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I think it's interesting because you've turned a simple question into a little story about yourself and you're pulling the person into your world with it.
/r/seduction02/06/11 11:36 PM
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Well, sexuality is childish, so what's the problem?
/r/seduction20/05/11 03:44 PM
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Sexually speaking, all women are alike and all men are alike. There might be slight differences in sexual tastes, but they are insignificant compared to the drive to reproduce.
/r/seduction20/05/11 03:12 AM
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The way to solve any hard problem is to break it up into pieces that are easy to solve individually. Maybe you could try going to coffee shops to get comfortable hanging out in public. You don't need to talk to anyone, just go there and study everyday until you don't even really notice the people anymore. Also, people don't think about you. They think about what you're thinking of them. So, you might want to consider it from that angle.
/r/seduction25/02/11 10:03 AM
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I think the key to everything (not just pickup stuff, but life all around) is just picking your greatest fear and working on that. You don't have to necessarily confront it head-on right away, because I think you need to know your limits and know how much trauma you can take, but you can chip away at the problem until it's manageable enough to eventually face it head-on.
/r/seduction20/02/11 10:20 PM
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Forget about picking up and conversating for a few days. Just focus on letting your anxieties go and not taking everything so seriously. Everything is fine. If you think about it, you'll realize that whatever comes your way, you'll handle it one way or another and move on. Just go through your day staying conscious of the fact that nothing is a big deal. Be happy, you know? I mean, you don't want to be irresponsible or anything, but it does no good to be all uptight. You got some chore to do, li…
/r/seduction10/02/11 03:34 AM
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That is so true. Fear is always irrational and has no basis in reality. You may be able to think of some situation where you took a risk and got seriously burned and became "traumatized" by the outcome, but that's all just fear in your head.
/r/seduction13/01/11 02:22 AM
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Oh, I see. Sorry for insinuating you're stupid, I didn't mean it. I have no idea who I'm writing to or what your mental state is or anything. Maybe you're just being a bit too defensive with people in general and taking their behavior a bit too seriously. Don't let people's bitchy behavior affect you. It's not about you, so you don't need to take it personally. Being approached cold by a stranger makes most people very uncomfortable, so have some compassion.
/r/seduction07/01/11 03:27 PM
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You have to spend a lot of time with someone to develop a relationship with them that has kind of depth that you're looking for. Quantity of time is a necessary condition for quality time.
/r/seduction07/01/11 04:46 AM
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You grab her and start shaking her. "GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER! GIMME!!!"
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:50 PM
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Is there anything you said that could have offended her?
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:47 PM
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It's about having fun by building anticipation. Saying "let's have sex" isn't fun, it's all business.
/r/seduction12/11/10 05:16 AM
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You should study some philosophy, dude. This is the male version of therapy. You're just making some logical errors and drawing false conclusions about certain things.
/r/seduction03/11/10 02:59 AM
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Now this is good advice. I think this is probably what happened in my case. I have these female friends that I like to flirt with on facebook and she probably saw that and got insecure or something.
/r/seduction02/11/10 11:46 AM
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What are you asking us for? You got home delivery and everything. Tell us how it's done, man!
/r/seduction31/10/10 11:05 PM
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Well, I don't really look at it that way because it focuses on something that I have no control over. I'd rather look at it in a way that's going to get me where I want to go. I really don't care that much how I should treat her, I was just kind of curious as to how other people handle it. I'm now more concerned with the things that cause this type of behavior in women because this has happened to me before.
/r/seduction31/10/10 06:37 PM
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Just treat her like you're meeting someone new for the first time. Introduce yourself again etc. Really? But I've actually hung out with this girl a couple times before with mutual friends. That's why I'm so pissed. I screwed up interacting with her, but I'm not quite sure what I did. Acted too needy, I guess, I don't know.
/r/seduction31/10/10 04:46 PM
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Just don't be afraid to escalate. I always get nervous and don't want to escalate, but I always suffer for it.
