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This is starting to sound a lot like the "every man is a potential rapist, don't be surprised when it happens" feminist narrative.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:47 AM
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This could also be a result of how often it happens. If I had an unattractive girl hit on me every day, I'd take it as a compliment and politely decline. But if I had multiple requests from unattractive girls daily, wherever I went, it would quickly become very annoying.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 06:08 PM
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Since we can't exactly quantify the level at which a genetic "handicap" will prevent you from getting with a certain level of girl, let me state what OP meant in another way: I think it's fairly obvious to say that if you're born with sexually unappealing genetics, you will have to work hard to compensate. The worse the genetics, the harder you have to work. Eventually though, you would have to work so hard for that 9 or 10, that it stops being worth it. As such, the "9s and 10s" become function…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 12:05 PM
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I applaud you on the insane mental gymnastics it must have taken to bring a 1 or 2 up to an 8.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 02:45 PM
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Are none of you reading what OP is saying?! He's not saying you can't bang many girls if you're "genetically disadvantaged". Just that they probably won't be consistently attractive.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 02:35 PM
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I actually found the advice in that thread to be pretty good. Most advice is "dump her ass", and even some women commenting pointed out that OP just doesn't giver his GF the same tingles, and that he probably never will (alpha widow) and that he should just leave her.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 03:14 PM
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But this is only true because many of the men below average height are that way due to malnutrition, not genetics (which hinders brain development)
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:43 AM
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No you SHOULD be trying to be empathetic, sympathetic, and try to make your partner happy. But only so long as doing so doesn't infringe upon your own self-respect. Wife had a hard day at work, loved one died, etc. Of course, be caring, empathize and try to help them overcome the situation. Wife cheated on you? No room for any of that. She chose to disrespect you and deserves no sympathy if she regrets it later. Same goes for men who cheat.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 05:51 PM
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The title of this post is extremely inaccurate. The study talks about Microchimerism, where cells of other lineages than your own live and grow among your own cells. The most common type of Microchimerism involves cells from a fetus crossing the Placenta-Mother Blood Barrier, and entering and thriving inside the mother. This doesn't mean that other dude's cells are going to remain in her vagina and impregnate the woman, or somehow create an "infused together as a whole" baby. The other types of …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:55 PM
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Serb is just a nickname, not middle eastern. But yeah, I don't go out much (studying a lot), so I don't really have many drunken encounters. This is more of a day-to-day sort of issue. Nevertheless, thanks for your input!
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:49 PM
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No, I'm in med school and unfortunately don't have the time to work. I was just saying that I might potentially go into surgery, and getting into a fight I would risk messing up my hand(s). Also, black eyes would look very bad to patients (I might even fail rotations due to that).
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:08 PM
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I just feel like a lot of these guys will take staring as an invitation to get physical, and despite taking up kickboxing and lifting, I don't believe in violence. Also my career depends on me not getting violent.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:45 PM
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So what, it's a staring contest?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:31 PM
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While I agree with your main point, I want to state something for the sake of accuracy. Norah Vincent was admitted to the mental hospital on the grounds that she was pretending to be someone she was not, and it eventually got to her, not to mention the constant pressure or trying to not be found out and knowing your relationships are a lie. Not because she couldn't handle being treated like a man. She even said that she was pleasantly surprised that men treat eachother well with dignity and hono…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:40 AM
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No, he's saying rape is wrong, and rapists should be punished. But walking down an alleyway at night is dangerous, and you saying you should be free to walk alleyways at night doesn't change that rapists exist and you're an idiot for going there.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:04 AM
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In theory, the unicorn you want does exist. Keep in mind that RedPill theory bases itself on most of the population, and predicts the most likely event/outcome. 95%+ of women can be adequately analyzed using RedPill theory. However, there are those women that deviate from the rules, but they are rare, and you usually find them doing research in a lab or some extremely specialized job. I work in the medical field, and I can tell you that I have seen good looking and very intelligent women dating/…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:10 PM
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I disagree. This woman should be in jail. Assault with a weapon and all she had to do was take some shitty course. It's pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 03:58 AM
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I'm not familiar with the word "cad". Could you possibly define it?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 11:32 PM
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This is a problem I have, and it might just be me. But I also feel like everyone else has it, possibly due to projection: When I pick up on someone actively trying to build rapport, as opposed to it being natural, I immediately lose interest in them. It feels like they're trying too hard. I'm the type where if I don't care about your story, I won't start asking questions, because I don't care. But I'll listen to it. Anyhow, maybe this is why I have difficulty making friends. I just assumed peopl…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:16 PM
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Your argument is constructed on false assumptions. Very few people enjoy the gym. Do you have any evidence for this? Are you sure it's not just the people around you? Most people give up almost immediately... you know because of how awful the gym is. Again, are you sure it's "most people"? Assuming what you're saying is true, you overlook the fact that many factors contribute to something being enjoyable. Some people find stamp collecting enjoyable. Their fun isn't necessarily derived from the p…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:12 PM
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While you may be right, I feel that it's very unlikely he did it as charity. Also, the whole thing feels like he's A) trying to force me to give him money, and B) Invading my property. I understand it's just water, so this is why I held back (different story if I had something thrown at the car or whatever). But no means no, and this isn't the first time I've had this issue with this specific guy (he hangs around that specific intersection). This is, however, the first time I've stepped out of m…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:59 PM
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Do things for yourself. If you don't enjoy it, don't do it. I personally enjoy lifting weights and I enjoy seeing progress in my strength. Coupled with my kickboxing training, it makes for a very enjoyable experience. I feel that you need a change of attitude. Not everybody that does something you don't get or enjoy is a "loser", as you put it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:49 PM
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I've tried this. Haven't felt the chemistry. I had small groups of friends for the past two years but they all drifted away.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 11:30 PM
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E-mails just aren't the same. The vibe you get being around that person matters a lot. There's only so much feeling you can get out of text.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 11:29 PM
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I really hope you're wrong.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 10:03 PM
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You make a good point. I would hope that someone that I consider valuable would see the value in me just through basic communication. It's quite evident within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone where they stand socially and emotionally (although exceptions do exist). At this point we come to a fork in the road; either I'm so valuable that those around me seem boring, or not valuable enough to entice those people of value to waste their breath. As far as what I offer, others in the past have…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 09:57 PM
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This is a great idea. But I mostly work with electroncic music. I can definitely try to find others who do the same here. However, given that Romania is a poor country, only the richest can afford even small studios. From my experience so far, rich kids here are not very pleasant to be around. But who knows, I'm definitely going to give it a shot!
