sevendustybuttholes Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
133	I just found this sub and I want to rant a little if you don't mind.	Legal Rights	sevendustybuttholes	/r/MensRights	17/05/21 06:43 AM
98	Posting this for a friend. Just over 2 years post divorce and his ex ended up exactly where he thought she would.	Success Stories	sevendustybuttholes	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 09:03 PM
20	Why can CS/Alimony be modified when we increase our pay if the divorce was finalized based off our current combined income?	Rant	sevendustybuttholes	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 01:17 PM
13	Saving money for the inevitable, how do I go about it?	Need Support	sevendustybuttholes	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 08:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Angry and need to vent Women always try and "live their best life" after divorce. They dont want reality to sink in but it will. When all the newness fades and the money dwindles from the over spending, it will sink in. All their bad decisions will slowly creep up and they can't handle it. They start wishing for what they had. They start regressing, moving backwards toward what they had. But men are different. We get stationary for awhile. We deal with it. We stay alone, focusing on ourselves. Then we move forward. Ev…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 12:57 PM
3	State requires 1 year separation but she won’t move out If you have DV proven you likely can skip the separation period. If not, you will need to leave. A lawyer is the only one who can truly advise you. My state has the same requirement.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 12:51 PM
1	Saving money for the inevitable, how do I go about it? You never get cash back at a register? Its free. If youre grocery shopping and your total is $200 and you select $40 cash back your total goes to $240. You dont pay anything for that.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 02:42 AM
1	Saving money for the inevitable, how do I go about it? My other idea is to get "cash back" whenever I purchase something. She doesnt squint at how much we spend, but she would certainly notice large sums being withdrawn. So getting another $40-$50 cash back when I go grocery shopping would go unnoticed.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 09:49 PM
1	Saving money for the inevitable, how do I go about it? I've been snipped. No more kids for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 09:46 PM
2	Saving money for the inevitable, how do I go about it? Im not trying to hide money per say. Im tying to build a small savings so whenever things do go south, I won't be drowning out of the gate. Its my version of a "go-bag". Where I live, separation must last a year before divorce can be filed. So I need to separate and then pay money to her. Without any savings, I won't be able to leave. Without being able to leave I won't be able to separate to get a divorce. So technically its in her interest for me to save. Problem is, in our dynamic, I can't sa…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 09:46 PM
10	I just found this sub and I want to rant a little if you don't mind. Selfish and self centered yes. Maybe a horrible girlfriend/wife? I wouldn't dismiss that. But I've known horrible people in my day. Maybe that's objectionable based on life experience. But I've never seen her as a horrible person. Nothing she's done has ever been maliciously intentional. But extremely misguided and bad judgement, yes. Inconsiderate definitely. But I suppose my story is a bit one sided as I'm not entirely free of fault either. Relationships are complicated and both individuals pl…	/r/MensRights	17/05/21 08:54 AM
8	I just found this sub and I want to rant a little if you don't mind. Wow dude that's some mental gymnastics that I don't think even Olympian can compete with. Congrats? That's honestly impressive you are that absurd in your take on relationships and people.	/r/MensRights	17/05/21 08:45 AM
37	I just found this sub and I want to rant a little if you don't mind. Oh yea she's been a champ. It's been almost 4 years since her treatment ended.	/r/MensRights	17/05/21 08:06 AM
13	I just found this sub and I want to rant a little if you don't mind. It was by default. The best way I can explain it is the same way you would get a massive inheritance if a relative passed away? Out of your control but something that benefited you came from tragedy? You'd still rather have the relative back if you could. My wife never would have wished that on our kid for the sake of being a stay at home mom. She's in fact a fantastic mother. Our relationship issues were our own. But I knew when that happened how it would affect her going back to work.	/r/MensRights	17/05/21 08:06 AM