05/26 01:23 PM
2	How To Show Interest to Women Without Looking Desperate Show abandunce or be abandunt?	/r/seduction	17/05/26 08:19 AM
1	Words that get me laid So instead of saying netflix and chill , a guy must say 'netflix and fuck' when he is inviting you?	/r/seduction	09/03/26 02:12 PM
1	Words that get me laid Whats with nurse with tattoo's? And whats a sub?	/r/seduction	09/03/26 02:09 PM
1	How Do I Turn Workplace Flirting Into a FWB Situation Without Screwing It Up? Plus, she may have tricks up her sleever to keep you away from other women What do you mean by this?	/r/seduction	07/03/26 12:24 PM
3	Most men talk about the wrong topics Can you give some examples plz?	/r/seduction	07/03/26 12:02 PM
1	Most men talk about the wrong topics What do you mean by used?	/r/seduction	07/03/26 12:02 PM
1	What to talk with women Can you give some examples plz?	/r/seduction	17/02/26 05:22 AM
1	Creating social life from scratch. Why though?	/r/seduction	11/02/26 02:09 PM
1	The thing women want the most Which post about frame did you read.?	/r/seduction	27/01/26 09:00 AM
1	Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in dating What science?	/r/seduction	24/01/26 10:58 AM
6	I Approached a Girl… She Offered Me a Job Or on mobile phones.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 12:55 PM
1	What are your tips for “talking with the eyes”? What was wrong?	/r/seduction	09/10/25 06:15 PM
3	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? Even i didn't get what it meant?	/r/seduction	09/10/25 02:43 PM
2	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? Even i didn't get what it meant?	/r/seduction	09/10/25 02:42 PM
0	The problem with today's dating... Seeding ideas ? How to do that plz explain?	/r/seduction	14/09/25 02:16 PM
1	Signs she’s looking to get laid that night Which social skills are you refering to for not getting allegations of creeep ? Can you pl explain more?	/r/seduction	08/09/25 08:38 PM
1	What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting? Thank you for explaining . How much comfort should one build without getting friend zone?And when should rapport be built ?	/r/seduction	05/09/25 07:32 AM
2	What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting? So should one first build rapport or comfort? And when to tease?	/r/seduction	04/09/25 09:06 PM
4	Ignore her superficial standards. These are the real core standards that every woman has about men on an instinct level So true	/r/seduction	23/08/25 09:25 AM
1	About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark Manson So which book hold up in today's times?	/r/seduction	30/07/25 02:39 PM
1	About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark Manson How does one persist in a good way?	/r/seduction	30/07/25 02:28 PM
2	About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark Manson How to have fun conversation with women( sorry for being naive) ? How to maintain frame? And how to make your intention clear from our behaviour , plz give an example?	/r/seduction	30/07/25 02:03 PM
1	About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark Manson How can one change a maybe in to yes? What steps one must take for that,can you plz mention?	/r/seduction	30/07/25 01:55 PM
1	About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark Manson What do you mean by games? And when isnt neghing used if yes then when? Also should this be done in the said sequence?	/r/seduction	30/07/25 01:42 PM
2	In your opinion, where is all the focus in pickup? What do people focus too much on studying/improving and what doesn't get attention that should? Can you suggest some book or source where one can learn more about emotional aspect of dating and hookups?	/r/seduction	28/07/25 04:16 PM
1	Confused between two ways to approach a girl How women turn their body in obvious way, can you plz tell what are those ways in which women turn their bodies.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 11:46 AM
1	Confused between two ways to approach a girl Like what way ,can you plz elaborate?	/r/seduction	26/07/25 09:39 AM
1	Complete Beginner Kino Guide Can you suggest some book or source to learn more about cretinfg sexual tension with words and body language	/r/seduction	26/07/25 05:08 AM
1	I managed to approach a girl at the mall. How to make a connection within that short window frame?	/r/seduction	15/07/25 04:15 PM
