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then please, tell me your definition.
/r/MensRights29/12/10 07:29 AM
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I agree that lying about birth control isn't rape. But it sure as hell is a violation, man or woman. Sadly, I don't think there is a country out there with laws who enforce this. I also agree that if there is no protest, it's impossible for the "perpetrator" to commit a crime, as rape is a crime of intent. However, I've read a couple of different "leaks" from the investigations, and the first one was laughable. But they've gotten worse. Yes, the text does say she "wanted to tell him to stop". It…
/r/MensRights28/12/10 11:18 AM
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No.. they had sex, they fell asleep, she woke up when he was having sex with her again. I don't know how 'likely' that is, but that is the story. And I think most of us are in agreement that it's rape when having sex with a non-consenting partner, or someone who is not able to give consent (i.e unconscious, sleeping, minor).
/r/MensRights28/12/10 08:40 AM
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You know, I don't think I'd form an opinion of her on the basis of that information. A bit thin, don't you think? On the first part, I consulted my father. He totally TMI'd me by telling me how he had indeed blacked out at a party and woken up by a woman performing fellatio on him. "I did not mind" was his comment. However, my father is not the kind of man who fits into your description (although he did state that the situation would have been very different if it had been a man on his penis, so…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 11:22 PM
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Would I like it if I told a woman I'm attracted to that I would like it if she took advantage of me and she did? Hell yeah! That's pretty much what I was talking about, I like to talk about sex with my partners, to get a feel for what they're in to and so on. These are men I know, that I have some type of relationship with, that find me attractive. I'm not a supermodel, but when I've brought the idea forth, they've responded favorably anyway =) Not that I often find myself awake before my partne…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 08:45 PM
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I must say I liked you better before you insulted my male acquaintances.
/r/MensRights22/12/10 08:31 PM
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Ofc. It's the same thing. Talked to a friend of mine about this (M/42), and he didn't think it was a violation unless she (we were talking about a sleeping female at that time) woke up, said 'no' and he didn't stop. I was flabbergasted, and put it down to the fact that every guy I've ever talked to about waking up by sex (mostly oral) have been very much in favor of the idea. So I generalized and did not think further... Gah! I really hate it when I fall into the whole "women as victims"-notion.…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 07:06 PM
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Here in Sweden, the Assange accusations has brought the gray area out in the open. It started on twitter, with the tag #prataomdet (talk about it), where those who feel violated can talk about their experiences. It's fascinating and horrifying how many women do things they don't want to do, because of lack of communication. IMO, that makes them victims of themselves. To then report this to the police creates another victim. Equally fascinating and horrifying is how many of these women have been …
/r/MensRights22/12/10 02:43 PM
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I think I got that far.. but how does that apply in this case? (normally, I'd just not ask, because I'm pretty sure I sound stupid atm. but I'm tired and I want to know.)
/r/MensRights15/12/10 11:40 PM
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I'm sorry, could someone explain Women as victims claims another one! to me?
/r/MensRights15/12/10 10:51 AM
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My first thought on the 'article': "fuck you so hard with a pineapple". I don't even want children, but I still know that fertility drops for women in your thirties. After 37, it's free falling. Blaming an ideology for not telling you everything you needed to know about life, instead of finding the pertinent facts for yourself... Pineapple.
/r/MensRights14/12/10 11:37 AM
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I don't think that a 10-year old degree helps that much without any relevant experience. I was thinking more along the lines of going back to school and refreshing than starting school at that time.
/r/MensRights20/11/10 12:05 AM
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I agree that everyone should take responsibility for their own decisions. Men who want housewives, or agree to their spouse remaining at home, also fall into that category. Not forever, no. But a reasonable amount of time for the wife to acquire some kind of training and find a suitable job (although I wouldn't phrase it exactly like that, as that would lead to a never-ending series of 'unsuitable' jobs). Considering the current financial situation, I don't think 2 years is enough, even if the w…
/r/MensRights19/11/10 04:11 PM
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I think another might be whose decision the removal was, although I know that would never be proven... But in a fair world (I'd like to move there too), a man who wants a housewife should support her after the marriage ends. Perhaps not forever, even then, and it has to be taken into account that she probably wasn't forced to make that decision.
/r/MensRights19/11/10 03:58 PM
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Really? So, say a person has been missing from the job market for 10-15 years or so. In 6 months they should have found a job that can support them? I like your reality. Can I move there?
/r/MensRights19/11/10 12:24 PM
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If raising your biological child isn't important, why not just have a raffle in the maternity ward? You get to bring a baby home (2 if you had twins), but you won't know who provided the genetic material for said baby.
/r/MensRights09/11/10 08:46 AM
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That's what I was thinking.. The choice of father to your children can only be made pre-sex. Perhaps women shouldn't sleep with men other than their spouses, and not with men they don't think would make a good parent (not without bc anyway).
/r/MensRights09/11/10 08:41 AM
