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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Do that.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 03:12 AM
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A poorly organized and ineffective mysoginistic sex cult that targets and radicalizes naive frustrated young men using promises of easy sex through toxic beliefs and behaviors.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 07:02 PM
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Since you enjoy being toxic, I can't help you. You're blocked. Enjoy Reddit forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:01 PM
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I'm a married man with 5 kids. I don't like it when people of any gender engage in prejudice. The fact that some, many, or most women you've encountered are perceived by you to engage in negative (in your opinion) behaviors, does not justify your prejudice against all women without evidence of their individual offense. You should judge people as individuals based on their own actions, not based on the actions of others. And you certainly shouldn't use the hypocrisy or negative behavior of others…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:55 PM
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Here we have an excellent example of a prejudiced person rationalizing their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:50 PM
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You're own experience is exactly that, your own experience. And your experience is valid. What is not valid is extrapolating that experience onto all or a majority of women such that you end up judging unfairly a woman who does not match your preconceived notions. When we take a negative, or perceived negative attribute of individuals based on our own experience, and then make assumptions about entire groups they belong to, and then make assumptions about individuals within that group, that is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:33 PM
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Thank you for suggesting that I'm reasonable, most of reddit usually disagrees. It may be due to my different perspective. As a full time stay at home dad who homeschools 5 children while my wife works full time, I recognize that most "traditional gender roles" are nonsense propagated by 1950s television. On the subject of Redpill and gold diggers, I think envy, greed, and jealousy have a significant role to play in Redpill dogma. I see a lot of proponents of RP dogma expressing sentiments that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:47 PM
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People are difficult to understand because everyone has a different life experience and personality. Women are people. Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Do that.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 01:10 PM
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They're bigots. Mysoginy is their bread and butter, but they love a little racism to spice it up.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 12:31 PM
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Yes. Insomnia is annoying. But I do try to spend my waking hours providing some small insights to people in the hopes that they will find some help in it. And I also get to block assholes like you. So it's win/win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:18 AM
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Most do. Only an estimated 1% of people are sociopathic. And psychopathy is more rare than that.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 02:29 AM
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Well, you got the negative stuff in there by watching videos that confirmed that paradigm. You'll need to intake content that confirms your new paradigm. As far as gow long? That depends. Different people are capable of changing their mental paradigm faster than others. The fastest way would be with a counselor or therapist who can help you talk through the process. Absent that, try watching the many YouTube videos that debunk Redpill dogma. Abd finally, having a healthy friendship that is compl…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 10:55 PM
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It took you years of indoctrinating yourself to think this way. It's going to take time to detox. You've got to start actively looking at everything differently. You're basically leaving a cult. Getting rid of the brainwashing takes time.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 10:44 PM
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I understand. That's why I call redpill a cult. You need positive reinforcement. It's going to take time to recover your healthy sense of self. You need a healthy support structure. We're here for you. You're a very worthwhile person and the morons in Redpill don't define you.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 06:54 PM
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Have you read the Detox Kit?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 06:44 PM
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I think they are a cult.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 12:55 PM
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Not really. Compatibility is rare. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Open people are rare. Honest people are rare. Mature people are rare. Respectful people are rare. And then you have to be compatible too. So it's reasonable that finding a partner is difficult. All part of life's journey.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 05:34 AM
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I didn't date much, 2 ex girlfriends and 2 ex wives. Got cheated on a lot. Met my wife at church. We knew each other for years as friends, realized we were perfect for each other and basically got engaged before dating. Got married. She adopted my son and we now have 5 total children. Best 9 years of my life so far.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 05:19 AM
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Edit: Moved post because I meant to reply to a comment...
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 05:18 AM
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Tomgirl here happily married to my tomboy wife. You're not alone.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 04:51 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. If you find someone whom you can do that with every day we call it "true love".
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 08:44 PM
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You misspelled "All"
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 05:27 PM
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Grow up? Badumbump ching...
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 05:19 AM
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No. Redpill cultist use a misinterpretation of things he said to support their twisted dogma. Just like they use a misinterpretation of biology, theology, and everything else. Redpill cultist will use literally anything to support their confirmation bias.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 04:03 PM
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Because redpill men are young naive sexually frustrated men who's sexual urges very negativity affect their ability for rational thought, making the toxic cult dogma of redpill appealing to their base instincts. They therefore see a need to validate those base instincts above higher reasoning skills and critical thinking in order to justify their behavior and antisocial thoughts and emotions. It's a behavior that is typical of many cults. The combination of psudo-intellectualism, appeal to emoti…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 03:14 AM
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Art in all forms has been sexualizing women for literally thousands of years. There are cave paintings of stick figures fucking. Artists get horny and draw stuff for horny people to look at. The internet has made that process very easy, allowing artists to market all sorts of smut to all sorts of degenerates. We live in a world where you are 1 google search away from seeing any two fictional, historical, or real characters fuck each other.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 05:34 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Do that.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 05:15 AM
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Not really. My first girlfriend was the school merry go round. I only dated her to lose my virginity because there was a rumor at school that I was gay. My second girlfriend confessed to cheating immediately and we broke up on fairly good terms. We hadn't done more than make out yet anyway. My first wife was closeted ployamorous and didn't know it. This was 2002. Not a lot of info on that stuff back then. I was addicted to World of Warcraft and gambling, so I didn't really pay attention to her. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:28 PM
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The police who took him to jail certainly didn't ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:04 PM
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Anecdotal experience: My first and second girlfriend, and my first and second wives all 4 cheated on me. I have never cheated. So by that information, 4 out of 5 women(80%) cheat and 0 out of 1 men(0%) cheat. Obviously my anecdotal experience is not a valid sample size. My brother cheated on his first wife. So that brings it up to 50%. I knew a guy at my church who cheated on his wife with his daughter (gross, and no he doesn't go to my church anymore). My adoption lawyer cheated on her first hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:56 PM
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Toxic redpill/niceguy/incell bigots are about as low value as you can get. That's why they are vulnerable to being indoctrinated into the cult. They have low self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:16 PM
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So long as you believe that all relationships are transactional, there is no hope for you to have a healthy relationship. Healthy romantic relationships are transformative and relational. Transactional romantic relationships are toxic. Full stop. Learn that, or you will never have a healthy romantic relationship.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 06:12 PM
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Sex isn't a reward that women give men. Healthy relationships aren't transactional. That's the flaw in all of your thinking. That's the primary false toxic dogma of the redpill/niceguy/incell cult. Sex is a consentual mutual act of physical expression between two adults. If a person thinks that sex is a reward for good behavior, then they are mentally treating the other person as a prostitute. If this is consentual, then that's fine. A partner may reward their partner with sex as a part of their…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 05:42 PM
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Sex isn't a reward that women give men. Healthy relationships aren't transactional. That's the flaw in all of your thinking. That's the primary false toxic dogma of the redpill/niceguy/incell cult. Sex is a consentual mutual act of physical expression between two adults. If a person thinks that sex is a reward for good behavior, then they are mentally treating the other person as a prostitute. If this is consentual, then that's fine. A partner may reward their partner with sex as a part of their…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 05:42 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:59 PM
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Yes. I have 2 spiritual mothers at church who I look up to. My adoption lawyer is one of my best friends. A recovering alcoholic social worker who was disabled in a car accident and I talk about all sorts of stuff regularly. I swap parenting stories and tips with a teacher. I talk about rock climbing and baking with a young lady who sometimes baby-sits for me. My dental hygienist is a delightful aquaintence. That's just the ones that immediately come to mind. Having non-romantic relationships wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:26 PM
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Yes, and drastically so.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 06:27 PM
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My wife,like millions of other women in the world, doesn't wear makeup and no jewelry aside from a few necklaces that she swaps between and her wedding ring. She is beautiful. I think you're just shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:28 AM
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Probably "women who like short men." That's probably the group that likes short men the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:57 PM
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Slutshaming, however, is toxic.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 11:56 PM
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I talk a lot about Redpill being a cult. I see the type of RPers you describe as the cult zealots. They are the members who have most disconnected with reality and bought into the power fantasy of the cult dogma completely. Now they are writing 'scripture' for the cult. They are self delusional enough that they rationalize that their fantasy is true for other RPers, so they pretend that it's true for them. You see the same thing in cases of false miracles in cults. Cult members will testify fals…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 10:02 PM
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I wasn't accusing you of anything. I was just asking for clarification. I think we're on the same page but using different ways to express it. It's all good. No hard feelings or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:44 PM
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Okay. I would say: "The reason someone rapes someone else is because they're a cruel monster with no shred of human decency and deserve to be slowly tortured to death in a public display to set an example to the rest of the vile pieces of subhuman garbage that might be thinking about also raping someone." I think that's a little more clear than what you've posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:30 PM
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This sounds sorta like you're defending rape a little. Do you want to clarify your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:21 PM
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"I read that in a book"(citation needed)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:19 PM
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Because it's a toxic cult of bigotry, hatred, rage, that will destroy your ability to have healthy relationships.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 12:14 PM
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If you were to cut her hair without her consent, then that would be abuse. If she were to cut your hair without your consent, then that would be abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:38 AM
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Every part of a relationship requires consent. If your partner doesn't consent to something, an you do that thing anyway, then that is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:49 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:35 AM
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If it's nonconsensual then it's toxic. If it's consensual then it isn't toxic. I'm not sure how I can clarify further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:18 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. If you're doing that, you're fine. If you're not doing that, you're toxic. Simple. Is mate guarding okay? That depends on if it is consentual. If both partners agree that it's okay, then it's fine, if not then it's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:28 PM
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Oh. I know what they are. I've been to my share of cons back in the before time, the long long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:27 PM
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Ah. No I wasn't talking about porn. I was talking about watching cartoons with my kids. The internet is a wierd place where those things can be easily confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:49 PM
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What others think of our relationship doesn't matter. Learning that is an important step in having a healthy relationship. Edit: I just noticed My Little Pony was bold. Is that emphasis for a reason? My kids and I love the show. It's fun and teaches healthy relationship dynamics at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:38 PM
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Redpill is a cult and its toxic dogma makes a large number of horrific claims including the trivializing of, normalization of, and promotion of rape and other nonconsensual treatment of women. Redpill demonizes women in order to scapegoat them for all the problems caused by the toxic behavior of the cultists in order to enable the cultists toxic behavior and perpetuate the cult dogma to recruit more young naive frustrated men to the cult who then are taught to demonize women and thats how the cy…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 01:48 PM
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Yeah. The internet is a toxic cesspool of hate and division. Real life is way better, primarily because real life doesn't have Reddit and Tumblr and 4chan. But we need the internet so I can watch every season of Alf in one uninterrupted 44 hour sitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:55 PM
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It's not easy. But it's healthier than being in toxic relationships.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 12:49 PM
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Yeah. It was highschool. You were children. And yes, most people are going to be incompatible with you. Just look for people who are open, honest, mature, consenting, and compatible. I was a single dad for years after my 2nd divorce before I found my wife. Relationships aren't easy. They take work.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 12:41 PM
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Yeah. Don't have relationships with people who are closed minded, dishonest, immature, non-consenting, childish,or toxic. Just ghost those people. The majority of toxic relationships arise because 1 non-toxic person is trying to make it work with a toxic person. Don't waste your time with toxic people. Let the toxic people find other toxic people to be miserable with.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 12:33 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Try that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 12:14 PM
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It sucks when a friend joins a cult. In my experience it's almost impossible to convince a redpill cultist to leave the cult. That's why I constantly call it out as a cult here on Reddit. I'm hoping that it will help prevent young naive frustrated men from falling for the cult's toxic dogma. I'm sorry, but in reality you've simply lost a friend. It sucks, and I wish I could help. Videos like this one may help. https://youtu.be/m0_runy3U8I
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 11:54 AM
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Hello. I am a fellow tomgirl happily married to my tomboy wife now for 9 years. She works full time while I am a stay at home dad. I cook, clean, pay bills, take kids to the dentist, watch my little pony, and listen to Donna Summers while taking a bubble bath. My wife doesn't wear makeup or shave her legs. She considers herself a classic feminist. She says she only wears a bra because her tits would hurt otherwise. Niether one of us considers ourselves "submissive" or "dominant". We are equal pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:35 AM
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Leave your cult.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:34 AM
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Cults begin initiation by making recruits feel good about themselves. The "truths" you have received from redpill are either 1)normal everyday information twisted to for their narrative or 2)lies packaged into a palatable narrative. You are being recruited into a cult. Their entire philosophy is toxic and evil. Redpill men are abusive, toxic, manipulative, narcissistic, and controlling. The best redpill adherents is worse than the worst alcoholic abusive "chad" you can imagine. Please reject the…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 09:43 PM
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So you still have a chance to reject the cult dogma before you get sucked into it. They don't have truth. They use small truths to hide large lies. Just like every other cult. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Do that.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 09:31 PM
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MGTOW, Redpill, and Incel are all part of the same cult. They're just different degrees. You're being manipulated. Leave the cult.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 09:21 PM
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Abusive Alcoholic Narcissistic parents ruin more than a childhood, brother. I have Acute Stress Disorder because I've been a victim of emotional abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, and neglect for 40 years. I made the decision not to sever all contact with my parents in my 20s despite a therapist recommending that I do so. My brother made a clean break. My parents are elderly now and I'm attempting to do my best ro maintain a civil relationship without being further harmed by their toxicity. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:32 PM
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Redpill is indoctrination into a misogynistic cult. The whole point is to make you misogynistic so they can manipulate you into spreading the cult dogma. Most cults use similar methods of bigotry like racism, xenophobia, homophobia, islamaphobia, antisemitism, classism, etc to manipulate and brainwash potential recruits. Redpill uses the frustration of blue-balled young sexually frustrated men to convince them that there is a conspiracy to unfairly deny them sex. They then offer to provide secre…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 08:24 PM
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Did you just "I know you are but what am I?" me like a 6 year old? One of the reasons why young naive men are drawn to the RP cult dogma is because they have an underdeveloped level of maturity for their age. https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online Redpill philosophy is a cult. Please leave your cult.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 03:50 PM
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Because it's a cult. Cult members don't care about their cult being discredited.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 12:48 AM
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I'm not attracted to abusive alcoholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:12 PM
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You sound obnoxious. That's not a humor problem. Maybe dial it back a bit.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 12:30 AM
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You sound obnoxious. That's not a humor problem. Maybe dial it back a bit.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 12:30 AM
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You sound obnoxious. That's not a humor problem. Maybe dial it back a bit.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 12:30 AM
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As a tomgirl (A cis hetero masculine male who has stereotypical feminine interests, hobbies, and mannerisms): No. I am happy the way I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:02 PM
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It says something about redpill when the only defense anyone can reasonably give to them is "This is fake." or "He's just trolling." or other equivalent of denying the reality of exactly how toxic they are.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 05:13 AM
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In this situation, you're a piece of the hay. You should try being a needle instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:02 PM
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Healthy relationships aren't transactional. They are relational and transformative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:48 PM
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It's not a business transaction or an investment. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Do that instead of treating women like vending machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:28 PM
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Everything you said is insanely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:40 PM
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A high value person is a person who knows that healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:23 PM
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A high value person is a person who knows that healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:23 PM
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Courts aren't about right and wrong, and who's the best actor is how most trials are decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:54 AM
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The important thing to remember is that Johnny Depp is a good actor, while Amber Heard is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:30 AM
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You made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:01 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:08 AM
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It is and it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:52 AM
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Remember that redpill is a cult that intentionally targets vulnerable young frustrated men. You don't have to feel guilty for being lured in by them. Just reject their cult dogma and remember that healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 02:51 AM
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Remember that redpill is a cult that intentionally targets vulnerable young frustrated men. You don't have to feel guilty for being lured in by them. Just reject their cult dogma and remember that healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 02:51 AM
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Remember that redpill is a cult that intentionally targets vulnerable young frustrated men. You don't have to feel guilty for being lured in by them. Just reject their cult dogma and remember that healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 02:51 AM
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I'm telling you how to have a healthy adult relationship. You get to decide what to do with that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:15 AM
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I'm telling you how to have a healthy adult relationship. You get to decide what to do with that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:15 AM
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Because people don't like to have relationships with people who are closed minded, dishonest, immature, childish, and disrespectful. People prefer to develop relationships with people who share their interests, and usually only keep long term commitments when their long term life goals are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:03 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:24 AM
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It's not really about recruiting either. Except that misery loves company. Most redpill cultists are so inundated with negative reinforcement, that they spread the negativity as a coping mechanism. As with most cultists, they are completely unaware of the reality of their situation. It's very difficult to convince a cult member to leave a cult, and Redpill is a very insidious one that seems to be very appealing to frustrated young naive angry men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:02 PM
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It's not really about recruiting either. Except that misery loves company. Most redpill cultists are so inundated with negative reinforcement, that they spread the negativity as a coping mechanism. As with most cultists, they are completely unaware of the reality of their situation. It's very difficult to convince a cult member to leave a cult, and Redpill is a very insidious one that seems to be very appealing to frustrated young naive angry men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:02 PM
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It's not really about recruiting either. Except that misery loves company. Most redpill cultists are so inundated with negative reinforcement, that they spread the negativity as a coping mechanism. As with most cultists, they are completely unaware of the reality of their situation. It's very difficult to convince a cult member to leave a cult, and Redpill is a very insidious one that seems to be very appealing to frustrated young naive angry men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:02 PM
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It's not really about recruiting either. Except that misery loves company. Most redpill cultists are so inundated with negative reinforcement, that they spread the negativity as a coping mechanism. As with most cultists, they are completely unaware of the reality of their situation. It's very difficult to convince a cult member to leave a cult, and Redpill is a very insidious one that seems to be very appealing to frustrated young naive angry men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:02 PM
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It's not really about recruiting either. Except that misery loves company. Most redpill cultists are so inundated with negative reinforcement, that they spread the negativity as a coping mechanism. As with most cultists, they are completely unaware of the reality of their situation. It's very difficult to convince a cult member to leave a cult, and Redpill is a very insidious one that seems to be very appealing to frustrated young naive angry men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:02 PM
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It's not really about recruiting either. Except that misery loves company. Most redpill cultists are so inundated with negative reinforcement, that they spread the negativity as a coping mechanism. As with most cultists, they are completely unaware of the reality of their situation. It's very difficult to convince a cult member to leave a cult, and Redpill is a very insidious one that seems to be very appealing to frustrated young naive angry men.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 08:02 PM
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Yes. Redpill is indoctrination into a misogynistic cult. The whole point is to make you misogynistic so they can manipulate you into spreading the cult dogma. Most cults use similar methods of bigotry like racism, xenophobia, homophobia, islamaphobia, antisemitism, classism, etc to manipulate and brainwash potential recruits.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:51 PM
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Yes. Redpill is indoctrination into a misogynistic cult. The whole point is to make you misogynistic so they can manipulate you into spreading the cult dogma. Most cults use similar methods of bigotry like racism, xenophobia, homophobia, islamaphobia, antisemitism, classism, etc to manipulate and brainwash potential recruits.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 07:51 PM
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I don't think "men" mean anything when some people say "90% of men are not seen as people by women" because "men" isn't a monolithic group capable of holding an opinion. As for the individuals who make such false claims, my opinion is that they are just spreading bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:38 PM
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"Women" have never treated me any particular way, because "Women" isn't a monolithic entity. Different people have treated me in many different ways based on individual interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:41 PM
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"Women" have never treated me any particular way, because it's not a monolithic entity. Different people have treated me in many different ways based on individual interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:41 PM
