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I know that people in relationships have sex like that. It disgusts me. Mainly just because I'm so far behind at 21 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:21 PM
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I had one two week relationship in high school where we just kissed and didn't have sex. The rest are fatties and escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:14 PM
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It's more talking about the idea of true love, and when times are hard, you work it out. But that's not true for these people who just leave when they're inconvenienced. All they want is that dick I guess. They don't want love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:06 PM
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Yeah in my current state I sure couldn't up and leave if some woman I found attractive actually decided to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:05 PM
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But they're pretty much attracted to the same things as the degenerates back in the monkey age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:04 PM
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All I want is to be that level of attractive where people just get to choose who they want to be with. I'd like to be so good looking I could just like somebody, and they'd like me. Without that I wouldn't mind if the whole world got nuked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:58 PM
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I'm 21 so I didn't have sex 15 years ago. lolol It was a better place to be. Puberty is fucking horrible. I hate sex and it hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:54 PM
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Well I'm sure I'm taking that average down with a whopping total of five.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:53 PM
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That's hard because I don't know how a woman would feel about that. I don't know if women have as strong feelings about that because they're pacified with sexual desire for them their whole lives. What do you think about the second option? You'd have a choice. Of course, this is all assuming you want the baby and you want me to raise it. That's not happening. Idc how cute the baby is. That fucker is gonna be the same despicable man or woman that we all are when he/she hits puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:48 PM
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How you doing in there man? Were you the guy who whacked Jeffrey Epstein? Are you planning on getting suicided soon so your spreading all this wisdom to me today? On a serious note, how does one raise their social status?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:39 PM
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I wouldn't call it awkward. As the recipient of many ghostings, I just want to punch somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:28 PM
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How does one indicate that they're primal and intense in bed if not by being a fucknozzle?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:37 PM
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Because women have a sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:35 PM
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When I read anything about women's sex lives, it makes me feel like Jeffrey Epstein did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:33 PM
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Not THAT is what TRP teaches, Wait, rephrase that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:30 PM
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Why is it wrong to hate women exactly? It makes perfect since they shit on my timid weak voiced brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:27 PM
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Yeah, I'm not getting married... lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:24 PM
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I guess it doesn't have to be high n counts and could be high sex counts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:19 PM
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Yeah a good 10% is already implying that there's probably way more than just 1 guy in that 10%. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:15 PM
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I don't think that has to necessarily be the case. It'd just be that everybody would be open to fucking everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:58 PM
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Besides, it's a kid. A baby. Surely anyone with a wider emotional range than a plate could care for a kid, whether it's yours or not. If you claimed to be committed to me, and you have a baby that I was not the father of, you and your adultery baby would be whacked. I'd do the time for it too if I ever got caught. I don't care. That's a line you don't cross. You brought the baby into this. You're the one at fault. Of course, there is a second option. That second option would be that I would find…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:52 PM
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Even supporting the woman through pregnancy is so reprehensible that it has driven men to murder their spouse once the baby was born. I'd not even wait to that moment. I'd whack her and her degenerate spawn before it curses the world with more degeneracy. That's just what would happen to any woman who claims they're committed to me have a child that's not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:48 PM
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I don’t think any woman who just gave birth wants to be accused of cheating. And guys understand that getting a DNA test, they might as well accuse their girlfriend/wife of cheating, which guys don’t want to do. Well what's the problem with this? I've almost gotten to the point where I've accepted that women are sluts and I just gotta make sure the child is mine. She's probably going to fuck around and screw me over, but as long as the kids are mine, my genetic legacy is taken care of. I'm just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:43 PM
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Hasn't worked for me as far as women go.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:33 PM
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If you start doing something and you hit a brick wall on every turn, you're doing something wrong - the approach must change. How do you figure out what to do differently? I can't for the fucking life of me get a woman I find attractive.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:31 PM
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I'd like to retire very early so I can have financial independence. Except, idk if I'll ever figure out this woman thing.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:31 PM
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Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) These are the difficult ones for me. I'm having trouble not converting over to the black pill with all the times I'm getting rejected.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:26 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:24 PM
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Just have fun, and limit your investment. Girls can sense desperation. I have trouble with being able to approach, while not caring about the outcome at the same time. If I really didn't care about the outcome I'd be a content forever aloner. lol
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:23 PM
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Yeah and she's got this short hair thing going that isn't something I normally like, but I like her face a lot.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:20 PM
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So I've cold approached at least 50 times without a plan, and all it's done is made me extremely frustrated with the whole process. I generally get ghosted after I get a girl's number.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:17 PM
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The guy I fuck is the one who I can discuss sex with in a normal conversation. It's not less "respectful" for him to bring it up, but if he doesn't I'll just take the initiative. One of us can just be like "So, what're you into?" And we're instantly having a sexual conversation without anyone being harassed. I feel like I'm too ugly for this to happen this way in any normal conversation. Can you rate me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:14 PM
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So yeah I'd refute the idea that ghosting is awkward since it's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:10 PM
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That's what I'm saying though. There's mainly just trying to maintain an even keel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:06 PM
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Got rid of my acne. This is not a simple bullet point for me. I always seem to have some blemish or another. Maybe this is the whole reason I can't get an attractive woman. I'm 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:05 PM
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Say some guy wants to have sex with a woman... What's the process that guy generally goes through to get her into bed, and leave her happy that she made that choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:01 PM
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The real awkward thing would be to going up to someone and saying: I'm not going to talk to you anymore. But you can't stand that awkwardness can you delicate little flower?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:46 AM
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What signals high social skills and high emotional intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:44 AM
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Women like men who look closer to apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:43 AM
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Based on looks alone If I had met them in a different scenario and they never harassed me I would probably have been into having sex with them, but based on their behavior then no fucking way. Is this how all sex for women works? Behavior being more of a disqualifier than a qualifier, and looks being the qualifier?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:40 AM
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If he catcalled me I could just flip him off and fuck somebody else. How do you become that guy that you fuck while saying fuck off to the other guys? That's what I don't understand. Like how does a completely respectful guy with no sexual talk get to fucking you? I feel like you choose one cat caller over the other, and then moralize the loser, but I want to understand it more. It's like how you (presumably) like to have sex with attractive women yet there are still plenty of ways that those wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:37 AM
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Hold on my boy jayval, I think if you reached ultimate good boy transcendence, that you would indeed be able to bed her through absolute respect. It's like absolute zero, where no one knows if it's possible to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:32 AM
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Yes he's talking about a hypothetical situation, like the second coming of Jesus for example. We're talking an absolute miracle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:30 AM
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I have a lot of sympathy for unattractive women. If a really hot guy did it, idk how a woman would react It all depends on this though. Being unattractive is such bullshit. I wish everyone was attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:26 AM
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I'm just thinking about it like: "The seven trucels, the video game". Then there's a bunch of wizard stuff and magic going on. lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:21 AM
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That's definitely how I was as a guy. It seems like women go for quantity too until they want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:16 AM
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I kinda understand the argument though that water isn't wet because water is what makes things wet. Water is wet to the touch, but maybe not itself wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:15 AM
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A mate of mine receives unsolicited nudes and he sure as heck doesn't appreciate it. He must be a 10/10 male because those guys have a lot in common with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:04 AM
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(which is why women are discreet with their casual sex, especially if they - often correctly - assume people would disapprove) This is why I can't bring myself to have feelings for women ever again. I just can't know if they're a slut or not. One of the main tenets for me actually liking a woman is her not fucking these degenerate assholes that I know they're all fucking or want to fuck. It's just a fucked up world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:03 AM
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kissing, cuddles, feels, I don't see how these are unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:55 AM
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I don't think the same men are casually saying the n word on forums as the ones who say that they're censored. It's obvious why people don't like the "haha kill the jews" talk, but still, if they're just being satirical, they're just supporting free speech usually in a funny way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:59 PM
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They're basically the same group, except one feels they are superior to women, and the other feels they are inferior to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:57 PM
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Are you sure about that? Would it really work to be like: Me: Hey Her: Oh hai Me: Wanna fuck? Her: Yes. In my experience, this approach has only worked for fatties. Perhaps I need to do more "research". lol
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:46 PM
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Hehe no I didn't tell them I was a virgin. I did tell the second one that it was my second time ever having sex. Still smashed. I didn't have sex with them all at the same time if that's what you mean. lol So my back is probably the best most ripped thing I have, so that was my whole tinder profile; my back with the back of my head. It's been a while, but I'm pretty sure most of my conversations once I matched with the fatties were like: Me: Hey Her: Hey Me: Wanna smash? Her: Oh, you're very str…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:35 PM
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Hypergamy is really the most cringy term to me because people use it all the time to sound smart. Making the other terms sound intelligent would make them cringy like the word hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:44 PM
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That's probably why being smart is a bad thing. I stopped believing in my own bs as soon as I was heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:41 PM
