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Had this issue until I met my current gf. Realized I had intimacy issues tied with low self esteem. With a ton of patience, she helped me out of it. No problems anymore and I don't even think about it.
/r/seduction18/02/18 12:48 AM
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Your focus is only on their words. They have already decided based on what they saw, mainly nonverbally, in the first few seconds of meeting you. You're late I realizing. If you approach with an open, sharing, and child like curiousity free of manipulative agendas, most women will be open to you and only a few will 'reject' you because they are in a reality that is not in sync with yours. This is a good thing. You're not meant to be liked by everyone.. Therefore you are then qualifying them by d…
/r/seduction17/12/16 04:06 PM
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There is a difference in our definition of hunger. You're exhibiting desperation and need for approval when you approach. If a homeless, smelly beggar approaches you, what is your reaction? If a movie star approaches you, is your reaction different? It's very subtle and nuanced, but women smell desperation and when you want 'something' out of them. It will be difficult to 'trick' thousands of years of evolution. How can I tell? Just by your title and your post. Why is getting rejected by strange…
/r/seduction17/12/16 04:48 AM
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The hungry do not get fed. Its not what your say or do but the space you're in. You have to be giving value not taking. I can tell from your tone, you're desperate for validation and attention.
/r/seduction15/12/16 06:55 PM
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Stop asking Internet strangers what you should do. Take responsibility, make a choice, and deal with the consequences.
/r/seduction28/06/15 06:10 PM
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You're being outcome dependent. You can't control how she will react or what she will think. You just need to be honest with yourself and then with her, stop trying to manage and manipulate her and the situation.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:48 PM
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Sounds like you might be infatuated or in love. Two options: confront her or forget her. Either way, don't stay where you are. That's a bad place. Also keep on the self improvement route, that is a life long process, not a one time trip.
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:53 PM
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Focus more on yourself.
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:45 PM
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TIL MGTOW. Thank you. I have the tendency to do this in most aspects of life but women need to be the same.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:19 PM
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I stayed after getting cheated on. It was seriously the biggest mistake of my entire life. I'm divorced three years now and I'm still mentally and emotionally recovering from bluepillism. Haven't gotten into a relationship in fear of turning back into that pathetic self again. Doing better and better everyday though. The shitty part is I haven't had sex since.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:42 PM
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Go somewhere you'd enjoy
/r/seduction08/04/15 02:34 PM
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I disagree with the rhythm. At least learn basic rhythm to sync with her. They make it sound like you just grab her and throw her around like a cave man. Have some style. They will have a harder time picking up musically inclined women.
/r/seduction04/04/15 07:45 PM
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Huh, similar experience here.. I'm in the southeastern lower populated, but metro area and online dating is terrible and almost always never worked out. I prefer to stick to traditional ways of meeting, and even then I've gone on dates with 19-26 year olds and I'm 34. I need to move to the west... :(
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:24 PM
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Just shave your head, don't go for the balding look. Don't worry about the nose.
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:46 AM
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Thanks! I'll try that!
/r/seduction19/08/14 09:30 PM
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Got it. Thanks. I'll test it out next time by escalating, maybe I'll try to pull her into another room/location.
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:34 PM
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LOL!
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:32 PM
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What do you usually do after that?
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:31 PM
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Usually it's not in a stern or obnoxious way, more shy.
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:31 PM
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How can I tell if I'm being creepy or if I'm escalating fast?
/r/seduction18/08/14 06:22 PM
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Normally, it happens when there's a silence in the conversation (I'm working on being comfortable in the awkward silences and letting it happen) and she says that while I'm looking at her. I try to keep a small smile on my face and keep my lower eyelid pulled in with the upper one open.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:59 PM
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Once, I totally lost her.. she became much more shyer and withdrew.. I think I became too supplicating in trying to change her and make her more comfortable... lost my frame.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:57 PM
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Thank you! I'll try this! I'll try to reprogram my head to stop seeing this as a IOD.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:56 PM
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Thanks. I'm not very good at passing shit-tests just yet. Outwardly, I don't think I show any signs, but inwardly it's like I hit a s curb or a bump... I think I need to work on my inner confidence.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:54 PM
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They didn't explain. This is usually in the middle of a date or while I'm escalating (usually in a group setting).