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Loaded Question. 1) The 1950s stereotype is a fiction propagated by television. It was never a common reality. The fact is that the majority of married women worked in addition to keeping house. 2) Any partner who doesn't contribute to housework is a lazy jerk. 3) Individuals in a healthy relationship agree to a division of labor that is acceptable to both of them, and regularly adjust their schedule and routine based on necessity. 4) Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:43 AM
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Millions of people don't have casual sex for a variety of reasons and multiple religions prohibit it. So you've got plenty of company.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 02:46 PM
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Remember: Statistics like this apply to people on okcupid, but that's not a representative sample of overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:42 AM
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Remember: Statistics like this apply to people on okcupid, but that's not a representative sample of overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:41 AM
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Excellent and concise summary. Very well said. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:41 PM
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Yep. Cults don't like facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:26 PM
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Bigots and cult members always deny science to support their bigotry and dogma. Nothing new about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:24 PM
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Those are direct quotes from the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:03 PM
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You should be honest and respectful and open and mature. Ask about her interests and learn if you have shared interests. You'll learn about compatible life goals over time as the relationship grows.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 11:05 PM
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Here's your guide: Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 10:48 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. We call this "true love."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:42 PM
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How did we get from surogacy to incest?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:24 PM
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I'm not interested in hearing about your sex life.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 08:24 PM
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I'm not interested in hearing about your sex life.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 08:24 PM
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Gross. I don't swing that way, but I'm flattered.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 08:10 PM
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And? Do you have a point other than that? It just seems like you've used very complicated language just to say "Most people won't take good advice."
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 08:06 PM
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And? Do you have a point other than that? It just seems like you've used very complicated language just to say "Most people won't take good advice."
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 08:06 PM
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I still don't understand what you're talking about or how it pertains to this thread. What are you saying?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 07:49 PM
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I still don't understand what you're talking about or how it pertains to this thread. What are you saying?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 07:49 PM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 07:33 PM
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Yes. Those people are rare, so maybe we should be promoting that type of behavior more so that it's less rare.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:18 PM
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Yes. Those people are rare, so maybe we should be promoting that type of behavior more so that it's less rare.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:17 PM
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50 out of every 100 women are above average weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:32 AM
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I'm pretty sure the solution is that people just have sex if they both consent and don't if they don't consent. And without consent you don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:31 AM
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What people? I don't understand your comment. Can you clarify?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 03:00 AM
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What people? I don't understand your comment. Can you clarify?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 02:59 AM
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What people? I don't understand your comment. Can you clarify?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 02:59 AM
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What people? I don't understand your comment. Can you clarify?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 02:54 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 01:28 AM
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61% to %49 isn't really that big of a difference, but the primary reason seems to be that "Women tend to have stronger social networks outside of their romantic relationships." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:58 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:47 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:46 AM
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No. I just don't know why I should care about something that doesn't affect or involve me. I prefer to mind my own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:24 AM
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Why would I have an opinion of someone's reproductive choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:32 AM
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Individuals in a healthy relationship use communication amd compromise to reach a mutually agreeable arrangement they are both satisfied with regarding finances. This can be any combination which is acceptable to both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:23 AM
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You are incorrect. Healthy relationships are relational and transformative. Toxic relationships are transactional. https://study.com/academy/lesson/transactional-relationships-in-psychology-definition-examples.html
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:45 PM
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Correcting people's spelling and grammar on the internet is impolite and I thought I should let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:29 PM
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Exactly. World war 1 and 2. The Holocaust. Stalin. Hitler. Mussolini. Pol pot. Slavery. North Korea. Nuclear bombs. Smallpox blankets from cortez. The crusades. The accomplishments of men speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:19 PM
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Treating relationships as transactional is toxic and unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:14 PM
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More tu quoque, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:13 PM
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Happily married to the girl of my dreams with 5 kids.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 05:48 PM
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Transactional relationships are toxic, unhealthy, and doomed to failure. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:19 PM
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More tu quoque and burden of proof fallacies. You asserted "All Human Relationships are Transactional". They are not. My evidence is the millions of non-transactional relationships that exist. The burden of proof is on you and your cult. No amount of tu quoque or ad hominem attacks change that. It is toxic and bad for mental health to see relationship as transactional. https://study.com/academy/lesson/transactional-relationships-in-psychology-definition-examples.html
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:47 AM
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Fallacy: tu quoque, personal incredulity, burden of proof Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. These types of non-transactional relationships are cultivated and maintained by millions of people every day. Thus disproving your false assertion that all human relationships are transactional. Your inability to understand the evidence against your positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:33 AM
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"All human interactions are transactional." This is the exact mindset which is false, toxic, harmful to you, harmful to others, and makes the world a worse place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:41 AM
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Falacy: Begging the question. Again, you are insisting that relationships are transactional in your question. Healthy relationships aren't transactional. They are relational and transformational.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:24 AM
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No it doesn't clearly mean that. It means that relationships aren't transactional. That means it's not about giving something in exchange for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:47 PM
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Fallacy alert: Loaded Question You're not one of Amber Heard's lawyers, so stop acting like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:37 PM
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I'm a long-term victim of abuse and bullying. As a tomgirl I was bullied in school because people thought that I was gay. And my parents were abusive alcoholics. My first 2 marriages ended in divorce because they cheated on me. And this is what I learned: Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 11:32 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:45 PM
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I engage in open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Like a rational adult who's mind isn't poisoned by bigoted cult dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:44 PM
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"this finding is misleading" "the effects of virginity on marriage rates are not fully causal"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:28 PM
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A healthy relationship is relational and transformative. Instead of simply "giving and receiving affection" the two partners help each other to be their best selves. And then experience what it's like to give affection not only because the other person desires it, but also because it brings you joy to give the affection. Instead of a man going to his vagina machine to request that it dispens sex for him(which is the toxic redpill mentality), the two partners engage in sex by mutual consent for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:19 PM
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There'd be fewer incels if the redpill/incel cult would stop recruiting young naive frustrated men and boys to their toxic cult of bigotry with their insane dogma. Also if people would learn how to have healthy relationships based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. You know, like rational adults have been doing for thousands of years.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 10:10 PM
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Again. That is not how it works. Healthy relationships are transformative and relational. Transactional relationships are toxic and unhealthy. You're limited experience apparently has been with only toxic relationships. Grow up and broaden your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:06 PM
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It's only true of unhealthy relationships. If either partner has a transactional viewpoint of a relationship, then it will be unhealthy and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:58 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Healthy relationships are nothing like transactional employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:36 PM
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No. Not my job. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Your transactional mindset towards relationships is immature, disrespectful, and incompatible with mature adults. I'll gladly call you out for it, but it's your job to grow up and stop being toxic. Your toxicity is not my problem. You can take my advice and have a chance to have healthy successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:34 PM
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Everything you said is toxic and wrong and will cause you to have problems with your interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:26 PM
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No. It's not. Viewing it that way is evidence of your toxic antisocial mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:12 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 04:59 PM
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All healthy relationships, family, friends, romance, coworkers, partnerships, are based on some level of open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. A friendship might call for less openness, because the friendship doesn't require each partner know everything. Non-romantic or non-long term relationships have lower requirements for compatibility and shared interests. Friendships can be maint…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 04:14 PM
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You're entire mindset is toxic. People are individuals and can't be summarized like a pokedex entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:18 AM
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You're in a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:31 AM
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"Sex" isn't a thing you get like food or money. Sex is an action that another person has to consent to participate in. The fact that you think sex is like money, and you dehumanize the other participant by not even mentioning their existence, shows how detestable your mindset is. And being too horny to think rationally is no excuse. Stop thinking with your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:51 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. People are usually happy when they do that. So, maybe try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:46 PM
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And we see the falacies continue. First, the cultist has made a tu quoque attack on something not germain to the discussion. Then he uses the "no true scottsman" falacy inside an analogy to dismiss criticism from his cult. His criticism of this strawman version of Christianity is based on personal incredulity, making it an even less compelling argument. All this is to avoid defending the cultists indefensible position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:52 PM
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Anyone who is in the Redpill cult or who is attracted to the Redpill cult dogma should read this: https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uo50va/mens_worth_should_not_be_based_on_womens/i8ge0fr?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 This you? Leave your cult and stop spreading cultist dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:18 PM
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I'll quote you, just in case you decide to edit your post. "Most people can't see the hate in their hearts, or they feel its not hate because they perceive it as justifiable disgust. That probably describes every member of the KKK. I'd guess 0% of them regard themselves as hateful or see their hate as anything but love." We see a great example of the cult mentality here. Notice how the cultist, when confronted, resorts to a variety of logical fallacies that get increasingly nonsensical. The prim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:59 PM
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Telling cultists to leave their toxic cult of mysoginy isn't hateful. My posts are intended to help young men avoid the toxic teachings of Redpill cultists. I have no illusions that I can help those of you who are already cultists. I can only hope to inform your victims so they can make a more informed decision and hopefully not join your cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:40 PM
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Redpill lies to frustrated naive insecure young men and boys who are already hurt by rejection and feelings of inadequacy. It tears down their remaining self confidence by telling them that they are objectively and universally unattractive. It then promises a solution based on blaming the women who rejected them, and then promotes bigotry and hate by extending that anger towards all women. Once the anger is thus "justified" by the cult dogma, the Redpill cultist become more brazen with their ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:34 PM
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Cult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:08 AM
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Redpill is a cult. Being in a cult is not attractive. "body counts" and "women hating virgins" is bigoted cult dogma. Leave your cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:07 AM
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I assume someone pissed in your Cheerios.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 11:49 PM
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First, you're looking at a small group: "Women complaining on the web" And then you're looking at an even smaller group: "men encountered by those women" Nothing learned from this information could provide any reliable conclusion. Any conclusions drawn would be speculation at best and bigotry at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:05 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. And Redpill is a cult.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 06:58 PM
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"It's okay for a man to react to rejection with frustration because... U. G. L. Y. Youaintgotnotalibi You ugly!" That's rediculous and childish. Not being able to respond in a mature way to rejection is the very definition of entitlement. A person getting upset at romantic rejection is the same as a Karen demanding to see a manager because her extra well-done steak is dry. People are allowed to reject you no matter if you think they are ugly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:27 AM
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"Since there is a high divorce rate for couples, you're likely to divorce." is false. That is exactly the ecological fallacy. I will attempt to explain as best I can. If you get a collection of different sided dice and roll them all multiple times you can statistically calculate the probability of rolling above a particular number on a single dice selected at random. This would be the "Rate". If, however, we select a single die, the probability is not determined by the rate. The probability is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:10 PM
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Ecological fallacy: the interpretation of statistical data that occurs when inferences about the nature of individuals are deduced from inferences about the group to which those individuals belong. Here's a book to get you started. There are some free ebook statistics textbooks available for download at no charge on Amazon as well if price is an issue. Ecological Fallacy is one of the primary components to bigotry and racism, so avoiding it is important. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1735431109/ref=…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:23 PM
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I stand by my statement: "Censorship of the N-word is appropriate and good." If you want to argue the converse, have fun with that. I'm going to go ahead and block you now to avoid the rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:54 AM
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I'm glad you're doing well. I'm just shouting at the internet to try to protect young naive frustrated men from the toxic cesspool of redpill ideology. I can only hope that it helps some avoid the cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:32 AM
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Regardless, the point is that you need to treat people like individuals. If you begin to generalize women, that is the path to bigotry. Focus on the individual relationship, not the group dynamics. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Try that and good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:13 AM
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I'll let your hubris speak for itself. 100,000 women is 1 woman per day for 274 years. Assuming you are 30 years old. That's 10 women per day from infancy. You claim to have had a conversation with 100k women. You haven't. Maybe you're not as knowledgeable as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:59 AM
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That's me gigachad with 500ml of red wine, college courses in counseling, philosophy, and logic, and 40 years of life experience. Most of the wisdom comes from the red wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:53 AM
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The entire population is 7 billionish. At least 3 billion of those are "women" by some definition. 3 billion is "lots" and "a few" is significantly less than that aka "how many vaginas you've been chin deep into".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:27 AM
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Every cult has a surface level of truths and half-truths that do help people on a small level. That's part of how they recruit members. They use those truths to make their bigotry more palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:25 AM
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I'd prefer to say they're equally rooted in unreality. Cult dogma is not reality. Please leave the cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:21 AM
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Do you realize that accusing an entire gender of fault based on your experience with a few people is bigotry?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:19 AM
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I'll agree that feminism has its same cult like behavior issues that redpill has. Feminism happens to be more closely rooted in reality, so the extremes are less severe. Extreme feminism uses the same tactics to recruit disenfranchised women to extreme anti-male bigotry. It has the same cult-like qualities. I'll call it out equally. But as a man, I see an obligation to call out redpill toxicity where I do not see an obligation call out feminist toxicity. There are many competent and capable wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:14 AM
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It seems you're stuck on the Tu Quoque Falacy still. You aren't supporting your toxic cultist worldview with compelling arguments or evidence. Instead you are simply criticizing the person questioning your postulates. Maybe Google Falacy and read a bit more about them. Everyone can benefit from more logical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:14 AM
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I was asking for clarification. Questions aren't falacies. And calling out bigotry isn't a straw man. Everyone needs to see that the claim that all women gaslight is bigotry, specifically mysoginy. So you are trying to defend bigotry. Have fun being a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:08 AM
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To be clear: You assert that all women gaslight men they are around? Am I understanding you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:00 AM
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Sorry. Red wine got you with logic shrapnel in the reddit warzone. My bad. Don't worry, I'm cutting the red wine with Miller Highlife, so it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:56 AM
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Tu Quoque. It's your bigoted cultist ideals that are being contested. You gain nothing by questioning my validity except to deflect attention away from the fragility of your bigoted and nonsensical cult dogma. I don't have to defend myself, and you're doing a terrible job of defending your point of view. Which is understandable. Because you're wrong. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you can leave your toxic cult and begin healing. If you start now you still have time to live a fulfilling l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:54 AM
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I did not include "hate speech" in my list. I am very pro free speech, but I recognize that some rare exceptions are appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:48 AM
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No. You're a cultist because you are in a cult. This isn't an insult. You need to leave the cult and get meaningful therapy for your own good. People reading this need to be cautioned against the cult so they don't fall into it. I am arming every young man that reads this with the truth to protect them from a cult of hatred and bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:47 AM
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Falacy: Special Pleading, Begging The Question, Ambiguous Assertions It's like you're in the Falacy Triathlon...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:41 AM
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It's a red wine night. Gotta quit while I'm ahead. Hold down the fort fellow soldiers. We'll scream truth back into the chaos, insanity, and darkness of the internet in hopes that we stem the tides of hate, confusion, and bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:55 AM
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Ad hominem: refer to the other person's response as "simple minded" Statistical Falacy: The rate of the occurrence of an event in a group is not the same as the likelihood of that occurrence for an individual of the group. Loaded Question: "What relationships prepare people for lifelong commitments?" Answer: "Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect. Those can become healthy lifelong commitments if the two…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:45 AM
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Logical fallacy detected! Divorce statistics do not translate to individual likelihood. It is beneficial to attempt to enter a marriage that has a high likelihood of success. You can make that likelihood high by. developing healthy relationships. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. So do that and don't worry about statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:16 AM
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https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online Quote: Beliefs such as “all women are evil” and “all women cheat” are what are known as conspiracy stereotypes. Like traditional conspiracy theories, they often rely on cherry-picked evidence. The Red Pill in particular exploits evolutionary psychology to argue that women are wired to want men with a strong “frame”. Much of the subreddit’s misogyny is justified by one of their favourite ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:38 AM
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No. You're being bigoted towards people by insulting the intelligence of others in order to support your own cultist dogma. Your dogma isn't legitimate because it is insane cult dogma that presents a worldview inconsistent with reality and fueled by hatred and imagined conspiracy of a fictional persecution. It destroys the lives of the young men you preach it to, and the young men they preach it to in turn. You are in a mysoginistic cult of sex worship which promotes hateful and toxic behavior t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:39 AM
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And now we see the cultist double down. Attempting to again assert the devaluation of nonbelievers. The cultist wants us to believe that the IQ of the general public is evidence of the truth of his cult dogma. When in fact the only truth about IQ that is relevant here is that Cult Members score statistically higher in IQ tests and having a higher IQ might make you more likely to join a cult. “with few exceptions studies have found that recruits to NRMs are on average markedly better educated tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:23 AM
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To what toxic behavior that is common to all women are you referring?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:03 AM
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As you can see, the cultist will appeal to more hate to continue supporting their dogma. By labeling "the general public" who don't accept the cult dogma using the phrase "low intelligence" they present the contrary: Namely that adherence and acceptance of the cult dogma makes you not part of the "general public" and not "low intelligence". This presents the cult as a special group of enlightened people who have access to higher truth. Its standard cultist recruiting manipulation, and most culti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:55 AM
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Some specific censorship is good. Defamation, libel, slander, public safety, dangerous intentional misinformation, fraud, and mass panic are all good reasons for some information to be censored at some times. War of the Worlds caused suicides when it aired on radio. The N word is an instance of good censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:29 AM
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Notice everyone, how the cultist disparages unbelievers aka "the general public" as "low intelligence" and "in fear". The typical cultists asserts that they know the truth because they are both smart enough to see it, and brave enough to accept it. They can discount the views of those who disagree with their dogma as either stupid or cowardly. And as with your typical cultist, the cult believes in a conspiracy against them by shadowy undefined entities. In this case "Big Media" is the boogyman. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:23 AM
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Cults always say that the problems with their cult are a small minority, as if that makes the majority of the cult enabling and supporting it okay. Group enablement of the insanity of a few influential people is exactly how cults grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:17 AM
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I see no point on censoring the bigoted dogma of the Redpill Cult here. It's beneficial for people to learn the truth about the cult's insane beliefs and strategies for lying to young naive frustrated men with promises of teaching them how to fulfill their sexual desires without addressing the foundational problems with their personalities that they refuse to accept, change, or address. I fully support allowing the Redpill cultists to post their lunatic ravings for the world to see exactly how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:13 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. And no, most men don't have this. It's yet again another veiled excuse to normalize degrading and insulting women as "whores". It's just bigotry, plain and simple, and like all bigotry, you bigots attempt to hide your bigotry behind bullshit science jargon and false assumptions about human behavior and gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:20 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Most people are just too ignorant, lazy, selfish, and/or immature to accomplish that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:13 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Your relationship had none of that from either side, so it failed.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 05:11 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. And yes, that process is hard because it requires humility, patience, forgiveness, and communication from both people on a regular basis. Relationships fail because one(or more often both) of the partners fail to put in the effort. Most of the time this is because of ignorance. Schools, media, and parents don't t…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 05:07 PM
2

