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Love this idea!!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 06:13 PM
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Very nice! All of these ideas ROCK!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:11 AM
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I also wanted to add I like the lingerie idea. He's very visual- he gets off most on visual things, just looking at me, etc. Very "typical" man. lol. I generally just wear whatever underwear is comfortable and invisible under clothing (basic thongs and bras, usually beige) which I know isn't sexy. Sometimes I'll change into lingerie when I get home, but it might be nice to do a spontaneous thing and already have it on :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:11 AM
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I don't mind male opinions as long as they aren't sleazy or trying to get personal info or "pics" out of me despite me obviously being in a relationship (dudes have attempted that, but not here. LOL). Thanks for the input! Some of those things are no-gos for him and I know that already, but I like the out-of-the-bedroom idea!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:10 AM
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on the weekend, definitely a good idea. He's very much about needing his sleep so I figure during the week that would actually irritate him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:08 AM
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LOL. I'm not sure he'd be able to handle that. He'd probably just get really annoyed with me. It does sound like fun though.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:06 AM
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LoL I tried to take that with him and he refused because it was "too long". I wonder if they have a shorter version.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 11:59 PM
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That's a great idea! We give each other massages a lot in a casual way, like "Oh, honey can you massage this for a minute?" but it's never a formal thing. Definitely the kind of thing at our level that isn't too intimidating or cheesy :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 10:46 PM
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I don't fully get what you mean by this, but the definition of high personal boundaries is not tolerating being abused, disrespected or neglected, so if they are tolerating that, they ipso facto don't have high personal boundaries. If a man puts up with that kind of stuff, he also would have really low personal boundaries.
/r/askTRP18/12/13 12:33 AM
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That doesn't address their mental state or personal boundaries, which was more what I was referring to.
/r/askTRP18/12/13 12:28 AM
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This is obviously well written and funny, but doesn't really apply to the attitudes most couples in legit LTR have, at least not mine lol. If DF called me a cheap whore as a joke, it would be OK and funny, but the arrangement you're referring to doesn't sound like anything I would even come close to tolerating. It helps I'm not broke.
/r/askTRP18/12/13 12:19 AM
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I don't doubt women put up with that, only that psychologically healthy women tend not to. It's self destructive to enter into a relationship where you get nothing out of the deal, so it's unlikely that a high quality woman with high personal boundaries would put up with something like that when there are other men out there who are willing to bring something to the table.
/r/askTRP18/12/13 12:09 AM
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Thanks. Will do!
/r/askTRP17/12/13 10:19 PM
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It's a joke. I would have sex with him regardless of what ring he got me. I have been paying for more dinners though, it's the least I can do. Since you mention it, how should a woman be repaying her man for a ring? I feel like I owe him something but I know he'd be annoyed if I spent an equal amount of money on a gift for him.
/r/askTRP17/12/13 09:10 PM
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No worries, just curious. Whatever makes you happy. My only issue is if someone is getting hurt.
/r/askTRP17/12/13 09:01 PM
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Is it an open marriage, or something that your wife (or girlfriend?) agrees with? Or does she not know?
/r/askTRP17/12/13 08:45 PM
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Thanks :) Good clarification. Cheating isn't zero tolerance for me, but it would still be a major violation. Meaning I wouldn't necessarily divorce him but there would be a need for counseling and some major work on the relationship. I wouldn't just be like "Oh, he's alpha that's cool lol"
/r/askTRP17/12/13 08:06 PM
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Yep :) that's how I feel at least. I never want to make him feel exploited or emasculated, so it's a really fine line to walk! I think it depends a great deal on my income and status. If I made a lot less than him, the 60/40 split may not work as well.
/r/askTRP17/12/13 07:31 PM
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Well exactly- I could forgive a drunken mistake (maybe- and it wouldn't be an easy thing to forgive) but an affair is really crossing the line, and if he did that I know I could find someone else. I don't think I'm better than him- in fact I think we're quite well-matched, but similarly if I had an affair I'd expect he would react the same way. I'm very against divorce so maybe we'd stay together but it wouldn't be a Don Draper esque 1950's "I'm going to pretend not to notice it" kind of thing.