1	Why is showing interest such a turn of to some people? Thank you so much for simplifying it . Can you plz mention some of the books on this topic?	/r/seduction	09/07/25 08:51 PM
1	Why is showing interest such a turn of to some people? Can you plz explain with an example the last para?	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:52 AM
1	Why is showing interest such a turn of to some people? How are they different?	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:51 AM
2	How do yall keep the convo going when the vibe is fun but you still run out of things to say? Does achieving hook point creates interest ?	/r/seduction	07/07/25 04:28 PM
1	How do yall keep the convo going when the vibe is fun but you still run out of things to say? How to do value demo?	/r/seduction	07/07/25 04:27 PM
1	How do yall keep the convo going when the vibe is fun but you still run out of things to say? How to get info about others without asking questions? Can you suggest any books on this plz?	/r/seduction	07/07/25 03:28 PM
4	how to create situations where you can break the touch barrier? Can we make someone more receptive towards us?	/r/seduction	01/07/25 08:37 PM
1	What are the things that can seduced a man? Which chapter talks about it?	/r/seduction	27/06/25 05:23 PM
1	I need some advice—I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or being rational How does one establish precedent?	/r/seduction	10/04/25 03:21 AM
1	Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over text Is there any solution for that?	/r/seduction	09/04/25 01:49 PM
1	Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over text Whats number 1 & 2?	/r/seduction	09/04/25 01:40 PM
6	She invited me back to her home but we didn’t have sex Could that be due to anxiety or nervousness?	/r/seduction	30/03/25 12:32 PM
2	Why You Fail with Women: “Tea Over Rice” Effect What do you mean ?	/r/seduction	17/03/25 12:17 PM
2	Why You Fail with Women: “Tea Over Rice” Effect What do you mean?	/r/seduction	17/03/25 12:17 PM
9	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? Whats a face culture?	/r/seduction	15/03/25 08:11 AM
1	The Best (Maybe Only) Way To Have An Abundance Of Girls What strategy?	/r/seduction	02/03/25 09:37 PM
1	Women put no effort Then how to use seduction since we may like someone we don't know or seeing them for first time?	/r/seduction	16/02/25 04:15 PM
2	Women put no effort What do you mean by creating strong emotions ?	/r/seduction	13/02/25 05:43 PM
2	Women put no effort How to mke them attracted to you?	/r/seduction	13/02/25 11:12 AM
1	Women genuinely keep wanting to be just friends with me. What do you mean high value enough to keep around?	/r/seduction	04/02/25 06:47 AM
2	Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong? Can you plz name a few ? And what should I look for in the books	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:48 AM
1	Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong? Which book has vibing and fundamentals as chapter?	/r/seduction	30/01/25 09:20 AM
3	What is the gym equivalent for females? Problem is many people think you are the father.	/r/seduction	30/01/25 07:10 AM
3	Have you ever been called out during day game How to balance it without being pushover?	/r/seduction	29/01/25 08:05 PM
2	Have you ever been called out during day game What do you mean by invite? And how does it build character?	/r/seduction	29/01/25 01:39 PM
1	Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number. How to establish ground & whats natural escalation steps? How to introduce seduction context?	/r/seduction	23/01/25 07:12 PM
2	Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number. How to make her comfortable & how to establish your purpose?	/r/seduction	23/01/25 07:07 PM
2	Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number. How to build or generate attraction? And what is man to woman frame?	/r/seduction	23/01/25 07:05 PM
2	Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number. What should one talk further? My conversation does go much	/r/seduction	23/01/25 07:02 PM
1	How to spike emotions in women What are the different ways to get investment from women?	/r/seduction	18/01/25 12:37 PM
1	How to spike emotions in women How to make a woman emotionally invested?	/r/seduction	18/01/25 11:52 AM