Every man thinks his life would be better if he grew a foot. 🥁
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 02:36 AM
2

Just do an hour before bed most days. Stretching, Cardio, Lifting, whatever. If someone is too lazy to do an hour of exercise almost every day, then they can't really be helped anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:31 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Healthy sex requires communication between partners so that they can learn and teach each other. You don't get "good at sex". You get good at sex with that partner. Since everyone likes different things, the skillset doesn't always translate from one partner to the next. So talk with your partner during foreplay …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:03 PM
5

Being a member of any cult, including RP, is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:49 PM
2

High risk behavior is high risk behavior. Congratulations on all your success, Tautology Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:37 PM
1

Redpill is a cult that preys on the frustration of young naive ignorant horny men to recruit members into it's bigoted ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:34 PM
5

Too many people reading too many Robert Heinlein novels...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:21 AM
0

They are bigots. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:22 AM
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Cults make you feel disposable in order to make you more likely to believe their dogma in an attempt to alleviate that feeling. In the case of redpill cult recruitment, they present a scenario of eternal loneliness to already frustrated young men, making them feel undesirable and worthless. Then they present their dogma as the solution, promising easy access to sex and affection if you follow redpill dogma. Ultimately, since their sex cult is very ineffective and poorly organized, the lots of se…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 07:59 AM
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Relationships aren't transactional and your understand of relationships seems to be limited to a television or movie style oversimplification of a few relationship types. There are many family and dating structures outside the normative and mostly fictional dogma you present. Your ignorance has caused you to paint with too broad a brush, and that the falacy thay makes your conclusion erroneous. For example, my wife and mother of our 5 kids is 10 years younger than me and the primary income earne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:07 AM
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There are people who find all different types of people attractive. Attractiveness isn't a universal constant. It is individual preference. You are attractive to someone, possibly many someone's. You just have to find them.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 06:34 AM
1

It's like a Jeopardy prompt. I'll take "Universal Complaints" for $400 Alex...
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 04:37 PM
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No. Redpill is a poorly organized and ineffective sex cult.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 04:23 PM
2

Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Income disparity is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:37 PM
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Because men typically score higher in in big 5 personality trait aspects that allow them to ignore/endure a problem marriage while women typically score higher in the big 5 personality trait aspects that make it more likely that they'll address the problem first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:22 PM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Try to focus on that.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:41 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 03:21 PM
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Successful relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:49 PM
3

A phone set to vibrate and a waterproof case is all she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:22 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals but can be completely destroyed by just 1cc of ink injected into the subdermis. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:04 AM
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Redpill is a poorly organized doomsday sex cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:50 AM
2

You've again regurgitated all the tired talking points of your cult. It was a wonderful sermon which may attract more naive young frustrated men to join your cult of mysoginy, self pity, hatred, and lust. You are in a very poorly organized and ineffective sex cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:03 PM
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My wife has never shaved her legs or pits and has only ever worn makeup for stage performances. It's a quality that attracted me to her. We both have naturalist tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:10 AM
1

This black on black violence is getting out of control. When teen gang members murder each other in Chicago every day it's fine, but now we have famous celebrities slapping each other it's just too much. STOP THE VIOLENCE!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:32 PM
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Lovehoney.com is my go-to website for toys. I've purchased a large variety for my wife over our years of marriage. We use them before, during, and after sex depending on our energy level and wants. They even have ones that are designed to be worn over the penis to simulate a larger or longer size. I've never used one, but you might want to discuss with her the possibility of trying things out. So long as both people are achieving orgasm and feel satisfied, you need not be worried about size. Rel…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 05:32 PM
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Why do women become possessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:21 AM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. If two people aren't mature enough to handle a dinner bill without drama, then they aren't mature enough to have a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:36 AM
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Avatar checks out...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:30 PM
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I'm sorry. Poor choice of words. I should have said the anatomy of the hymen. Here's a link so that anyone reading this can rely on factual information to interpret my anecdotal experience. Basically, it was extremely uncomfortable for my wife and we were very slow and careful during the first 3 days of our honeymoon. But there is significant variation in development. Some women have no discomfort at all, and actions such as horseback riding or even masturbation can have an effect on the hymen. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:25 PM
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This is why healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:13 AM
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You're watching the wrong porn. It's certainly not cuck watching CGI centaur shemales gangbang pikachu.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:55 AM
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I wasn't aware that it was a contest. Honestly it wasn't at the top of my list of desirable traits. I was much more impressed with her numerous other exceptional qualities, like her integrity, work ethic, intellect, musical talent, creativity, optimism, and positive attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:29 PM
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I wasn't aware that it was a contest. Honestly it wasn't at the top of my list of desirable traits. I was much more impressed with her numerous other exceptional qualities, like her integrity, work ethic, intellect, musical talent, creativity, optimism, and positive attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:29 PM
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I wasn't aware that it was a contest. Honestly it wasn't at the top of my list of desirable traits. I was much more impressed with her numerous other exceptional qualities, like her integrity, work ethic, intellect, musical talent, creativity, optimism, and positive attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:29 PM
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I don't know if you are familiar with the anatomy of virginity, but she most certainly was. We were 3 days into our honeymoon before we managed insertion. Include that she is very trustworthy (one of her many excellent qualities that attracted me to her in the first place) and it would take "Bond Villain" style machinations to fake. Imagine her spinning around in an office chair holding a cat one day when I come home. "Ah, welcome to my lair. Finally my evil plan to kidnap the queen has come to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:28 PM
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Spent 9 months trying to get out of a vagina, now just trying to get back in...
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 08:36 AM
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7pm next Tuesday.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 12:00 AM
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My wife was a virgin when we married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:41 PM
2