/r/askTRP17/12/13 07:23 PM
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Yep- she should think about her future, though. Ask her what she honestly sees happening in 10 years- then tell her what will most likely happen. This may help.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 07:05 PM
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Why would anyone stay with someone who treated them that way, though? I can't think of one woman who would put up with that. He's being an asshole to her AND cheating/having emotional affairs? That gets to the point where she's literally getting nothing other than the privilege of providing him with food and sex. Why would she stay?
/r/askTRP17/12/13 06:52 PM
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Exactly. this.
/r/askTRP17/12/13 06:50 PM
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This isn't alpha behavior, it's asshole behavior. It's great to display high value and let her know you could get other girls by just being a high-value man. But saying this, and/or treating her like a fuck buddy, isn't alpha, it's just being rude and selfish. What exactly is she getting out of this relationship? A successful red pill relationship is not one where the woman is just being used for sex and food. That's pretty much just as bad as those blue pill relationships where the man never ge…
/r/askTRP17/12/13 06:47 PM
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Opinion rom female: Hm, intimidating? Not sure about that. In what way? The only thing I can think of is a man who comes on ridiculously strong, to the point where a woman is literally concerned for her physical well being (he shows up to her house, etc). Other than that, never heard of a woman being intimidated by a guy just because he's good looking and successful. Is it possible that you just come on too strong? (Not in an alpha way, but in a desperate way). i can't think of any other reason …
/r/askTRP17/12/13 06:38 PM
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I agree- maybe a guy 5-10 years older, but nothing crazy. Too big of an age difference can be a problem (at least according to MMSL). Not a foolproof rule but still.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 06:29 PM
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For what it's worth, it won't make her unmarriable if she goes to another town where nobody knows her and she doesn't have any STDs. Even then, some guys don't care. But most do, so it would still certainly affect her ability to get married. Just not necessarily destroy it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 06:28 PM
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Yes exactly. Women (some) are capable of enjoying promiscuous sex without having mental problems, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea for them or anyone. Eating cake is fun, but if I did that I'd have an allergic reaction and get fat. Consequences, basically.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 06:27 PM
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Oh gosh, she likes guys who are taken!?!??! This is almost certainly self-destructive behavior (in my earlier comment I wasn't sure about her motives)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 06:26 PM
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This could be an unpopular opinion but hear me out! Yes, being slutty will affect her marriage prospects. But I don't necessarily think she's doing it because she's unhappy. I do think women have the ability to enjoy promiscuous sex- I never did- but I think it's possible. However, much like partying too much or eating too much, it's just not good for your body or soul. Another unpopular opinion- men are not immune to STDs either, so it's not great for them either. It just doesn't affect men's m…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 06:24 PM
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Not always :) there are bad and good saturated fats. Avocado and olive oil are high in sat fat but are still considered healthy. I eat a high-fat low-carb diet and it's been great for me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:18 PM
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NP, that's why I'm here! Also to give a female POV if anyone needs one :)
/r/askTRP17/12/13 05:16 PM
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Ah- well I want to have it at my mom's house (again saving $$!) but yeah, destination weddings are lovely.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:56 PM
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omg. I thought that was hysterical.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:52 PM
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It's insane, but the weirdest thing is it's getting quite mainstream. The term for these people is "SJW" (social justice warrior)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:52 PM
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Yep, Tumblr is a shitshow. Please see: TumblrInAction. It's all about making yourself a victim, and even "embracing" your mental illness to the extent of refusing to treat it. I wouldn't be surprised if some of her mental problems were induced by Tumblr, honestly (I mean, I have no idea but it seems the longer people stay there the more "issues" they claim to have- one minute it's anxiety, the next they're a recovering anorexic/cutter). It's a terrible place.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:52 PM
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I'm somewhat new, and there's a lot of variation! For me, it happened because I was sick of hearing bizarre you-go-girl pieces of advice whenever I had an issue with DF. I'd hear "Dump him" because he made a joke about me, or "You can do better" for no precise reason. I wanted to be around other women who weren't always so quick to blame men. I also think men and women are fundamentally different (one is not worse than the other) and that's also a big part of RP philosophy (but again, lots of va…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:46 PM
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I totally agree. I just got engaged and I want a small wedding that is sentimental but not over-the-top. My parents are paying for it anyway, but I'd rather spend that money on our future together. So I just want to have the wedding at my mom's house, we're not inviting tons of random acquaintances, we're not having a professional DJ or a cake (I'll make cupcakes or something) and we'll just have an open bar so people can have fun.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:43 PM