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:15 PM
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I can also say I have great friends that I intend on keeping for life. However, I feel the need to have more "relevant" daily-basis friends with whom to share things. While my friends across the ocean are great, it's difficult to remain relevant to eachother as long as we're physically separated for this long.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:09 PM
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The unfortunate reality is that connections break over long distances. I'm very busy most of the time, and so are my good friends. Add on differences in time zones, and we're basically always unavailable to eachother.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 04:55 PM
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Lol Im not a Serb. And I'm of average height, like 5'10. Also I have attended many parties and gatherings. Just havent connected. I'm not timid either.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:54 PM
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No I'm Romania.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:53 PM
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That's the thing though...I'm top 10% of my class. I study quite a lot and love what I do. The problem is that most people in my class don't care about academia or medicine (most people are here because mommy and daddy want a doc in the family).
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:52 PM
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I'd like to make an addendum. While I agree with your post, there are many examples of below-average looking young men with great game because their alpha fathers showed interest in their social upbringing. While good looking men do have the upper-hand growing up, not so good looking men with caring alpha fathers are on the same level. (Although on average, caring alpha father seems to be an oxymoron)
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 11:55 AM
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As a medical student going into research, I wholly agree. STEM degrees are quite valuable and necessary. Others are also valuable, but you could perhaps buy a book and just read at home to acquire the same level of knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 09:08 AM
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You probably see more posts like that because, on average, 6+ feet guys need to work less to achieve RP success with women than shorter men do. The unfortunate reality is that men who are average and below in heigh need to earn respect; it isn't given initially like it is for a tall man.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:44 AM
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I think friendship is one of the most important things in the world. We are social animals who need companionship. There are things you need to get off your chest and talk about that you just can't with your partner without risking them losing attraction.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:02 PM
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Lol but then when asked what she looks for in a meaningful relationship, she goes: "ok If I were, I would favor any person that has the confidence to come up to me and say ,"Hello, i am insert name and i find you to be very pretty and want to ask you if you would like to go out to dinner?" without stammering or shuffling around or pouting if I say no. There are "nice guys" who also have confidence, like my primary male partner, who i am deeply in love with, and am totally able to enjoy a great p…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:29 PM
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I'm not Serbian if that's what you're implying. Also, I've never seen "Calm down" being said to a dude without some variant of "don't fucking tell me to calm down bro or else..." said in reply, and shit escalating. As such, I can't agree with the above statement.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 09:26 AM
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I think this is universally applicable to men and women.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:30 AM
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There are details I left out for the sake of not writing a novel. But I tried my best to not misrepresent either parties. As I walked home, I too was baffled. I wasn't angry at him, or sad that I had lost a friend. I was just in awe that the aforementioned went down. Still kinda in disbelief.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:12 AM
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In his head, she liked him back, although I can derive from his description of her that she does/did not. I think they ended up going out for a short while and she just dipped (as he became apologetic for making her jealous)
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:10 AM
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Good point. Although people usually associate being confident and assertive with being an asshole. I life in Canada and society in general here demonizes masculinity. But yes, saying it like that does sound much more pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:27 AM
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Yes this is true. However, I left out some bits of the conversation to avoid redundancy. I explicitly told him that I feel he did nothing wrong in making her feel jealous. How guilty can one feel for something this insane to push them to react that way? EDIT: Normally, when someone feels guilty, telling them they did nothing wrong usually makes them more at ease. It's getting confirmation from someone they trust that they didn't actually fuck up and it's all going to be ok.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:11 AM
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This is true. However, I feel that the point still stands. Talking about this with people you aren't sure will vibe with it is senseless and can only work against you. The best people to talk to this stuff about is guys who get girls, and maybe girls who seek to become a housewife (if they're also intelligent).
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 02:47 AM
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I absolutely love the top comment: "I suspect if you're working for a living, you're not wealthy enough to attract a golddigger's attention, sorry." I mean, 500k+ a year is barely enough to get by.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 12:29 AM
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