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Excuses
/r/seduction13/06/26 03:03 PM
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Leave it to reddit for someone to give a fair, reasonable answer...and then for someone to comment offended
/r/seduction29/05/26 12:59 PM
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Yeah just do it...worst case she don't respond but at least you won't have the "what ifs"
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:22 PM
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, XXL
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:51 AM
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It’s when the sexual tension on a date (usually the first one) builds to its peak, but you don’t seal the deal. When that happens she’ll often assume you’ll expect things to go further next time..and because that moment of peak tension has already passed, she'll usually rationalize that it’s no longer worth continuing during the time between the end of the date and you trying to set up the next. The spark fades, not because of lack of attraction, but because the emotional timing was missed. Eith…
/r/seduction23/10/25 09:49 AM
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Why, you wanna go subscribe?
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:59 PM
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First of you need to stop overthinking, you are your own worst enemy here. Start with foreplay, Tell her she can only say 4 words (slower, fast, harder, softer) Start slow and soft and she'll guide you right to the sweet spot. You'll get her off doing this and should be more confident to seal the deal.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:36 PM
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I rarely drink so 99% of my dates don't involve alcohol. The vibe or date has never been ruined due to lack of alcohol You gotta learn to be comfortable and have fun without it.
/r/seduction01/11/24 04:12 PM
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You shouldn't have a dog if your to busy to take them out
/r/seduction15/10/24 09:55 PM
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Takes notes from the guys that can be flirty and confident with their cocks out LOL. Cheers, best of luck
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:32 AM
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I think any dating show really. There are so many these days. Love is blind is interesting since it's all talk, no physical attraction. Then I just saw an episode of some UK dating show where they were all nude 😆 You can take notes on flirty and body posture on that one
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:04 PM
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Say you will tell her about your crush over drinks
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:59 AM
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How often do you work out? (This doesn't have to be gym, this can be going for a walk or run or even push ups at home) Do you have friends you talk to regularly? What do you do on a daily basis? What truth are you talking about? I disagree , Your headspace is very unhealthy. I'm not sure why that's difficult to understand. I see you giving yourself ZERO compassion or love. You should be giving yourself that the most
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:59 PM
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I mean in the end I really don't know what their relationship is so I can't speak to much on that. I'm sure in some cases your right, but I'm also guessing in some cases the guy must have his shit together & knows how to talk to women. I definitely see it often though. It's really stood out because at first I thought what you just said. But after seeing it first hand so often it's changed my mind a little
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:52 PM
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How old are you? I checked out some of your other posts. You seem to be in a dark spot / head space my friend.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:48 PM
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I say this with love bro. You need to quit the victim talk. Or you will continue to loose. Develope the underdog mindset. Read Carol diwecks book "mindset" You either have a growth or fixed mindset. If you learned about CBT why arnt you practicing it? Just like muscles on your body. It's hard at first and takes time. But it works and you will see results. But you never will if you keep the victim talk and mindset Again I say this with love
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:38 PM
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I mean I live in socal so a 7 here is a 10 in a lot of places lol But really, I see that shit often. The chick is easily a 8-9 . Dude slapped on whatever clothes, low effort in hair or beard. But they definitely a couple by the way they acting. I run a coffee shop in a popular spot BTW. So I'm in that kind of environment 40 hours a week. And again...I often see guys with girls above them SMV
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:34 PM
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False bro.. The truth is your going to get whatever reality you choose to fight for. You wanna say "i can't fix it and I can't change " ...? Guess what .. you are not going to fix it and it's not going to change. You wanna say "I'm in a shitty situation but I have the will and ability to change".. Guess what...you will change and so will your reality. But this also requires time, patience, and consistency with block and replacing those self defeating thoughts. This is a CBT 101. You must block &…
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:00 AM
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Bro I see very attractive women with pretty unattractive guys all the time. First thing you gotta do is get the confidence in yourself because without that it won't happen. But they can do it. You can to. If you don't believe that. It's about you start convincing yourself otherwise
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:47 AM
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Trying to tell if they are being nice or actually interested can be hard imo. But I think there are factors to let you know if you are good looking. The biggest one being how often do you get compliments from woman or approached I think a good indicator is how many compliments you get and even how often do woman ask for your #. This might be just my interpretation of what I see, but I often see guys online talk about NEVER getting compliments or having woman approach them.