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I think incels should keep approaching though still.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:01 PM
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aesthetics Actually yeah you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:37 PM
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That's what I was thinking shit tests were. How do you play the cold aloof bitch that has to be won over as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:30 PM
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If they go the way OP seems to be suggesting, it would be even more cryptic and cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:27 PM
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Spinning plates isn't a common expression or anything. It's just literally analogous to an actually plate spinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:26 PM
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I've experienced being taken at face value while joking. It's just like, cmon, work with me here. I don't really know where I stand SMV-wise. It just makes things really awkward when you keep telling jokes, but she keeps taking you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:53 PM
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Being gay is easy mode for guys. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:08 PM
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My friends were all nerdy. I didn't actually get married. I just wanted to be with my first girlfriend forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:07 PM
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Yeah I guess they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:32 PM
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I mean, that's when not being ugly really starts to count for anything. Being ugly in middle school isn't too big of a deal. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:01 PM
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I'm not talking about nihilism either. People try to say all these things bring you happiness, but really anybody can be content right where they're at. Happiness isn't sustainable. Every high has a low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:57 PM
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Because there's an endless amount of money you can have. There's not an endless amount of looks you can have. You definitely shouldn't take loans that put you into debt first of all. If you really think that you can't get rich, then just make us much as you can and pass it on to your son, and have him do the same thing. Eventually your family will be rich. That's how I imagine a lot of these families become rich. It's about generations of people working and passing down wealth for the benefit of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:55 PM
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Possibly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:48 PM
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Yeah it's like: don't do it for women to attract women. Wait wtf? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:45 PM
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This is the vibe I get from my approaches. I've learned that unless they're having sex with me, which has never happened for me from a cold approach, you can't assume much from their reaction to you. You can get their number and everything, thinking you're the man, but then they can just not respond when you text.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 01:55 PM
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Lmao can't I just lie about being 6ft? And I don't think money is actually attractive in the sense that I don't think it makes women wet. It's just something they want to take advantage of you for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:58 PM
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I'm 5'11" so ehhhhhhhh... close enough? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:37 PM
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And you’ll start to find a lot more women “hot.” That's the thing though, I definitely understand this experience, because I've had it, but the last time I had that I got myself fucked up and heartbroken. I think I've mentally blocked myself off from that. That's why I think my looks standards have gone up, because I'm lacking these feelings that I used to have. I'm pretty sure I can still access them if I was around a girl for long enough though. I'll try just hanging out with some women and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:52 AM
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I don't really have female friends that I see all the time. This one girl I talked to actually used the word "pulling" and I was really surprised. I don't know if I'm not hot. I don't think I'm immature, because I definitely grew into this perspective through being heartbroken. I definitely don't think I should have to get with out of shape women, because I'm far from out of shape, not to be mean or anything. I'm fairly emotionally sophisticated in other areas, but yeah sexually I'm probably sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:45 AM
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I've just come to value casual sex I think because the way TRP frames it as "she gives it up to Chad for free while you pay for it in an LTR". Before I was really LTR oriented. I'm definitely taking some of TRP ideas with me. I want to stay protected. I don't really use much of the method consciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:26 AM
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I was at one point, a chill dude to such an extent that people thought I smoked weed, but I didn't. Maybe I should start getting into that spiritual crap again. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:24 AM
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But don’t sabotage your confidence by going for girls you think are more attractive for you. Start with the girls who are your equal in looks. It's kind of a hard thing for me to figure out because for me it's more of a binary of she's hot or not. I've been through some girls that are not. hehe There's something about your post that really hits me. A lot of times I feel like women aren't on my side, but your little "A man that understands women...,,is deadly;)" makes me feel like you actually wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:21 AM
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I mean that in a semi-optimistic way. I'm all about that zen mindset ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:12 AM
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Hmm, I don't think I have those problems anymore, but I definitely would have had I not been rejected by someone I cared about very much, which I hate to admit that it actually helped me. I just hate when people say "this person screwed me over and it made me stronger" it's like, no... you got screwed over and they're probably still laughing at you to this day. I definitely think I could get a boner for a hot girl "being giving sexually" and stroking my ego. I've had no problem being hard for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:07 AM
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I'm not an incel or anything. The only girls I've been with are fat ones that I don't find attractive though. So you don't think that a man's hotness is mainly his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:56 AM
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Do you think a man's hotness is mostly his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:52 AM
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Yeah, we get it. That other girl is not anywhere near as smart, giving, interesting, fun, funny, kind or loving as you. But she's hot, so. That's how the world works, sorry about it. That's how the world works for girl on guy attraction too though. Is it not? The high quality men who you're talking about are hot right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:47 AM
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You'd really probably be completely oblivious to it though if you were super hot physically. Just like men would be oblivious to TRP if they were super hot physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:42 AM
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Yes that is some very advanced Chad dark magic. If you lose your virginity at 12-14 it almost always means you're Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:39 AM
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If you lose your virginity between 12 and 14 you're literally gigachad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:38 AM
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I'd like to have gotten my first gf forever, but of course she had to ghost me and break my heart and make me find TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:37 AM
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Ahh, I had a hooker at 19 to lose my virginity, then I had sex with some fat girls. Now my n-count is 5. I haven't had sex in a long time though. I'm 21 now. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:35 AM
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He would complain that girls wanted to fuck him but not date him. Every time I hear a guy say this I want to beat the fuck out of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:33 AM
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This stuff is kind of obvious, but the question is if it's possible to become the high SMV guy if you're not. Also, I'd argue if he's fucking you on the first date, there's not much difference between what TRP means by "making her a plate first" and what you said. I really wish I was part of this world you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:32 AM
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There's definitely something to personality, because the person who broke my heart and made me hate women was a short little chubby woman who did her makeup good and was mysterious, at least to me. She was probably fucking guys while I was enamored with her like she was an LTR girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:28 AM
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I feel like a lot of guys get eliminated based on this hunch, and them being rejected only makes them go insane which makes it more of a self fulfilling prophecy than an intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:23 AM
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There is no path to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:18 AM
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You can only spin plates and rehearse old recycled pickup lines for so long until your life becomes a pathetic reflexion of your empty soul. That only happens if you're unsuccessful with women while doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:17 AM
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I'm telling you right now, sacrificing your integrity or not, is not the difference between getting laid and not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:15 AM
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I'm just assuming this guy doesn't have any bad intentions, but he's just ugly. Are you being sarcastic in your first sentence? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:14 AM
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Status maybe. Charisma alone? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:23 AM
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I don't think it's that noticeable though. Like I don't think this situation happens where one guy's in and another guy's out happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:20 AM
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I've got all the bitterness and understanding of the red pill, but none of the results. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:16 AM
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Except, sometimes it's just a more positive version of inceldom. I say this is the case for some of the members. It's the "What? I'm fired? No! I quit!" version of incel philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:15 AM
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Ok if you had MGTOW in mind when you wrote this I agree with you. Those guys act like they could get women, but they're not trying because they're tired of the bullshit, but really they're just coping with not being able to get them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:13 AM
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MGTOW, besides the people who got divorce raped, are mostly made up of men who were sent their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:12 AM
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How come my own attitude doesn't inhibit me in the job market, or in school, or at playing guitar and being really good at it, or having the discipline to lift weights, or all this other shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:11 AM
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Are you sure they don't just hate you afterward when you prove them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:10 AM
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Yes these ugly ahem ahem misogynistic men who make me laugh at their ugliness and that they thought they had a chance with me ahem ahem I mean, their misogyny I can just feel. You: Looks at "misogynist" with seething rage. Unattractive man: confused look with polite smile You: Wow what a pussy ahem ahem misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:07 AM
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I think poor people could grind more to at least become middle class. That's something I see as much more controllable than your attractiveness to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:04 AM
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To me it's not that hard to believe that 30% of men are butt ugly to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:02 AM
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I'm not obese, but I don't think I've had sex in the last year. I'm 5'11, 150 lbs. I should probably get heavier even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:01 AM
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I think the problem is that average women become hot just by putting makeup on, so then you have less average women to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:00 AM
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I disagree with the OP, but I also disagree with you. If you think you'd be Chad if you just sacrificed your integrity then fucking show us then you cocky cunt. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:58 AM
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What are some of the other factors besides being good looking? Confidence is too vague of a word for me to understand so don't say confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:57 AM
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Good looking and buff tbh. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:56 AM
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Yeah I have 100% confidence in my ability in every other arena of life and that if I put the effort in, I'll get something out of it and be better. I can't for the life of me figure out the right effort to put in to seduce women consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:55 AM
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It is difficult though. Even assuming that character is the only flaw of these dudes, that doesn't mean that figuring out the enigma of what the fuck character to be is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:53 AM
