semiredpilled Archive

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1	Potential partner asks what my career goals are, and how he can help. No problem. And cold is absolutely what we don't want. Women are amazing because of the warmth they can express with their love. Men show love differently. Men don't have the kind of contact women provide in the context of warmth, especially if they work in a male dominated sector. The most healing thing a woman ever did for me was let me lay on my back in her lap while she gently massaged my head. It was the first time I could really decompress with a woman around and really did build up non-se…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 07:22 PM
1	Do men really want to get married? Without coming off as too argumentative, here is the deal. Think of it this way. If men were so distrustful of women (who do not like prenups) as this suggests, we would have an issue of men interacting with women or wanting less interaction with women. We don't. We have an issue of less marriages, the rise of families and couples who do not get married, but still are in committed relationships with kids. This even extends to highly religious families. The issue is that at any time, regardless o…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/21 05:57 AM
2	Do men really want to get married? No it does nothing if the courts have crazy rules around it. There have been cases of claims of signing under duress and so forth. So prenups actually offer little value in practice. And to the point of men who don't want marriage don't want children, this is just ridiculous. Men are not afraid of responsibility. They are afraid of getting taken to the cleaners by the courts.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/21 09:17 AM
2	Do men really want to get married? I am from the US, but live in Europe in a region that for historical reasons has this happen very, very often. Guys are not slow. They know they have a high chance of getting taken to the literal slaughter house when it comes to divorce. When a woman has brought this up to me and I bring up the divorce issue, her reaction was shock as I went straight to divorce. Any guy with a bit if a brain is going to think about the potential consequences of his actions. That also extends to marriage. While g…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/21 04:40 AM
2	Potential partner asks what my career goals are, and how he can help. The thing you must ask yourself is what is "what stage". I married a woman who cooked for me on our second date. We ultimately ended up divorcing, but I got into another serious relationship with a woman who cooked for me within a relatively short time of knowing her. I wouldn't call it a date, but she lived close to the office buildings where we worked and she invited me over for her to make lunch for me. This is exactly the attitude he is talking about. If you don't feel comfortable, fine. But…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/21 07:04 AM
1	Potential partner asks what my career goals are, and how he can help. First of all, you are young and it is not uncommon and in my view, totally normal to not know what you want to do in life. The best general advice I can give to this is to first try to explore certain things and see how you enjoy them or how it benefits your life. From there, you can find a passion. Second, if you really like this guy a lot and can see things getting serious, think about how you can make his life better, easier, more efficient, etc. Men inherently do not want to complicate this.…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/21 09:43 AM
3	There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date Coffee is more than enough. You can always politely end and walk away whenever you want. I've done it before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 07:16 AM
1	Men who are average, how's your dating life? This is the kind of shit I am talking about. Total exaggeration. For years, YEARS, I put in 80-100 hour weeks. Nowhere did I say I am a god. But this passive aggressive bitch shit is why women don't like you. I had companies fail, lost tons of money, was rejected in business ventures hundreds of times before I finally started doing well. It was brutal. So you bet your ass I believe in myself. I don't make excuses about how life is too hard. Life is hard for everyone. Pick up your balls, make som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 10:56 AM
2	Men who are average, how's your dating life? Dude, I am a 6ft tall, fit and athletic guy and women have basically given me endless compliments. There was a guy I used to chat with at the gym from time to time who was 5'5" or so. He was very confident and energetic. He got more women and hotter women than me. Most of them were taller than him. And, he was from a 2nd world country. Excuses, excuses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 02:12 PM
2	Men who are average, how's your dating life? As another guy instead of a woman, there are plenty of women that would give most average guys a chance. I am extremely picky because I can be. I have dated a lot. If you listen to women talk and pay attention, you can tell who broke up with who in their last relationship. I have NEVER heard of a woman say a guy she was with was ugly as a reason for ending it. In fact, the hottest woman I have dated in awhile, and I mean very hot, near model material, told me she liked that I take care of myself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 01:26 PM
1	Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable Anymore What are you talking about? Sure, not 100% of the population is going out, but not 100% is online either. I have zero problem meeting women in either setting. There are plenty of places to meet women. My only issue is local restrictions due to the pandemic that make social events difficult. Other than that, the last two years, I've met more people than I have in the previous 8-10 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 08:56 AM
37	How to repair damage I caused by all my lies? First, let's start by getting and understanding of how this is viewed from a man's perspective. It may help in understanding the implications deeper (before the advice is given). Whether you like it or not, any man that is a man at all is possessive. This means that he views you as his. In a healthy relationship, his expectations are that you come to him for guidance, stability, protection, safety, etc. In an unhealthy relationship, a guy would be overly jealous and controlling on a freakish lev…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/21 09:51 AM
1	Define “Femininity”, “Feminine Energy” and what that looks like in detail. Soft spoken, girly (anything but deep) voice. I once went on a date with a professional water polo player. She had almost as deep voice as I do and I've been known to shake walls when I whisper. Into beauty, her looks, fashion, slightly silly (not in a dumb way), knowing all the shades of colors...	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 04:36 PM
1	I made a comment by mistake. Now I've emasculated him for his current financial situation. How to move forward? I consulted for a brokerage that day traders use. I know how it works. If he doesn't have cash in his account, he is in pretty deep shit. Traders use ~3% of active assets in trading on any given day. That said, day trading should be a small portion of the rest of any financial strategy. Maybe the "annoyed" part could have been delivered a little better. But, the point is spot on. This guy does not seem to have his financial house in order. Give him a fair chance to fix things, but be careful. Th…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 04:25 PM
1	How can I dress to attract RP/LTR kind of men? I am a guy and I am extremely picky about this. By extremely picky, I mean, you will not meet anyone more specific on this. Clothes send a message. I personally will not be seen with a woman who dresses in a way as to communicate she used to work in the pleasure business... I like women a woman wears a simple, classy, and well fitting dress. Women have curves that can be shown in a classy way. I do not like cleavage on a woman I intend to take seriously. I see that as "for my eyes only". A dress…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 04:13 PM