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Marrying too young is certainly not a good idea (at least most of the time). I knew a girl who married at 19, but she wasn't the girly type, more rebellious I guess. Divorced one year later. It was almost a prank.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:41 PM
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Yep, I'm excited for my wedding but it's not because that's ALL I care about! Sure, I'm a girly girl and I like picking out dresses, but I dated this man for 5 years before he proposed...what is the likelihood that those 5 years only happened for me to plan a wedding? haha
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:40 PM
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My wedding probably won't have a cake (cupcakes though- but I hate the taste of wedding cake, lol) and we're trying to save money so we're also cutting a professional DJ (a mixed tape will do, honestly). It's still going to be a "nice" wedding because we plan to have great food/drink, beautiful venue and yes, I'm planning that awesome dress. But I don't think it would be as fun if we did this a whole year later! That just sounds odd.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:39 PM
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I'm obviously biased since I just got engaged, but the author sounds bitter with a capital B. I also felt this way before I got engaged, and I do think that plenty of women get married too soon, to the wrong men (or they're the wrong woman themselves) just for the wedding. But the vast majority of people who get married aren't doing it for a wedding. I'm obviously very excited about my wedding but I'm most excited about being my fiance's wife. Being together for 5 years before engagement helps.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:37 PM
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Not sure if women are allowed to comment but my fiance pays for about...60% of stuff (not including my ring, which I think I'll pay off in sex and home cooked meals lol). We split some dinners because I do have a job (not as good as his though) and it's not unheard of for me to take him out on dates. We also split rent/vacations. I buy all the groceries, pay the TV bill and electric...he buys all our wine/liquor, Netflix subscription, takes me on more dates than I take him on and he gets me amaz…
/r/askTRP17/12/13 04:36 PM
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Is there a reddit-mandated amount of things you can say per week? I'm not being snarky, I'm actually curious. I just figured if people didn't want to click my stuff they could just not.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:33 PM
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Good ideas! :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 04:33 PM
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No offense taken :) I totally understand! I always like to encourage him to do all that stuff, I just don't want him to ever think I don't love him and support him the way he is. I want him to know I'd be proud of him even if he never did anything "great" you know?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:40 AM
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Ha! That's cute. And I don't think he'd be hurt or offended.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:39 AM
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Yeah. I really should have just made a cute joke back. That would have avoided this argument! I'll try that next time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:30 AM
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Makes sense :) What I mean is that I just want him to be happy. I'd be sad if he got complacent and his life became boring and dull. I encourage him to improve himself however he wants, I just don't have any particular things about him that I want to change.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:30 AM
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I know you're trying to help but I definitely know what I'm getting into and i love him more than anything. We've been together for years before living together, and then years of living together before getting engaged. He wasn't trying to hurt me, and I'm not even mad at him, I just want to know how I should have reacted that would have been less harsh. I'm sure he was trying to be funny, and normally I love his sense of humor.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:27 AM
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He was trying to be goofy (he's a big teaser- and usually I don't mind) but it struck a nerve with me because I had specifically not gone to the gym so I could see him! I don't think he meant it to hurt my feelings but I probably overreacted by snapping. I normally love my body (it's my best physical feature) and I'm definitely not fat!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:26 AM
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Very wonderful comment! I don't want him to do anything to increase his SMV- he's wonderful as he is. The one thing I need to work on is picking my battles, I think. Sometimes he makes "jokes" that offend me. Our relationship was never very blue pill- I am a very insecure person (just being honest) so even before I discovered this stuff I basically did whatever he wanted me to do. Now it's a little healthier in the sense that I still voice my opinions but I can't remember a time I've ever denied…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:09 AM
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Thanks :) And good to hear. Yeah, right now I keep trying to remind myself that all the wedding stuff is fun, but it's indicative of something much more important. I suddenly started doing more chores around the house, getting him what he needs more, etc. and he goes "I should have proposed earlier if I knew I was getting this deal." LOL
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 01:49 AM
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Thanks! I'm glad nobody is judging me for working- DF would actually be so annoyed if I stopped working permanently, even to raise kids. I suppose I'm a little more traditional than he is. He says he would understand if I stopped working to pursue a creative thing, but he wouldn't want me to stop working altogether. Besides, he likes having a second income :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 01:36 AM
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LOL! Well I never want to get complacent :) Right now things are awesome (knock wood) but I keep reminding myself that every newly engaged couple probably felt this way, and look how many people get divorced!
