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I do, but not right now. I'm 20, I'm not itching to be In a relationship right now when I'm working on myself and my shit. It would be nice to cuddle with a nice gal, but I'm good as I'm not where I need to be. Yet. I will be In time, dare say soon. I want cuddles, someone who gets me. "Get" being seeing the me I truly am, not one of my masks. I'm comfortable being single, less stress of having the responsibility of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:36 AM
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I'm a Virgin. My friend was too. We're both 20 and honestly look pretty good (I don't believe It, he didn't, we both tell each other we do). When he lost his V card, It was exactly as I told him: Nothing serious changed. Shit, he had fun and a cool girlfriend now so big fuckin' ups to him. Point Is, no rush for Sex. I want It, I need It, but no real major rush In that regard. Do want to lose It to gain experience though. I'll take cuddles, now that's what I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:44 PM
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Women aren't a monolith Men aren't a monolith. As It stands, this Is a relative truth. That's just weak, I should know because, as you said, It's using these urges. You don't have to be a genius to be instinctive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:18 PM
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Simply being a kind human Is woke now. Empathy Isnt coming back, It never left. Turns out no one likes an apathetic douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:38 PM
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Good luck convincing those guys, It's either every woman treats you like Patrick Bateman, or you're literally worse than the Penguin. Looks matter to attraction, with no personality, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:36 PM
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Well considering that's not what I said, I can only imagine you lacked the comprehension to grasp the words typed, so let's run It back: It makes as much sense as not opening up to men because of a bad experience: It does, Just not In the regard of blaming women. Be Stoic, grounded, trust your partner loves you and wants to hear your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:33 AM
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Would you say this about your mother? I wish all It took not to be manipulated was ejaculation, but that's not how It works. they just know how to use men's primal desires against them Well that IS a point made here, due to being inherent from learned traits. It's not "primal desire" when you lack self control. And what do you mean I'M gonna get someone hurt? Look man, I think you should take a Internet break and try talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:26 AM
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Elaborate? I'd see If I was saying It on emotion alone, but I find It's objective to what's currently applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:20 PM
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That's because people have been so chronically online, they treat every social interaction like they're on "pop the balloon" or something. How about a "Hey, how's It going?" Can't do that either because then there's folks who say It passive aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:17 PM
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Human Bad Human Good Humans are abstract creatures of thought. An objective observation Isn't me disowning the entire demographic of men. Not all Humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:52 PM
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Boys are taught to be tough the majority of the time Girls are taught they need a "strong man" who "ain't no sissy." I've never been judged by a woman for opening up. I keep hearing this, and It makes as much sense as not opening up to men because of a bad experience: It does, Just not In the regard of blaming women. Be Stoic, grounded, trust your partner loves you and wants to hear your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:50 PM
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I swear the bars Insanely low nowadays. I'm gonna go "Nice Guy" for a sec, but the way I act? I could get a girlfriend easily. That's not a good thing. I mean yeah, I am nice, but that shouldn't be the thing that makes a girl swoon alone, basic manners. Trust, I know most women aren't falling for me because I held open the door, as I wouldn't want them to, but me being gentleman-like on a daily Is a given. As It stands? I'm going against the flow. I'll go with It once things start flowing In my …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:47 PM
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I concur, I keep telling my bros whenever they're going through It, be honest. Don't go bounce to the next girl, that won't work. Come on, you just had your emotions drained. Talk about It, let's hit the gym, chat and sort It out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:44 PM
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It was, the late 90s showed this with boy bands and being "In touch with your emotions". The titular Soft Boy. You said It, they had to be because It was expected. Everyone wants to be emotional, but as stated everyone can't be around blubbering, whining, all the time. That doesn't solve anything. You need to be emotional, then intellectually solve your problems. I saw this In real time with my friend. He was talking about a breakup, then gave the whole "I'm gonna become rich, then she'll see!".…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:42 PM
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So then we agree, and It's instinctive due to relative environment. They spend more time and energy with It because It's instinctive at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:59 PM
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It's titled "debate" for a reason. I'm not some douche with a podcast who "debates" people without actually saying anything. I'm hear to share my philosophy, and have It argued against. The time spent typing all of this, could've just debated the point :/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:33 PM
