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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
91	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.	Debate	serinadeee	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 05:28 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What are men allowed to complain about today? Not all rants and complaints are the same. It’s always good to know how to rant in a way that will be well-received by others. In my experience as a general trend, women tend to be better at appealing to people and gaining sympathy while men are often abrasive and sometimes even hateful when they rant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 10:32 AM
4	What are men allowed to complain about today? How accepting will a group of women be of a man joining them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 05:13 AM
3	It's important for BOTH genders to have their feelings of inferiority/disadvantage validated. This might be the good old apex fallacy (or not really apex depending on how you look at it?). In order to be desired, they need to be a woman who is above average in looks. Many women (40+%?) fall into this category, but it’s not even close to 100%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 05:57 PM
–	Acts of Chivalry like paying for the date are from a bygone era and aren’t relevant You have found a relationship dynamic that has worked for you for several relationships, and that’s great! However, there is something I hope to put across in a respectful way. I am starting to feel that you believe your dynamic (man pays, woman supports and reciprocates etc) is the best or most proper relationship dynamic. It seems to be the best for you, but it’d be good to not project it on others, because the words you used give the impression that you look down on men who are not willing to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 05:53 PM
–	Acts of Chivalry like paying for the date are from a bygone era and aren’t relevant I, too, want to date a woman who is excited about dating me and shows genuine interest in me. It’ll be good if she’s willing to pay for me and show that she’s truly interested. Whether she actually does pay is another matter (and I’d prefer to split so that I won’t feel guilty about it), but it’s great if she’s willing to! What I do find frustrating is that I described something that runs contrary to what traditional gender roles dictate. Hence it is not easy to find a woman to express her love …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 08:56 AM
2	Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more? I hope you realise part of being a stay-at-home parent is being a… parent? Talk to your kids and emotionally connect with them, teach them all the basic skills they’ll need later in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 12:13 PM
1	Woman alone in the woods with a bear, or a tall handsome stranger? Let’s add in a third option: a man who’s physically small-built, cute, feminine, dainty, same height as the woman. I wonder many would choose him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 11:22 AM
4	Woman alone in the woods with a bear, or a tall handsome stranger? Let’s add in a third option: a man who’s physically small-built, cute, feminine, dainty, same height as the woman. I wonder many would choose him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 11:21 AM
2	Women simultaneously benefit from traditional gender roles and modernity, but only where it suits them The presidency is won by popular vote. If a woman hasn't won the presidency it's because they haven't brought forth a candidate that America deems worthy. You do realise Hillary Clinton won the popular vote?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 10:39 AM
0	We should advocate fairness and equality, not necessarily "Men's Rights". I would be willing to forward that there are no decisive advantages to either being a man or woman, rather there are many small advantages and disadvantages that roughly balance out. I agree, and that would be perfectly fair… if only we could choose which set of advantages and disadvantages to take on. There are differences between individuals. An individual man may find himself struggling with the male gender role. He could be thinking “I’d rather take on the female gender role not because it’s…	/r/MensRights	22/04/24 05:32 AM
2	Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships? I understand what you mean and I agree with you. However, the purpose of my reply is to highlight to the person I replied to that her statement “whoever cares less has more power” doesn’t apply on an individual level. If men are willing to fuck just about every woman, women are “in demand” and that gives women the power to be picky about their partners. The fact that I (male) hardly care about sex does not give me any power because there isn’t a demand specifically for me. (Not that I need that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 01:42 AM
1	Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships? I’m a man who has very low libido, probably bordering asexual. Where’s my power?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 12:22 AM
1	Men with attractive (guy)friends, how easy those friends have it with women ? We could possibly interpret this anecdote as showing that women objectify attractive men more than men objectify attractive women. If women do not often do favours for attractive men and only seek sex from him, that’s sexual objectification. They don’t see the attractive man as a person in need of help in a non-sexual context. Men doing favours for attractive women shows that they still want to fulfil the attractive women’s non-sexual needs. This is not to say attractive women do not get objecti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 03:49 AM
2	Men age better than Women. Fact or Societal standards/expectations? I don’t understand how feminists and man-haters stand to gain if women are convinced that it’s better to date younger men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 01:25 AM
6	Men age better than Women. Fact or Societal standards/expectations? Another important question is, why is youth and fertility in men not valued as much as that in women? Age also affects sperm quality; the risk of birth defects increases significantly with the father’s age. It’s not exclusive to mothers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 11:57 PM
1	Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity. You don’t seem to believe that people truly do wear makeup to feel good about myself. What if I told you that I, as a man, would gladly wear makeup for that reason if it doesn’t get me as much judgment as it would now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 04:27 PM
20	Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity. Just a thought: Perhaps if it were normalised for men to wear makeup as well, we would have less debates of this sort. It seems to me that men don't understand women's motivations for wearing makeup because they've never been a part of it. When both genders get to experience it, it would probably be beneficial to inter-gender relations regarding the topic of makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 08:30 AM
2	Which is harder? Stay-at-home Parent? Or sole-provider for a family? I don’t feel that this question has any meaningful answer. It all comes down to what you’re good at as an individual. Take some time to discuss the most efficient way to divide labour with your partner based on both your strengths and weaknesses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 12:31 PM
1	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. I feel that it’d be better for me to handle the bulk of the unpaid labour at home. There’s no need to be too calculative; I’m choosing what I believe is the most efficient division of labour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:49 PM
2	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. You typed a few long paragraphs to justify why you believe you are qualified in the matter, but without going into any specifics on how you’ll go about raising your children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:43 PM
1	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. For me it’s not necessarily about the actual ability to protect, but the impression she gives me. It’s enough if she looks like she’s able to protect me. It’s a psychological thing. I can be paranoid at times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:34 PM
7	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. I believe that the female role is more suitable for me than the male role, for a variety of reasons related to my personality and life experiences. It would be a more efficient division of labour this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 06:18 AM
3	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. If I want to play the feminine role, I think it’d be awkward for my partner to also be feminine. It’d be good for her to be taller and stronger than me. I’m 2 inches below my country’s average height for men, which still makes me taller than 70% of women, but my weight is below the female average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 06:11 AM
7	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. Things would indeed be much easier for me if I was gay. It’s much more acceptable for me to play the feminine role. Unfortunately I am not attracted to men and cannot force myself to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 05:52 AM
6	I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man. I’ll start off by clarifying that this is my very first post on this subreddit. I have lurked here a number of times since last year but have never made any posts or comments. I appreciate your question about whether I could be a trans woman. I get this a lot and I’ve thought long and hard about it, and I’m quite certain I’m not. My utmost desire is to be allowed to play the female gender role, because it suits me better, without having to be female. This differs from a trans woman whose main de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 05:50 AM