/r/seduction29/10/10 09:08 AM
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Experience. Confidence is a sign of experience, but I think what women really want is an experienced man.
/r/seduction28/10/10 03:38 AM
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Good post. I wonder what makes guys weak/needy/desperate though. Certainly, none of us are born that way.
/r/seduction27/10/10 08:52 PM
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Here is passage from The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida that I found insightful: Choose a Woman Who Chooses You If a man wants a woman who doesn't want him, he cannot win. His neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will never be able to trust him. A man must determine whether a woman really wants him but is playing hard to get, or whether she really doesn't want him. If she doesn't want him, he should immediately cease pursuing her and deal with his pain by him…
/r/seduction27/10/10 12:15 AM
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Well, how do you judge whether you're about to make a move too soon? What factors hold you back? I have this problem where I think that a woman I just met feels like I'm a threat to her.
/r/seduction26/10/10 11:40 PM
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Feel the fear and do it anyway.
/r/seduction26/10/10 07:47 PM
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Great advice! What are the best things to say or do to let a girl know that you're into her physically? How soon after meeting her should you let her know?
/r/seduction26/10/10 05:26 PM
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I agree it is sad. I think the problems are that A) it's difficult to become a mature, well-developed man; it almost requires help from other mature men, and B) masculine values are denigrated in society and men feel ashamed for being masculine, so they think that women are more virtuous and that femininity and passivity are more saintly qualities, which is complete bullshit.
/r/seduction25/10/10 04:22 PM
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I agree this community is important for educating men, but I don't feel sorry for men like this. He'll either grow from his experiences or not. If he grows, then what he learned through his pain will be well worth it (I speak from experience). If he doesn't grow from it, then there isn't anything anybody can do for him anyway.
/r/seduction25/10/10 04:05 PM
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One thing that I recently realized is that when I'm interacting with a woman, and I give away my power and social status, you know by trying too hard to gain rapport, I get nervous and needy. But if I break rapport somehow, like busting on her for example, then I feel empowered by that. So if you ever feel nervous, check to make sure you're not giving too much power away, and if you are, immediately break rapport and get it back. Don't give away your power to women.
/r/seduction25/10/10 03:49 PM
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I'm more susceptible to nervousness when I'm tired. Alcohol may help in the short term, but after it has worn off, it interferes with sleep and makes you tired.
/r/seduction25/10/10 03:25 PM
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It's too hard to distinguish between your philosophizing and your storytelling.
/r/seduction23/10/10 05:47 PM
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Push/pull is all about building tension in an interaction. You want to take two steps forward and one step back. Build the tension up and release it a little bit, build it up more and release a little bit of it. This allows you to ramp up the sexual tension really high. If you try to just build it and build it and build it, it won't work because there is no contrast. The participants simply get used to it and it all dies off. You need that unexpectedness of the push/pull.
/r/seduction23/10/10 05:44 PM
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WTF did I just read?
/r/seduction23/10/10 01:35 PM
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Don't wimp out! If you feel scared, just approach anyway. You'll screw up. You'll feel ashamed. That's just part of it. Behind those barriers lies the sweetest victory.
/r/seduction22/10/10 11:14 PM
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Never ignore what your reason is telling you, dude. If you develop yourself as a man--which in a nutshell means that you have faith in your own reasoning and that you are able act on it regardless of what your emotions are compelling you to do--the rewards will far, far outweigh anything you can get from somebody else. If you have a choice between becoming stronger and having a little comfort, it doesn't even bear thinking about which one you should choose, at least in my mind. Just saying.
/r/seduction19/10/10 10:50 PM
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Just the thing I needed to hear right now. I fall into this trap every time.
/r/seduction19/10/10 06:05 PM
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I think the key point is to be concerned with her safety.
/r/seduction15/10/10 02:59 AM
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Could you elaborate on #9? Aggression makes the chick feel smothered.
/r/seduction14/10/10 05:54 PM
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She probably wants to fuck you but feels like you won't take her so she made up this story of "you're an asshole" to keep her inferiority complex at bay.