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We're both saying the same thing, I made It confusing. Sure though, If there's no logical reason to, then why not? As long as clean, you're good to go. Now, If something happens, and you don't want a kid? Then rationality says you'd help pay for the human (thing) you helped created. Only 18 years, then It's done. Not an issue If you have money and communicate. Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:11 AM
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Do you not realize women do the exact same? It takes guts to be honest like that, cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:08 AM
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Well then simply don't leave? Use protection, plan B. I'm sounding like a smartass here, but we're way too ahead as a society to not realize the options. There's always abortion, I said It. I mean, If you don't want to pay, stay. Moral Is: If you can't afford Plan B (bullshit because you can get It for free at Planned Parenthood), you shouldn't be having sex. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:46 AM
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Impeccable debate skills, you sure shot down my argument there. I do infact say so, what say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:26 AM
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The Gym can't fix everything. When I was unemployed, depressed, the Gym was my daily outlet. I look good...felt terrible. Actually no, I felt great In that regard, but I wasn't going to let the gym be my ONLY remedy. Therapy, a good therapist and Journaling does wonders. You need to look good and feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:26 AM
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Why are there so many deadbeat dads? They live and learn, where experience tells me the same can't be said for said deadbeats. Who cares who does more evil? Just don't be. That's a great convo, but not really the topic. "Evil", In an objective sense, Is within all of us, as potential. Not that we are, just that we're capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:23 AM
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I small boobs. Ass man though. But let's see that personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:19 AM
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You aren't. Here's how I see It (*virgin btw): The girl who enjoys casual sex Is a free spirit. They meet a cute guy, horny guy meets cute girl, "wham-bam-thank you-ma'am" and move on. Then there's the girl who comes from a rough background, as If she feels "obligated" to please men, and In that case Is being used. Let me let you In on a not-so-secret "secret": Dudes saying they don't care are lying, It's a defense mechanism. They don't at first, It's just casual, then they develop feelings, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:21 PM
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Pretending not to care Is still caring. Had to hear bros go on and on about "not caring". Yes you do man, own It, heal, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:12 PM
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You're taking It too literal. The guy who abandons his family Is a male, but not a "real man". That's a faker, that's someone without integrity. A phony Is what we call them. How we think a man, In the context of humans, should act Is pretty straightforward. Treat others and yourself with respect, work hard, enjoys life, be well and do good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:42 PM
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"Real man" refers to masculinity, taking It literal as a real human male Is silly. "What are the values of manhood?" Is the question. What makes a good man, human, good? Man In the context of human, a real man doesn't harm others, a real man Is rational and collected. A real man knows when to stick up for others, but also knows when to listen, communicate. A real man works hard, enjoys life and what It gives. but the guy who did something horrid Is a man...just not a real one. Only by the confin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:40 PM
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Destroys the toxic worldview they've concocted from social media influencers. It's impossible they'd have any other preference aside what they deem to be "peak male physique". Is bro happy? healthy? Good. People are entitled to preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:39 AM
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Those erotica books ain't helping either, like damn, "as big as my arm"? Like dude, If your balls are "the size of grapefruits" I'd go see a doctor or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:34 PM
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I used to be self concious on my size. Then I stopped watching so much r34 smut. Almost like a comically large penis Isn't realistic. I still get self consious as I'm only 20, but come on, It's all about the motion. Size Is just a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:36 PM
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How to approach women: The same you'd approach a co-worker. I don't approach women because they're usually doing their own thing with friends, same as anyone else. A passing comment Is my go to, like "I love your hoodie", or maybe you noticed they have dyed hair, It's cool. Don't just approach anyone, have something to say, otherwise you're just standing there. She has the power to accept or reject you, and you've inflated her ego and made her more immediately aware that she's desired. Even if s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:02 PM
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I don't see the issue of having high standards unless you're judging others, If you're waiting for the titular "Mr.Perfect" or some Queen Bee. I have standards, because I'm not some horndog looking to lie with every girl I chat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:51 PM
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Men don't want to be complimented too much Men don't want to be complimented too little. Apparently women are complimented every picosecond of the day. Look, I cherish a good compliment, I always do, but I really don't need compliments to be confident In myself. They're nice, I appreciate them, but how many compliments do you think a random chick really gets a day? Most likely the same as you and I: not many. I'm objectively one of thousands of men as a demographic, I am one of myself and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:20 PM