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Shiiiet. How come it doesn't work this way? lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:51 AM
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have made it as difficult as possible for me just because of my race, you have to be amazing to get their attention and even more amazing to get them into bed. How do you know it's because of your race? I just say this as a white guy who struggles in the US. I understand all the other stuff could be an issue like bone structure and height and receding hairlines, but I think race isn't an issue if you've got those other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:50 AM
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I don't have a wild passion for guitar, but I've played for 12 years. I'm pretty good at it and I can judge other guitar players. I never did it for women because I've been playing since I was 9 or so. It didn't help me. I've also been lifting weights for myself, hasn't helped me either. I've been trying to find this zen state of "don't do things for women and they'll come to you". I don't think it exists and other factors are likely at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:47 AM
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Every peer reviewed source you can find on this stuff is probably some guy with an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:44 AM
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Men being shallow is taught to people from day one though. To figure out women are shallow you have to do a little digging because most people think they're these perfect angels that can do no wrong and that all their mating choices reflect the merit of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:41 AM
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Yeah a lot of times, more effort makes you worse off in the dating realm. Too much effort makes you look desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:40 AM
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Fuck that. Jesus I hate women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:37 AM
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Are you really certain that the guys you are attracted to aren't just attractive because they're good looking? I'm just so tired of having hope that things can be better for me from people who say I can somehow transcend my looks or make myself look like a 10 through grooming or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:33 AM
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What made you realize that you were underestimating your own physical attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:29 AM
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Can I see a visual representation of what constitutes a Stacy vs a Becky?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:24 AM
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It depends on what you mean by confidence. Do you mean the balls to approach? Do you mean charisma? Do you mean just feeling good? Confidence has always been such a vague word to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 04:57 PM
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I was actually very happy go lucky about getting married before I got my heart broken. Only after that did I start to relate to some of this marriage-avoidance philosophy and fuck bitches get money sort of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:17 AM
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Yeah that's one thing that's bad about the incels on the forums. Like, I've never had sex with a woman I found attractive(I had sex with some fat chicks), but god damn it, if I'm not going to keep running into that brick wall expecting something different to happen I may as well kill myself. I'm still fairly pessimistic about my odds of landing a hot chick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:15 AM
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Hmmm..... I can't tell what side you're on from this post. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:12 AM
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Do you deny the fact that some men can't get laid, whether they "stir hate" as you put it, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:11 AM
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About the only way it's analogous is that it's an unpleasant experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:57 PM
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If he takes it, he's dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:34 PM
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Well yeah, you're not just going to walk into a neighborhood with a bunch of gang members in it. That's another thing. I don't think the places I go have dangerous people roaming around, and the rare one that is, I feel I can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:20 PM
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Ok fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:19 PM
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I did do some playfighting with my cousins way back in the day. I still feel like a lot of men have a confidence about violent physical situations, even if they've never fought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:16 PM
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Sense of humor is a tangible thing that I understand, but charisma and presence are definitely not. I remember I had a lot of "present to the moment" vibes in high school, but I think I've just lost faith in a lot of that stuff and now I don't have access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:13 PM
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It still makes a person enemies of me if they don't want to fuck me, unless if it's because they have a significant other. If it's not about ugly then what is it about? If I just accept what that girl feels, I've gotta internalize that disgust toward myself, and it makes more sense to me to hate the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:11 PM
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I would still do all the dirty tricks in the book to stop him from taking my ass like kicking him in the balls and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:04 PM
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And also ask them to imagine getting that attention every day from age 14, It just honestly doesn't compute, because I haven't got much of anything since the age of 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:06 AM
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It's not a common experience that people have though. Anything short of a gay dude attempting to rape me I would find flattering. If he is trying to rape me, I would do my best to beat his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:04 AM
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I'm never going to accept the possibility that I'm going to die in that case. I'll either be dead and not think about it, or still be fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:02 AM
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How are you supposed to take "you're not a sexually attractive being" as a guy? It's the biggest insult to a guy's ego he can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:00 AM
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That's worked for me one time when a girl sent me dirty pictures after I came and she said some real kinky shit that was flattering to me. It doesn't really work with porn for me most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:55 AM
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Best i can do for MOST men is really hardcore porn AFTER you just came. Like something really primal and nasty and borderline anatomical. That's definitely a nasty feeling, but I feel like you're insulting my fellow man referring to them like this. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:51 AM
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See? It is a good analogy. Gets you worked up. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:50 AM
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It makes sense to me too, but the thing is, I trust another human more than I trust an animal because, if they speak English, I can communicate with them. An animal might just maul threw me without care, but most humans aren't going to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:48 AM
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Yeah I think it's a different feeling than feeling threatened like women describe it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:46 AM
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The animal analogy is better. I trust any heavyweight MMA fighter not to kick my ass, more than I trust an animal to not kill me. Since they're human, it's easier to communicate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:44 AM
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That is a good similar experience because I can understand having a friendly bond with an animal who could kill you easily, but doesn't. You're going to have a bit of fear towards the animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:43 AM
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Yeah I'm more afraid of knives than guns. I don't like the idea of getting cut like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:39 AM
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Should I be terrified of every date with a woman because she might have a pocket knife? Yeah, I don't think most men attempt to have "potential" danger on their radar. They just know they'll react to actual danger to the best of their ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:36 AM
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It's still a completely different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:32 AM
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The only thing that I think is almost similar is an aggressive gay man trying to rape us. If that happened though, I wouldn't feel disgusted, I'd do my best to beat him within an inch of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:30 AM
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I think that sort of feeling is really difficult to get across to men, because a lot of us like to feel that we can hold our own in situations where we're being attacked. We hardly ever feel the potential to be harmed before we're actually being harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:25 AM
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That means she's now subconsciously or otherwise thinking about this man she's already not attracted to breathing on top of her, sweating on top of her, his skin on her and his penis inserting her ---- she's then grossed out, disgusted, creeped out, ewww. Let's say I'm an unattractive man, which life experience has me thinking that yes, I am. How am I supposed to be sympathetic for this? You're basically insulting me in your mind the worst possible way that any man can be insulted. All I can pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:21 AM
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Yeah but are you a guy who'd let your gf fuck other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 05:17 AM
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It's more like I need some kind of jump start to get up there, but once I'm there I try to change gears.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:39 AM
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Don't get that either. But I understand the desire to fuck another guy's wife though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:37 AM
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It's not about it being okay or not, just a lot of things girls like are an enigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:56 PM
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I think it's never clear to men what parts of their body are attractive because women don't talk about it as much in an open setting as men talk about boobs and ass. It's not even really clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:34 PM
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Idk this kind of stuff makes me want to steer clear of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:32 PM
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I think all men kind of have that itch. Like I would always fantasize that there was a school shooter, but I beat his ass and saved everyone or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:30 PM
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I wouldn't jerk off to the hot girl BECAUSE she beat up my girlfriend though. In reality I probably wouldn't think about her too much beyond wanting to get retaliation somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:22 PM
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I really don't understand why people want to be cucks. I totally understand why you'd want to cuck somebody else though and feel like the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:20 PM
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Pssssssshhhhhhhh... Idc if I got smacked across the face every single day. I'm taking that hit so I can get that "wow he's so tall" pussy. I'm 5'11" so I don't think I quite hit that mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:18 PM
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I feel like we somehow came together from a bunch of dirt and pieces from different things. It's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:04 AM
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It's just being a glorified vending machine. This realization was Epstein's eureka moment. lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:02 AM
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I'd like to have such a knowledge of the world that I could know what everyone will do in the future, and what to do within myself to impact their decision. It'd be pretty cool to be perfect at that. Idk if astrology is real or any of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:59 AM
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I've been into spiritual mumbojumbo before. I feel I completed my spiritual mumbojumbo journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:56 AM
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Have you seriously been able to astral project? I've tried in high school but never got it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:54 AM
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But that wouldn't be the same for lanky 5'7" dude with an average to meh face. I've played guitar for 12 years, I'm 5'11", maybe ugly face, good body, and it hasn't gotten me anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:34 PM
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Well, assuming men are generally sadistic, that implies that it's a distinguishing characteristic from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:32 PM
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I think it helps that women can get laid easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:31 PM
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Women's sexual attraction mechanism is pretty much the same across all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:30 PM
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My Dad's around that same age and he says the same thing. I think OP still applies to men up to a certain age though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:02 PM