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I'm personally going with the idea that I'm weird in my own way, and that's completely normal =)
/r/MensRights17/10/10 10:14 AM
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recognizing differences is good. but finding that most insults towards men have to do with their not measuring up to a certain standard of manliness is bad. finding that a lot of those insults are based on men behaving like women (but women behaving boldly can often be complemented by using terms that are masculine, i.e. having balls and so on), thereby saying that stereotypical female attributes are bad- is bad. you don't think culture affect the other aspects of equality? the nurturing, protec…
/r/MensRights17/10/10 09:16 AM
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so instead of "manning up", men should just stop "acting like women" (thereby saying that however women act is the negative)? oh, that's going forward in your thinking!
/r/MensRights17/10/10 08:13 AM
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I love this! It's annoying because it's barely written in English, but you get the point. I have seen women charged with crimes of domestic violence by there abusers for defending themselves.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 12:54 PM
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I've read that it's about 50/50 (in heterosexual relationships). In half of all DV cases, both sides are abusive. In the other 50%, half the man is abusive and half the woman. Don't have a source atm, though.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 12:50 PM
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I don't think she "convinces" herself that she's been raped, it's more like she realizes it. I think it's pretty hard to deal with, especially as she placed the blame on herself.
/r/MensRights03/09/10 10:52 AM
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I was referring to the case in point, where a woman supplied teenage boys with alcohol and marijuana. Where did you find the man I was blaming?
/r/MensRights19/07/10 09:02 AM
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debatable. according to BrB 6:14 it depends on how much of an age difference and how differently developed the two parties are.
/r/MensRights18/07/10 05:49 PM
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Ah, sorry. Didn't understand the distinction (Swedish). Yes, I agree. In Sweden it is illegal to have sex with someone under 15, but I've never heard of someone being prosecuted for statutory rape in the "bad" sense, i.e. when a 16-year old has sex with their 14-year old partner.
/r/MensRights18/07/10 04:39 PM
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They are a big problem, but the point of them is to protect children from being abused by adults. An 18-year old who has consensual sex with their 17-year old partner is not a criminal, but a 40-year old who systematically gets teens intoxicated and has sex with them...
/r/MensRights18/07/10 04:07 PM
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I think people who write stuff like this might want to try to go a little bit further in Sweden. Not just go to Stockholm and make general assumptions about the Swedish population from there. I totally understand the "why are there only gay men in Stockholm"-question, as I personally am attracted to men who spend less time in front of the mirror than I do, wear less pink than I do, and definitely use less hair products and spend less on shoes than I do - which might be why I've yet to meet a Sto…
/r/MensRights18/07/10 03:36 PM
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That's fucking low. However, there's no force involved.
/r/MensRights12/07/10 10:03 PM
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But that's not having it all. That's just switching the traditional roles around. I totally agree that it's an individual choice that should not have anything to do with gender, but rather with the wishes and desires of the couple in question.
/r/MensRights02/07/10 08:19 AM
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I agree that everyone should take care when choosing a life partner. And yes, the legal system is very skewed towards women's rights and choices, which is completely unfair and unequal. But where I come from, men who want to be homemakers are celebrated. A man who voluntarily takes a traditionally female role is a huge hero and so on. So this is not a line of argument that I can really understand, in my experience this really is a choice made together (how else does it work? one of them just qui…
/r/MensRights02/07/10 08:17 AM
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I agree with the myth of "having it all". The only way to be that involved with your children, have an immaculate household, do your own baking, have girls' night out, a romantic and passionate marriage, be fit and active, be well-read and cultural and have a brilliant career is to fantasize about it. Or possibly have clones. Having it all is bullshit and has probably caused as many cases of burnout as romance novels have caused failed marriages.
/r/MensRights01/07/10 11:25 PM
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No, I'm saying that the author's view of how women should revert to "traditional" roles takes choice away from women and leaves them completely financially dependent on men. In that society (and that society alone), there must exist some form of legally enforced alimony. I argue that feminist struggles have given women a choice, making it possible for women to have careers and personal financial freedom and thereby making the tradition of alimony redundant. The fact that some (a lot? I don't kno…
/r/MensRights01/07/10 11:17 PM
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If this woman wants to crochet, by all means, let her crochet. If she wants to have a large family, be a stay at home mom and in time become the respected matriarch she speaks so highly of, by all means, let her be that woman. But I don't want to. It's somewhat fascinating.. the woman the author glorifies is the reason there is alimony. Because that woman cannot live without a man who supports her.
/r/MensRights01/07/10 07:20 PM
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Would have upvoted if not for "all feminists strive to make men ashamed of their sexuality". I'm a feminist, and I hate generalizations like that. Especially as I love sex (with men. Oh so many men!). I've watched a lot of porn (now I mainly read erotic stories) and I adore being desired. When I'm hit on by someone I'm decidedly not attracted to, I still feel flattered (if he's not a crazy stalker or the like). But yes. The insecurities of many women are staggering. And crippling. My brother's G…
