selitos Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	About to go from low income, to much higher income, and might get hit with child support case in the next few months. Trying to figure out if I should postpone the job. She lost kids already and she probably will fuck this one up too. Courts don't like removing kids and if they've done it already then clearly she's a real piece of shit. If it's yours and you can stay involved and on top of things, you can save the kid from entering state custody too. Which would save that kid from a lifetime of pain and trouble. Consider that. If you don't want to pay child support best way to do that is actually take the kid.	/r/MensRights	03/04/23 12:50 AM
1	About to go from low income, to much higher income, and might get hit with child support case in the next few months. Trying to figure out if I should postpone the job. Sure it does. Either kid goes to daycare (at least 1000/month) or mom stays home and watches, which prevents her from working. Then you have clothes, which they go through quickly, formula, bottles, toys, car seat. Medical expenses. It's expensive as fuck.	/r/MensRights	03/04/23 12:43 AM
-4	Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'? First of all, she worked more than 7 years. I assume she raised kids which is definitely high value so I'd just suggest viewing your respective contributions through that lens. With that said she's probably wrong, unless you're misrepresenting, but arguing with a woman is a lose-lose situation. They're not logical. Your response should be "I greatly value the effort you put in around the house while I'm away from the home at work. However, I believe the current split of responsibilities is fair …	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 11:02 PM
3	Why don't men have places to go to anymore? I've been trying to learn a hobby to get out of the house since my wife gets so much time out and I don't. So I searched group golf lessons - they only exist for women and children, men need to pay up for private instruction during the workday. I searched my community clubs list and 25% are coed, 75% are for women and mothers only. I looked at my company business groups and they're all DEI bullshit. I'd like to find something to meet other men to, you know, make friends. But men getting together…	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 02:01 PM
15	Why don't men have places to go to anymore? That last point is very true. It's like how employers don't want employees getting together and sharing grievances or compensation info.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 01:57 PM
1	The pay gap myth explained graphically (for sharing) They would also say that they chose professions that help people and being in business or finance or corporate law doesn't. They'd ignore that making money is the primary reason we hold jobs and you could volunteer if you wanted to help society. And then they'd say that the disparity in pay between industries is unfair. And then emotionally shut down when you tried to explain that people weren't compensated solely based on effort but instead the price at which it would be difficult to hire a rep…	/r/MensRights	06/02/23 04:05 AM
6	Man looks in woman's direction, accused of staring. Tries to help, must be a creep. He was probably sitting there fuming that she was dicking around on the equipment he needed. Nothing sexual or lecherous about it. That's why he asked if she needed help with the plate, it was like when a waiter at a restaurant repeatedly asks if you need anything when you're camping out at a table they want to turn over.	/r/MensRights	23/01/23 03:34 AM
1	How saying no to a woman made me lose my gym membership You can be whatever gender you want to be! Just make something up and cry about the oppression.	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 06:39 PM
2	Am I wrong for feeling this way? Youre not obligated to be comfortable with that type of behavior and you don't need therapy. Wish her the best and find someone who is a better match for your values.	/r/MensRights	02/01/23 08:18 PM
2	A more nuanced poll on abortion I'm pro choice but you need to make your choice in a reasonable amount of time. Is that limit 20 weeks? If you put a gun to my head I'd say 15. You should be finding out around week 6. You're getting an ultrasound at week 12 (hopefully) to check viability and getting the genetic screenings around this time as well. You've had 9 total weeks plus a few weeks after checking for probability of a genetic disorder to weigh your options.	/r/MensRights	26/06/22 01:34 AM
65	Why is this ok? Women want complete control over the manner in which they're approached by a man, engage in a relationship, and raise a family. In general they want to position themselves in a way that only benefits them and makes them feel safe (from dissenting opinion and alternative viewpoints) and validated.	/r/MensRights	18/04/22 11:17 PM
2	Casual Misandry at my school today Boys have been meeting this kind of attitude in schools for a while. Teaching is a female-dominated field filled with college educated feminists. It's almost like women can be just as toxic as men, except our society is trying to eradicate toxicity from men and enhance and magnify it from women.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 01:42 PM
0	Found this crossposted to Imgur - thoughts? (A post from a trans person on now being male) I have a couple thoughts: The aloofness they experienced may have been due to gender transition and trans identity in addition to being simply male. the lack of socialization men experience is accurate but I place blame on the outlawing of male spaces. men aren't going to strike up friendly conversation at the grocery store with other men like women do but that doesn't mean they can't be close and vulnerable with each other. They just need outlets to make friends and have company of other men an…	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 01:36 PM
1	Would you go to a male-only gym? I'd attend one because I think too many women view the gym as social hour and spend WAY too much time talking and laughing. It's distracting and just not the vibe I want in the gym. But let's be honest, male spaces aren't allowed to exist.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 12:10 PM
3	The reaction to the Oscars is downright disgusting and very telling of what kind of person someone is I watched the Chris Rock joke then I went back and watched Gervais attack the audience in 2020 then attack Mel Gibson a couple years prior. Layer on that weird bit last night where those women groped Momoa I think and some other guy as a joke. The message is pretty clear: If you're a man you need to be an ape that hides his feelings, aggressively defends women from anything causing them stress or discomfort, takes harassment, jokes, and criticism about their own selves stoically without response…	/r/MensRights	28/03/22 06:06 PM
17	Another Ad Targeted At " Toxic Masculinity " Well when men harass men it's fine, "just be a man". When women harass and judge women it's actually the patriarchy doing it. When women harass men it's fine, "just be a man" and "he must've done something to deserve that". When men harass women we need to shame the entire male population for it.	/r/MensRights	17/03/22 12:40 PM
4	Another Ad Targeted At " Toxic Masculinity " You don't need men to be the victim either. You can have an ad showing how deliberately mean and openly judgmental women and girls are to each other, how the expectations for their appearance and behavior aren't thrust on them by the patriarchy, but by other women.	/r/MensRights	17/03/22 12:29 PM
5	My heart goes out to the Ukraine Soldiers Someone's gotta make the sandwiches! They'll be back to bitching about gender roles as soon as the fighting is over.	/r/MensRights	25/02/22 04:03 AM
7	A girl said to me at work day "I'm all for feminism and women's rights, equal rights but if WW3 happens thank god it will be the men first, I don't want to fight in a war" You were surprised? Feminists whine for equal representation in high paying office roles while conveniently ignoring the dirty, dangerous jobs maintaining our homes and infrastructure. It's not surprising they'd also keep their mouths shut when the threat of war is in the air.	/r/MensRights	25/02/22 04:01 AM