/r/seduction03/10/10 10:19 AM
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No matter what you do, you'll regret something.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:32 PM
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Well, seduction is a pretty unmasculine thing to do in the first place.
/r/seduction03/09/10 01:45 PM
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If you keep going out and keep trying to improve your mental state, you'll eventually get rid of the anxiety and start having fun.
/r/seduction22/08/10 12:59 PM
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Yeah, I usually open with some observation about the environment, but it's pretty boring.
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:36 PM
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I appreciate the advice, but honestly don't think that's the problem. I went to racing school one time and I still had nothing much to say about it. It was a thrill but you really had to be there.
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:34 PM
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I guess I'm just not comfortable leading a conversation with someone I don't know. I'll either say something and drop into silence, or ask questions to keep it going. It's just usually pretty obvious that I have nothing to say.
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:32 PM
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How do you meet new women, though? Don't you have to approach them? But how do you approach them without showing interest?
/r/seduction08/08/10 08:52 PM
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Why do you think noobs react too much? What methods do you recommend for helping them get over the problems that cause then to overreact?
/r/seduction02/08/10 12:37 PM
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Have you ever been interviewed by David DeAngelo? He does these "Interviews with Dating Gurus" that are really good, if you're not familiar with them. You should contact him.
/r/seduction27/07/10 03:35 AM
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indicators of thinking hard—a low status move I know this thread is kind of old, but thanks for the post, that was really insightful. I never thought of thinking hard as being a low status move. I was wondering, what are the most common low status moves that noobs do?
/r/seduction27/07/10 03:08 AM
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The person who wrote it probably has some type of personality disorder himself.
/r/seduction26/07/10 01:24 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/Music/comments/cnzpn/the_best_interview_ever_period/
/r/seduction12/07/10 02:50 PM
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Step one is accepting the pain and suffering life forces on you and quit trying to escape from it. Be accepting and chilled out about it. Utilize it. It gives you a lot of mental stimulation, so learn to appreciate it and discover the opportunity in it. You can't escape pain, but you can avoid losing your head over it.
/r/seduction11/07/10 09:43 PM
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You basically just put someone down to make them look bad. There's was a video posted on Reddit today that had Henry Rollins totally amogging this kid. It was a pretty good example.
/r/seduction10/07/10 09:19 PM
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I wouldn't make a big deal out of it if I were you.
/r/MensRights05/06/10 04:37 PM
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What are you going to do, live your whole life in fear of people fucking with you? Get real, man. People are not that sinister. Ironically, it's the cowards that are the ones that fuck with people because they're afraid that they'll be fucked with first, so it gives them a sense of empowerment.
/r/MensRights30/01/10 03:19 AM
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Yeah, but the propagation of successful genes is something that occurs over a long period of time. At any given moment there could any number of unsuccessful genes contributing to the long-term demise of the species.
/r/MensRights14/01/10 11:34 AM
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Being a man is identical to being conscious. All these things about being strong, independent, just, calm, fearless, having integrity, etc. are direct products of a high degree of consciousness when genuine.
/r/MensRights11/12/09 04:08 AM
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My father is alright. He's not a big figure nor a big influence in my life. He wasn't around a lot when I was kid since he was working all the time so we never learned to love each other. But I'm hardly unique, this is a common situation. Nietzsche recommended that if you don't have a father, then you should find a new one. Good advice from one of my fathers.
/r/MensRights09/09/09 03:13 AM
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I think the saying goes, "girls mature faster than boys", but the real reason is that girls don't mature very much, that's why they hit their peak so much faster. They say a woman reaches the peak of her rationality at around 18 years of age, but men don't reach theirs until about 30.
/r/MensRights05/07/09 01:06 PM
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And women wonder why nobody takes them seriously.
/r/MensRights01/11/08 12:38 PM
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Try Sex and Character by Otto Weininger. You can download it for free somewhere.
/r/MensRights20/07/08 04:21 AM
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Some men simply have better things to do than get married.
/r/MensRights07/06/08 10:27 AM
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