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Well, I don't, but I do. I mean, there's so much shit I've yet to face, but the similarities In between that and what I've already faced give me an advantage. Life Is complicated, that's given knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:03 PM
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And as I also said, hurt people hurt people, others. This Isn't "moving goalposts" at all, I rebuted your response. They do that because they want to hurt you because they're hurt, and why should I let them hurt me when I could Instead try and heal them, hear them? People do that because they're hurting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 04:12 AM
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It's very hard for myself, example being single, but contempt as I know I don't have the time to put Into a relationship, just the love. Contempt, but lonely at times, even with plenty of friends. It's romantic loneliness. Humans do need affection. Again, contempt as It's for the best. Not everything can be oversimplified, unless getting rid of nuance and external factors. It's why I get upset at my "first world problems" as It still sucks (Ex. Losing a good sale/deal) but overcoming this simple…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:24 PM
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Aht aht, didn't say all that at the top. Not "who cares, find another", no no, I'm in no place to say that being single myself. It's If you love them, then you can be vulnerable. For you to love them, and them you, you have to trust each other. Being In a relationship alone would show you do. Example of a wrong time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:15 PM
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And why would that hurt me? Am I not human? I don't care about my masculinity enough, even though with my personality and body type I would be classified as, enough to feel emasculated. Barking up the wrong tree, I have no issue being vulnerable, however, alot of men do due to being taught such, and young girls taught such. I'm sorry you had to go through that, I understand she was hurt, upset, but that gave her no right. Maybe she needed a cry herself, a hug. But no, hurt people hurt others. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:11 PM
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Well, who doesn't? Ex. I wear the clothes I wear because I like them, but while not dire, a compliment Is nice, no? Hell, I dare say, a reach, I peacock with my colorful outfits, but again, It's me. I act how I feel, and I had to learn and still very much learning, as you said. I find by being decent and learning decency as a human, that's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:06 PM
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Define "unattractive". Take me, I found myself unattractive as a kid, teen, and even question as a young adult. And yet, I'm not, or If I am, then so what? I'm happy, but would be happier with someone by my side (not ready for a relationship yet, working on me!). Take those guys..."fakecels" (cringe, I know), handsome men who believe they're unattractive. You can be attractive and creepy, like me who's attractive and a massive weirdo, think Tyler1.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:01 PM
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I agree, all feedback Isn't equal. Ex. I'm a weirdo, people I trust said "Hey, you're cool! Just dial It back a bit, kay?" and so I do, not changing who I am at my core, but rather changing my psyche. It's better than say someone getting on me for say the way I dress, my Interests, what makes me me and to be "appealing" rather than authentic. I disagree on the last point, If you're so high IQ (which really only matters for functioning skills, not knowledge per se), you'd see the world differentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:58 PM
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I agree, like I said, I don't know everything, but personally gaining knowledge now being at ahem trade school (humble brag), and making friends, meeting people. Self Reflection comes from outside feedback, however, not all feedback Is valid, as In Is It out of malice, or genuine observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:54 PM
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"Trad life", please. You want a Traditional life, move to a small town In NC. The dynamic I see In those "Trad life" memes and vids aren't like the actual traditionalist life I saw growing up In a small town as a kid. The traditional lifestyle happens naturally, a loving couple, a nice home, kids, pet, whole nine yards. It's not this subservient "I want a high value woman" mindset towards women, It's a natural bond of trust, love, and respect. The average family In the south Is Traditional, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:52 PM
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It's man singular In that case, individual. Hell, when I'm afraid of being creepy myself, I use humor. I don't know how to flirt, I just compliment cool hoodies and the like. I like to think It's like confidence, personally I say I'm good at faking as I'm very much aware and nervous, but maybe that's what confidence Is, and by maybe, I mean Is. Doing It even when you're nervous, head high. That isn't men overcomplicating the situation, because by advising men to "learn to flirt," women are... Ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:47 PM
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I mean, yeah, they do, this doesn't change men commit more. Both are bad, but I don't feel offended based off that stat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:02 AM
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"The patriarchy Isn't real" And the government loves you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:20 AM
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You save that video, it could impact his life for the better. They always want to make it the woman was innocent ALL the time.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/20 05:16 PM
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