sethc Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Post one-night stand etiquette You have her on FB? Send a message just asking her to hit you up with her # because you lost it (use the excuse of lost/destroyed phone etc) and then once you get it, send her a txt something simple like "hey it's john, thanks for giving your # again.. my phone is fixed!" then just take it from there.. if she gives the vague 'haha sounds good' or 'haha k cool no prob!' etc. then don't worry about feeling awkward because chances are - she's cool with letting things lie. if her responses elicit mo…	/r/seduction	13/12/10 03:08 AM
1	Overcoming the friend zone Sure, I don't care a bit if you like hearing my (often rambling) rhetoric lol.. but I think if you could provide some more details about your specific circumstance, I could speak to it a little more directly and relate what I have to say to what you're facing, my man.	/r/seduction	08/12/10 09:36 PM
1	Overcoming the friend zone Yeah I don't get it, unless one of the other guys thought I was attacking their advice, which I wasn't.. I was just offering a different approach. Sigh, thus is life on Reddit. Anyways, thanks a lot main.. it's good to hear appreciation whenever I share advice that I put some serious thought into (no matter how good or awful the advice might be) - so, once again, thanks for that. Upvote to you, sir! I'd be glad to elaborate if you wouldn't mind elaborating a little more along with some backgroun…	/r/seduction	08/12/10 08:30 PM
-2	Overcoming the friend zone No disrespect to any of the other guys commenting, but yeahhhh(Lumberg voice) I'm gonna go ahead and NOT recommend you read anything,k? But seriously, the friend-zone is a bitch. It's really tough to get out of once you're in.. but when you said you've "already closed" I'm guessing you've already hit it? If so, then there's automatically an in-road for you.. your best bet is just go to out with her/friends and both of you get wasted. That's almost sure-fire for ANY girl that you've already conqu…	/r/seduction	08/12/10 03:33 PM
2	Dear Seddit, I am in dire need of creative first date ideas because a relationship depends on it + advice. Help! Pick something/place that's tailored to what she likes or is interested in, first of all. If you do something that she obviously hates or isn't into, you'll just look like a dumbass. At the same time, you have to balance it so that you don't come off as "going over the top" in terms of being romantic. That just makes you look cheesy and that you're goal is simply to impress her rather than to show your true self. So, I guess my advice boils down to this: as a general rule, keep the overall date …	/r/seduction	07/12/10 01:35 AM
1	Flying solo...advice? That usually depends on the setting. I mostly follow it up by bitching or complaining about something obvious that she will agree with. Like if I'm in line to buy a drink I'll start bitching about the slow service etc. I also try to add in something really humorous. Like "jesus fucking christ, if jabba the hutt would pour more than 1 drink an hour we might get somewhere" and as I say it I act like I'm paying more attention to what I'm bitching about than her. Obviously this isn't gonna work if y…	/r/seduction	05/12/10 06:43 AM
1	I look really young, help me out seddit. Dude, I have the same thing going on as you. Recognize something - it's a HUGE FUCKING BLESSING! I'm telling you it's a damn 1-up, man! I have a big time baby-face with the rosy cheeks and stuff and, yep, I still get carded for smokes and anything else. The key is to not try to grow facial hair. In fact - avoid it. Make it a point to shave and look like you have 0 facial hair. It works to your advantage. You say you're good with talking to women, so you're fine. When I'm out, I usually take the …	/r/seduction	04/12/10 05:32 AM
3	Flying solo...advice? I've came to the conclusion that I'm way better off when I go it alone. Of course, I'm really outgoing so that probably has something to do with it. But, think about it. When you're with all your boys, not only do you concern yourself with rejection from the chick, but you're worrying about throwing up some weak game in front of your friends. You don't want to be the subject of getting heckled a million times for that time you stumbled when you walked over to a girl. Much better that something l…	/r/seduction	04/12/10 05:19 AM