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I can't even picture what it'd be like to be hit on all the time. I'm pretty sure I have some gay friends, and I like their company just the same as every other friend. They don't flirt with me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:55 PM
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Yeah, fat was never my problem, but I can't get a physically attractive woman to save my life despite being in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:51 PM
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Except I'm not saying they're a rapist, because rapists are definitely more rare than conniving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:49 PM
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You're telling me women don't feel sadistic toward people they don't like though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:48 PM
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Who pays for nudes? That's pathetic lowest of the low shit. I don't care how much fucking money you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:46 PM
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But even the staunchest believers in TRP understand that not every woman is like this. The thing is, you see a woman you think is not like this, and she breaks your heart. You can't just look at someone and tell their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:14 AM
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I think I only feel I have a capacity for that stuff as a result of my life experiences. Yeah, I think a lot of men if they could run Epstein city without getting caught would be tempted. I have this weird perspective, after experiencing hunting, where I feel that human life and animal life is basically the same. You can either go one of two ways, and be merciful of animals or you can acknowledge that it's just the way things go, and taking a human's life would be the same in a weird way. To me …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:06 AM
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I don't think sadism can be used to protect. Violence definitely can though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:55 AM
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I'm a guy and I think her assessment is fair. I don't really see myself as a sexual sadist though. I'm a sadist against people I don't like of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:54 AM
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Accurate. I wasn't as much like this before I got my heart broken though. I totally wanted to be monogamous with the first girl I managed to make my girlfriend and just have that last until the end. It's the girls who say no to that when you're young and I don't understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:52 AM
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In no world, is a man who pays a woman for nudes superior than another man who doesn't just because he's "not broke".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:47 AM
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Actually it is. Complete dumbasses get women all the time somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:11 AM
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Or sour grapes guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:56 AM
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Taking care of yourself won't get you from fat chicks to banging tens. It just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:56 AM
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I feel like I gotta be in the Mafia to get an attractive woman or some shit. How am I supposed to carry myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:54 AM
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Are you sure he doesn't have a pretty good looking face?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:52 AM
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We would have to have kids. I'd probably give my life to post-wall woman who I had kids with though. It's just what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:46 AM
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Idk how you can still crave such a thing after 40+ years of life. My first girlfriend beat that need right out of me and knocked me the fuck out in heartbreaking fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:43 AM
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There's so many things wrong with the first sentence. It's like when a voluntary cuckold thinks that he's superior because his woman stays with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:39 AM
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I don't think that's something that makes you undateable, but it manifests as a result of something else making you undateable. I agree that those guys are idiots. I want a bunch of girls to just live with me in a house while I manage their dirty patreon profiles. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:36 AM
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It's true though. I mean, all these guys could smash fat chicks yeah, but you gotta be insanely attractive to get someone it doesn't hurt to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:34 AM
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Women like criminals too, so that probably amplified their attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:31 AM
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Basically anything you need beyond being handsome is stuff an elementary school student could accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:30 AM
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Dude, if you can get physically attractive women, you're physically attractive; plain and simple. I can get with a fat chick by straight up asking, but nothing I do can get me with a chick I actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:29 AM
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Being good looking makes you interesting to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:28 AM
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Yeah it's like selling ice to an Eskimo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:26 AM
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hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:46 PM
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Not leave his kids behind, just not go after any more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:46 PM
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I'd think if I was at that point, where I'd already had kids, I'd probably be willing to MGTOW at that point since I passed on my DNA. Can't that guy just move or go somewhere where he doesn't have a reputation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:26 PM
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I wasn't given a chance to sadly. I just thought about what it'd be like if people staked their gfs on RuneScape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:23 PM
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Well the nurse is the one being depended on in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:21 PM
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I had an issue like that once, but it was more because I just masturbated before than because of her unattractiveness. I'm sure there are women where I could probably still get hard after that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:19 PM
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Well TRPers will add that Chad has the perfect amount of TRP traits as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:15 PM
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It seems like I could just lie though at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:12 PM
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Any man with complaints about that situation is a pussy and an idiot. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:11 PM
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That attractive women have bad personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:09 PM
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I agree with ya that the red hair is definitely hotter in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:52 AM
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It's just that a lot of the social justice stuff on the left, falls firmly against a lot of ideas of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:50 AM
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Yeah but I was blue pilled because I didn't have any sort of message about women to go off of. I hung out with nerds in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:49 AM
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I feel like by the nature of being fucked rather than doing the fucking, you are on the receiving end of a charge. You're taking something inside of you, and he's shoving it inside you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:47 AM
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Does this mean when I'm approaching a woman I should just grab her and take her back to my apartment and fuck her without saying a word? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:46 AM
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People with normal sex lives with people they find attractive make me feel bad. Why can't I just be normal? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:45 AM
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I'm not in the privileged position of being able to judge attractive women by their personality without feeling like a coping idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:41 AM
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I'm an only child so that could probably inhibit me in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:40 AM
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I don't think men are more selective about who they fall in love with, but men are more likely to fall in love with somebody who friendzones them, but the person who friendzones them usually doesn't like them back. Part of it is the assumption that she's friendzoning everybody and therefore not a slut I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:37 AM
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As a man I'm very emotional in that way then. I think every woman just has this devil that inhabits them that comes out whenever I'm sexually attracted to them, and keeps me from having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:36 AM
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If you started in high school that's still pretty young to me. I lost my virginity at 19. I'm 21 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:34 AM
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Abundance of casual sex does mean abundance of LTR material though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:34 AM
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It's a subject that isn't really typically in my sights as an aspect to consider, so it doesn't really compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:33 AM
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So you're saying blonde, physically attractive women aren't your type, but they're attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:30 AM
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Yeah. I was really scared of approaching anybody at one time. What I had to do was imagine I was dead, and that none of the decisions I made were a big deal anymore. Somehow that helped. Also jumping in a cold shower kind of conditions you to jump into something and just say: "fuck it".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:27 AM
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Except some people aren't Chad for anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:25 AM
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Bullshit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:24 AM
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Sadly I've got shit flavor pheromones. Not literally, but mine must be shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:24 AM
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it's worth it to be attractive to as many women as possible so you get laid more often or have a better chance of finding plates. How do you make effort towards becoming this kind of attractive? Are roids involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:22 AM
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Except that a lot of men don't appeal to any woman that they find attractive which is the real kicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:22 AM
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Also why do you think attractive women have the worst personalities? That's so bs. I hate to say it because of the incel stigma, but that's a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:19 AM
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Except is it really that subjective? If you're Jock Chad, if you get an emo makeover you're still going to be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:17 AM
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I'd say it's more like he alludes most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:16 AM
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That's because women party with Chads no matter what field they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:15 AM
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Did you ever have to try to get them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:13 AM
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Pepe is real though. Meme magic is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:12 AM
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Yeah, but there's Chad, Tyrone, Pajeet, and other names for the different races of Chads. Chad is the general term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:10 AM
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The fact that he's capable of serial cheating makes him a Chad. Cheating means you can just casually slip into sex, which a lot of guys can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:07 AM
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Chad is just a guy that women almost universally agree is good looking. Don't tell me there aren't men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:06 AM
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I'd say broad shouldered too. A Chad without muscles isn't much of a Chad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:04 AM
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Girls at the top don't intimidate me any more than approaching any other girl. I'd rather be seen with a top tier girl as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:02 AM
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Bs. If you're fucking attractive women, you can probably fuck attractive women of any type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:01 AM
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Son of an engineer here to joke on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:00 AM
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Idc how boring she is. I want to fuck that fat attractive ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:58 AM
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I mean, you can get a boner for anything with a pussy if you have her suck your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:57 AM
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Usually you can tell if the guy looks like a complete asshole that he's probably Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:55 AM
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Reminds me of this. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:53 AM
1

