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| 1 | Another guy kissed her. How Am I supposed to deal with that ?Good mind frame , unhealthy people act like children , they give into most all their wants and needs no matter the consequences. Healthy people act as adults and before acting think about how this impacts them and the people around them | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Another guy kissed her. How Am I supposed to deal with that ?Be careful talking to her, people that are conditioned this way are expert manipulators. Think of what you want in a healthy relationship and let her know that , if she violates those things tell her you can't have any kind of relationship with her , in my opinion there are way too many red flags showing she is not in a place that she is capable of a healthy relationship ( you may not be either) | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Another guy kissed her. How Am I supposed to deal with that ?Don't listen to other post , this girl sounds codependent or has borderline traits , run for the hills, you will play games like this for years , girls like this treating you this way indicates you have people pleasing traits and need to focus more on what you want in relationships and practice asserting yourself with communication and boundaries (what's ok and not ok for you) | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 08:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm a known people pleaser/yes man, and I want to take things farther (relationally) with a woman I've been dating...and it feels like things have fallen off a bit...Sounds like ship has sailed , I like the idea of asking her to do something after awhile, make it an event you want to (for real) it will show her there is more to you then she thought and maybe she should give you another chance | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with shy/socially awkward girls?Like the other comments be very intentional with them , go sit by the.and make eye contact, if in a group bring up something they have said in group , repeat it to them (summarize it not verbatim ) and ask an expanding question to get them to open up , shy people in groups usually don't contribute something unless they feel it is interesting ,important , or they have knowledge on the subject. It can get very intimate quick with shy people if you use active listening skills | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Does smiling too much kill attraction?As long as it is a genuine smile , if it is not it gets annoying , people can tell between forced smiles and real ones , real ones have a huge range of feelings involved , one smile could be you think something is cute , one is funny , one is being polite , one is feeling akward etc | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 07:59 AM |
| 0 | I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection?Totally agree , sounds like people pleasing like you would an interview , be yourself girls will like that Thanks for the down vote , my career is just on the study and interaction of people , got trust the red or blue pill or whatever lol | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 07:55 AM |
| 0 | I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection?Too many mind games , read that book , more about self confidence and being yourself | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 07:52 AM |
| 0 | I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection?Sounds like working on doing what you want would be important from reading all the comments | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 07:51 AM |
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