1	She's at yours and says "I'll be leaving soon" - Test, LMR or something else? Plz don't take it in a wrong way I didn't mean it in any wrong way. I seriously don't know , so asked.	/r/seduction	18/01/25 11:46 AM
1	She's at yours and says "I'll be leaving soon" - Test, LMR or something else? What do you mean by building value ?	/r/seduction	18/01/25 04:10 AM
1	She's at yours and says "I'll be leaving soon" - Test, LMR or something else? What do you mean by building value?	/r/seduction	18/01/25 04:08 AM
1	Hate all you want but routines work Whats free associate?	/r/seduction	05/01/25 12:44 PM
2	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? What do you mean by , " the way the light catches her face" ?	/r/seduction	27/12/24 10:57 AM
5	[ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence! Whats k/d ratio in seduction?	/r/seduction	27/12/24 07:53 AM
3	[ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence! Whats k/d ratio in seduction?	/r/seduction	27/12/24 07:53 AM
1	How do i approach girls at the gym ? Plz elaborate your point.	/r/seduction	10/12/24 01:48 PM
2	Women using seduction tactics on you. Can you plz elaborate more ?	/r/seduction	10/12/24 10:23 AM
5	Women’s Seduction Subreddit? Thats what I said you may be coming off as too strong and even your flirts might be a bit agressive for them.its not that your intentions are wrong but your energy could be a bit strong. And many men do get scared of women who initiates or flirts with them coz it feels like they may get scammed or something. Since it's not everyday that man is approached by any woman unless for ulterior motives. What you are doing is right you need to soften up. Men want to feel pleasant with a woman .	/r/seduction	26/11/24 06:53 PM
1	Women’s Seduction Subreddit? May be you give off strong/ dominating vibes. Also many men fear escalating for being labelled a creep or pervert	/r/seduction	26/11/24 05:15 PM
1	Is seduction really even possible? How to plant seed though?	/r/seduction	23/11/24 04:07 PM
1	Is seduction really even possible? Is it possible to plant seeds deliberately?	/r/seduction	23/11/24 04:06 PM
1	How can a virgin guy start without experience? Can you plz explain pt.6 ? How to show high value through routines & storytelling?	/r/seduction	11/11/24 03:38 AM
1	How can a virgin guy start without experience? Can you plz explain pt.6 ? How to show high value through routines	/r/seduction	11/11/24 03:37 AM
2	Any good movies with womanizers? Isn't it a fictional story?	/r/seduction	22/10/24 07:23 PM
5	For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my dating Experts plz make a detail post on how to have fun with women. Coz many men really don't know how to have fun with women.	/r/seduction	18/10/24 02:23 PM
1	What is your game centered on? I always try to take interest in other person but nobody allows me beyond superficial level and they don't open up much to me.	/r/seduction	18/10/24 09:58 AM
1	What is your game centered on? What do you mean by being super friendly without seeming desperate?	/r/seduction	18/10/24 08:24 AM
2	What is your game centered on? What do you do for emotional connection & vulnerability, man to woman vibe & sexual polarity?	/r/seduction	18/10/24 08:22 AM
2	What is your game centered on? What do you mean by high energy?	/r/seduction	18/10/24 08:19 AM
1	Logical man's guide to flirting What do you mean by entry points?	/r/seduction	13/10/24 06:44 PM
1	Logical man's guide to flirting Can you plz share part 2?	/r/seduction	13/10/24 06:33 PM
1	My first dates 9 times out of 10 don't go anywhere.. feel more like interviews or a catch up with a colleague than anything else. Any advice? What do you mean by engage her emotionally and physically? Can you plz explain?	/r/seduction	26/09/24 11:05 AM
2	Girl losing interest AFTER great sex? What is your suggestion on what keep consistently interested?	/r/seduction	06/09/24 06:30 PM
1	[VIDEO] Why Stupid Guys Get Laid More Than Smart Men Thanks	/r/seduction	04/09/24 07:17 PM
6	[VIDEO] Why Stupid Guys Get Laid More Than Smart Men What does abg mean?	/r/seduction	04/09/24 05:27 PM
-1	How did you get her to chase you? Can you plz elaborate more about these dynamics?	/r/seduction	29/08/24 12:18 PM
-1	How did you get her to chase you? Can you plz say more about these dynamics and any sources I can read more about it?	/r/seduction	29/08/24 12:18 PM