I tried to say something like that once to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:52 AM
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You need to be obese woman pilled. Fucking 300+lb women is easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:51 AM
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I feel like you changed what you said earlier. All you were saying before is that lack of height means you're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:50 AM
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How do you decide when you'll never be enough though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:47 AM
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Based and teensexpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:47 AM
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I can vouch for this as someone who has been Chad for unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:44 AM
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You should of said "oh no." would have been funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:43 AM
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How long do you have to wear those to damage your foot joints though for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:42 AM
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Tfw 5'11". lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:41 AM
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Tfw your 5'11" and not short enough to be a heightcel, but not tall enough to be height Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:40 AM
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Yeah at 5'11", I'm at least glad to not have this problem. At the same time, I feel like I don't get some of the benefits of height that 6'2"-6'5" guys get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:38 AM
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Yes OP, like I'm Chad to fat ugly chicks for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:36 AM
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Activate the autism once more! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:34 AM
1

This is a good comment, but I'd argue that women become practical before they hit 20. Like if you don't get into relationships from the ground floor with women at 12 years old or some shit(when you're 12 as well), you're going to have trouble understanding them. For that reason I think men are more emotional until they have that heartbreak experience. Men can be idealistic for longer because Chad keeps taking their crush, and they just long for the day when she'll leave him and come to him. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:15 PM
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To me, if someone doesn't like you, and wants to have sex with you, you have to be so ridiculously good looking that it's beyond my experiential understanding. I've had casual sex with fat women. If a woman likes me for sex, that's pretty much all that matters anyway. Women having this: "He morally repulses me, but I'll just have sex with him instead of a relationship." is what's disgusting to me. Usually when I'm considered morally repulsive to a woman, they don't want to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:28 PM
4

