seraph999 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	Rebuilding after a personal hurricane (or, In praise of r/seduction)		seraph999	/r/seduction	22/06/14 12:21 PM
37	[FR] 2nd date F-close, food is the force multiplier	Field Report	seraph999	/r/seduction	29/06/14 10:55 AM

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3	Approaching the one Step 1. Stop worshipping. Take her off the giant pedestal in your own mind. Take the pressure off her -- let her be just a girl. Ordinary female person -- not a 10, or an insanely hot super-gorgeous [insert favorite superlative] gift to humanity. Her farts stink just as bad as yours do, only she's embarrassed to do them in front of anyone. Edit: Step 1.1 Now take the pressure off yourself. She's not THE one. She's an opportunity for you to break the ice, connect and relate to another human being…	/r/seduction	03/07/14 02:25 AM
2	First post, went out last night, got a number, finding oneself. I'm still pretty new to riding, got four months left on a restricted license so I'll be on this GS500 for a while yet. The Sreetfighter sounds awesome, best of luck with it man.	/r/seduction	30/06/14 08:51 PM
1	Great encounter, but bad text response? Hey Seddit, I started this job earlier this week and met this really cute girl. So is she a co-worker? In that case, she's probably backing off for the same reason you should. No shitting where you eat, bro. If she's not a co-worker, then whatever. Work on your number-closing so you can have a minimum of 2 numbers on the go all the time, thus you are required to give zero fucks if a girl doesn't want to text with you. Like u/throwdownthegauntlet said, abundance mentality.	/r/seduction	30/06/14 08:55 AM
1	First post, went out last night, got a number, finding oneself. First, I'll pretty much click on everything you write because of the username. Bikers FTW. Great work on getting back to it after the breakup. Before you call or text her (and yes, you should), get another girl's phone number first. This helps you to keep the right frame -- you don't need this one to turn out because you have other options on the go. If it was me, I'd text, but not with a date. Something random, light and funny, only with the aim of striking up conversation. If she keeps respond…	/r/seduction	30/06/14 08:39 AM
2	[FR] 2nd date F-close, food is the force multiplier You could broaden the home ground concept to include anywhere it looks like you're at ease and comfortable, like you own the place. Anywhere that makes it easy for you to demonstrate value. So for example, in a bar or cafe if you get to be on a first-name, "I'll have my usual" basis with all the front of house staff and so on, it could become your home ground. I plan to explore lots of cool out-of-the-way spots in my city so that over time it all could potentially be home ground for me. Hole-in-…	/r/seduction	30/06/14 08:27 AM
1	When does age begin to negatively impact you? Age schmage. I personally believe it starts to affect us only when we think it does. Main thing is to own your age and rock it for all it's worth. It's painfully obvious when a 40yo woman tries to dress like she's 21 (mutton dressed as lamb), so the same should apply for guys. I'm 31, just starting to get my first decent flecks of grey hair. I can't wait for it all to go grey. Sexy as hell. Also, whatever pressure we feel about aging, women feel to a much greater extent. Their options go down as…	/r/seduction	30/06/14 02:33 AM
3	[FR] 2nd date F-close, food is the force multiplier That's it. I'm coming over after dinner -- I'll make dessert.	/r/seduction	29/06/14 09:00 PM
1	Tomorrow I plan to start full immersion daygame for a week+ Curious, what's your plan for fitting the 2-3 hrs/day in around full time work? I mean, will you do it before work or after, weekends, etc?	/r/seduction	25/06/14 04:25 AM
1	Recent break-up; how do I get back to gaming? No problem bro. By baby steps I mean, any short-term goal-oriented activity that isn't too exhausting for you. What it looks like will depend a bit on how much of a mess you are (hehehe). For me, initially it was stuff like, "tomorrow I'll get up at 7:30, shave and make a coffee". That was all the ambition I could muster for a whole day. Over time it grew to stuff like, "this week I'm going to meet with 2 recruiters, follow up on 5 different roles, run 15km and learn to bake choux pastry". Sound…	/r/seduction	23/06/14 12:19 PM
3	Recent break-up; how do I get back to gaming? I feel your pain, mate. Hard break ups are no fun at all, and there's a process of grief you'll need to ride out here. It's ok to be a mess for awhile. Feel the emotions, don't rush or try to suppress anything, because if you don't give yourself time to deal with the hurt, then you'll find it coming out in ugly ways later on. That's not fair to all the beautiful women you have in your future, because they won't just be dealing with you, but with all the demons from your past as well, and we want…	/r/seduction	23/06/14 09:33 AM
2	Rebuilding after a personal hurricane (or, In praise of r/seduction) Thanks mate. Yes, it took a couple of days of lying on my back in an empty house to decide not to commit suicide. The final thought that tipped me over was something like: "Fuck it, I'll go when I'm ready to go, once I've done what I wanted to do -- not because someone hurt me so bad I couldn't take it anymore." In hindsight, that's pretentious as hell. Nobody knows when their time's up. But it kept me from pulling the plug on life on my own.	/r/seduction	23/06/14 03:33 AM
1	Rebuilding after a personal hurricane (or, In praise of r/seduction) Thanks for the kind words, guys. Should've added, a secondary challenge here is to really, actually move on and not keep trying to post-mortem each event. What was I doing or not doing at work that made my job so easy to cut? How could I have seen the government ruling coming and manoeuvred faster to preserve my business? Why wasn't I able to keep my wife attracted to me? And what possessed me to not remove the spark plugs from the car before confronting her about her affair? It's easy to let yo…	/r/seduction	23/06/14 03:24 AM