/r/MensRights26/06/10 09:13 PM
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If one of my male friends grabbed my arm and commented on the definition (I started a push up-routine a couple of weeks back, and I'm doing like 200% better than at the beginning) I'd not find it sexual at all. Although I do have an issue with people touching me, so I might find it a bit aggressive.
/r/MensRights26/06/10 08:49 PM
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You're probably right that some part is überfeminist victim-mentality. However, the impression I've gotten is that it's mainly macho man-mentality (in both men and women) that accounts for the "men cannot be raped"-dumbassery. Like this guy. Because men generally are bigger and stronger than women, because men are "supposed to" want to fuck everything that moves, because women are "weak and sensitive", rape of men does not occur. Too bad about the effect of drugs and alcohol, physically strong w…
/r/MensRights19/06/10 08:24 AM
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I understand that one might read my post like that, but no. Of course there are women (and men) out there who believe men cannot be raped. There are all kinds of idiots out there, so it stands to reason that this particular idiocy also has followers. But I've yet to meet one. I've met some strange people in my day, but as of yet not one who claims men cannot be raped. That men cannot be the victim of DV, yes (I guess those people are the likely candidates for being in this category), not raped, …
/r/MensRights19/06/10 07:59 AM
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I've yet to meet a feminist who doesn't think men can be raped. And a child? Even the man-hating fraction wouldn't go that far, at least not the ones who try to be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights19/06/10 05:08 AM
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Ah, well. Organized feminism. I'm just your average "my uterus does not control my destiny"-kind. Without required reading =)
/r/MensRights14/06/10 06:09 AM
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I will. Thank you. Comeback in 4-6 weeks.
/r/MensRights13/06/10 06:34 PM
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By whom are we taught?
/r/MensRights13/06/10 07:54 AM
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All feminists hate men the same way all muslims are suicide bombers, I'd say. But then again, I'm a feminist. Btw, from Sweden here, and Schyman's party FI received 0.7% of the votes in the 2006 election (what her taxes had to do with anything, I don't know). A hint that their views aren't exactly mainstream. In comparison, the "nationalist" party (i.e. the racists) got almost 3%.
/r/MensRights12/06/10 10:45 PM
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Little girls grow up to be women.
/r/MensRights09/06/10 10:01 PM
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I know I have little or no foundation for my statement, as I have no children. But the impression I get from magazines is that girls are encouraged to go out and do it all, while boys should conform to the traditional role.
/r/MensRights09/06/10 09:38 PM
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I think this is spot on. For some women (mostly insecure, young women who don't handle alcohol so well) violence is a "hear me roar"-thing. This combined with the knowledge that they probably will win against most men (because boys are taught that you shouldn't hit girls), and most likely will not be prosecuted (1. most men won't report being beaten by a woman. 2. big man, smaller woman.. you know the drill) it's a winwin-situation. Girls are being told that they can be anything. Go anywhere, do…
/r/MensRights09/06/10 09:01 PM
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In that sense, it kind of works. However, why would "to r/wtf" be in the title, if he's not referring to something said in that discussion?
/r/MensRights02/06/10 09:18 PM
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I've read through all of the comments in all the 5 different submissions (I only found 5), and there's one or two people commenting who are in the "not surprisingly"-category. I'm actually quite proud of reddit for the general consensus on the very wrong conclusions these women's organizations have jumped to. Of course, I always like when everyone agrees with me =)
/r/MensRights02/06/10 02:52 PM
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We do have our moments. /Love from Sweden
/r/MensRights02/06/10 02:34 PM
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But there were only 6 comments in the thread
/r/MensRights02/06/10 08:59 AM
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Are you saying that feminists in r/wtf responded non-surprisingly? By that I assume that you mean that they were all "grr, bad men! kill'em all!", as this is unfortunately the most common view on feminists seen in MR. I just read the 6 comments in r/wtf, and I don't see that reaction.
/r/MensRights02/06/10 07:42 AM
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The idea of being able to force someone to have an abortion is insane, I agree. But how about not being forced to support the child?
/r/MensRights27/05/10 09:40 PM
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I agree that the right to choose is the bottom line. However, I live in Sweden where I've never even heard of anyone questioning the right to have an abortion (except when talking about "abortion tourism", but I think that's more of a financial question). But in Sweden, one of the most "equal" countries in the world, we still have the same problem. Men cannot choose. Are not allowed to choose. So the discussion is still very important, even if it's on a.. hypothetical (?) level at the moment in …
/r/MensRights27/05/10 06:59 PM
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I don't know. It seems like every time you take a stand for (or against) something, someone else feels like you're against what they took a stand for. It's really strange, because even though I might have limited funds and cannot donate money to researching everything, I can still support (at least in spirit, and definitely on facebook..) fighting all horrible diseases (for instance), no matter who they affect. Or be against genocide in Sudan AND Israels occupation of Palestine. But if I speak o…
/r/MensRights14/05/10 03:48 PM
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I don't know why this gets to me. Might be the lack of sleep. Or the alcohol. Or just that the idea of being judged by my genitals is so fucking insulting. What I got from this article (or whatever) is the "men are better in every way"-feeling. I was born a woman, so I'm not as good. Will never be. Just lost the chromosomal lottery. That anyone, anywhere, thinks this of me makes me angry. And sad. And it fucking hurts. So, my mature and reasonable response is that I want to hurt someone back. Bu…