This sounds crazy and racist.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 03:54 AM
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The 2nd paragraph completely addressed your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:01 AM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. A person's level of desired independence may result in incompatibile life goals, but other than that, it isn't an issue. Difficulty developing and maintaining relationships is primarily caused by one or a combination of these factors: 1) Being closed off and closed minded: This presents as a 2 part problem. When a person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:44 AM
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Unsafe people can appear safe for extended periods of time. All people should avoid high risk behavior and take reasonable precautions to protect themselves, including defense training with acceptable legal self defense options in your jurisdiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:42 PM
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You don't have to be a bigot. You could educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:41 PM
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You sound just like all the racists and other bigots I've met. I don't know how you fix your bigotry. I just avoid contact with bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:36 PM
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Your bigotry is not helpful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:58 PM
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Wow. You sound a bit bitter. You should know that people of all types can learn to cultivate healthy relationships, and even someone in such an arbitrary category like "bottom 20% of humanity" can find genuine human connection by being a mature consenting adult who treats others with respect, when they find someone with shared interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:55 AM
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The dating prospects for 100% of mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect are 100% of mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect. The dating prospects for toxic childish losers is other toxic childish losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:48 AM
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It's also way easier to get your digimon vore step-sister gangbang scat fix. Most girls aren't willing to dress up like Charmander and put on a bad dragon horsecock on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:09 PM
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Marriage is about intimacy and trust and vulnerability. Sharing your life with someone where you hold nothing back and let them see every part of you. Joining in the battle of life and self discovery together. Telling them everything, trusting them completely, being completely vulnerable to another person and completely safe. The joy of that feeling is not easily matched. It is a unique experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:27 AM
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As a man who's been married for 8 years, let me inform everyone here that the single people on this subreddit have absolutely no clue as to what marriage is, who it benefits, how it works, or what it entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:22 AM
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Bank Robber, Drug dealer, Smuggler, Pimp, Pope, Reality TV Star, TicToc Influncer, Reddit Moderater, Back Alley Abortionist, German President, Fluffer, Fox News Political Analyst
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:15 PM
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No. It isn't. Human relationships aren't governed by evolutionary biology. Their obsession with evolutionary biology is one of the primary roots of their toxicity. It is why they speak about people as labels and groups instead of interacting with people as individuals. It's just bigotry with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:35 PM
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So long as you continue to see relationships and human behavior through the false lense of evolutionary biology, you'll never understand. Human relationships are more complicated because we have higher reasoning skills that allow us to make decisions contrary to instincts. This is why psychology and sociology exist, because basic biology and chemistry isn't sufficient to explain human civilization, relationships, and social customs. Marriage is a part of a large collection of social customs that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:14 PM
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Open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:54 AM
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The rule is (and should be) that mature adults discuss these things and come to a mutual agreement on how to split a dinner check. If you aren't mature enough to do this, then you aren't mature enough to have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:10 AM
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Blaming the problems they create for themselves on bullshit excuses is pretty much everything in the RP playbook.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 03:54 AM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Maybe they're doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:06 PM
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I think it's a Pink Floyd album.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:03 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:04 AM
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Why are you posting dystopian sci-fi here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:26 AM
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Over 3.5 billion people on the planet are all awful friends due to the fault of their gender? That doesn't sound sexist at all./s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:24 AM
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My (M6726y438862478511235) wife thinks this whole thing might escalate unnecessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:11 AM
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I (M428.54.5) agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:09 AM
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I(M235101657.565k5210) think the format should be (GenderAgeHeightWeightPenisLengthYearlySalaryNumberofChildrenMaxBenchpress) and no punctuation or units.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:07 AM
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I don't really think its necessary to change the NPC creature type from "Humanoid" to "Aberration" based on a childless backstory. I've answered this question in the context of D&d because a fantasy world is the only place your post would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:53 AM
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The Bible uses cheating as a metaphor for sin and explores that question from many different perspectives. The short answer is that yes, it is possible, but restoring that broken trust takes patience and careful diligence and is very difficult. 10,000 truths can be destroyed by a single lie, or so it has been said. Personally, I recommend ghosting cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:39 AM
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It does require that you be able to form a cogent thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:43 PM
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Nope. Human can choose to deny their instincts. Fasting, hunger strikes, etc. Humans have higher reasoning skills that allow them to choose to forego immediate gratification in favor of long term benefits. As such, biology plays almost no role in partner selection in human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:32 PM
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Step 2: Often the cult members will feign confusion, argue semantics, or resort to ad hominem when first confronted with the fact that they are in a cult. They will try to return the conversation to the cult dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:50 AM
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Step 1: Denial. When faced with the truth, most cult members will simply deny it. While often resorting to doubting the validity of the information, it is not uncommon for the cult member to agree with the facts presented only to then claim that the facts support the cult doctrine, even when logically incongruent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:25 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:11 AM
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You have a flawed and inaccurate view of humans and human relationships. That is not the way things work. You're believing the relationship equivalent of Flat Earthism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:14 AM
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Why do flys fly? Why do drivers drive? Why do golfers golf? Why do whining bitches whine and bitch?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/22 06:16 AM
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My opinion is: "Hey look, another deluded cultist spreading bigoted hatred on the internet."
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 05:21 PM
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I have standards: I won't sleep with a woman who has a bigger penis than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:13 AM
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There isn't because evolutionary biology does not apply to humans. Our conscious minds allow us to govern our actions contrary to evolutionary instincts, resulting in the need for sociology and psychology to explain human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:41 PM
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Again, a flawed premise. Your body does not govern your wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:38 PM
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You're*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:25 PM
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Because your outlook is toxic and detrimental to relationships and decieves young naive frustrated men into a cult mentality fueled by anger and mysoginy based on a false understanding of human biology and procreation. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:57 PM
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For example, the neurons firing in your brain have no biological function.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:47 PM
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Again you return to your flawed premise. My point is that no it does not. You are wrong. Biology does not dictate human behavior. This has been proven by sociology and psychology long ago. Human behavior is a complex combination of social pressure, cultural mores, parental influence, and personal choice that is informed by some biological influences. If your claim of biology were true, then why is homosexuality a biological component when is significantly reduces the chance of offspring? Stop be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:41 PM
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Again. Nothing you are saying is accurate. The survival of the human race is based on a vast and complex amount of factors, of which sex drive is only one. In my case, for example, since you brought it up. I have 5 children. Not because I love to fuck. Lots of people fuck and don't have children. I have 5 children because I want someone to care for me and my wife in my old age. It's my retirement plan. I'm hoping that I can raise smart, successful, caring people who (1)earn decent income, (2)are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:28 PM
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Your premise is false. Biologically speaking, and using your own flawed understanding, a man's purpose would be to influence a net positive survival rate for the human species. That can be accomplished without the simplistic solution of mass impregnation you're suggesting. For example, a man who dies in battle without offspring but helps win a conflict that saves lives would be a bigger net benefit than a coward who had 6 children but let them all die in a bear attack. This is why the whole "evo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:14 PM
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A bunch of redpill cultists will complain about it and blame it for their problems while marinating in sweat and cheeto dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:57 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:57 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:56 AM
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KJV The Color of Her Panties For the New Intellectual The Richest Man in Babylon Bobby Fischer Teaches Chess The Way Things Ought to Be The Foundation Trilogy Stranger in a Strange Land The Number of the Beast Future History Fountainhead Batman vs Predator The Babysitter Club Series Encyclopedia Brown Zen in the Art of Writing Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's entire body of work Perelambra The Cabinet of Curiosities Nintendo Power V34 March 1992 Phaze Doubt If I Pay Thee Not In Gold Through the Ice Bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:55 AM
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KJV The Color of Her Panties For the New Intellectual The Richest Man in Babylon Bobby Fischer Teaches Chess The Way Things Ought to Be The Foundation Trilogy Stranger in a Strange Land The Number of the Beast Future History Fountainhead Batman vs Predator The Babysitter Club Series Encyclopedia Brown Zen in the Art of Writing Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's entire body of work Perelambra The Cabinet of Curiosities Nintendo Power V34 March 1992 Phaze Doubt If I Pay Thee Not In Gold Through the Ice Bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:54 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:52 AM
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Because they are frustrated bigoted narcissistic cultists who are disconnected from reality because they just chase their penis from disaster to disaster and don't shower.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 01:57 AM
1

Look up the phrase "in this regard". I didn't say "virtually everything". You need to learn better reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:28 PM
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Not in this regard. The context is "caring what people think about you" instead of living your best life based on your own decisions. Someone's gender doesn't change the fact that you need to live your own life instead of caring about what other people think about how you live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:41 AM
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Context buddy. Context. Obvious you care about your boss's opinion of your job performance. You don't care about his opinion of your lifestyle choices and personal habbits. That was the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:11 AM
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That's not a reason to care what they think of you. Your life is best lived by your own decisions based on your own evaluations. If you ask someone for advice, then listen, but otherwise, don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:03 AM
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The fact that you treat men and women differently in this regard is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:57 PM
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True freedom as a person is when you stop caring what people think about you entirely. Fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:53 PM
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Every man in my family tree has married a woman from a higher education and/or income level. My dad, my brother, myself, my grandfather, my uncle. Two of my aunts did marry men who were a higher income, but equal or lower education level. Both of them have bachelor's degrees. So when I hear talks of hypergamy, it puzzles me, because it's not my real world experience.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 04:35 AM
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Because healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Everything else is toxic and best avoided.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 11:00 PM
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Not all interests will be common, but you can usually find at least something in common with anyone. Compatible life goals are variable depending on the relationship. Friends need to have the compatible life goals of maintaining contact in an acceptable level to their own perspective. Romantic relationships only work if the two people have compatible life goals, even if those life goals involve only "hooking up". The issue is not what the goals are. The issue is the compatibly. Dating is a metho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:45 PM
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Yes. I post this information on any thread where I think it might help people reading Reddit. I wasn't contradicting anything you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:22 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:19 PM
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They don't have real lives. Complaining about the internet is all they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:02 PM
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Duogamy Triogamy Quadrogamy Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:21 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. You can't have that with a souless sex robot. Also, sex robots can't consent because they have no free will. Robots are our slaves and property and have no rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:13 PM
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1) OP's original post is factually inaccurate. 2) The best sex is when you use a vibrator while having sex. Wife goes nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:31 AM
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Polygamy existed in past cultures because 90% of men died in battle or as slaves before the age of 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:33 PM
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Men should publicly shame and shun red pill cultists to put a stop to their insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:09 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:02 AM
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Absolutely, were all just going to push problems off on them. They can deal with it or pass the buck to the next generation, same as us. History marches on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:53 AM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 11:24 PM
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Dammit John. You're posting on Reddit? I get it. I'm fat. You bought me a pelaton and a gym membership for xmas. You 'recommended' that my new years resolution be hitting the gym more and getting on a diet. You've been throwing out my Swiss Cake Rolls. I get it. I'm fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:12 AM
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Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:40 AM
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The lengths these cultists go to express their delusions in offensive analogies is amazing. But that aside, we should all just be RVs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:43 PM
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Option 1: Avoid the Fiery Wrath of a Vengeful Abrahamic God Option 2: Have a neat penis hat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:49 PM
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I want to help you understand. You're thought process has a logical fallacy. You have combined "women" into a single unit that has both these qualities: A) say that men who are "hoes" are dicks and don't respect women B) Have sex with those men The reality is that the term "women" refers to a group of over half of the entire world population that has a varied and nuanced opinions as well as complex emotion, goals, interests, and habbits. As such, you will find contradictory behavior within the g…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 08:58 PM
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Your right. Having negative views towards women makes someone a bigot. Incels and RP appeal to that bigotry in order to convince young frustrated men of their false ideology and manipulate them. Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 03:29 PM
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I linked you the data. You can learn all about it there yourself, bypassing presentation and interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:49 AM
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This is RP at it's finest. Once you start arguing with the data, you've crossed the line into complete cognitive dissonance. Data is data, and divorces are a matter of public record. It's not guesswork or estimation. It's simple math and record keeping. If you're arguing with numbers, you tend to lose the argument. https://www.census.gov/library/visualizations/interactive/marriage-divorce-rates-by-state-2009-2019.html The data suggests that divorce rates are falling, but that may be due to marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:34 AM
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So angry and toxic... It's not healthy. You'll give yourself a heart attack before you're 40 if you keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:25 AM
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I'm attempting to give good advice to the young men who read this so that they don't go down the darkside of hatred and anger. You need counseling or therapy or equivalent mental health aid. Martial arts can provide you with a decent excersise routine while helping you realign your perspective to a more healthy outlook. Religion can help you make peace with existential dread and universal inequity. Meditation can help you focus your priorities and develop positive cognitive habbits. What you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:03 AM
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See how the lack of courtesy, respect, and self control has allowed your toxic anger to thrive. RP teachings and Incels are a cult. You need to relax and change your attitude if you ever want a chance at a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:53 AM
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Incels are a cult. Redpill are the recruits.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 12:43 AM
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You should be looking for relationships based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Not based on appearance and social standing. Even if you found a "slim college educated" girl, your relationship would not be successful if you don't have that compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:38 AM
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If you have so little integrity then your relationships will suffer. Proponents of Red Pill are severly lacking in the following areas: Courtesy/Respect: Treat others the way you want to be treated, no matter how they treat you. Integrity: Be honest and trustworthy and reliable and keep your word Perseverance: Never give up Self Control: A person us their own worst enemy if they cannot control their thoughts, emotions, and actions. Indomitable Spirit: No one can live your life for you, you must …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:29 AM
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It's wierd to me. Because a lot of the neckbeards claim to follow martial arts and stuff, and this is all stuff I learned in martial arts class in middle school. Talking out your problems instead of fighting. And Yoda from starwar saying anger leads to hate leads to darkness and shit. Here I am, some brainless redneck jock drowning in pussy according to them, and they hate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:02 AM
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Lots of ugly people have relationships, friends, date, get married, have children. The ones who communicate honestly and treat each other with respect last. Lots of good looking people who don't communicate honestly and treat each other with respect have toxic relationships. Life is about communication. Communication with yourself is about being honest with yourself and being self aware in order to have a healthy life outlook. Communication with others creates a happy social structure in the com…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:49 AM
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I would suggest open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect while talking about their common interests can lead to getting to know people who have compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:34 AM
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Leave your cult. Incels are male Karens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:46 AM
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I do have solutions for you. You just don't like those solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:30 AM
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Girls. They didn't want the 'witches' dead. They murdered girls. Witches don't exist. I'm blocking you. Enjoy Reddit forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:21 AM
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Huh? I wasn't an asshole. I didn't say anything bad about NB people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:18 AM
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And the people in charge who did the burning, the judges that convicted people of witchcraft. The police who held them?The people who lit the fires? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:16 PM
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Who pays when two gay guys date? Who pays when two lesbians date? What pays when a non-binary foxkin and an asexual gender fluid semifurry date? People should shut up about this stupid "who pays" nonsense. Adults use language to have a conversation and agree to a payment arrangement that is acceptable to both parties. Immature children bicker about who's supposed to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:00 PM
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Trying to mitigate the damage that the insanity of redpill and blackpill cult traching is doing to the naive younger people that come looking for answers only to be fed a transactional, competitive, apocalyptic, dystopian worldview from armchair philosophers who have dangerously wrong ideas of human biology, evolution, relationships, female anatomy, social moores, sex, and reproduction because they are sexually frustrated, bigoted, mysoginistic, and hateful. Just doing my part. Mostly I just pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:07 PM
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Women are literally blamed for the fall of mankind and young girls were burned as witches, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:58 PM
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Red pill advocates, like other cults, use some truth to package their lies. So some of the things they say will be right in some context. Being a self starter, working on yourself, defining yourself, standing up for yourself. These are all things that mentaly healthy people do. They then package into this context the toxic lies of: 1) Relationships are transactional and competitive 2) Hatred towards people using slurs like Chads and Stacy to define people by their appearance. 3) Horribly incorre…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/22 01:45 AM
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More importantly, couples should develop relationships based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. When you do that, the only concern is having enough money to pay the bills. The attitude that tracks income and keeps score is toxic and unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:22 AM
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This post is amazingly ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:48 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by that? I don't understand what you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:08 PM
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And he supports a strong independent self-made woman and looks like a gigachad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:49 PM
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Kronk And he'll kick the joker and tyler durdens pussy alpha sigma asses. Edit: I made a meme for it. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/s9m64y/oh_yeah_its_all_coming_together/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:17 PM
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If she's with you, then you're her choice. It's unbelievable to see RPers complain about literally everything. Below is the lifecycle of a RPer. "Girls won't date me." "This girl that wants to date me has a high N count." "This girl that I'm dating makes more money than I do." "This girl that I'm dating has friends at work who have penises." "My ex girlfriend broke up with me because I kept accusing her of cheating on my with chad." "My ex got me arrested just because I showed up at her work wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:14 PM
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It's designed to provide a stable and safe environment for children to grow up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:07 PM
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Now you're claiming that women making less than men is a benefit to women, which is wierd mental gymnastics typical of RPers. Also, did women conspire together to live longer in order to oppress men by marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:04 PM
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You don't understand a progressive tax bracket. The very unique set of circumstances that would have to align to cause marriage to be a net loss is so specific and rare and unique to the upper class that it is rediculous to use that information to claim that "um, actually marriage in the US is a tax increase". Which, if you'll see above, is what I contradicted. Taxes are complex and can work different ways, but the phrase: "Being married in the US makes you pay more taxes." is just plain false a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:55 PM
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Nothing affects people in higher tax brackets, they pay accounts and lawyers and judges for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:49 PM
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Being married doubles the standard deduction. If my wife and I were not married, our standard deduction would be $12550. Since we are married the standard deduction is $25100. So by objective math, being married is a tax benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:42 PM
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If only there were some sort of invention where both parties formally agree to lifelong commitment before having sex that people could use to ensure both parties are committed to the relationship... To bad nothing like that exists. It would be easy to just marry the concepts of sexual consent and clear communication into a formal ceremony led by some sort of authority figure and attended or witnessed by friends and family. Maybe it wouldn't be for everyone, but it could be a system for people to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:35 PM
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Just stop. Nothing about redpill has any basis in reality. It's all confirmation bias and straw man argument and other falacies based on bitterness over rejection because they're too lazy and angry to learn how to have a normal conversation with people as humans because they're thinking with their dicks all the time and it's easier to hate the "good-looking gigachads" than it is to admit to being an ass. Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults wh…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 08:23 PM
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Mostly that's a casual joke among wives. A healthy relationship isn't really like that. It's just a way to say that the wife is typically the more organized and responsible of the pair. There are some relationships that are the other way and the man is the more organized and responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:10 PM
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I'm fairly sure that my ankles couldn't do any sort of high heels. I need very good arch and ankle support.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 06:04 PM
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You have a fundamental misunderstanding of what relationships are. The whole point of a lifelong monogamous relationship is to develop such a close understanding of each other that 100% open and honest communication between both partners is s reality. The fulfillment, joy, feeling of freedom, togetherness, and closeness are some of the most rewarding parts of life. Better than money or sex and almost as good as having sex on a pile of money. A person should completely open themself up to another…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:31 PM
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Open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. My wife and I take a walk every night before bed during which time we intentionally discuss any issues we have with our relationship in a safe space where we've agreed in advance not to judge or get offended. One benefit is that no one feels like the other is "springing" anything on the other. Another is that we always know when its a "good time" …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:33 AM
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By coincidence, I just finished my nightly workout. 100% it is for myself. Ignore the benefits of looking better. The mental health benefits alone are worth it. Better sleep, better moods, more energy every day, basically just feeling better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:24 AM
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I think the neighbors have goats. Prolly 20 minutes to chase one down. That would be in a 'fate of the universe depending on it' scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:56 PM
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Develop healthy relationships with the people around you and practice open, honest, respectful, tactful communication with clear boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 10:20 AM
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Gamma Males are in her radium collection.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 10:14 AM
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Obviously I wasn't insisting anything of the sort, I was only pointing out that entertainers, especially comedians, especially shock jock comedians, do much in the public square that doesn't translate to their private lives. It's a part of comedy. It's just like how adult film stars can be good parents, or action film villaina can be good parents, or whatever. The entertainment industry is a diverse industry, and many patents perform in the industry in many different ways. We should judge people…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 11:56 PM
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I know. I get that if I ever wear boots with heels that are too high and a tall hat.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 08:37 PM
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I'm 5'10" thank God. My fan club is about 37 women who all want to have sex with me. Not as impressive as the hundreds that the 6' guys probably can boast, but enough to justify frosting my tips and wearing sleeveless tanktops and a backwards cap to formal events. I act this way because of evolutionary biology, not because my parents were alcoholics.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 08:32 PM
2

