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| 1 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?Interesting, I prefer to "show don't tell". But I understand where you're coming from. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?Can you elaborate on what you say to make those intentions/attraction clear? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?Also make sure you're eating enough. Some exercise also helps to build testosterone, afaik (both these things) | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:45 AM |
| 4 | How do you actually flirt with girls?I relate to this. Personally I find it hard to go from nothing to intimate myself, so god knows how the woman feels. I'm talking outside of the drunken nightlife environment. Establishing a friendship first (with sexual undertones where possible) gives it the best chance of being longer lasting, assuming thats what you're/OP is after. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic?Agree with what you said here, I would add its very important to love yourself. Honestly a lot of guys overlook this and pay a heavy price for it eventually. Success is great and the call to action for all men but you cannot build anything without a strong foundation of unconditional self love. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:18 AM |
| 15 | Anybody else get a different "vibe" when you don't jack off?This is true, but at some point you also have to be honest with yourself and distinguish between overt lust / hedonism and your natural sexuality, the former which is encouraged and amplified by our society and which you should try to confront and grow out of. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else get a different "vibe" when you don't jack off?While I agree with you guys, in my experience porn is the kicker here. Since it’s a super stimulus, after you have used it to the point of habit, nothing in everyday life can quite compete with that amount of happy chemical release. So therefore when you abstain from the super stimulus, over a period of a few weeks your brain heals and resets to a baseline. This is why people report being able to concentrate on goals and generally enjoy being social once they get free of porn. I remember when I … | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 3 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisThanks for posting. I really relate to what you’re saying. I wonder if your contention to OPs post says anything about the dichotomy between fun vs grounded, and what women look for in men. Your approach sounds like it lends itself to intriguing the girl, whereas OP’s guy is cheery and positive. These two styles are likely to attract different types of people. Your pregame also sounds more contemplative and cerebral, whereas OP’s is carefree and fun. The deep thing we all yearn to know that it’s… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | nice guy obstacles to attraction and expressing intentin Glasgow and later Stratford in England, in the 70s. His father was a piece of shit violent alcoholic and his family was a step above homeless. He never did well in school, and his only pathway out of hell was a bit of athletic skill. And then he blew out his knee. He was dirt poor, on his own, and had no ma i think youre missing the point - being a "nice guy" is a meme of passivity, incongruence, lack of self confidence in masculinity. OP is not actually saying he is a "nice" guy | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Signs that I am attractive?well said brother | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Need to know if this girl is into me enough to kiss herHey OP update on how this went ? | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:33 PM |
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