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/13 11:32 PM
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At that point, I'd rather just get fillers or use Retin-A if I'm going to have anything done. I don't hate my nose- it's made me a little self conscious but my fiance (he proposed the other day- yay!) doesn't mind it and I've even asked his opinion. I still want to look like "me" and I don't want to try to look like another ethnicity. Major surgery is not in the cards for me right now- I'd prefer to save that for when I need a face lift.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/13 11:20 PM
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I know, but a lot of people insist that's what it means when they're trying to defend it. I just wish people would stay consistent. If feminism did mean that, I'd be on board with it, but a lot of the time feminists in real life don't abide by it at all.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/13 09:43 AM
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Kind of, I guess. Narrow and long but not bulbous, if I had to describe it. I'm a little self conscious about it, although I've always gotten really positive feed back about my looks so who knows.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/13 09:42 AM
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Yep, some of my boyfriend's friends are even in their 40s! So if we're all out together, nobody is guessing that I am 24. I also notice that people in their late 20s/early 30s are more likely to think I'm their age, but people in their early-mid 20s are more likely to think I'm the correct age. Maybe people just assume whoever they're talking to is their age.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 04:44 PM
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i appreciate the feedback! Yeah, tonight I wore a cardigan over a dress because it showed a bit too much boob. Mine probably aren't as big as yours were (28G, which sounds huge but I look more like a full C cup, if that in clothing, however they do look big naked). Anyway, yeah...short dresses are pretty much not a "thing" for me, which is fine as I prefer knee length dresses. But anything loose makes me just look heavier, as I'm sure you know! Belts are my friend.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 07:51 AM
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No, same, I'd rather wear a sexy pencil dress than a skater dress. Besides my boyfriend hates any style that is too childish- even to the point of not liking dresses that flare! I'm sure I'd look younger if I wore leggings/PINK sweatshirt out in public but that's really not my style. As for the guesses, yeah, women tend to be a little harsher than men.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:35 AM
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Thanks, these are great tips! I don't think I have any allergies- only thin I can think of is gluten and that's a digestive thing, not an allergy thing. But I may try the preparation H cream!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:13 AM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:12 AM
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Interesting. Yeah, when I dress slutty it is solely for my BF! But I feel like if other guys even look (guys I am not speaking to or acknowledging) it can ruin his view of the whole thing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:12 AM
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I'm white, but more yellow-white than redhead-white if it makes sense- dark features, mediterranean heritage but light skin. kwim? My parents both look great for their ages so no genetic factors that I know of. My parents both looked way younger than me at this age. The vast majority of people guessing me "older" are women, or even close female friends of mine. Men sometimes guess me at 27 or so, but some men have also guessed me at 18-22.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:11 AM
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I never understood the hating looking young thing. I feel like it's a major humble brag, unless the concern is that they look non-sexual and childlike. Anyway, my hair is long but it's dark. I wanted to highlight it but my boyfriend hates lighter hair and loves it dark so he wouldn't let me, lol. I don't wear much makeup, just enough to even out my skin tone and darken my eyelashes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 02:13 AM
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True, the thing is he's not very good at articulating what he likes! In my opinion, a crop top with cleavage is way sluttier than a short skirt, but for some reason he sees it the other way around- sometimes he'll tell me dresses in general are too much, then I try a pair of jeans and he thinks the top is too slutty. lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 02:01 AM
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Thanks for the comment! My hair is down to bra strap so I don't think my hair is the issue. I do have a relatively narrow face structure so maybe it's just that I lost the "baby fat" before other girls my age. Do you think that makes a person less pretty?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:57 AM
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Wait what? Now it's not PC to say someone is "female"? I'd understand if he said "bitches" but female is a perfectly fine word. I'm guessing all those people are Tumblr SJW types.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:24 AM