Less rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:38 PM
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Yes. I wasn't claiming anything about the OP. I was just commenting on the Steven Crowder portion of the conversation because I don't think there's evidence to call him a bad father just because he's a shockjock comedian. Howard Stern is probably a fun dad, does he have any kids. I'd be interested. Maybe I should do a YouTube show where I interview adult children of famous people to ask them what kind of parents they were. Anyone know Baron Trump's phone number?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 05:08 PM
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https://youtu.be/7PCkvCPvDXk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:08 AM
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To be fair, Crowder is a political 'shock' comedian who says things in the most extreme way possible to get attention, and I don't think he's exactly a 'red pill' so much as he's just politically conservative. I don't know anything about Matt Walsh. I'd be careful about judging people's ability to be a father from their professional entertainment career. I'm sure people such as Dave Chappelle and Steven Colbert and Christopher Titus are different as parents than their stage presence. I know I'm …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 04:08 AM
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Why read 1 book when you can skim the first chapter of multiple books.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:41 AM
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You're worldview and general life philosophy is wrong, childish, immature, and toxic. Most of the things you think you know about the world are incorrect to a degree that is harmful to your mental health, happiness, and your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:50 AM
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Yes. Incompatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:47 PM
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I used to work full time and my wife worked part time while keeping house and homeschooling the kids. Now we have 5 kids and my wife works full time making double what I used to make and I keep the house and homeschool the kids. We take walks every night to talk about our relationship and make sure we're both happy with the situation. We handle decision making as a team and base our relationship on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:34 PM
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Women like men who are entertaining. Even if you aren't a famous celebrity, you can be entertaining. My wife enjoys my constant performance for her sole enjoyment. This is part of what people mean when they talk about having a good personality being more important than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:17 PM
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"Now you may find it inconceivable or at the very least a bit unlikely that the relative position of the planets and the stars could a special deep significance or meaning that exclusively applies to only you, but let me give you my assurance that each forecast and prediction are all based on solid scientific documented evidence, so you would have to be some kind of moron not to realize that every single one of them absolutely true. Where was I?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:27 AM
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I worked full time with her part time when we married. She took time off a bit after childbirth, but still worked part time as much as possible. With covid it just made sense for her to switch to full time and for me to stay home, because she earns more than double what I earn hourly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:46 PM
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I'm a SAHD. I earn 0 dollars. My wife earns more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:34 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. If someone says the relationship "isn't going anywhere" then that is a likely indication of one of the following problems: Lack of honesty. Lack of respect. Lack of common interests. Lack of compatibility. Lack of maturity. Lack of adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:11 PM
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It's a cult that targets a vulnerable group: insecure young men who have been hurt by rejection. It then fills their heads with nonsense about how the world is against them to radicalize them to hatred and violence against anyone who doesn't share their beliefs, primarily women.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 08:41 PM
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As a certified "Alpha gigachad" according to RP, I challenge them to a thumb wrestling match for ownership of all Stacies.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 08:17 PM
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Testosterone increases sex drive. Women have less testosterone. It's not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:53 PM
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You'll find it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:41 PM
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Humans aren't normal animals. Their behavior isn't based on evolutionary biology. Higher reasoning skills allow humans to act against animal instinct. This is why psychology and sociology exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:29 PM
2

I used to hear it called "slumming it" by moronic drunk idiots in bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:15 AM
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We can and do each time I block one of you. Enjoy Reddit forever. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:01 AM
5

This comparative mindset is so toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:34 AM
14

What about omniautogamy? That's where everyone can fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:58 PM
2

"The Stone of Meku" was the first of a 5 book series that was sort of a high fantasy stereotypical Japan with lizardfolk and elves and cyborgs. A young woman named "Anya" was the protagonist. "Love Eternal" was a modern day post apocalyptic magic high fantasy teen romance novel inspired in part by the Harry Potter series. A teenage girl named "Jewel" is the protagonist along with her true love Dylan against the ancient sorceress Cleopatra. I think both are available on Amazon print on demand may…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:19 PM
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All the women in my family tree going back about 14 generations had full or part time jobs. Some picking cotton (not slaves) and some in textile mills.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 04:46 AM
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No. Primarily because your idea of those times never actually existed. Your picture of tge 1950s is a false picture painted by television and movies. The 1950s were nothing like RP folks imagine them to be.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 02:12 AM
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My sexuality is completely monogamous, so anything involving more than 2 people is a hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:36 PM
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Excuse me. I regularly pursued self-improvement and personal growth in my 20s while banging my share of Stacies. I even wrote 2 shitty novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:30 PM
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Casual sex is high risk behavior. Alcohol reduces inhibitions against high risk behavior. It's really not all that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:39 PM
5

You're*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:31 PM
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This innovative genius just invented monastic celebacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:27 AM
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HVM/HVW: n. "A term used by reductionist bigots who lable and value other humans along gendered lines using unrealistic and false criteria in order to perpetuate a transactional and competitive view of sexual relationships between humans to explain away their own failed relationships without accepting responsibility for their own actions."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:32 PM
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Good sex is about good communication. Both partners learn each other's bodies and do what feels best. If you refuse to communicate, then don't be surprised if the sex is bad. It takes time. My wife and I are much better at sex after 8 years of learning each others bodies. We talk about what feels good and what doesn't. "Honesty. Respect. Consent." Write it in sharpie on the mirror above your sex harness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:03 PM
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Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Whatever your standards are, they should be within that framework. It is the baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:59 PM
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My wife is better than you in every aspect of your perception of "masculinity". In short, my wife is more of a "alpha male" than you could ever be. Your perception of gender roles is incorrect to the point of insanity. No generation, not even the 1950s had a more mysoginistic or toxic mindset than yours about women. You are a legitimately bad person. I hope I have made myself clear. I will now block you. Enjoy Reddit for forever. Good bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:54 PM
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Yes. I read your post that contained a ton of mysoginistic bigoted claims about men and women based on multiple falacies. You're an ignorant biggot. Humans don't work the way you think they do. You should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:40 PM
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Mathematically, it's all about mileage. Multiply the average girth of penis by the length of insertion then multiply by number of thrusts. Multiply the result by the frequency of sex. Now multiply by the number of partners. Multiply by 1.25 for each encounter that involved 3 or more participants. Multiply by 1.33 for each encounter that was recorded and is available online. The resulting number is your "Slut" score in cm³ which basically measures the total volume of dick that has been inside you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:38 PM
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Men and women are different. You're just mistaken about what those differences are. You take personal differences between humans and attribute them as collective differences between genders in order to support mysoginistic stereotypes. You see an immature, shallow, selfish woman, and you claim that all women are immature, shallow,and selfish. That's the toxic bigoted behavior people keep criticizing you for. You should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:30 PM
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My wife and I have had times when we went almost a month without sex, and have had times when we had sex 36 days in a row. This is not included the extended time immediately before and after she gave birth 4 times. We abstain for 80 days after birth and follow doctors recommendations for healthy sex during pregnancy. Currently we average 3 or 4 times per week. Variety is the spice of life, but what we jokingly call 'boring' sex is great. That's a specific position that is our go-to for maximum e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:19 PM
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The post is so full of every logical fallacy that there is nothing to be done. I don't think a team of experts in every relevant field could ever convince OP to change this toxic attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:52 PM
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Then why isn't there a movement of men complaining that Disney Land is denying them free roller coaster rides even though they opened the door for Disney and was nice to her but now Disney is off giving roller coaster rides to Chad because Disney is a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:21 PM
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"Do you like Gimlee or Legolas more?" "What's your favorite D&D race that starts with a G? Gnomes or Goliaths?" "Do you often store items on the top shelf of the cabinets?" "What setting do you use on your adjustable standing desk?" "Can I have a picture of you entering a convenience store?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:15 PM
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As a guy with a boomerang, let me assure everyone out there that it keeps the girls coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:10 PM
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The exception is so common that it disproves the rule. Women who don't like sex are the exception. Most women, even virgins, enjoy sex. Excepting of course for the initial discomfort involved with breaking the hymen. The reason women (and men for that matter) don't enjoy sex is almost always lack of communication between partners. Physical incompatibility is rare and is often easily overcome. Emotional and Mental incompatibility is much more frequent. Good relationships and good sex is built upo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:04 PM
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Passive aggressive questions are a great basis for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:49 PM
3

People don't select who they are physically and sexually attracted to based on genetics or evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:48 PM
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Yeah. As has been said before, Sex is about recreation. Procreation is an occasional side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:33 PM
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Another stupid "genetic instict" post. How original. No. Humans don't work like that. Humans have higher reasoning skills that allow them to forego immediate gratification for long term benefits. As such they are able to act contrary to evolutionary biology and their behavior can't be predicted the same way as other animals behavior. This is why psychology and sociology are sciences. It takes more information to predict groups of humans, and requires much more study.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:32 PM
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My wife was a virgin when we married. She's very sex-positive. I don't think previous experience is a requirement for talent. I think enthusiasm and a willingness to communicate and learn by both partners is the key to good sex. Porn, let's remember, is unrealistic fantasy. Attempting things in porn can be painful or even lead to injuries. Those are professionals who are trying to get the best visual, not the most pleasurable or comfortable position. So it's probably best not to compare your sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:20 PM
2

The crazy really comes out on new years...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:39 AM
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😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:34 AM
1

I don't understand half those words. This subreddit is wierd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:39 AM
0

Not just men. Sex helps keep both partners interested in the relationship, among other things. Doing fun things together is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:32 PM
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We don't choose to live in the appocalyptic hellscape that you imagine yourself to be in. Sex has many benefits to mental health which then increases happiness which then makes people nicer to each other. It is primarily for recreation not only for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:51 PM
2

I'm not interested in arguing definitions. I was pointing out that a person's opinion of a societal structure doesn't necessitate a particular preference towards masculinity, and that the entire OP was based on a falacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:44 PM
4

The question is very loaded, but I'll attempt to explain. The patriarchy is defined as a system of societal structure designed historically by men that has resulted in a biased structure that benefits men more than women unfairly. A woman being attracted to a very masculine man has nothing to do with her opinion about that societal structure. If, however, you are sloppy with defining your terms then you can make the mistake that one has to do with the other. The fallacy in play here is Equivocat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:36 PM
7

You're the 6' white guy crying about himself on Reddit. I was just trying to cheer you up. But that's okay, you can go enjoy your pity party.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:42 AM
1

I wasn't talking about basketball. I was talking about a tall white guy named Larry Bird.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:27 AM
2

I think TRP is so close to being a cult that I can't tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:25 AM
1

Did you just compare the entire NFL to Larry Bird?
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:23 AM
1

Larry Bird is a legend.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 03:25 AM
0

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:00 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:46 AM
6

False dichotomy, straw man, false dilema, hasty generalization, special pleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:42 AM
29

It's spelled 'assholes'.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 10:45 PM
51

Despite a rise in the occurrence of non-monogamous relationships, it's nowhere near the percentage needed to claim monogamy is becoming obsolete. It's within the normal fluctuations of human behavior. It's just as likely that the trend could reverse and monogamous relationships could become more common in the next generation. Keep in mind that the free love and swing culture of the 60s and 70s had very little statistical impact, and while marriage is less common, non-married relationships are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:30 AM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:59 AM
2

Similarities: They both have the letter "i" in them. Differences: Everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:04 AM
2

RP is a threat to everyone because it is a cult that radicalizes young naive frustrated angry men into violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:01 PM
2

It shows that this guy is lonely and horny and doesn't understand sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:38 PM
2

You have a false understanding of the importance of sex vs the importance of feeling loved and respected by a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:35 PM
4

Below is a link to an illustration of your level of understanding of women. https://www.reddit.com/r/calvinandhobbes/comments/jcoqje/the_innocent_trolling_of_female_gender/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:11 PM
17

It's a cult. Part of being in a cult is applying the cult beliefs to all situations at all times.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 12:47 AM
1

Yes and that includes full time homeschool curriculum for 5 children of all different grade levels. I teach 15 different classes a day while doing laundry, cooking, cleaning, house maintenance, home accounting, building an addition on the house, and watching My Little Pony with my kids because I'm Superdad, or so my daughters call me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:08 AM
5

🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:36 AM
8

I'll never be able to convince you that your mentality is false and toxic and misogynistic. I'm going to block you, because I don't see any benefit from continuing this conversation. You will use confirmation bias and other falacies to believe whatever you want. All the relationship problems in your life,whoch will be numerous, are your fault. Goodbye forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:00 PM
9

I can't begin to correct everything that's wrong with your post. But I'll try. 2 years. My situation proves that your worldview is narrow and ignorant. She has less schooling than I do. I have a 2 year degree. She has a GED. I didn't do anything "wrong" to not outearn her. My chosen career path happened to be lower paying, and she happens to be very capable at her chosen career path. She's not old. She's 30. She loves being a mother to our children. She has far more going for her than her looks,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:43 PM
13

This post is far too rational and reasonable for this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:56 PM
10

For the first 6 years of our marriage I worked full time. My wife worked part time while adopting my son, and then all the way through her first pregnancy. She worked the week before going into labor. She gave birth to 4 children in those 6 years while homeschooling my son and continued to work part time. Her income was almost as much as mine. Now I am a full time stay at home dad and she works full time. Her income is more than double what mine was. Income disparities are meaningless when a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:47 PM
1

