sempernullus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Shitty Comfort Tests		sempernullus	/r/askMRP	23/01/17 05:50 PM

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7	No time for lifting? Okay cupcake. As an FYI, this is a place you come to get real advice on becoming a man. If you want someone to hold your soft little hand you’re in the wrong place. The schedule I just laid out for you is EXACTLY what I do 3x+ week. While you sit around and tell me to get real, I’m actually at the gym slamming weights. BTW as I write this it’s 4:26AM local time. Guess where I am? You’re here for real advice. I just gave it to you and you whined. Don’t think I’m the one who needs a reality check.	/r/askMRP	05/11/17 10:29 AM
3	No time for lifting? Wake @ 4am >> Gym 1hr >> Go home >> Protein >> Sleep for 1:30 >> Problem solved.	/r/askMRP	04/11/17 12:54 PM
1	Don't you guys every get legit angry at your spouse? Here's what I've found over the past 12 months. My frame almost entirely dependent on lifting. If I'm consistent in the gym, my frame is consistent. If I end up with a 80 hour work week 4 weeks in a row & never hit the weights my frame literally goes to shit. Tldr; LIFT	/r/askMRP	03/08/17 10:42 PM
4	How do you prevent young sons from becoming too feminine p their around mom a majority of the time? Sure, here's a brief list. The importance of having a mission. Building systems to make that mission achievable. Doing what he wants to do because he wants to do it, not because he thinks someone wants him to. Covert contracts. The importance of finding & maintaining male friendships. How to view failure simply as feedback, learn from it and adjust for better results next time. Understanding others "feelings" and why he shouldn't be concerned with them. Not to get involved in his sisters' or any…	/r/askMRP	09/07/17 02:51 AM
2	How do you prevent young sons from becoming too feminine p their around mom a majority of the time? My son, who is now 11, spent a good deal of time with mom in the early years. I could definitely see how he was becoming conditioned with feminine thought processes and actions. While I was a BP retard back then, I still knew I didn't want him to be "girly." Fortunately, he's naturally drawn to sports and just competitive in general so my job has been easier than others, I'm sure. But, what I found helped was just spending one on one time with him doing boy things. We shoot guns, work out, go ca…	/r/askMRP	08/07/17 06:55 PM
3	At a crossroads "... don't feel happy." You poor thing. Maybe you should stop worrying about your feelings & start thinking logically. Does your wife add value? If not, is it your fault for not being the captain? How long have you been sidebaring & lifting? What's you BF%? What dread level are you on? Are you attempting to lead your wife in every way? Is she responding? If not, maybe it's because she doesn't believe your changes yet. Are you consistently holding frame, being the oak? Have you internalized the D…	/r/askMRP	25/03/17 04:32 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 07, 2017 OYS Score 27 down from 40 last week. Areas to Fix: Macros & Initiating How I'm Fixing Macros: follow my grocery list & recipe plan on eatthismuch regardless of business lunch or dinner meetings. In other words self discipline in the face a shitty food. How I'm Fixing Initiating: focus on being fun , light hearted & Initiating instead of always being focused on getting stuff done. Good to get stuff done, but all too often do it at the expense of other things, including sex with wife, fun with kid…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/03/17 03:11 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 21, 2017 I'd say quality is good enough. Shirt fabric leaves something to be desired. It's a little light for my taste, but not enough to complain. Stitching is good & fit is always on point. Far & away a better look/feel than the manufactured stuff you get at stores & price is great. Pants are a step up from shirts. Fabric & stitching are nice. Hip area could stand to be slightly tighter, but that might have to do with what I was wearing when I was measured. Same outcome as shirts, end up looking much b…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/02/17 04:52 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 21, 2017 Today marks 6 months since I swallowed the pill. For me the Red Pill mindset took fully, the first 5 months to start to sink in. The first month was me sprinkling alpha. It worked initially, but I quickly realized it was a front & that I still had a ton to learn. Months 2-4 consisted of me flailing around in & out of frame just trying to find my way. Some time in month 5, particularly after re-reading WISNIFG, it started to click. The first few months were me changing so that I could change my w…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/02/17 02:22 AM
–	Alpha offspring game... Congrats? This seems pretty low effort & I'm uncertain what lesson is to be taken away here.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/01/17 04:10 PM
5	Estimating body fat? Calipers. $5 on amazon	/r/askMRP	27/01/17 12:24 PM
0	Shitty Comfort Tests Interesting read. I am really trying to understand the why. Wasn't sure if it was due to me doing something wrong or just part of the progression. Glad to know it's not just happening to me. Drawing from everyone's experiences has been invaluable to me during this journey. Thank you for your contribution.	/r/askMRP	23/01/17 09:17 PM
–	Shitty Comfort Tests By STFU I don't mean just being quiet. More along the lines of smile, make a stupid comment & then just drop it is more like it. I'm still working on AA. I find that it's a fine line & I'm not improved to the point where it works every time so I use it sparingly.	/r/askMRP	23/01/17 07:09 PM
–	Getting control of finances Why would you save a fortune in taxes? Which taxes specifically? Can you quantify what a fortune is in this scenario? I can't even count how many RE deals I've done & I've never once been in a position where putting something in my wife's name would have helped so I'm a bit confused. I'm all about saving $$$, but in RE everything is in my name.	/r/askMRP	22/01/17 10:34 PM
2	Transformative Experiences? Instead of going somewhere why not do something like put together an event in your town for something you enjoy. Build a team, get volunteers, sponsors, attendees, etc. Take the time you would spend finding yourself & build your network by adding value to an entire community. May be long run more productive than finding yourself on some immersive journey.	/r/askMRP	19/01/17 01:02 AM
3	What to say when she calls you out on your changes... I've gotten this question quite a few times over the last three months. Here's what's worked for me: Wink & grin as I exit the room. "Aw baby, you know you love it" as I kiss her forehead. "Am I changing? I haven't noticed." -OR- STUF & roll over.	/r/askMRP	14/11/16 12:40 PM
5	Teambuilding tonight, told LTR I was going, she got pissed and left, what should i do? The first mistake is that it sounds like you DEERed by explaining yourself. The second mistake is that you're now considering not going. Don't how down that road. You should go. You want to go, you told her you were going. Just go. Have fun & don't explain anything else. She'll get over it eventually & if she doesn't, who cares? It's not your problem, it's hers. Just brush it off and see it for what it is, a shit test. Her feelz don't affect your actions. Part of being the oak. Have you read sid…	/r/askMRP	04/11/16 05:11 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 04, 2016 1st post. Let me have it. RED LIGHT: Failed multiple shit tests as well as comfort tests. Ended up living in her frame for a solid week, fail after fail flopping like a dead fish. Just now coming out of it, but sex literally dried up as soon as I failed the first test. Hard no's left & right. Didn't get a lot of reading done last week, but making up for it now. Finished NMMNG & half way through MMSLP. Also read through/listened to all of BPPs web based stuff and rational male website since start…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/10/16 05:51 PM