/r/MensRights30/04/10 10:57 PM
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I would have walked to the cashier too. However, I would not have called the people behind me idiots to their faces. And WTF did it have to do with equality? My eyes skipped over that on the first read.
/r/MensRights28/04/10 09:51 PM
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You just can't lose, can you? You get upvoted and people support your stand. You get downvoted, and it's proof that feminists are pissy and self-entitled.
/r/MensRights27/04/10 11:17 PM
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You sound like a really nice person. And who said these women were feminists? Or that their behavior had anything to do with feminism?
/r/MensRights27/04/10 11:14 PM
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I see your point, and I agree to some extent. But I just don't like seeing the woman, I guess because I put myself in her position and the less I see of her the easier it is for me to do so. Also because I find it too obvious when the women fake it, not that the men are wonders of acting but.. better. At least until the cumshot.
/r/MensRights10/02/10 05:31 PM
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Seconded on the love of cock, but I enjoy the expressions of the men more than the women. I don't really care about her/them at all. But then I really like my gay porn as well.
/r/MensRights10/02/10 02:47 PM
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*this woman ftfy
/r/MensRights10/02/10 02:44 PM
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I disapprove of anyone who claims to speak for everyone. It's obvious that this woman is not an actor in the porn industry, neither is she a porn consumer (at least not officially). How then does she "know" so much about porn? She would probably not enjoy starring in a porn movie, but then again I wouldn't enjoy working with children. Creep me out, the little buggers. I like my porn. I like my rape porn. I enjoy my fantasies safely acted out on screen, so I don't have to go out and get my fill o…
/r/MensRights10/02/10 10:40 AM
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Don't have a good comment, just wanted to agree further than just upvoting.
/r/MensRights06/01/10 10:49 AM
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It's a bit like the safety demonstration when you fly. Put on your own oxygen mask before you help others, even your children. Because if you can't function and be healthy, you will be useless to everyone. Not to mention, say you have children for ~25years (4 kids, couple of years apart), and focus on them, putting your own needs and your relationship with your partner second. Or third, fifth, seventh. How will you live together after the 25 years? Will you know your partner anymore? After 25 ye…
/r/MensRights06/01/10 10:47 AM
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Treat everyone you meet like they're a unique person, and don't expect them to be one way or another based on their appearance, gender, ethnicity, religious beliefs or choice of music.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 03:12 PM
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Define a lot of 'domestic violence', and add sources please.
/r/MensRights26/11/09 08:55 AM
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A suggestion by 6 people, 5 years ago, that never amounted to anything.
/r/MensRights23/11/09 07:25 AM
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I'd like to be angry at you. But I never do anything I plan. So I'll just be ashamed instead.
/r/MensRights18/11/09 08:40 AM
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I have never heard a woman say that feminism was supposed to bring about a more manly man. Equal rights, yes (and I typed Equal Rites at first. I think it's a sign I need to read some Discworld.), manlier men, no.
/r/MensRights18/11/09 08:38 AM
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Here you go It wasn't a court, it was JämO, who at that time was a woman.
/r/MensRights17/11/09 09:05 AM
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I'm still so fucking pissed off by the ruling (in Sweden) that it was not discrimination when men had to pay the same gym fees as women, but were not allowed into the 'women only'-section and there was not a corresponding area of the gym for men. Not discrimination? Why not? Because women "need a protected zone" from men. Fuck that, old geezers that run the court (median age ~60, probably think their daughters close their eyes and think of the motherland on their wedding nights..). For one, if y…
/r/MensRights16/11/09 07:16 PM
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honestly? karma whoring. I thought it was interesting, tho. I don't want children, and would be very frustrated if I saw people with children get special treatment at work.
/r/MensRights09/11/09 06:35 PM
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Women get pregnant. Men get women pregnant. Except when women get sperm to get pregnant, but the sperm is usually deposited for that purpose. I feel men play some part in the whole pregnancy thing. Must get someone to explain this bird-bees stuff.
/r/MensRights08/11/09 07:43 PM
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That's just appalling. I'm very sorry for your situation.
/r/MensRights08/11/09 07:36 PM
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You don't think that prenatal care benefits the father as well? Healthy baby and all that? But I'm guessing you're thinking of abortion when you say "prenatal rights", and I just don't have a good answer there. On the one hand, I find it absurd that the father should have no say in what happens to his.. fetus? But on the other hand.. it is her body. It is the mother who will carry the child, carry the risks of childbearing and the negative effects on her body. But it takes two to tango.. I just …
/r/MensRights08/11/09 04:40 PM
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I'm pretty sure that the children she will have has a father somewhere, so it's not really a 'woman'-thing. More of a 'people'-thing.
/r/MensRights08/11/09 03:51 PM
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Actually, if women are more risk adverse and go to the doctor more often, this probably means that serious health problems are less likely to occur as they are treated earlier, and will therefore be less costly in the long run.
/r/MensRights08/11/09 03:50 PM