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:53 PM
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http://www.mensxp.com/dating/seduction-science-/459-the-cube-psychometric-seduction-game.html Having a good intuition and confidence dramatically improves results. It only failed me once a few days ago on a 27 year old hot philosophy professor who specialized in Philosophy of the Mind. She was also an INTJ, but still got to salvage it some. It's really just a game though that's fun to get to know the person you're with more intimately while creating a deeper connection.
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:01 PM
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Ah, I understand. I was like that too for a bit. Girls are really sensitive to that... sometimes, they would sense my dissatisfaction about their dance ability before I even noticed it myself. With Kizomba though, you really guide, control, and ride the flow of their body... very sexy and the more into me she is depending on her personality type, the more control I get over her body.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:25 PM
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Haha! Yes it did and I'm very very glad. It's like the ultimate seduction tool.
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:50 PM
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Hmm they don't really have to know the steps, the lead is done by the inside of your right elbow and she is pretty much pressed up against you. There is this undulation motion created as you step and straighten your knees and she has no choice but to follow if she relaxes and just listens to the music. It's very easy to do for the lady especially if she is already attracted and into you. A strong dance (and seduction!) frame is necessary. ;)
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:47 PM
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I don't use dance to impress, I'd rather use it to close. Kizomba.. master this dance.. It's very simple and very effective. You don't need the fancy stuff just the 3 different basic steps. The cube at the date and then kizomba at my place always locks it in. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PdH_0yqOZ0I
/r/seduction25/03/14 07:16 PM
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Try the day game. I find it easier and more natural. Their defenses won't be as high and you can actually converse. Night game requires a lot of strong body language, framing, and social proof.
/r/seduction06/09/12 05:55 PM
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You must be decent looking. GJ
/r/seduction22/03/12 10:52 PM
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Do not start ramp with intention to finish later. Made that mistake... big big mistake.
/r/seduction27/05/11 07:29 PM
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Actually, I found a study done by okc themselves finding that girls on okc will reply to white guys more often. I'm on my mobile so I can't find it right now but it was also linked here on reddit. My past experience on okc corroborates this. I think though that it is worse for smaller towns like mine.
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:41 PM
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So you mean Be white, don't be creepy, and send short messages. I'm fucked on the first thing...
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:07 PM
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I just said, "I'm not going to talk about that tonight" and smiled I like that. I'm stealing that one. Thanks! I find myself being way too open.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:47 PM
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It sounds like she was really cool. Maybe she was gaming you but why look at it at a negative way. You paid for the dances not for the good convo even if she was lying to make that connection...
/r/seduction01/02/11 02:59 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to write this awesome post. You are absolutely right. I've learned the my own worst enemy is myself and how I limit myself. I would love to work on myself but my foundations are totally messed up right now. I have certain situations at home that makes it very difficult to develop myself. I'm working on this. Also, I actually didn't want to fuck her... I just wanted to connect or talk to someone while holding a large pair of tits. I guess I was like one of those peop…
/r/seduction31/01/11 03:36 AM
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will do
/r/seduction30/01/11 08:28 PM
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$250 for the hour room in the back, $40 for the dance (with 1 free). Seemed like a little much, but it's what the club charges. She didn't know how much they charged, so she had to ask.
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:42 PM
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Thanks. I don't plan on going back or looking for her. I don't have her number, but she has mine. If she calls, she calls. If not, I'm still pretty happy with my experience.
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:41 PM
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I don't have her #, she asked for mine. As far as I'm concerned, I'm not going back there nor will I try to look for her. If she calls, she calls.
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:36 PM
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Wow... she sounds crazy. I did not give her my #. She asked for mine. I don't plan on coming back or trying to find her. If she calls, she calls. She admitted to living a double life (her student/beauty pagent side and her stripper side)... kinda interesting to get to know.
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:35 PM
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I like your perspective. Have an upvote.
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:30 PM
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Thanks. I'm not getting my hopes up.
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:28 PM
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lol funny
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:44 PM
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It would be a great confidence boost if she was.. heck I guess it was already somewhat a confidence boost.
/r/seduction30/01/11 02:27 PM
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I'm not looking for a relationship, but it would be a big confidence boost if she did contact me.
/r/seduction30/01/11 02:14 PM
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Give a genuine compliment or two. Don't fawn. Don't be desperate. Ask a question or two. Listen to what she has to say and less to what's going on in your head. Don't get ahead of yourself.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:02 PM
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"Just wait until I've had my spinach. BARTENDER! Spinach please!"
/r/seduction22/01/11 04:47 PM
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