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Why are UMC, skinny or fit young men not having success? because they have an ugly face. or one that isn't attractive enough relative to the other options of the women they are pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:37 PM
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you either: are more attractive than you think have lower standards for women than you think are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:42 AM
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lol no. i had like a 1% success rate when i was cold approaching 10-15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:05 AM
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making a ton of money has never gotten me laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:35 PM
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and she never clicked it 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:52 PM
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So men who meet the following criteria: far more important than those are the man's physical attractiveness and the physical attractiveness of the women he pursues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:56 AM
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nope. don't hate them, am mostly just jealous i can't do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:04 PM
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women will not find a man attractive based on the sole fact he is a male this definitely happens, just much less frequently than the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:58 PM
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they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:27 PM
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being hard to get/a challenge does not make you more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:04 PM
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I think women are often attracted to the guys that are hard to get and are a challenge yes, but they are hard to get/a challenge because they're attractive, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:38 AM
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If they're objectively well proportioned so "well proportioned" == attractive? If they're objectively [...] pretty or handsome there is no such thing as "objectively pretty" or "objectively handsome"...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:29 PM
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what is your criteria for thinking someone is "attractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:36 PM
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i think it's less about men vs. women and more about most people not understanding the meaning of words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:58 PM
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if i say someone is "attractive," that implies that i am attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:25 PM
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that makes no sense. they are the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:23 PM
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my experience is the same as the person you responded to (minus the married part) 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:13 PM
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of all the non-virgin women i've slept with, i can't think of a single one that waited more than 4 dates to do so. i assume the others were just not attracted to me enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:55 AM
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make it opt-out instead of opt-in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:41 PM
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Casual sex even though it’s consensual, is a compartmentalized release that leaves out the emotional connection and never leaves a person feeling fulfilled. i often feel very fulfilled after having casual sex People walk away feeling used or guilty for using others. i don't think i've ever felt this way after having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:47 PM
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very attractive men > very attractive women average men < average women very unattractive men > very unattractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:39 AM
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it depends on the man and the body
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:36 AM
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yeah, like im going to trust the accuracy of a website with "meet hot, sexy singles" ads on it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:57 PM
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first two are not 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:03 PM
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describing it is useless. give me a set a pictures and i'll rank them in order of preference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:07 PM
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i've gotten no more attention when in a relationship than when single 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:16 AM
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5th openness to experience 5th conscientiousness 5th extraversion 6th agreeableness 1st neuroticism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:12 AM
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women generally avoid complimenting generic men + men are terrible at recognizing male attractiveness = fewer total positive attributions about men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:06 AM
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an extremely high quality ex-partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:27 AM
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you're an idiot if you think all 30-somethings are on the same level of physical attractiveness. same for 40-somethings, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:32 AM
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if you believe this, you must have shitty friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:53 PM
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source for any of this? i found two sources that pretty much directly contradict your claims: https://www.reuters.com/article/fact-check-tom-hanks-did-not-tweet-about/fact-check-tom-hanks-did-not-tweet-about-epstein-island-qanon-followers-idUSL1N34B1QV https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/10/24/559815944/listen-tom-hanks-on-weinstein-allegations-some-think-this-is-how-it-works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:10 PM
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I’m 6’1” and a 7 in the face so definitely no Chad. I’ve also never had a random woman approach me in public. then you're not a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:34 PM
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yes, it's a zoomer thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:29 PM
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"casual sex" simply means sex outside the bounds of a committed relationship. you can have casual sex with people you've known for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:47 PM
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who the hell would pick number 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:48 PM
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when's the magical age at which you think people stop being goofy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:20 PM
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When a man starts working on his looks the men around will start to make fun of him. I've seen this and experienced it myself. cut that toxicity out of your life and surround yourself with less shitty people. none of my friends would do that. they're supportive mfers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:36 PM
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it's a type of relationship, but it's not a relationship™️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:22 PM
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i'm a dude and i do this 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:27 AM
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the woman on the left isn't amazing looking or anything and the guy on the right isn't bad looking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:28 PM
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imagine thinking women give a fuck about men's hairlines
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:01 PM
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pretty sure it was only ever other men that made fun of me when i was a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:31 PM
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flirting and confidence are both highly overrated for getting someone attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:45 PM
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what % of women do you think are hot? what % of men do you think are hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:44 PM
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they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:13 PM
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blue eyes. the darker the better for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:49 PM
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if i agreed with them, i would gladly put myself in that scenario. if i didn't think she was out of my league, i'd probably just be annoyed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:47 PM
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define "like"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:20 PM
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unlike height, that is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:18 PM
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but do you know what else they like? a guy who is able to work at something consistently for years. most of them wouldn't give two fucks about him if he got injured or something and put all the weight back on, even if they knew that he had a great transformation in the past. it's all about looks.
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:11 PM
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pretty sure that's mainly because there are so many more women than men over the age of 60: https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/sex-ratio-by-age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:42 PM
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i've known of men around that height who have hooked up with many women, but they were either handsome or they were hooking up with not-so-handsome women...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:54 PM
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i have literally never seen anyone do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:20 AM
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/r/rateme
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:09 PM
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but pretty much any man who is funny and outgoing can pull the most beautiful girls when they themselves might not be the most attractive, purely off of energy. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:54 PM
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you're either a troll or have some sort of mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:38 PM
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more specifically, your standards are too high relative to your own attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:20 PM
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does fantasizing about other women count?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:58 PM
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Only about 20% of men in the US have ever paid for sex. holy shit. that's a lot higher than i thought it'd be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:52 PM
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I've seen tons of these cases in internet where is "in internet"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:20 PM
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OP is right that being lean matters more than muscle. OP is not right--indicators of physical strength are overwhelmingly more important than leanness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:10 PM
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the same ways young boys are taught to treat women your post is based on a false premise--this doesn't happen a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:28 PM
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hard to say. i haven't gotten into any committed relationships since i started ho-ing it up about 3 years ago. my standards have gotten higher and i'm not going to settle now that i can get consistent (enough) casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:02 PM
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why do you assume the person you responded to is 20? there are tons of 30+ year olds on reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:03 PM
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why is it unlikely?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:31 PM
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While the cute average guy could be flirty, charming, confident, and funny and I'll melt lol. so not in any way close to an "ugly" guy as OP described?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:13 PM
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if my success rate in clubs was 20%, i'd approach all the time, but it's probably closer to 1% lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:50 PM
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the main way having female friends who are not attracted to you will help you is by them introducing you to their female friends who might be attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:28 AM
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you’d see that their are hundreds of couples where the guy is averagely pushing above his weight this is such a meme. hundreds out of how many? most couples are looksmatched and there are plenty of heterosexual couples where the man is more attractive than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:14 AM
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this thread is useless without pics of you and the women who say these things about you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:01 AM
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Or is it only because he has status? yes In which case why aren’t the munchkins viewed the same? because they are NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:33 PM
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it means someone doesn't mind your personality (would be friends with you), but doesn't find you sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:31 PM
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you can absolutely unearth nearly 100% of someone's skeletons in the closet if you actually try and talk to them about topics of substance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:47 PM
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you don't understand statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:55 PM
1