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Oh, my bad. The sentence works in Swedish, but not in English. What I meant was: the same infrastructure was the reason for why the women's liberation movement came about, because it systematically repressed women. (And I'm not talking glass ceilings and shit, I'm talking about voting and higher education.)
/r/MensRights30/10/09 12:46 PM
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Or that the same infrastructure required the movement to exist?
/r/MensRights30/10/09 09:42 AM
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Most people, I think, are not completely good nor bad. However, they're mostly not good.
/r/MensRights23/10/09 09:25 AM
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What I came here to say. People suck, get over it.
/r/MensRights22/10/09 10:06 PM
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I do. Repeatedly. But, as with everything else, it's the ones that make good headlines and are outrageously stupid that get the attention.
/r/MensRights10/10/09 07:01 PM
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Ambition leads to bank robbery? Really?
/r/MensRights06/10/09 09:31 PM
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Lost me at the first sentence, got me back at the second.
/r/MensRights05/10/09 07:52 AM
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How's your ass, tho?
/r/MensRights26/09/09 04:10 PM
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If you give up, and stop using the word 'correctly', then definitely not. But if the meaning can change from the original to something twisted by use, it can change back too. Never said it was easy, just that I won't give up.
/r/MensRights24/09/09 06:23 PM
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So I can only be proud of me? No Black Pride? No Pride Parade?
/r/MensRights24/09/09 12:52 PM
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The movement began to ensure women the same rights as men. Now that we have those rights, I think it's the responsibility of the same movement to right the wrongs it brought with the progress.
/r/MensRights24/09/09 09:20 AM
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What should we call it, then? I refuse to let my words be hijacked by idiots. Feminism to me is the struggle for equality, not oppressing men. Nationalism is being proud of my country, not being racist. Atheism is not believing in gods, not feeling smugly superior to religious people.
/r/MensRights24/09/09 08:57 AM
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To me, feminism is about recognizing people for who they are, not what gender they were born into. Sadly, a lot of people suck. No matter what's between their legs.
/r/MensRights24/09/09 07:31 AM
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Nonconsensual sex between two people who know each other, whatever you call it, is a terribly awkward fit for our adversarial criminal justice system. I'd call nonconsensual sex rape. If it's a friend, a stranger, a family member. That's what no consent means..
/r/MensRights23/09/09 06:43 AM
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Better luck next time! I hate to admit it, but I've been that girl. Wasn't mature enough to handle that kind of relationship and responsibility, so I just.. used him. I cooked, he did most everything else. On top of working full-time (I was unemployed). He deserved better. Hope he gets it.
/r/MensRights22/09/09 08:25 PM
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Remember: you can't get fired for not doing your housework properly - neither can you get kicked out of university/college. Totally true. Doing my job well doesn't clean my sink either. Housework is work. I've done it professionally, and it was still work when I got home to wash my own dishes, clean my own drain and mop my own floor. It was physical, dirty and time consuming. One of the reasons I choose to study is to never have to clean other people's showers ever again. And I have nothing but …
/r/MensRights22/09/09 04:10 PM
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Statistical pool of none, really. I don't live with a partner, I live with 2 friends. However, my opinion (that btw didn't contradict the statistics) is just that, my opinion. I never commented on the accuracy of the statistics. I actually instinctively believe that they are accurate (but that's a belief, not based on any source I can cite. could be from past reading, could be me full of shit) as women work more part time than men do (at least in Sweden) and therefore would be available more at …
/r/MensRights22/09/09 04:03 PM
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Your critique adds nothing to the discussion.
/r/MensRights22/09/09 03:12 PM
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"working"? I find housework to be a lot like writing essays or studying for exams. Sure, you can take breaks whenever. Wear whatever. No one butts in on when you study or how you do it.. but the work still has to be done.
/r/MensRights22/09/09 01:28 PM
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Averages.. yes. I don't think it's a problem if I work less than my partner and do more work at home. Or the other way around. However, if both work full time (8hrs/day) and only one person in the relationship cook/clean/wash and so on.. that's a problem. At least for the one doing the housework..
/r/MensRights22/09/09 01:26 PM
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That's political leaders. I think we can agree on the fact that a lot of the leaders of society are not politicians, but business leaders. Who happen to influence society way more than politicians do. But yeah, ha ha funny.
/r/MensRights16/09/09 07:53 AM
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Hear, hear! My mother has breast cancer that spread to her lungs, she's doing OK now, but.. it's cancer. You never know. No one should feel sorry for her because she's a woman (actually, she'd probably kick your ass for it. sympathy at all doesn't go down well with her..), but because she's a good person with a possibly fatal disease. Or possibly just because she's a person with a possibly fatal disease.
/r/MensRights15/09/09 05:32 PM
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what's a bit of liquid on the face!? You're joking, right? I'm really tired and kinda cranky so I'm not 100% sure. But you are? Because a water fight and someone breaking and entering into my home to masturbate on me is not really comparable. And a bit of liquid? Have you tried getting drying semen out of your hair? It's fucking impossible. <-- I feel that kinda ruins my point. But it's still true.
/r/MensRights12/09/09 03:07 PM
10