/r/seduction11/09/24 08:22 PM
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Whether this works. Idk. But there are some examples to help you brain storm
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:25 PM
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Just for fun I copied your text and threw it in chatgpt. Here is what ai has to say "Using a text like "Can you keep a secret?" is definitely a playful way to build intrigue and encourage a meet-up. When she asks what the secret is, the goal is to keep things light-hearted and fun. The "secret" should be something that teases her curiosity without giving too much away or making things awkward. Here are a few ideas for what you might say if she asks what the secret is: "I have a confession... I k…
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:23 PM
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Tony Endelman
/r/seduction01/09/24 04:20 PM
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I just finished "The Big Stick" . It's a hearty read (or 14 hour audiobook). But I can't reccomend it enough. It really does feel like a man's guide to almost everything (career, relationships, self). I've got like 3 pages of notes and actionable steps I can take. You should take on the goal of reading it this month. I feel pretty certain you won't feel so hopeless or lost when you are finished. And instead motivated with a plan. And more patience to see this through
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:51 PM
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100%. We are humans and at the core of our being need love from eachother and to have relationships. You are statistically going to live longer if you have quality relationships so it's nothing to brush off. But you still don't show up to a relationship half empty and you can't expect your partner to satisfy every need you have. We must learn to fulfill those needs by yourself, through family and good friends. You should have an awesome cake of a life and your women is the frosting on top. Not t…
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:47 PM
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Seeing all those guys living your dream should motivate you. If they can do it why can't you? You gotta work on shutting down the self defeating thoughts and replace them with better ones
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:41 PM
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Nah bro you are not crazy for wanting some reassurance. The right woman for you will have no problem meeting that need. But it is important for us to not rely solely on that ya know? Like she can remind you every other day or so and on the other days you work on satisfying that need yourself. Really is a healthy balance if that makes sense. I just mean getting specific with the goals so you to make sure you are making progress every day. Best way for us to achieve those goals is to track that da…
/r/seduction27/08/24 11:07 PM
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What about the Ben Franklin effect? " a psychological phenomenon where an individual who has done someone a favor is more likely to do that person another favor. More likely, in fact, than if he/she had received the favor."
/r/seduction27/08/24 04:19 PM
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Definitely brotha, I agree that one of my needs is getting some reassurance now and then. And the right women will understand and provide that. Wrong one won't and we just gotta learn to move on from those. End game is to find that wifey and maybe kids. No rush on that though cause I understand the importance of finding the right one. Goals right now are focused on self improvement so if the right women comes around I don't fuck it up. Lol Continue to put myself out there on dates. Working out. …
/r/seduction21/08/24 05:26 PM
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I started with a strong anxious attachment, probably around an 8 or 9. Now, I’m closer to a 4 or 5—half secure, half anxious. I’m still working toward being more secure, but I've learned it’s a process. I wish it could be as easy as flipping a switch, but it’s not—at least not for me. I still find myself getting too emotionally invested too soon, which triggers anxiety when there’s uncertainty in the relationship. I’m also guilty of dropping everything to do something for her when I should prior…
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:07 PM
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Yes, this plus actually putting some thought into my style of clothes
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:52 AM
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I 100% agree with you. It's one thing to understand something on a intellectual level. It's a whole different game to actually embody it to a core feeling/ thought procereliant. And what makes it more difficult imo is yes, us humans at a core level need relationships. So there are certain needs that can only be met this way. BUT you can't come to the relationship at only 70%. You and her both gotta be at 100%. Hope that makes sense If I'm being completely honest this is something I'm working on …
/r/seduction18/08/24 09:28 PM
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I've been reading into attachment styles as well recently. Definitely anxiously attached myself. One part that's been helpful for me is truly understanding & accepting no one can meet 100% of our needs so learning how to meet your own is very important because in those anxious moments of uncertainty and you want to reach out again so this person can take care of one of your needs...maybe you can take care of that need instead
/r/seduction18/08/24 04:41 PM
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Everyone likes to act like they are the Ron Jeremy of sex. Just like everyone acts like they are better than everyone else at driving. The truth is most of us are average and that's ok
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:06 PM
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Thanks for sharing, I use to be guilty of covert contracts. Going out of my way to do something nice for a woman in hopes that she will see me "in a better light and now interested in dating". Guess that hits validation behavior to haha What's the reason behind not talking about women around your male friends?
/r/seduction05/08/24 12:32 PM
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Why don't you share your biggest take away from it. Anyone else is welcomed to chime in here
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:34 PM
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I got a quick question about text game. I got the woman's #, talked about plans in person so was able to make them easily over text. But there is 1 week before the date. Do you text them through out the week to maintain interest or just wait till date?
/r/seduction10/02/24 06:02 PM
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I'm curious what your bio / OLD profile looks like. Like most people said my problem is the opposite. But I still think I could get on your level with OLD with the right pictures / bio
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:08 AM
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