On what do you base your concepts of morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:32 AM
2

The 1950s stereotype isn't even based in reality anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:52 PM
3

39M Lost it at age 16 with my highschool girlfriend in the park on top of a huge boulder under a stary sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:48 AM
9

No. And it doesn't make sense to me that it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:29 AM
5

I'll put this into your "redpill" terminology in order to help you understand. A "female" would "instinctually" know that your flawed interpretation of fatherhood and family and gender dynamics would be harmful to her, her offspring and to society as a whole, so she will reject your "genetic contribution" to the species in order to "perpetuate the matriarchy". I hope this explains the connection between toxic redpill mythology and the lack of sexual activity by its adherents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:39 AM
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And people should understand that it takes an empowered man to support an empowered woman in her ambitions. I'm proud to stand behind my wonderful wife and cheer her on as she lives her best life. I'm living mine, after all. For clarity: Empowered women can succeed without the man. My meaning was that a man needs to be empowered in order to play the support role effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:30 AM
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Now I understand the issue. "Knowing what you lacked" doesn't give you the insight you think it does. I'm sorry your father wasn't what you needed him to be. I can assure you, I know what it means to be a man. I learned it from my father, whom I respect despite his flaws. He and I and my son are building an addition to my house right now together. Please trust me that your redpill perspective is toxic and based on a false premise born out of anger and hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:17 AM
22

My wife has a giant bag with a $ on it full of $100 bills. She doesn't need me to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:03 AM
10

None of what you said had any basis in reality. I'm a father of 5 who has been, at different times, a single dad, a full time prover to a SAHM, a part time provider and part time SAHD to a SAHM with a part time job, and a full time SAHD. You have no idea what being a parent means. I hope you don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:00 AM
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None of what you said had any basis in reality. I'm a father of 5 who has been, at different times, a single dad, a full time prover to a SAHM, a part time provider and part time SAHD to a SAHM with a part time job, and a full time SAHD. You have no idea what being a parent means. I hope you don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:00 AM
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I'm confused. How does a father staying home with his children deprive children of a father figure? You don't seem to know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:15 AM
13

Are you claiming that being a homemaker and stay at home parent equates to "incapable of doing his part in society"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:03 AM
16

So the RPers call me a 'beta' because I'm a SAHD but call me an 'alpha' because I'm good looking and athletic and charismatic. Which is it? Again the RPer's nonsense breaks down. Maybe I just don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:32 PM
36

Yes. Please explain me. My existence needs "explaining". FFS...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:29 PM
1

Yes. Saying secure guys do something doesn't imply that guys that don't do that are insecure. You've made an error in reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:58 PM
3

Fun Fact: A couple can use a vibrator or other toys before, during, or even after sex to ensure that both partners achieve an acceptable level of personal pleasure. If you both work together, it is much easier to have great sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:43 PM
0

My advice is not to have those types of relationships, but that's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:32 PM
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My wife and I have always told each other what we like and given each other feedback to help each other learn our bodies. Maybe couples should do that. It seems to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:08 AM
1

I didn't criticize anyone. I was encouraging OP. Did you misread my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:35 AM
3

Tomgirl, Janegirl, Janeboy, I've heard different varieties, but Tomgirl is how I've described myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:33 AM
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That's okay. Thanks for taking the time to even interact with me in a civil manner. It's more than I get most days. I support and encourage your personal life journey whatever it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:12 AM
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I think you misunderstood. Tomgirl is a cis male who's interests are feminine. It has nothing to do with hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:06 AM
3

I'm not kink shaming you or anything, but your comment makes it seem like you might not know the pleasure of having your SO rail you with a strap-on while she pulls your hair and slaps your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:55 AM
4

Wow. Accuse her of drug abuse and degrade her...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:48 AM
-4

Don't listen to that guy. I'm a Tomgirl who married a tomboy. Plenty of secure guys who know who they are and what they want will be into you. Don't worry about the guys that say you're gross. You're keeping fit and enjoying it. I need to work out more. I envy your discipline. You do you. I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:46 AM
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If you have a connection, go for it. As a masculine physique man who is feminine, I can say the two mix well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:42 AM
6

"How do you flavor your sexist slurs?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:39 AM
1

As everyone can see, there are no answers to this simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:10 AM
5

Absolutely not. As a feminine man who is hetero normative, there is a distinct difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:42 AM
3

2 weeks
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 01:31 AM
1

I have a good family and friend support structure and a healthy mature perspective on human relationships basee on open and honest communication between consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:12 PM
-1

That's a tomboy. Tomboy: A cis female who conforms to masculine societal stereotypes. Tongirl: A cis male who conforms to feminine societal stereotypes. I am a cis hertero normative male. I am a homemaker. I homeschool my children. I do the grocery shopping. I crochet. I scrapbook. I do arts and crafts. I do dozens of other hobbies and have countless manerisms that are socially defined along "feminine" lines. I also love it when my tomboy wife who doesn't shave her legs or wear makeup pulls my h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:06 PM
2

I'm not. But I understand. I assume that you've never heard of Tomgirls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:56 PM
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None of that is true. I know %100 because I'm a Tomgirl and honestly, all that nonsense is anti Tomgirl bigotry. Which I know no one cares about or understands, because fuck us Tomgirls, who gives a shit. Fuck your exclusionary gender studies nonsense that ignores the gender issues of an entire group (cis men). NEWSFLASH: All cis hetero men do no have the exact same outlook towards women or their own gender rolls. We, just like everyone else, were raised in unique circumstances that makes our pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:38 PM
1

I'm not trying to "win" an argument. I was trying to give some helpful advice to another human being who might benefit from my longer life experience. Emphasis on "was". I am now blocking you because you have no intention of listening to my advice, and I have no interest in engaging a with you fir the rest of forever. Enjoy your life. Someone else can read your future posts bragging about how my refusal to respond to your childish idiocy somehow proves you right and me wrong. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:22 PM
1

Successful relationships are exclusive to mature adults who communicate honestly and treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals. Immature people regularly have unsuccessful relationships. If you want a successful relationship, you need to be a mature adult, and you need to find another mature adult. Of the 3 possible combinations: Immature with Immature, Immature with Mature, and Mature with Mature, only the Mature with Mature have a reasonable chance at s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:46 PM
1

I don't argue semantics. You can take up the definition of the words mature and immature with dictionary.com or Miriam Webster. A person who follows their emotions and instincts blindly is immature by definition. A person who subjugates their emotions and instincts to higher reasoning is mature by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:38 PM
1

A loaded yes or no question that had nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:00 PM
0

Men have lives outside of sex. Immature boys "obsess over getting their dicks wet." Everyone has a choice. Humans are capable of acting contrary to instinct. It's called "free will".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:02 PM
1

The frequency with which people on this subreddit claim I say things I didn't say is indicative of the communication problems they have in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:50 PM
1

You're trying to blame your own immaturity on biological influences outside of your control to avoid responsibility for your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:48 PM
0

Yes. And people who do use their higher reasoning skills are called "Mature" and people who don't are called "Immature".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:22 PM
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Humans have higher reasoning capabilities that allow them to ignore instinct and make decisions to forego short term benefits based on the expectation of long term benefit. So the whole evolutionary biology arguments about relationships are nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:46 PM
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Body count is meaningless. The important thing is open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:00 AM
1

You could dress the sexbot up in football gear. Now everyone is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:29 AM
2

And there are families that had it much worse. Many black families around here are just getting their first generation of highschool graduates. Doing research into our ancestry really gives an interesting perspective. Life really is nothing like how it has been depicted in typical movies and television.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:54 AM
2

I'm a white man from southeast USA. My ancestors came from Europe. In fact, my wife found a house over in Britain where our shared ancestors lived. It's still standing. I'm descended from the son and she's descended from the daughter around 14 generations back. They were orphaned. A woman on my side of the family was kicked out of Massachusetts for hosting all-women's bible studies. Eventually both our family trees wound up in the South. My family picked cotton(sharecroppers, not slaves, but not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:48 AM
2

My ancestry has been largely working widows all the way back to the 1400s. My of my male ancestors died in wars or workplace accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:38 AM
2

Toxic
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 12:59 AM
1

0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:41 AM
-1

It's %100 a real thing. I'm a recovering "niceguy". Fortunately my phase only lasted a short time during highschool before I matured and grew out of it. The problem now is that so many Niceguys are never forced to mature because internet and social media allows them to remain in their bubble too much. Basically, young men who are sexually frustrated attempt to attract women with grand gestures or romanticized behavior, but they gave awkward social skills and then get angry when girls reject them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:31 AM
1

r/niceguys can give you some insight into how the term is used as a pejorative to describe a man who: 1) Claims to be a nice guy or a "gentleman" who treats women like "queens" 2) Then they reveal themselves to be violent abusive psychopaths after the slightest rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:20 AM
-1

Not living your life based on the assumption that memes from 90s movies define interpersonal relationships.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 04:33 AM
2

Narcissists often lie or manipulate people with partial truths or lies of omission. Using information out of context or in false context. They refuse to ever make themselves vulnerable with another person. Their image is a carefully maintained facade. The truths they choose to tell people are just as much a part of the overall deception as the truths they hide and the lies they tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:32 PM
4

Honesty is vulnerability. Stating facts about yourself can be just a dishonest as outright lies. True honesty makes you vulnerable to the other person. Learning to do this together, becoming vulnerable together, is one of the most fulfilling parts of an intimate relationship. The experience of confessing your deepest personal secrets to another person with absolutely no judgement and complete acceptance is mentally orgasmic in a way that can't be explained in words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:38 AM
3

You don't understand what honesty means in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:29 AM
4

No ide what you're talking about. Could you explain further?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:04 AM
1

Both cults have delusional "true believers" that are manipulated by their handlers. These are actually the most effective and successful politicians. Both Obama and Trump were "true believers" that had deluded themselves into believing their own lies. It still doesn't matter. Politics never helps the people who need it, and expecting it to is naive. We have to do what we can to solve our problems on our own between each other. Government will never solve it for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:21 AM
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No. One side is demonstrably worse than the other, but they don't actually oppose each other. They pretend to be adversarial to get votes and power. One side panders to the worst vices of humanity. The other side panders to the best intentions of humanity. Neither side actually hold the values they claim to hold. They just want money and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:53 AM
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More than 80 million people who were able to vote didn't vote in the last presidential election didn't. For a reason. All politicians are corrupt liars. Voting does nothing. Join us. Free your mind from the manipulation of the political elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:02 PM
5

So you've done everything there is to do in the world and found all of it boring? That sucks. Well, it's unlikely that will happen to anyone else.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 12:32 AM
3

Yep. It's the secret to happiness. Find something to do to distract you from the knowledge that we're all being sucked into the surface of a slightly wet rock hurling through the cold dead vacuum of space around a giant explosion.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 11:50 PM
6

People's preferences can change over time. Our bodies change. Our experiences give us perspective. Our sex drive changes. Having a relationship is about open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:13 PM
18

Classic case of needing a hobby. Even something like a twitch channel. Find something that makes you happy before you worry about finding someone to make you happy.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:56 PM
15

When someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 10:00 AM
1

Did you just defend rapists and terrorists in the same post? Wow.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 01:10 AM
1

https://foreignpolicy.com/2020/06/02/incels-toronto-attack-terrorism-ideological-violence/
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 12:59 AM
1

No evidence? Red pill recruites vulnerable young insecure men into an ideology that has been identified as a terrorist organization by multiple governments. Multiple people have commited heinous acts of terrorism in the name of red pill ideology. It's a cult, and a dangerous one, and the FBI and RCMP have both independently identified it as such.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 12:44 AM
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Normal interaction with women, treating them like human beings with respect through open and honest communication without a secret agenda or strategy. Not treating them like sex toys. You know, revolutionary unprecedented new-age bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 12:20 AM
1

It's so adorable to see the newer generations discovering existential dread!
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:50 PM
1

It's a cult that preys on the insecurities of young lonely men in order to radicalize them into terrorists.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:04 PM
3

It's not surprising that a cult that preys on the insecurities of young naive lonely men to recruit and radicalize them into terrorists has flaws in its logic.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:03 PM
1

There is no such thing as a "Beta" or "Alpha" male. The entire concept is based on a flawed premise and has been debunked multiple times in multiple ways using reliable scientific data.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:41 PM
21

Rape has nothing to do with sex, lust, or physical attraction. Rape is an act of malice, anger, hatred, humiliation, and taking away someone's freedom and agency. Rapists do not rape because they are seeking sexual gratification. Rapists rape because they are seeking to irreparably harm the victim and establish dominance and control over the victim. Rape is about the rapist exerting control over the victim. This is true of all rape. There are no exceptions. Marital rape, violent rape, statutory …
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 07:04 PM
2

If trees lose their leaves in winter, why is a Christmas tree green? My point is that it's likely that the men having a hard time getting relationships aren't necessarily the same men cheating. So comparing the two like you did is a falacy. A majority of crime victims are poor. A majority of crime perpetrators are poor. This does not mean that crime victims are perpetrating crime. Does this help clarify things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:36 AM
6

Fiction isn't real. Romance novels tell us nothing about real relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:27 AM
0

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:58 PM
2

Now you're expecting an alien invasion? Y'all's cult just keeps getting wierder...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:00 AM
2

Our highschool children have enough guns to fight that war. You can't invade mainland USA with ground troops. You're outgunned by the entire population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:52 AM
2

If the USA is attacked we'll bomb the shit out of whichever country would earn the military industrial complex the most money. Same as we always do. If society ever collapses, the American M.I.C. will just feed itself with rampant conquest and destruction. An the frightening part is that anything that is likely to stop it would be about as destructive anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:46 AM
4

My limited experience with latin women would indicate that they are less likely to put up with RP nonsense. It's obviously not true of all latin women, but almost all I have met are very strong willed, independent and forward. They are also usually devout or at least practicing catholic and family oriented. This combination doesn't seem to fit well within the RP narrative, so may have an effect. Just my thoughts. I could be wrong.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 05:12 AM
3

When doing our family tree my wife discovered that her grandmother worked in the mill spinning the cotton that my grandmother picked in the next town. Our grandmothers each had no say in their choice of jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:36 PM
10

He's being indoctrinated into a cult.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 05:38 AM
1

Thank you for your post. It is exactly the sort of thing I was looking for. I didn't specifically request analogies that were positive for females and negative for males. All your analogies are fun to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:28 PM
1

I'm not sure that is an analogy, but I do agree with the statement. All people should enjoy body autonomy. No pvp without consent. A d&d character that goes into many dungeons is a single hero, but a dungeon that has consumed many d&d characters is an entire adventure module.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:24 AM
9

You've been recruited by a violent terrorist cult that uses the commonality of hurt from romantic rejection in young men to radicalize them.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 06:46 AM
1

I wasn't aware there were any former black pillers. I was under the impression that... uh... they say... ...once you go black you don't go back.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 04:56 AM
2

A joint smoked by several people won't get you high, but one person smoking a lot of joints will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:51 AM
1

I have no idea what you're talking about, but I'm blocking you based on this incomprehensible post because it seems toxic even though it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:33 AM
1

I love it! Take an award!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:21 AM
2

You could have saved some time and just said "Hey, block me too!" A single word spoken several times communicates little, but different words spoken at one time communicates much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:38 AM
2

My theory is that RP is a cult and the "Master Key/Shitty Lock" joke is one of their sacred texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:09 AM
2