1	3 flirting techniques every guy should know Can you suggest some books or something where I can read more about this like how to keep things flowing and how to move through it and not against it?	/r/seduction	20/08/24 06:38 PM
1	We talk about how to seduce a girl, but how about keeping her interested in the long run? How can one demonstrate preselection?	/r/seduction	07/08/24 08:18 PM
11	I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window. Can you elaborate point no1 plz?	/r/seduction	28/07/24 09:05 PM
-3	What to do when she has a boyfriend They?	/r/seduction	28/07/24 11:09 AM
1	Why so hard despite being attractive? Thnx. Where can I learn more about it.?	/r/seduction	27/07/24 09:13 PM
1	Why so hard despite being attractive? Can you plz explain the plausible deniability part more?	/r/seduction	26/07/24 07:14 PM
1	Why so hard despite being attractive? What do you mean by building up the energy ?	/r/seduction	26/07/24 07:05 PM
1	It is so hard not to get bitter. What do you mean by building foundation?	/r/seduction	20/07/24 08:27 PM
1	It is so hard not to get bitter. Whats intrinsic value?	/r/seduction	20/07/24 08:23 PM
1	How to know which girls are easy Whats dtf?	/r/seduction	19/07/24 07:10 PM
2	Who else here loves casual sex? Thanx. What should be the chronology in a game for ioi, kino, comfort building, escalation etc? Can you suggest something for how to be masculine around woman?	/r/seduction	19/07/24 03:23 PM
1	Just met a champion Is this the mystery technique?	/r/seduction	15/07/24 08:52 AM
2	Just met a champion Same here. Anyone knows here.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 08:50 AM
2	Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind? How to change mood?	/r/seduction	06/07/24 08:02 PM
0	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls Whats fin+ min ?	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:57 PM
0	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls Whats fin + min ?	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:55 PM
1	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? Whats 6/28 ?	/r/seduction	30/06/24 08:09 AM
1	For those that used to suffer (or still suffer) from Oneitis, what was your mindset like? I meant what if someone is giving you ioi's but you are not attracted to that person.so basically before entering the relationship. Why would someone enter a relation of they aren't attracted to them?	/r/seduction	28/06/24 06:50 PM
1	For those that used to suffer (or still suffer) from Oneitis, what was your mindset like? What if the woman who is on the same page as you but you are not attracted to her and you want more high quality woman ? Then what whats one suppose to do?	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:37 AM
1	For those that used to suffer (or still suffer) from Oneitis, what was your mindset like? Isn't learning the game etc like doing song and dance thing to get her to like you?	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:25 AM
2	How to respond to low effort/boring/vague messages? Good one.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 11:53 AM
1	Game Was active in 20s how to get back in 40s That's the thing it doesn't remain a game it becomes altogether a different thing. It becomes transactional.	/r/seduction	16/06/24 03:26 PM
2	Game Was active in 20s how to get back in 40s Does it even remains a game if one is using money etc?	/r/seduction	16/06/24 07:32 AM
3	Game Was active in 20s how to get back in 40s What could be the reason for that?	/r/seduction	16/06/24 06:14 AM
1	Can you explained what happened? Can a guy also give ioi's ?where can I read about ioi's for men more?	/r/seduction	13/06/24 04:07 PM
2	Can you explained what happened? What do you think the op should have done instead?	/r/seduction	13/06/24 03:39 AM
0	How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10? What if sometimes you see someone stranger and want to talk to them and you may never be able to meet them or see them again since you don't know them?	/r/seduction	06/06/24 03:18 PM
1	How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10? These days most girls wear headphones or read a book or on phone talking to someone ,how can one break the ice in situations? Also you get to hear or read a lot that women don't want tobe bothered and all. How should one approach without annoying them or them feeling bothered?	/r/seduction	06/06/24 03:04 PM