Exactly my thought. What racist doesn't defend their hatred in the same way? The 'they deserve it' and 'everyone else does it too'..
/r/MensRights11/09/09 06:27 AM
6

Africa is a continent. Not a country.
/r/MensRights04/09/09 09:34 PM
2

Circumcision gives about a 15% reduction in infection men from women.
/r/MensRights04/09/09 09:32 PM
1

No, this is a WBB-story. It just happens that someone else in the story acted like a human being.
/r/MensRights03/09/09 08:36 PM
2

But the story wasn't about that.. I understand your link, and I would agree with that being Mens Rights, and if someone was outraged that this man stopped a child from being slammed against the sidewalk because he was a man, you'd have a point.
/r/MensRights03/09/09 03:41 PM
4

This is Mens Rights-material? Seriously?
/r/MensRights03/09/09 09:51 AM
1

My county has around 75 000 people. This year, I've read about 6 reported rapes (there might have been more, but I only remember the details of 6 of them) in my local newspaper. I strongly believe that 2 of the reports were false, and I know that one was. One of the 'false' claims were reported to have happened at my job. I've heard the first hand accounts of the security people, and I find it highly unlikely that the girl was assaulted in any way (and there is no evidence at all. the investigat…
/r/MensRights30/08/09 10:40 AM
0

So, basically, if I want an equal relationship where both parties want regular sex, emotional support and provides for themselves.. That can never be marriage?
/r/MensRights21/08/09 08:56 PM
10

Sounds kind of cheesy, but there's a Clint Black song that goes "love isn't something that we find, it's something that we do", I heard it something like 10 years ago and it's stuck with me. Knowing that love is a verb, it's something you have to practice and work at to get better in is for me the key to all sorts of relationships. Friends, family, romantically. She's the infomercial, miracle diet, weight loss pill-lady of love.
/r/MensRights21/08/09 08:49 PM
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Does it matter if he whistled or not? Whistling or commenting isn't something I like (it embarrasses me), but it wouldn't be a mitigating factor in an assault. That explanation (he whistled at us!!) seems more like a 'we were just walking around waiting for someone to give us an excuse to hurt them' than anything else.
/r/MensRights19/08/09 09:46 PM
5

I don't know if I love, or am annoyed at, the fact that there's always one redditor who's already said what I came to say.
/r/MensRights08/08/09 10:14 PM
2

Why is "just walk away" never an option? It's what we tell children, right? So there should be some merit to it. Most of the things we tell children do. Except "don't go swimming just after you've eaten" and "if you make faces they might stick" and "if you eat the apple seeds they will grow inside you" and.. well, some have merit!
/r/MensRights08/08/09 05:14 PM
2

Yes. As long as you're not a 'every man is like x and every woman is like y'-kind of person.
/r/MensRights19/07/09 09:44 PM
0

I do feel like I can't walk the streets anymore, because of shoes. Usually high heels, but at times other shoes too. I have sensitive feet.
/r/MensRights19/07/09 09:23 PM
1

I meant 'monolingualism', my spellcheck said no on that one. Yeah, I can see how Vegas is more superficial. Than pretty much anywhere. And how is that working for you?
/r/MensRights08/07/09 10:01 PM
1

Stuck up people. I'll move there and be stuck up in a year or so. More superficial too. Especially in the smaller cities, Swedes are embarrassingly keen to show off their English. So, no, monolingualism (is that a word?) isn't really a problem as long as the language is English. Or Swedish, for that matter.
/r/MensRights08/07/09 09:47 PM
1

Buy an umbrella. And remember, Stockholm is not the place to go.
/r/MensRights08/07/09 09:37 PM
1

Probably. But it might work anyway if you're not the kind of guy that takes no initiative and therefore is placed in the friend zone. My dad's been above 220lbs (the jiggly kind of lbs) all my life, and he gets laid a lot. Dimples and confidence. Also, a lot of pretty women with bad self confidence.
/r/MensRights08/07/09 09:32 PM
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I think you have the right to feel any way you do. But I would respect you more if you wanted an equal partner, not just in regards to money, but there as well. And I have a former gym teacher that would cure you of your Swedish Beauty-preconception. And tons of beautiful friends that would hook you right back =)
/r/MensRights08/07/09 08:23 PM
2

I am. Although, there are no girls on the internets... But that was what I was trying to do, actually. To put myself in a gender neutral zone, tho, not 'think like a man'. I don't know how to think like a man. Or a woman. I only know how to be me..
/r/MensRights08/07/09 07:21 PM
4

The author, and I, seem to think that money is an important factor in a relationship. Yes, I would like a partner that's rich (wee! money!) but I wont marry someone because of their money. However, I might decline marrying someone because of their lack of money. Money is one of the things couples fight most about, and having little or no money is very stressful for many. My life partner should be reliable, and stable. I don't ever want to be in a relationship where I feel inferior because of sta…
/r/MensRights07/07/09 09:31 PM
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It's too bad that you have to ruin a good point with a derogatory comment like 'vagina-fest'.
/r/MensRights22/06/09 10:59 PM
7