Heard there was a camera malfunction, then two guards were told to leave so these people could perform "maintenance" on the cameras.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:53 AM
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Not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:52 AM
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I've never seen it manifest for me in women so I've come to not expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 11:18 PM
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I'd be into it if I could conceive of it being possible for me. When people don't like me, usually it means they don't want to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:42 PM
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I don't even know how to get sex with someone who doesn't like me. Does that mean I'm not good looking enough for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:28 PM
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I'd just rather have sexy emotions attached to me than lovey dovey ones. Preferably I'd like both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:26 PM
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Why are you assuming that women are in love with the player guy in your example? They can be attracted to him but not attached to him emotionally This is a disgusting trait that I don't like about women. They can honestly believe that they're more emotionally attached to the person they didn't have as much sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:21 PM
0

Fat mainly. That's the thing that's so frustrating. Idk if it's one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:16 PM
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> Do you put any effort into the sex in those scenarios, or is it basically like "masturbating" with someone else's body? That's basically how it's been. I've only been with unattractive people. Sucks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:34 AM
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I'm going home... *leaves home*
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:32 AM
1

Are you sure it's not just an issue of being ugly? If there is really some sort of social magic that you're supposed to pull out of your ass to get laid, then I imagine it could be taught by those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:53 PM
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I have abs though. I weigh 150lbs, bench 200, deadlift 315, and I can do a few pullups with 45 lbs strapped to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:22 AM
1

If you're still in contact with her I'd keep going for it, unless if the Bay Area's really important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:03 AM
1

I just mean we used the same expression. Maybe it got in your head :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:01 AM
1

Oh I get you now. I could see you maybe having trouble LTRing women of different races.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:54 AM
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I can't comprehend why a guy would ever have a problem with being fuckable but not dateable, or how that even happens. It's like, "Sorry I can't give you terminal cancer, but I can give you some candy if you want?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:49 AM
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Trust me, you do not want your life to be any other way. Being hot is the peak experience in life besides just being the best at something. If you're fuckable, being dateable should be easy for you. Just focus on getting a stable gig you can make money from and get a place you can afford and fuck girls the rest of your life. If one wants to stick around they'll come to you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:47 AM
1

You too. How much you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:42 AM
1

Yeah they're really close-minded and closed off to people outside their community. What do you think about the idea that looks matter as much to women as it does to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:40 AM
1

Fair. Why do you think the black pill people are funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:34 AM
1

My back is like the most ripped part of me. I can do a lot of reps of pull ups and strap a 45 to me and do a few. I will admit that shoulder press is my least favorite thing to do. Bench still gets part of my shoulders. I do these shoulder raise things with lighter weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:30 AM
0

Hehe did you read my comment where I said gee as well? I'm 21 so we're kinda close to the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:27 AM
1

Red pill content is only really relevant to that age group though...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:25 AM
1

The real alphas are just good looking guys tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:20 AM
1

Do you still do like heavy dips or something? I thought you were saying that upper body strength is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:20 AM
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Is a 200lb bench enough to trigger this attraction? It hasn't helped me one bit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:14 AM
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Be not too fat(a little chub is okay), do her makeup well, have a feminine mystique, wear clothing that hides your fatness well. Basically be my ex girlfriend. I don't see how I'm that fat chick if I'm in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:13 AM
1

It's true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:09 AM
1

I still think the Chadliest Chads have a good looking face and they can just be skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:48 AM
1

I can go on tinder right now and fuck a fat chick if I want practice. I've done it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:35 AM
1

Yeah. I've got that a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:33 AM
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She already has a child. There it is. hehe Fine. How about his half-brother? Mary-Kate couldn't find a single better-looking man? Idk man. I'm just fucked for some reason and don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:23 AM
1

It's hard for me to discern what a good looking man looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:21 AM
0

After I get their numbers I usually ask if they can hang out with the intention of having sex with them, then they ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:11 AM
1

She's with him for something outside of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:10 AM
1

Your problem is non-comprehensible to me. It's like if you say you were given a million dollars of drug money. It's like yeah, it's dirty money, but it's a million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:09 AM
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I've approached a least 50 women doing this kind of thing and just trying to have a conversation with them. Nothing. I haven't given up though. I'm just pissed off and I'm losing faith in my ability to actually do this thing. It seems like everything else if I just put the effort in I can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:07 AM
1

Ok but what if seduction isn't real and that your pussy in lap getting days are over?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:01 AM
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I've approached like 50-100 women. Idk how many I'm expected to approach before I decide to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:00 AM
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I haven't done 1000 approaches, but from my first ones, I have a pretty good idea of how the next 100 will go. Absolutely nothing. I'll even log it if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:59 AM
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Nah. Looking like this is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:56 AM
0

I'll still try that next year when I go off to college. I've already approached a bunch with the intention of trying to have sex with those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:52 AM
1

This isn't The Secret though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:45 AM
2

I just feel like I'll run into the same walls, female friends or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:42 AM
1

expects me to sleep with her Gee what a horrible state of affairs. lol no offense dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:42 AM
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I've gone into it with all kinds of attitudes. I've tried to find that magic vibe. Nothing works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:37 AM
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he will ignore minor signs of disinterest and will sometimes even imagine interest that's not even there. and he'll get friendzoned and cucked by the girl. because he will just see it as her loss I can only jokingly say that it's her loss. I can't honestly believe that they can't find a better guy or anything they want out of relationships when they're hot as shit. even a relatively ugly, low SMV guy can be fairly successful with this attitude, which will further increase his optimism and succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:36 AM
1

Then idk if seduction even works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:32 AM
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They act like Chad has gotten to his position by merit though is what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:32 AM
1