2	How unusual is it for a woman to be very forward when it comes to asking a guy out I think the probability for the later must be much more than the former	/r/seduction	30/05/24 04:29 AM
0	How to convince neighbour girl for hookup. Why?	/r/seduction	27/05/24 09:36 AM
34	So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day... Why is everyone thinking of worse scenario? It could also be some mlm scheme. You never know.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 12:12 PM
5	Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please Help Do not ever reply her. Unfollow her from everywhere but first block her. And for your own mental peace forget about her. Don't look back. Take it as a chance that you got to get away from her without much damage.	/r/seduction	16/05/24 07:36 PM
1	I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong? What does routines and qualifiers mean?	/r/seduction	28/04/24 09:36 AM
1	Where to go in Europe This	/r/seduction	19/04/24 07:40 PM
3	I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth. This is the right advice	/r/seduction	19/04/24 07:08 PM
1	What pick up line works for you everytime? Is there any book on holding court topic?	/r/seduction	28/03/24 07:50 PM
1	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE What should one read to improve first impressions ? Can you suggest something plz?	/r/seduction	29/07/23 09:00 AM
1	Dating is just sales. If only we know a way to build physical attraction to someone?	/r/seduction	21/04/23 11:56 AM
1	Dating is just sales. Can you plz cite some examples of what women respond to ?	/r/seduction	21/04/23 11:54 AM
1	I've decided to stop being a Nice guy What does NMMNG stabd for?	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/02/23 03:39 PM
1	How to overcome a lack of social proof Whats situational smv?	/r/seduction	19/09/22 02:18 AM
1	Toxic advice in the book "models" Thnx. Where can i read more about this ?	/r/seduction	10/09/22 07:06 PM
2	Toxic advice in the book "models" How can one do that to make her touch him?	/r/seduction	10/09/22 07:13 AM
1	Toxic advice in the book "models" Any good sources to read on building comfort as a newbie? Also i think there should be good books on just how to calibarate women.	/r/seduction	10/09/22 06:37 AM
1	Toxic advice in the book "models" Can you plz elaborate more on mood of the conversation part ?	/r/seduction	10/09/22 06:28 AM
1	What are the ways of isolating a girl? How do you do it? Hi ! Were you abke to find ans to this ?	/r/seduction	06/09/22 03:41 PM
1	How to you DHV during a conversation? Are tgere female pua's too?	/r/seduction	06/09/22 06:51 AM
1	NEWBIES READ THIS -- Comprehensive Guide to Game Which method are you refering to ? Cannyounelwborate on this plz?	/r/seduction	23/08/22 02:40 PM
1	NEWBIES READ THIS -- Comprehensive Guide to Game How to use non verbals to get them to smile?	/r/seduction	23/08/22 01:53 PM
1	[FR] A lovely young lass went down on me in an elevator Which line are you refering?	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:13 AM
1	I need a little advice on coke approaching Whats negs ?	/r/seduction	21/07/22 07:41 PM
1	The Taming of the Shrew: A Red Pill Analysis (X-Post from TRP) Are there any books or resource to learn how to tame an arrogant shrew in modern times?	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/04/22 01:25 PM
1	How To Create An Emotional Connection With A Girl Hey the link to video says private video. Can you plz provide the name or other libk for the video.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 07:09 PM
1	How do you guys deal with womens fuckery? Thank you.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 08:59 AM
2	How do you guys deal with womens fuckery? So when should a guy make a move ? If not on glancing and smiling ?	/r/seduction	19/04/22 05:51 AM
1	I think the idea of just introducing yourself and asking for a number is just dumb. Can you elaborate on this hit and run phone number technique plz?	/r/seduction	10/04/22 12:23 PM
1	Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD) Hey the youtube video link says its unavailable. Can you give the title of the video plz?	/r/seduction	06/04/22 05:08 PM
1	Escalation cheatcode: technique I used to overcome my severe escalation anxiety Who is braddock ?	/r/seduction	05/04/22 08:54 PM
1	[FR] Pre-selection by Women Can you plz explainnthis point more.	/r/seduction	15/03/22 05:32 PM