Omg! French!1!
/r/MensRights31/05/09 10:42 PM
1

Girls behaving badly, is how I read it. However, some seem to say Gender behaving badly.
/r/MensRights04/05/09 11:34 AM
0

Why is it GBB but MBB?
/r/MensRights04/05/09 06:11 AM
3

There's a woman in my home town who is being charged for this. Poorly translated from Swedish..
/r/MensRights02/05/09 08:39 AM
1

I feel non-snarked. Thank you =)
/r/MensRights01/05/09 02:37 PM
4

it does. the average life span of an outdoors cat is about one year. but I get the whole 'oh, so trapped, fill the years with life instead of life with years'-thing. however, as I just passed a very cute couple sitting outside on a blanket, the guy could not stop touching the girl (just gently on her shoulder and thigh and arm and where ever) and I'm feeling oh so fucking single and miserable right now.. so I'm kinda pro-marriage. at least you're not alone. atm I'm trying to decide if I dislike …
/r/MensRights01/05/09 01:17 PM
2

I did say divorce wasn't, tho.
/r/MensRights01/05/09 07:44 AM
3

Marriage is better for men, health wise. Divorce seems to be a completely different matter.
/r/MensRights01/05/09 06:19 AM
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In my country, basically too. But we don't really have spousal support, and child support is not income based, it's a fixed amount (atm, $150 per month). The differences are in the common assets, as civil unions defines common assets as things you've bought to use together (if I had a house and he moves in, it's still just my house) during the relationship. However, cars cannot be owned by 2 people and money in the bank (or shares or whatever) that is in my account, not a joint one, is still min…
/r/MensRights01/05/09 06:18 AM
4

I would probably think that a man was gay if he described a dress as "daffodil yellow", but otherwise I don't see the problem.
/r/MensRights10/04/09 03:50 PM
1

The psyche of A modern American woman.
/r/MensRights08/03/09 10:27 AM
0

Yes, that I can buy. But finding a man? You're over the hill at 29?
/r/MensRights08/03/09 10:26 AM
3

It's too late at 29?
/r/MensRights07/03/09 11:45 PM
1

I think the problem is that society still has faith in the justice system. That 'innocent until proven guilty' still echoes through our heads. Even though we hear stories, every day, about glaringly obvious miscarriages of justice (the young girl who was 'mistaken' for a prostitute and charged when she 'resisted' arrest, for instance) we still somehow believe. Through that lens, being falsely accused isn't that bad. Sure, it's inconvenient, but the idea that 'if you're innocent you'll be fine' p…
/r/MensRights07/03/09 11:38 AM
1

And apparently, knowing there are insane women out there makes mensrights.. something.
/r/MensRights04/03/09 12:48 PM
1

as many as 32% of female veterans and 6% of male veterans that are also MST survivors Ofc, this still means the majority are men, as more men than women have served.. but it also leaves the title lacking a little something..
/r/MensRights04/03/09 12:41 PM
4

Never trust a woman in leopard print, I say.
/r/MensRights03/03/09 04:48 PM
1

The only real point the author makes is the question about paternity leave. It's a valid concern, how much say should the government have in our personal decisions? Clearly some, that's why we have laws. But where do you draw the line? I've recently been introduced to the idea of the wage gap being a product not of gender discrimination, but of personal choices mostly having to do with children. If that's true, what, if anything, should be done about it? Apparently, we're not happy with the stat…
/r/MensRights25/02/09 03:13 PM
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The letter in the preface.. I've laid down without physical fight to be sodomized. To prevent so much damage in struggles, ripping and tearing. Though in not fighting, it caused my heart and spirit to be raped as well. the hopelessness just.. omg. A rape victim in prison seems to be pretty much like a child that's being molested. More brutal, tho. A "normal" (as in 'the one that comes to mind') rape victim lives in fear that this will happen to her (that is the one that comes to mind) again. To …
/r/MensRights18/02/09 01:15 PM
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I never dared to be radical when young for fear it would make me conservative when old. -Robert Frost
/r/MensRights18/02/09 11:10 AM
0

It's still not "OK" with violence between men or between women. But a lot of what the law calls assaults (at least where I live) are what I would call fights. Two (or more) people (most frequently men), that are drunk and for some reason start hitting each other. So, yes, that does "even it out", as a lot of the victims are also perpetrators in the same case. (first step when being charged with assault of the sort I describe above: report the other person too.) But the problem, why this happens,…
/r/MensRights18/02/09 11:09 AM
2

I like being judgmental. Possibly that's why I spend so much time on the internet.. So. Why on earth would anyone get a student loan to stay home with the children? And yes, sure, it is possible to re-enter the job market after the children starts school (or whenever), but with a major in philosophy?! Was this woman consciously trying to make herself unemployable?
/r/MensRights09/02/09 12:14 PM
0