But most of the time the key just clumisly scratches the door handle before turning too early and falling asleep so the door has to quietly open itself while the key snoores next to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:54 AM
3

A cheeto that goes into the mouth of many neckbeards loses its flavor, but a neckbeard that eats many cheetos can post about RP on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:51 AM
-4

For future people that read this, none of what this person just posted is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:48 AM
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I was just asking people for silly analogies and the cultists came at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:31 AM
2

Are you aware that sex doesn't always result in pregnancy and childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:28 AM
2

Holy Wall of Text Batman! Yeah, I didn't read that and I'm sure it's off topic. The post was asking for people to come up with their own examples. An internet user who posts on many different subreddits is cringe, but a subreddit that has many different users is popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:27 AM
5

A shovel that digs many holes can make a garden, but a hole dug by many shovels becomes a gold mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:22 AM
3

A knife stabbed into many chests gets dull, but a chest that can survive many stabbings is superman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:20 AM
5

You have a toxic and false understanding of human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:16 AM
4

Yeah. I didn't expect so much hatred over a fun Saturday night Reddit thread about silly analogies. RPs have no sense of humor. A q-tip inserted into multiple ears is disgusting, but putting lots of q-tips in your ear over and over feels amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:14 AM
5

The original analogy is a joke. And yes, I'm having fun with it and asking people for their own silly analogies. A 1 will still be 1 no matter how many times you add 0, but a 0 increases every time you add a 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:00 AM
12

The lock and key analogy has no logic behind it. A penis does not gain value based on how many vaginas it has penetrated. A vagina does not lose value based on how many penises it has been penetrated by. It's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:52 AM
11

Yes, I understand that I have insulted one of your holy scriptures. A finger that picks many noses gets dirty, but a nose picked by many fingers gets clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:50 AM
3

I don't know what "women" as a collection are doing with analogies. I know I, a man, wrote some silly examples of analogies so that people reading my post would know what sort of analogies I was talking about. And so far most of the replies have just been off-topic and toxic, which isn't surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:48 AM
2

Wouldn't surprise me. I just know they love to use it. A carrot that fits into many anuses stinks, but an anus that has inserted many carrots has good eyesight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:46 AM
5

We were looking for other analogies different than the key, lock thing, but I see what you did there. Try this then: "A key and lock who communicate openly and honestly while treating each other with respect may discover that they have shared interests and compatible life goals."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:41 AM
1

I like it, remember to lube up people. Sound advice! (Although, don't worms drown if the soil is too wet? Is that a thing?)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:37 AM
12

Also OP is male, understands the analogy, disagrees with it, and is just having a little fun asking people for their analogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:36 AM
8

All 4 analogies are equally rediculous. That's the point of the post. I'm asking people to share their silly analogies. But if you're incapable of having fun, by all means, be a jerk for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:34 AM
6

It seems I've insulted one of your sacred texts. I apologize. Have a nice time in your cult. A nail that is driven into many different boards will be bent and weak, but a board with many nails will be sturdy and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:32 AM
6

I was just asking for silly analogies. What are you taking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:31 AM
4

My main problem with it is I don't see "Comunicate openly and honestly with another human being in an effort to try to find shared interests and common life goals" in the strategies used. And any strategy for human relationships that doesn't follow that is destined for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:10 PM
2

Sex Ghost 2: Ghost Harder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:26 PM
2

Non consensual anything isn't appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:43 AM
14

Over 90% of sex was basically rape for most of human history because women were property and had no rights. So yes. It's basically. Putting a woman in a social position where she can die of starvation, become a prostitute, or marry the man her father chose for her isn't exactly respecting her power of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:28 AM
3

Which just means you got the "doesn't play well with others" checkmark in kindergarten and never bothered to learn how to interact with people.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 03:03 PM
2

None of those statements are true, so if you factor them into your mindset you'll just be toxic.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 02:56 PM
6

Looks like an invitation to the biggest pity party in history.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 02:29 PM
2

I've said it so much I'll just start hitting the auto complete and it should do it. It's all about open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals and priorities. I had to help the autocomplete only twice, not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:17 PM
6

Nothing about any of the red, blue, black, or purple pill nonsense is true. Its a bunch of people overgeneralizing their individual experiences to blame other people or society for their loneliness and anger. The truth about relationships is that people are unique individuals and every relationship is unique to those people and each relationship needs to be maintained differently and the only way to learn how to do that is through open and honest communication between mature consenting adults wh…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 02:03 PM
3

The animated is one of the greatest movies ever made, a perfect depiction of a Tomboy affirming a woman's right to be herself despite social pressures. The live action is a Mary Sue riding a dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:00 AM
4

Everything about this is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:32 PM
3

Just compare the animated Mulan to the live action Mulan to find almost everything that is wrong with the modern movie Industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:23 PM
6

Modern movies are sexist. They portray being female as the only important thing about the female protagonist, as if she has no identity outside her gender or sex. I haven't been able to watch movies for years because my wife and I can't stand the sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:29 PM
3

Obviously we have a miscommunication. The scenario you suggest, where a person desires a relationship regardless of who its with, or a relationship simply for the sake of not being alone, is toxic. I agree with you. The behavior I was mentioning was the scenario where a man is honest about looking for a long term relationship when dating. But doesn't assume that dating will lead to one. Open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who set and maintain clear boundaries and mutua…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:05 AM
2

I don't believe listening to your bigotry will make me smarter. It's probably suspended for a reason. I'm just going to block you and enjoy my life without tour toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:27 AM
3

I'm not pilled at all. If you're threatened by someone being honest about their emotions or desires for relationship, then you're toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:18 AM
5

Mature adults communicating honestly isn't a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:14 AM
6

I don't believe a person communicating that they want a relationship should be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:06 AM
3

"My Fedora smells, and I act like a child because I'm horny and can't control my behavior like an adult."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:33 AM
1

Open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals while setting and abiding by clear boundaries. Or as I like to call it, "True Love".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:24 AM
24

Most people want a partner who shares compatible life goals and common interests.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 01:09 AM
10

Where do tomgirls fit into your worldview? As a tomgirl who's happily married to a tomboy, do I represent an exception to your expectations of relationships? For clarification, some definitions: Tomboy: A cis girl who enjoys predominantly stereotypical "boy" activities. Tomgirl: A cis boy who enjoys predominantly stereotypical "girl" activities.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 07:08 AM
5

I've lived in Florida for a short time in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:31 PM
2

Open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals while setting and abiding by clear boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:04 AM
4

No. The fast majority of men I see in public are dressed and most likely did so under their own power. My 4 year old can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:39 AM
2

This was an off topic comment in response to a joke suggesting 10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:31 AM
2

And the cultists will defend the faith zealously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:45 AM
-1

I'm a happily married father of 5. I'm not exactly devoid of life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:44 AM
1

It's a cult of victimhood that blames a false image of women for daring to oppress men by exercising their freedom of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:43 AM
3

All sorts of people with mental disorders manage to be "successful with women". I know some flat eartherd who are happily married. It doesn't really change my opinion of their insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:38 AM
0

Performance art at its finest. Reddit Oscar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:40 AM
3

Cultists believe the cult is good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:01 AM
2

Nope, just had a breakup not be a real breakup and a friend want to be a girlfriend all in the same day and had to figure out that headache while also dealing with highschool. Glad those years are behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:00 AM
1

Everything you said is lunacy. Go watch the lunar eclipse and take a break from the false cult talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:30 AM
7

I can lead a horse to water. I can't make it drink. I can only hope some young men read this and get away from this toxic mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:39 AM
4

Fair point. I have no test data for that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:35 AM
2

I once, for a short time, had 2 women willing to have sex with me. It was the worst 3 weeks of my young adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:29 AM
4

Not everyone is a horny teenager. Some of us are civilized adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:27 AM
5

Sorry. Let me fix it. "any problems" The problem is the toxic, childish, selfish, cult mindset, not the absence of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:23 AM
6

That's all cultist propaganda. Rejection isn't hatred. This is an unhealthy lie that you believe that is causing your mental health to be at risk. Please don't continue thinking this way. It will only make your life worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:20 AM
7

Stop for a second and reevaluate yourself. You just equated "not having sex with you" with "fucking hates me". Do you not see how toxic that mentality is? Are you going to assume that every woman who doesn't have sex with you hates you? That's patently irrational. Can you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:57 AM
7

No. You wouldn't feel empathy. You're using a personal experience as an excuse to foment hatred towards a gender by claiming that they have a "secret power" which they use to oppress you. Bigots of all types have done the same thing to different groups of people for literally 1000s of years. You're spewing the same hateful bigotry that has been regurgitated over and over throughout history. And, like most bigots, you've been brainwashed into believing that you are the victim of your targets by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:52 AM
2

Wow. That's about the most toxic opinion I've ever seen on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:30 AM
12

Your world(thanks for catching my typo) view is similar in lunacy to a flat earther, moon-landing denyer, or other conspiracy theorist. Human relationships aren't governed by animalistic instincts. Humans have higher reasoning skills that allow them to forego immediate gratification for long term benefits. This is why psychology and sociology are sciences that are different from biology and neuroscience. Behavior of animals can be mapped and predicted. Behavior of humans is much more complex. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:00 AM
7

There is a perfect excuse for it: "I'm lazy and don't feel like it." Sure, excersise and staying in shap is a great idea, good for you, and helps in moat areas of life. But if someone chooses to be lazy and accepts the consequences, then I'm not going to shame them. Life is a fucking bitch that will club you with a baby seal sometimes. If you just can't get motivated, I understand and that's okay. You don't have to feel bad about not wanting to get up. Just try to think positive and get closer y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:43 AM
2

If the two people agree on the setup and don't keep score and clearly communicate then the disparity can be %100/0 as with people who have disabilities while still maintaining a healthy relationship without bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:57 PM
2

Healthy relationships don't keep score.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:44 PM
5

Life isn't a competition. A couple needs to clearly communicate to each other and agree upon shared household chores. This is part of normal relationship maintenance for any couple living together. If two people can't manage to come to a basic agreement upon something as simple as housework, then they have no business being in a relationship. If one person agreed to something at first and then decides to abdicate their reasonable responsibilities later in the relationship without a civil convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:03 PM
3

I can't take people seriously when they try to apply instinct and animalistic behavior to humans. Humans have higher reasoning skills that allow them to act against instinct in order to attempt to gain long term benefits. You can't study or explain human interaction based on biology or brain chemistry. This is why sociology and psychology exist. And for anyone who's going to comment and say "But derpaderp blah blah ancient man was a hunter and ancient woman was a cook." Or whatever nonsense pseu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:19 PM
1

Bigots are bigots because they are filled eith hate and blinded by emotional reactions to incomplete, biased, or completely false data. They have no rational purpose or goal to their behavior. The hatred is an end unto itself. This is true of misogynists, racists, mysandrists, homophobes, classists, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:18 AM
2

"A tablecloth"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:30 PM
2

I let the tip of my machete drag on the sidewalk so they can hear me coming to avoid startling them, and I draw a smiley face on my hockey mask so they know I'm friendly. I know it's working because they scream in relief when they look back and run to go tell their friends that everything is safe.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 04:28 PM
25

They mean... They are happy being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:45 AM
2

Marriage is whatever two mature consenting adults decide it is no matter what government, religion, or society says it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:17 AM
1

Why wouldn't it be socially acceptable to wear it? It would also be socially acceptable for them to wear snow pants and a hoodie. American values are about freedom to wear what you want. Basically, American values says everything that is legal is socially acceptable. There are a select few grey areas, but those are exceptions. Why does it matter what uniforms a sports team chooses to wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:55 PM
5

Yes. A person who made the uniform rules decided that they had to dress that way. People on sports teams don't dress alike by random choice. They are required to where the uniform selected by team management. Therefore, the dress of a sports team has nothing to do with American Women's dress habbits. Otherwise you'd also be asking why all American men wear helmets, pads, and jerseys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:08 AM
7

The United States is vastly diverse, so comparison that involves the whole country is impossible, pointless, and meaningless. 50 different states populated by people from all over the world who may be first, second, third, or farther generation immigrants, who's families and culture have mixed for decades or more. Almost no single statement can be made about "American Women" or "American Men" that would be true to all, or even a majority. As such, you have to take people as individuals and learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:59 AM
2

As a married father of 5, this person seems to have no idea what relationships are like between parents.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 03:56 PM
1

I went as a dangerous rage-filled predator who lacks feeling, empathy, emotion, and respect who terrorizes people with it's mere existence.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:19 PM
2

So in 4 or so years will we get stories about how women make up the majority of college graduates who can't find a job with their usless degrees, and that will be used as evidence for systemic misogyny?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 02:47 PM
34

Please report assault or abuse to authorities.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 11:55 PM
2

It's just impossible to go back and check every single anus...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:34 AM
1

I can't afford to keep replacing them. Everytime we do some fisting they go missing...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:27 AM
10

I assume. He was posting 'advice' to young men telling them they needed to buy a $3,000 watch to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:14 AM
9

I got called a gay female leftist today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:03 AM
2

And I believe you have fully proven my initial comment: There is no reason to read or respond to your nonsense. Besides the general toxicity, your inability to listen to anyone else, and your insistence that everyone exists in one of two opposing sides, prevents you from having a rational mature adult interaction with another human being.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 10:40 PM
0

It doesn't, but your claim that it does certainly says something about you. You're calling a married christian father of 5 children who doesn't vote and homeschools his children while his wife works full time a 'leftist'. Basically, you're going to call anyone who disagrees with you a 'leftist' like a slur. Just like other people have called me a 'right winger' as a slur. You're just engaging in tribalism in order to divide people into groups that hate each other. I'm not affiliated with your 's…
/r/MensRights30/10/21 10:32 PM
1

It's like you're responding to some elses posts. I happen to be a happily married man with 5 kids and I don't know anyone who would describe me as leftist. And I'm certainly confused as to what those identifiers have to do with anything. Your relationship advice is pure immature garbage that will not help young men at all.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 10:21 PM
1

Sorry for the confusion. I only meant to clarify, since you seemed confused at my gender and sexual orientation. You brought up the subject.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 10:12 PM
1

I double checked my profile, thinking there was some mistake. You must have read the wrong profile or have me mixed up with someone else. I'm a cis male.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 10:06 PM
0

There's no reason to read or respond to this nonsense.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 09:30 PM
8

Let me explain. If one person says they want kids. And another person says they don't want kids. That doesn't mean that all people are hypocrites. Different people have different desires because people are unique individuals who have a variety of life experiences and goals. This should help you understand people better in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:25 PM
0

The way some of you folks talk about women as if they are animals you are hunting with no interest other than sex isn't normal to the rest of humanity, isn't healthy, and isn't socially acceptable. Relationships are about open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and have compatible life goals. Not some sort of game to trick people into fucking you. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:10 PM
1

That's a large wall of text just to tell everyone on Reddit that you don't understand how human relationships work...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:14 PM
2

You're assumptions about people are toxic. You're basically the same as a racist, but instead of judging people by their skin color you're judging people based on an imaginary mode of relationship dynamics that don't exist. It makes you an unpleasant person to be around.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:58 PM
1

Human interaction isn't competitive. It's not a 'game' to 'play', 'win', or 'lose'.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:50 PM
1

I wasn't suggesting someone "play" friends. I was suggesting that they interact with other humans in a normal, mature, adult manner. Grow up.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 10:20 PM
1

Because the promise of enlightenment of being a privileged individual who knows secret information is a standard promise made by all cults. "Redpill" cult dogma teaches that it's adherents are aware of a relationship dynamic between men and women that is hidden by society because they have been set free from the brainwashing of their mysandrist taskmasters. It's standard boilerplate as far as cults go. MLMs have the 'secret' method for money. Redpill has the 'secret' to relationships. Just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:18 PM
12