Witholding sex from guys you actually like and want for long term, while having sex with guys you don't care about. I never understood this concept and I get why guys would be pissed about it. idk if it's always "withholding." as a guy, i sometimes don't try to hook up on the first date with women i think have long-term potential because i don't want them to think sex is all i want. so i can kind of understand why some women behave similarly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:23 AM
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Elon isn’t more attractive that Sergey. he's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:51 PM
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d'oh. i'm gonna chalk this up to me only getting 5 hours of sleep last night 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:11 PM
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? i'd say they're fairly looksmatched, she's just taller
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:20 PM
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the larger the gap between your attractiveness and the attractiveness of the people you pursue, the more success/fun you will have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:34 PM
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don't bother. look at her post history--she's very attractive, but is probably going after cream of the crop men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:10 PM
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enjoyment = [your attractiveness] - [attractiveness of people you pursue]
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:54 PM
2

i feel seen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:52 PM
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i've seen pics of you. you have body dysmorphia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:45 AM
2

She told me that she doesn't talk to James too much anymore and they were only "physically connected". She then said she likes Adam and that she feels "emotionally connected" to him. translation: she thought James was hotter, but he wouldn't commit to her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:59 PM
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this is splitting hairs IMO--they're both breakup-worthy offenses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:31 PM
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what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl? i disagree with your premise--i don't think there is a mismatch. plenty of my male friends and acquaintances settled with someone less physically attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:50 AM
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I like sex with girls I actually like. that doesn't mean it can't be casual
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:36 PM
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a counterexample to what? all you've done is show that a sperm fertilizing an egg is currently a prerequisite to human life, not that it's the beginning of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:21 PM
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it’s fun. ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:00 PM
1

I’ve seen many stories from women who feel as though it’s rude or otherwise indicative of flawed character for men to choose not to be friends with women who reject them romantically. these are outliers. ive been rejected by countless women and not a single one has said anything like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:30 PM
2

how did they know you had money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:43 PM
0

Men wouldn't be so obsessed with sex if they had friends they could talk to and share with. They could refill their emotional "batteries" in other ways than through sex. utter nonsense. desire for emotional intimacy and desire for physically intimacy are almost completely unrelated to me and satisfying one doesn't necessarily satisfy the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:35 PM
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Texts are really easy to forget. not when you're interested in someone and in the novel stages of building a relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:37 PM
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A majority of women say they have experienced harassing behavior from someone they went on a date with why is this the lede?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:34 PM
5

ED medications don't increase libido
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:12 PM
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yes, i think it can be flattering. wouldn't you like it if someone asked you about your trip to XYZ or how your cat/dog/hamster was doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:22 PM
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tall, fairly good looking but not jaw-droppingly handsome, was backup on a D1 college team, humorous/silly/goofy but not tryhard, incredibly personable/friendly, has tons of friends/acquaintances and remembers the little details about the lives of almost everyone he knows
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:12 PM
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i've definitely seen these before
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:56 PM
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Is it possible that you can become so successful and attractive that you limit your own dating pool ? no, but speaking like a poorly programmed robot can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:17 PM
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You know how women can look at other women and be like “damn she’s hot” I see why dudes want her i think they're wrong a lot of the time so i don't think this part of your argument holds up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:44 PM
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were you having any success before? i think body attractiveness is more important at the margins
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:31 PM
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Whoever invites the person out should pay. which, by default, is usually the guy in heterosexual dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:24 AM
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it is a discussion on why she would ever select him to begin with when she is aware that she can just as easily sleep with a physically attractive man. everyone (including very physically attractive people) has finite time on this planet. they are less likely to spend it hooking up with someone if they think they have better options or they could be doing something more enjoyable with their time. i've turned down sex with women i wasn't very attracted to and i wouldn't consider myself hot. i ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:36 PM
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i like how option 4's arms are nearly double the size of option 3's. why the fuck didn't they have another option between those?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:28 PM
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