Or just go to the source...
/r/MensRights03/02/09 07:27 PM
4

I don't recognize this from my childhood, and feel really lucky I got the parents I did. I learned to read lying next to my father, watching the words as he read Bamse to me. He tells me I loved to hear him sing, and always stopped crying when he sang to me (today it's the other way around.. he forgets lyrics, has no rhythm and might just be tone deaf..). My dad stayed home with me every other time I was sick, even though his boss (old school..) had a really negative attitude and teased him for …
/r/MensRights02/02/09 01:58 PM
1

Lasted 1.15 minutes, then I felt a huge need to whine and nag someone, so I stopped for the sake of the world. If it doesn't get better after that.. I'd say that this is just the kind of message that turns women against men. Just as the "all men are rapists"-claims from some 'feminists' turn men against women.
/r/MensRights01/02/09 03:00 PM
1

I don't think I know anyone who would say that. The most hardcore feminist I know (who recently applied for a job as an ombudswoman.. mock away. I did.) would still call this an outrage and demand equal treatment for men and women. As that is what we both believe in. I've read your comments, so I understand if you wont get passed the f-word. Ofc I recognize that I don't know everyone. Or you know, considering the population of the world, not many people at all. I also recognize that men are seen…
/r/MensRights22/01/09 10:53 PM
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You might be right. And that is.. so frustrating I don't even have words for it. However, I can't speak for anyone else but I have, since I started subscribing to MensRights, become much more aware of the inequalities in society that affect men, and the blatant discrimination against them. And I do try to spread my view (which I feel is more balanced now) to other people. I believe that injustice is injustice, abuse is abuse, rape is rape and suffering is suffering, no matter who is the victim o…
/r/MensRights22/01/09 08:18 PM
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I was with you until This will be casually ignored by most. Men are the 'privileged' gender so any unfairness is rightfully deserved. That's what they'll say or at least think deep within themselves. This is just horrible and obvious gender discrimination. Anyone should be able to see that.
/r/MensRights22/01/09 07:33 PM
1

Basically that there are errors (or at least misconceptions) in the article, and therefore it shouldn't be taken so seriously. If the "ohh, the muslims are coming to get you" hadn't made that point clear already.
/r/MensRights16/01/09 09:53 PM
2

Norway and Sweden are countries with extremely high divorce rates. Sweden has a divorce rate between 40-50%, as does the US. A striking number of Scandinavian men find their wives in East Asia, Latin America or other nations with a more traditional view of femininity There is no other explanation available? Such as there are a very, very large number of single men in the north of Sweden, but very few single women? (coincidentally, there are also quite a few brothels..) Or that quite a few of the…
/r/MensRights16/01/09 01:41 PM
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crazy-ass bitch girl? a bit redundant, no?
/r/MensRights29/12/08 12:13 AM
0

Tbh, I did answer the question. I always believe it's me. I'm not good enough, witty enough, pretty enough. Whatever it is that works, I don't have it. But since I try not to sound pathetic, I wrapped my answer in humour. Of some sort.
/r/MensRights20/12/08 02:37 PM
1

Are you kidding me? If I'm really interested, I mean really really, I could never make eye contact and smile. (well, haven't been able to so far. but here's hoping!) I do the 'look at him, is he looking at me, oh shit he saw me looking'-thing. It's working absolutely awfully, thank you very much. I blush. A lot. I'm interested in a guy from work and can't talk to him. At all. I've blushed 30 feet away from him when he was kinda, sorta looking in my direction. Basically, I'm a 25 year old with th…
/r/MensRights19/12/08 10:55 PM
1

Cos I have self confidence issues and therefore hide in the relative safety of the internets. Where sticks and stones don't reach me, and anyone whose words hurt me I can just call the auhtors trolls or downmod them.
/r/MensRights19/12/08 10:48 PM
3

NP, as long as you promise never to do it irl. It'd make me a sad panda.
/r/MensRights19/12/08 12:13 PM
0

well, being an emotionally unhealthy woman myself, I think I'd feel mocked by all those healthy women showing off how healthy they are.
/r/MensRights19/12/08 08:34 AM
1

I suck at first moves. Well, I think I do.. But since I don't try I'm not really sure. But it feels like begging. And rejection.. I mean, when applying for a job, at least I can be rejected because I didn't have the right education or experience, or perhaps there was someone more qualified. In dating, it's just me. Why did you fail? It was me. To protect myself, I've come to the conclusion that I'm so beautiful it's scary and that's why I always strike out.
/r/MensRights18/12/08 11:08 PM
3

Study reveals young women are more sexually attractive than young men.
/r/MensRights13/12/08 09:59 PM
5

I'd add 'ask a friend' to the checklist. Or someone in your family. Someone who cares about you.
/r/MensRights27/11/08 07:21 PM
1

why is everything in this subreddit by Sacks?
/r/MensRights15/11/08 10:16 PM
1

"** That's a bullshit reason for getting married." The well researched, scientifically based argument!
/r/MensRights15/11/08 04:59 PM
1

But attempted rape? I'm not saying it wouldn't have come to that, eventually. But he never laid a finger on her. Precrime?
/r/MensRights13/11/08 04:17 PM
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