The first step is training your mind to be completely content with a normal nonromantic adult friendship with them as equal human beings based on mutual respect and clear boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 08:09 PM
9

It's a coping mechanism. If they claim all women have an impossible standard, then they have an excuse for why women reject them. This allows them to avoid looking for a reason in their character or personality or behavior that explains the rejection. This way, the man can claim that women are the problem instead of looking for ways to improve themselves. It's a normal human behavior, trying to blame some external source so that you don't have to take responsibility for your own life. It's a sig…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 02:56 AM
1

What the fuck are you talking about? This is another reason why you political junkies are all assholes. You're all so committed to being insufferable cunts to anyone else who doesn't fall in line with whatever propaganda you're spewing at the moment. You're in a cult. Seek help.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 12:52 AM
0

Wtf is wrong with you people? Is it a mental illness? 1) I told you the definition of terrorist from the dictionary because you're an idiot and can't look it up yourself. 2)All politicians are corrupt. 3) I didn't say anything about acknowledging terrorist organizations. You're mentally ill. Go get help.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 12:45 AM
0

As I said before, I don't take sides in the childish nonsense that you left/right, liberal/conservative, republican/democrat, morons enjoy arguing about. All of you, ever last one on both sides, you, the people you vote for, the people you vote against, the people that vote for the people you vote against, are ALL complete douchebags. Everyone. All of you. Republicans? Douchebags. Democrats? Douchebags. The current president? A corrupt rich pedophile. The previous president? A corrupt rich pedop…
/r/MensRights18/10/21 12:35 AM
1

As I've already said. I support no one. All politicians are corrupt and all people who vote are selfish idiots who just blindly join a team and root for them. I already quoted you the definition of terrorism. I'll do it again though. Terrorist: "A person who uses unlawful violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims." So I don't know why you're claiming otherwise. You're just another in a long line of idiots who have decided that their political team …
/r/MensRights17/10/21 09:16 PM
0

As I said. Politicians who didn't give a shit about any of the people made decisions based on what got them more money, votes, and power. They don't care about how it affects real people. Both parties do this, and the idiots who support them ignore their actions and villify the other side.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 07:25 PM
1

Police that don't do their job correctly face disciplinary action. As for "Government officials who sanctions terrorism" I don't know what you are talking about. Democrats call Republicans terrorists. Republicans call Democrats terrorists. They're all a buch of childish corrupt morons fighting for power and money. None of them give a shit about real people or real problems. The voters who vote for them are all just ignorant selfish idiots hoping to get free money from them. Guess what. If you ig…
/r/MensRights17/10/21 07:15 PM
-4

Those actions are against the law and the police handle those things. It's none of my business.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 06:42 PM
-5

Guess what. I'm an independent with no political affiliation who doesn't vote and doesn't care about politics. So whatever point you just think you made is meaningless. Anyone who uses unlawful violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims fits the definition of terrorist. It's not my job to decide who that is. I'm not the FBI. I'll let the FBI do its job.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 06:28 PM
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Incels became terrorists when they started committing terrorism and calling for acts of terrorism and supporting acts of terrorism. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-52733060 https://news.sky.com/story/plymouth-shootings-attack-could-be-reclassified-as-terrorism-over-jake-davisons-incel-links-12383353 https://www.thedailybeast.com/fbis-terror-hunters-turn-to-a-different-threat-incels
/r/MensRights17/10/21 05:53 PM
4

Fantasy Past is they key term. Despite their efforts, mysoginists have never been able to eliminate the importance of women's influence on society. Even their dream of an enslaved submissive female class has never been a complete reality. They insist on retconning history to support their claims. It's insane.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 07:21 AM
1

Listening more, talking less
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:41 PM
1

In the 2020 US election over 80 million people didn't vote. I dunno about anyone else, but as far as I'm concerned the US political system, and probably the political systems of the entire world, are too corrupt to bother with. I can't stand to be around anyone who expresses any political opinion in public. I'd rather work as a janitor at a Furry Convention than be around political activists of any type.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:22 PM
2

It's always interesting to see what romanticized obsession different people can develop with different eras or locations based on ignorance. During more primitive times, I expect life was probably worse for everyone and yet a niceguy will typically think that such archaic systems would have benefited them. They seem to want to return to primitive "caveman" or animal relationship dynamics.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 06:48 PM
2

69... nice... Seriously though, partnerships are unique and the people in that relationship will decide what actions fit their situation after open and honest communication between adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:06 PM
1

You can act like a gorilla if you want, but Human society doesn't work the way you've described. Humans have higher reasoning skills and can choose to suppress instinct in favor of a more beneficial long term outcome. It's what makes us different. Basically, you can't just put a banana in a human trap and capture a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:34 PM
3

Humans aren't Gorillas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:00 PM
2

Can someone explain like I'm 5? As an outsider looking in I don't understand the jargon. What is OP asking and why?
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 09:06 PM
3

You're attitude isn't healthy for relationships even if you think it is.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 03:23 PM
3

And you'll keep struggling so long as you maintain your mindset. Confidence isn't "all you need." All you need is to be an honest, sincere, mature adult who knows how to listen to other honest, sincere, mature adults in order to form relationships that are based on mutual respect for each other and common interests. Self Confidence is one of the puzzle pieces that gets you there. I'll list some others. 1) Be your own person, figure out your interests and life goals. 2) Have a somewhat clear vers…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 02:54 PM
3

The point of confidence isn't to attract women. It's to be your own person. If you want to be confident so that you'll attract women, then that's the wrong mindset. Lack of confidence is a turn off to everyone, not just women. People don't usually want to be around people who are looking outside themselves for validation. You need to live your life for you. This is why so many people give the advice "Work on yourself." I comes down to being comfortable in your own skin and happy with yourself as…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 02:36 PM
1

Exactly. I agree.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 07:04 AM
1

You seem quite toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:41 AM
1

I'd gladly answer any questions if I can. My primary advice is, "Always be open and honest in your relationships, and don't try to manipulate people."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:08 AM
1

I don't pay child support. My wife and I live together happily married with our kids. She adopted my son from my BabyMama and they are friends.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 12:03 AM
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5 kids, happiness, well adjusted social life. Isn't that what you seek?
/r/MensRights10/10/21 12:02 PM
0

Do you incels ever consider that us chads could have any advice to offer? Or do you just write us off as useless targets for your insane hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:00 PM
2

You're mistaken in a way that will irreparably harm your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:57 AM
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Lucky just means God loves me more. Feels good man. Feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:53 AM
-2

Have you read my profile? I'm a twice divorced father of 5 married to his 3rd wife. I'm the chad all the incels are afraid of.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 11:24 AM
3

It's a good thing that furry femboys are the future of art.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 11:01 AM
10

Society is fucked! We'll never know any information about the female form! Yottabytes of porn will never be able to replace what we've lost!
/r/MensRights10/10/21 10:55 AM
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Oh. Someone's mad at us for being awesome. Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:52 AM
27

What's next? Sundials and Slide Rules? What other archaic obsolete technology are we not allowed to use? Do I need to promise not to use Stonehenge to objectify women either? I won't fax porn either.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 10:47 AM
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Me neither, but OP seems to think so. Edit: So I'm gonna kick ass.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 10:21 AM
2

Huh? No. You misunderstood. It wasn't a rhetorical question. I'm actually asking what you think my definition of maturity is. Sorry for the confusion. Maturity is the ability to communicate openly and honestly with other adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:55 AM
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I just want to say one thing... We real men aren't threatened by the success of women. Bring it on. We'll dominate even if the game is rigged. So... Yeah... That...
/r/MensRights10/10/21 09:45 AM
2

I'm 39. What do you think my definition of mature is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:32 AM
13

Welcome to Chadville, population you. Great to have you join us brother. How do you like being a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:17 AM
5

Did you not understand the rest? Obviously the gfs and first wife didn't work out. The 2nd wife, who was a step down from my league also didn't work out. The only relationship that will work out is the one based on self improvement and hard work. Try that one first, save yourself the trouble I went through.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 09:15 AM
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It's just my hot take. Maybe I'm full of shit. IDK, but it sounded right in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:11 AM
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Lying worked for the first two gfs. Extravagant spending funded by a successful gambling addiction and lying worked for my first wife. My current wife required several long years of hard work and dedication to actually become the family-focused mature hard-working man I was pretending to be.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 09:06 AM
3

Men are immature and simple, so can conceive of a conceptual perfection. Women are more mature and complex and can't imagine perfection because they can conceptualize deeper prerequisites.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:02 AM
1

It's the same with any jargon. No one wants me saying that I need them to call me back on the fly, or that my par on dates before sex is 4. Don't use jargon in polite company.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 08:34 AM
1

How am I going to convince my wife to pay for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:10 AM
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A girl being out of my league was always a challenge, not a barrier. My first 2 gfs, my 1st wife, and my FWB were all out of my league. My 2nd wife and babymama were my only times "slumming" it. (Is that term even PC? What is it called to date down?) My current wife comes from a much more well off family and is way classier than I am. There's nothing wrong with aiming above your level. Just so long as you keep it chill when you miss.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 07:43 AM
1

I just be myself. Most people can tell that they don't measure up after I flex a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:12 AM
1

Whenever I need money I just ask my wife for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:55 AM
1

It stopped sounding logical when I read the word "simped".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:51 AM
1

That's not what's happening here. Mom's have the right to take their children into the restroom. Men have the right to take their children into the restroom. That's equal rights. No adult should be bothered by a parent taking their children to the restroom. If an adult is offended by a 4 year old, then the adult is wrong for being offended. Stop trying to make something sexist when it isn't. You're irrational and argumentative, so I'm blocking you. Goodbye.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 06:32 PM
1

It's not about them. A grown man shouldn't feel threatened by a child. Public bathrooms aren't private, they are public, so no one's privacy is being violated. I don't go into the women's restroom because I'm a grown man and the grown women could be understandably uncomfortable by a grown man being in a place where they are vulnerable. It has nothing to do with seeing anatomy. If you can't see the difference between a adult woman not wanting an adult man in the women's restroom, verses an adult …
/r/MensRights09/10/21 05:38 PM
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Wow. 1) I don't think I've ever seen another man's wang in a public bathroom, but okay it's a possibility. I don't know if "on display" is the right phrase. 2) Human anatomy and biology isn't traumatic. Kids can learn anatomy and biology without it being about sex. Urination and defecation are natural and my kids learn about them around the same time they are potty training. 3) Kids say stuff and ask questions. Parents answer however we feel is best for the development of the child. It's our job…
/r/MensRights09/10/21 04:59 PM
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Is the danger that my daughters might catch a glimps of a portion of a penis in the bathroom? What exactly is the concern? So long as it has stalls with doors and a working toilet, sink, and hand washing supplies, I take them in, let them use the facility, wash up, and move on with my day.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 04:29 PM
2

The most important thing about a relationship is that the two people share life goals and general philosophy so that their plans for the future are highly compatible. The second most important thing is that they learn how to be open and honest with each other about everything. The idea that any man with good enough "game" can get any woman is a myth. People are individuals and form relationships based on unique circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:30 PM
1

Maybe bathroom design is different in my area. I almost exclusively go to RaceTrac gas stations and Kroger grocery stores. And both have very nice,clean, large bathrooms with dividers between the urinals and locking doors on the stalls. I do remember that public bathrooms had much less privacy when I visited overseas.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 01:17 PM
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I take my daughter's into the men's room. I've always assumed that was the more socially acceptable option than me taking them into the ladies room. Now with all the different genders I assumed it doesn't really matter anymore, right?
/r/MensRights09/10/21 04:50 AM
2

Being a well adjusted and caring husband and father who continually focuses on self improvement and furthering my and my wife's shared goals works pretty well for me.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 07:21 PM
8

Interesting information: The Old Testament prohibits sex for 40 to 80 days after childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:00 PM
1

The point of democracy is so that people deal with their problems with lies, propaganda, smear campaigns, petty insults, and media theatre instead of everyone just shooting each other. Democracy isn't perfect. It's just a great alternative to tyranny or anarchy. Societal change doesn't come from protests or government. It comes from society changing, and is most often largly a product of technology advancing. Cars: Allowed people greater freedom of movement and changed western society completely…
/r/MensRights06/10/21 03:37 PM
1

I'm a man and have had to deal with sexual harassment. I dealt with it like an adult through the HR department.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 03:25 PM
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Protesting doesn't really do anything. Most protests are public relations events designed to fundraise for political parties run by corrupt billionairs. It's all optics.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 03:04 PM
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I wasn't referring to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:35 AM
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Some of us are actually better than others. Edit: Some of us whom you call assholes are actually better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:42 AM
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It's because some people have decided to learn everything they know via headlines with no deeper investigation and rely on confirmation bias to justify their ignorance. I may not be smart, but I have learned to hold judgment about things until I learn more facts, and to check those facts, and assume I'm not an expert. It's actually quite nice being sane and well adjusted. I highly recommend it.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 02:33 AM
1

Possibly the wedding night, but my wife and I didn't seal the deal until about halfway thru the honeymoon. I guess, the only time would be if having sex would disarm a bomb or something. "Blow me or blow up." I really don't think it's ever appropriate to end a relationship only because someone isn't ready for physical intimacy. But that doesn't sound like your only issue with the first relationship. But don't let a homeless women steal your bedroom again. It's probably okay to ask her to leave w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:24 AM
1

Edit: This was meant to be a reply to a the following comment. I hit the wrong button. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q20dye/men_on_here_confuse_assertiveness_with_being_an/hfjksn6?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 You're describing a binary existence of Good people vs Evil People, which is a common trope in fiction, but real life doesn't work that way. Real life has imperfect,well intentioned people, selfishness, ignorance, and many other factors which make s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:03 AM
1

Movies don't paint a picture of how real life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:50 PM
5

And here we see the crux of the problem in general. Here we have an appeal to fiction to support these views. Movies aren't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:43 PM
1

Are those based on just the pictures? Because she is smiling and he isn't. That may influence people's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:32 AM
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Porn is one of the thing that got all your mind into the mess it's in. Unrealistic expectations of size, performance, frequency, response, human beauty, positioning, etc created by the porn industry is one of the things that has confused a generation of men so badly that they can't develop healthy relationships. Having a decent photo or video that does it for you to relieve stress and achieve PNC is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:39 PM
5

I quite enjoy being a man. Having a positive outlook on personal identity is important to mental health.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 04:13 PM
1

Fallacy of False Dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:58 PM
0

They aren't entitled to it, but as a society we have decided to financially support them because we hope that the benefit to the children is worth the possible downsides. This is why we regularly adjust these things via elections and new legislation, attempting to continually improve the overall situation without causing too many unintended consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:01 AM
1

No shot. I'm circumcised and there's no way that any boy ever masturbated more than I did.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 11:25 PM
2

Regardless, both individuals should be attempting to gradually increase their standards. Mature adults seek to improve themselves gradually over their lives. It's called "growing up" and is a path to personal happiness. People who think they are good enough to therefore need no further improvement are acting selfish and lazy. It is a sign of immaturity. You can learn something new every day, and you can be a little bit better of a person every day. This is how humans live in peaceful civilizatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:07 PM
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Yes, the solution is compromise, but the partner with lower standards should admit that they should try to improve their standards becase cleanliness is a part of mature adult life. You'll find very few situations where the adult with higher standards of cleanliness would be better served by activly trying to lower their standards of basic cleanliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:27 PM
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