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Yeah..they're so sweet to me about my skills/personality but when it comes to looks they love to rub in how "old" I look. They may not know how much it hurts, but it really does. 90% of the "you look older" comments have been from women, maybe it's a knee-jerk jealousy thing, I have no freaking clue.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:18 AM
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My issues are similar to your GFs- I've written about them on a different post. Anyhow, my boyfriend does get tired of complimenting me all the time bc he feels it serves no purpose- I'll just be mean to myself again! Plus, comments from other women do not help. Ugh. Anyway, a big thing that helped me with self esteem was being more active in my life in general. It sounds like she's already beautiful, but does she have fun finding clothes to show off her body? Does she go to the gym, enjoy worki…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:14 AM
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Thanks! Not sure if I mentioned this in my OP, but I'm very curvy. And by that, I don't mean fat, I mean I'm thin with pretty big boobs (28G, not a typo) and a proportionally big butt/hips (not Kim K big, I wish!) I find that my friends who are less curvy tend to be seen as younger...or my friends who are heavier because the baby fat leads to a more youthful face. I'm also on the tall side, and I notice the people who get seen as younger tend to be shorter (which is kinda silly, since we all sto…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:07 AM
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I wouldn't say so! But I may come off that way in big social situations, I'm very goofy around my BF and family, but at parties (our social circle is older, usually) I may come off as older because I'm acutely aware of needing to fit in with the older crowd. My friends are all about 5 yrs older than I am (and claim to look younger than me, which is kind of irritating)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:03 AM
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My boyfriend also looks old for his age bc of facial hair..he's 26, folks think he is early-mid 30s a lot. My concern is that if a woman peaks at 20, that i look like I am "over the hill" and thus, less attractive than all my friends who get guessed as "18" (or so they claim- I think they look their ages). However I have some pretty good indications that regardless I am pretty attractive, probably an 8/10 if I had to guess but it's hard to be objective. I also have a pretty great body which I fe…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:01 AM
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Definitely. But my issue is that he doesn't mean what he says- that he's only being polite. He knows I am worried about my looks, so it's within his interest to lie to me. My concern is that all the women I know joke about how "old" I look, and I've even had a few men think I was 27+. It's at the point where he won't even talk about it anymore because it bugs him! Hence...reddit. lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 12:59 AM
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Thanks for your reply! yeah, I'd rather not post a pic bc I don't want to be recognized, but I can tell you a bit more about my face: I have an oval shaped face with a defined but narrow jawline (so it's not a big hefty man-jaw, just defined, a la Megan Fox or Blake Lively, but obviously I'm not as gorgeous lol). I have almond shaped eyes (deemed "exotic" sometimes) which are really dark brown. My eyebrows are medium-thickness and dark, I line them very subtly to make them more "even". As for fo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 12:51 AM
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this may be unpopular since there is a lot of older man praise in red pill circles, but you should definitely keep in mind the risks of older men fathering children. 40 is totally fine, but if you don't want kids for a while it's something to think about. Also, being 10 years apart can be helpful for many reasons but 20 years apart can certainly bring up issues. Just realize that you may be a caretaker while you are still very young/active. If you're able to handle all that, then have fun and ge…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 12:05 AM
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The ironic thing is that "feminism" is supposed to mean women having the choice to live the life they want- even if that life is traditional. Every time I try to explain how radfems are actually being anti-feminist by shitting on traditional women I just get "OH YOU MUST SECRETLY BE A MAN IN HIS MOTHERS BASEMENT." Wrong. female.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:55 PM
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I should point out my friends (female) say I look 30, my boyfriend says I look my age, and my mom says I look older than my age when dressed up with makeup and younger than my age without. I don't know who to believe. I've been guessed as young as 16, but it's way more common for people to think I am 28-30.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:53 PM
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I should point out a major issue for me is the anti-marriage stuff I see. The whole point of getting into this is helping myself start a great marriage. I guess that might be the difference between being a regular religious person and a fundamentalist? lol. Just trying to figure out where I am and what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 09:26 PM
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