Well it's kinda like if there's a 1/1000 drop rate, it's not necessarily that you've gotta kill the thing 1000 times to get something. Maybe you get it on your 100th try, but oftentimes there's not an end in sight. I'm pretty strong for 150lbs. I guess I could be heavier, but I'm not fat or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:29 AM
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Idk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:28 AM
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I mean, I can meet women I find attractive and I'm sure I could probably befriend them, but I think I just end up being impatient or too patient when it comes to when to bring in sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:27 AM
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I feel like everyone's got a natural seduction instinct in them but it's looks that seals the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:23 AM
1

When people talk about effort though, they say that non-Chads can somehow get to the level of Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:30 AM
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Yeah but it's probably like a 1/1,000 drop rate if we're talking video game terms for an average looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:28 AM
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I don't have a gf but yeah, I was never taught this subtle, whatever the fuck it is. Idk what it means to be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:19 AM
1

What's that effort? Just talking dirty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:05 AM
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It does but that doesn't mean as soon as you put in effort, bam! you get laid. If you're incel tier, you're not going to be capable of seducing anyone and there's no way to practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:04 AM
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Some guys literally can't do that. I know for me it's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:01 AM
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What's so different about sex and porn to the extent that it changes someone's understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:56 PM
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I actually think it's easier for a girl to get a girl than it is for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:53 PM
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Just the way you say that, sounds like you're a man. That sounds like the perfect description of a woman from a TRP man if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:52 PM
1

Ima guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:51 PM
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Ik but I feel like I might have a binary thing going where it's like smash or pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:06 PM
5

The (((shitpost filter))) strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:36 PM
2

I have trouble comprehending what a 5/10 is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:28 PM
1

If that happens the human race will finally be free of this fucking hell hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:40 PM
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I've had to resort to fucking fat women that I'm not attracted to so idk what's wrong with me if MOST people have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:39 PM
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I've come to see the will they/won't they vibes as an impenetrable wall that I can't get through so that's not a sexy feeling for me. What do I know though? I've only had sex by straight up asking fat chicks on tinder to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:10 PM
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Is it a terrorist act to say that looks matter over everything else? I don't think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:03 PM
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Ohhhhh natural Chads! Where areeeeeee you? lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:01 PM
0

I would probably just go kill em. Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:00 PM
1

All pills should be debated here imo including the black pill. Why does incel content hurt your feelings so much? Every other site in the world is a blue pill sub, so this should be more on the red side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:58 PM
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You just really encompassed the TRP narrative well. You've read it a lot, which is usually something only a man would feel compelled to do. These high value men get the best of both worlds because they can fuck around for as long as they want, and then when (if) they ever want to settle down they will have their pick of the bunch. Women aren't usually as blunt and outside themselves as this. Women really get the best of both worlds. They can sleep around with attractive men and chase them for as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:53 PM
1

Oh wait thinking about your post a little more I understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:46 PM
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The value of female sexuality doesn't drop. The value of having romantic feelings for a woman does. Horny men will always keep female sexuality powerful, but I think people are recognizing the degeneracy of the female gender in the way they only recognized in men at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:43 PM
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I'd say romantic feelings is more the thing that dropped into the gutter in value from sexual liberation. Horniness will always keep sex valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:41 PM
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Men having sex are winning at life yes. Is that what you're calling into question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:40 PM
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Or nuke the entire planet to cleanse all of the degeneracy and stop this dumb rat race.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:39 PM
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No content should be banned here and people should be allowed to say whatever they want here, because it's a red pill related sub, and red pill things are controversial. If incel content makes you feel bad than you should get out of here. Except the mods actually take these sorts of censoring requests seriously. meh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:37 PM
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You can still be Chad and browse reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:32 PM
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Idk who dafuq is the audience for that and how it sustains itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:29 PM
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No matter how many women flash their pussy, male thirst will forever rule the world. That's like saying: No matter how many people leave catnip out for cats, cats loving catnip will forever rule the world. Literally what?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:25 PM
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What women don't understand is that validation (or most social interactions) hold way less value than with women. Idk man, it's a different kind of value imo. This TRP man is not a woman though in the post above. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:23 PM
2

Schrodinger's Pill Woman Woman This post and phrasing laughs in stock image
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:20 PM
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I wanna ask you more details about it but I understand if you don't want to share. I had a girl just randomly twerk on me and put her ass to my dick through my pants at a party, which is technically sexual assault, but it's not something I come away from feeling I was wronged in any way. Even if it was totally unwanted by me, I can't imagine it leaving a mark on me. I'm being controversial here, but I feel like people touching my private parts is no different than them grabbing my arm or any oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:08 PM
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Wish I was as determined as you from the jump. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:21 AM
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For me it's more that I'm attracted to my looksmatch, but anything beyond that I'm not any more attracted to than the others. Looks are kinda arbitrary after a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:41 AM
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I didn't used to be this way before I got my heart broken by my first gf, but I feel like in those days I was going in tunnel vision. I didn't really think or want to think about the big picture of who my crushes were fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:38 AM
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That's why as a 21 year old I want some kind of non-traditional arrangement with women. Trying to wrap my mind around the situation first, but my romantic feelings are pretty much dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:36 AM
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How does a pussy slayer like yourself end up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:33 AM
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Kinda feels that way sometimes when it makes you cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:32 AM
1

I honestly don't think this "smarter more mature" thing makes it any easier to get somebody. Just because someone's younger doesn't mean they're easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:29 AM
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I'm a 21 year old man and nobody can be predatory to me unless they're physically stronger than me. What do you even mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:26 AM
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16 is the age of consent in Kentucky so come over here. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:24 AM
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There's no accusation of anything, but I'll probably do this for any future relationship that I have. Trust but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:12 AM
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This disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:14 AM
1

How old are ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:11 AM
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It's not a jump on the bandwagon thing. It's just I feel I'd be being taken advantage of if my girlfriend fucked around before getting with me and I didn't. Hard to explain. Like I'd feel like a sucker or a loser if she was the only sex I'd ever had, but she fucked all my friends. That only applies to commitment. I'd gladly fuck a girl all my friends fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:34 PM
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I've thought about this before. I understand what you're saying, because I'd take that same position that a poor dude who gets laid all the time isn't really that bad off. I just feel like it's a quitter mindset to think that one race is superior to yours in something you want to compete in. I may agree with you kind of because my romantic interest in women has turned into a mild disgust for reasons related to that, but there's Chads, Tyrones, Pajeets, and others. Not every single black man is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:39 PM
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Good thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 04:26 PM
1

Grrrr... You feeeeemaales keep getting topics banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:55 AM
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You're so unempathetic of empathy. Empathy has needs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:54 AM
2

Yeah I feel like taking incel content out of the conversation takes a big chunk of the discussion away. A lot of the TRPers start as incels. You should at least be able to have the position that looks matter most without getting banned and have people try to change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:52 AM
1

Not at the moment. You're right, I should probably do that if I want my guitar playing to impact my pussy getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:49 AM
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That's what I'm saying though. Maybe I just need to be around a person for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:33 AM
1

I could need to be a little more patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:09 AM
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This could be a problem I have on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:26 PM
1

True. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:52 PM
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I think we should allow everything here since that's the nature of the stuff we're dealing with. It's controversial. It should have a place to be expressed and debated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:51 AM
1

Is that person with the lazy eye named Bryce Green?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:39 PM
1

This is kinda related, but I feel like when I just got pissed off at a girl their eyes seemed to light up like they actually liked it. Idk if getting angry all the time to turn girls on is healthy though. I think I'm underbearing, and when I get angry it's like I'm projecting myself forward. Idk if that's the right words. This vibe stuff really confuses me. I've been trying to find this perfect vibe for a long time. It'd be nice to have a sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:37 PM
1

I don't really feel like talking to women at all if there is no end goal. If I didn't have the end goal to fuck them then I wouldn't be trying to "naturally express myself" in the first place. I workout, got okay hair, and dress okay. I do want to get good at arm wrestling. I'm pretty good at guitar. What's confidence supposed to feel like? I'm confident that I can play any song that you can think of. Where's my pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:29 PM
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Played guitar for 12 years so I can do that. Can play just about anything. Where's my pussy? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:25 PM
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I think I need to be heavier before that will work. I'm like 150 lbs. I workout, but I don't think cutting is what I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:24 PM
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I would have gladly married my first high school girlfriend, but she was probably fucking around. The only reason I feel compelled to fuck around is that everyone's doing it. If everyone's doing it, I don't want to miss out on the fun, but I also am turned off from romantic feelings by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:22 PM
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I'll tell you that I was never a hypocrite in that regard. The only reason I ever considered fucking around was because women were doing it, and I didn't want to not do it if all the girls were doing it anyway. It still turns me off to lovey dovey feelings. I just don't wanna be that chump that wife's up a girl that other guys thought were just to be used for a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:20 PM
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And then they want help by giving them advice on what they're doing wrong. Then they hope that maybe that advice would lead to them being able to bed you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:12 PM
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As long as you're content. If you want to have sex you should get a prostitute. It's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:10 PM
1

When you say strengths do you mean like, being really good at guitar, looking good, being funny, having a big dick? What kind of strengths do you mean and how would I play to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:50 AM
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I just expect a girl who's not obese and not ugly. I work out, I've never been overweight or anything. I may have been underweight in high school. I've only been able to fuck obese women because I just chuck my standards in the gutter. I don't like the idea of using a strategy for any type of relationship. It works just fine for friends in my experience. Idk if I'm just impatient or if I'm ugly or low status. I can't find the answer so I don't know how to switch things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:47 AM
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Well, I'm not even saying I'm a voluntary celibate, because I do fuck fat girls. I'm saying that no matter how much you get off your ass, you're not going to get 7s. I'm 5'11". I think my problem is being ugly. I can't get whatever pussy I like just because I willpower it into existence. I've been rejected by 100+ girls who I'd rate as 7+. Fat girls on tinder are what I'm able to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:38 AM
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Hence TRP basically saying that. TRP confirmed by GridReXX.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:31 AM
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Hehe, he's probably not getting laid, but taking little successes like a number as getting laid. Like he feels like there's been a bunch of times where "he could have got laid" or "he had it in the bag" but he didn't. I think if you've got muscles, and you're 200+ lbs, that's the ideal for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:31 AM
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I know exactly how much that’s going to hurt them because I feel their pain. Except you don't REALLY feel their pain. They are someone else, "other", "thing"; not something even acknowledged as a person. If you really felt their pain, you'd feel bad enough for them to not do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:29 AM
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not taking responsibility for anything I'm not a complete incel, I can get with fat women, just not the women I want. So you're saying taking responsibility for this nebulous thing that you don't even know what it is makes women's panties wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:26 AM
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They can't though. All I took from TRP is to not get your hopes up too much and all the ways that women can fuck you over. Other than that I don't really think about tactics besides trying to get casual sex over LTRs. I've been rejected every time. No woman I find attractive wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:24 AM
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They can be pretty nice, give you their number, and then ghost you when you try to bring things up beyond being just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:21 AM
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I approached 100+ times and got rejected every time. I've got no problem making friends. If someone said go pick up that woman or you're dead, I would just take the gun and shoot myself because there's no fucking way. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:19 AM
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=want to fuck guys that are not you That's the actual thing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:18 AM
1

How are you supposed to know what's making a woman not sleep with you? Like you're not in some video game where the interface tells you what part of your personality or look or whatever is shitty for getting laid by blinking red until you get a "Mission Failed, We'll get em next time." or "Wasted."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:16 AM
2

Then what the fuck are you supposed to do? Put natural tokens in the box? Or are you supposed to reach some enlightened level of transcendence where you become God and no longer need anything and get all your nutrients through photosynthesis and eating incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:13 AM
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I feel like my natural way of being is to avoid talking to women, yet I still want to have sex with them. lol Not saying I don't have the balls to approach, because I do, and I've been rejected maybe 100s of times, but haven't had any success. It feels really unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:12 AM
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I'm not saying that I'm not doing that, but I'm saying that this is the general standard for what empathy means. It's just convenient for you to be more strict in your definition because it works better for you in this context. People say psychopaths kill people because they have no empathy, but from this perspective, it sounds like psychopaths can kill people while still having empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:07 AM
1

He got shot down sometimes, but surely he has more success? I want a clear understanding of what it is that makes someone successful like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:05 AM
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I honestly feel like you stopped projecting meaning on to empathy because it's convenient to you in this context. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:04 AM
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I feel like that's a valid viewpoint that should be discussed more here. Is there really a good strategy to getting laid or are you just born with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:03 AM
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Is it really about anything working or is it just about them being physically attractive? I really think that no matter what I do I can't get with a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:01 AM
0

Is the answer being good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:59 AM
2

Do you think it's looks basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:59 AM
5

It seems that men and women have these subtle definition of word differences; like attraction for example. Men when the describe a women as attractive they almost 100% of the time mean that she's good looking physically. Women who describe men as attractive, can sometimes not even be sexually attracted to them. It's strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:56 AM
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That's bullshit. So I've got a ripped back, but I think I've got a butt ugly face. I posted a picture of my ripped back on tinder. That was my entire profile. Fatties seem to love this profile setup. I've gotten with like 3 fat girls doing this. It's pretty much my entire sex life so far. Just because I'm able to pull off fucking fat girls, doesn't mean that I'm able to get hotter women, so clearly there's some room for error with fat women. I get no hot girl matches from my back pic only profil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:54 AM
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If you're able to share feelings with someone, all those other things should arise. It's generally said that women are more empathetic, and therefore they are better at raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:50 AM
2

If you're using PUA tactics on anything below a 7, why even use any tactics at all? Like I thought the whole point of PUA was to go for 7+ girls. Maybe that's not what you meant by this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:37 AM
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Being empathetic is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. I think you're lacking on the share part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:37 AM
3

They don't want a straight up pity fuck. They want you to give them advice out of pity, which leads to them fucking you through their own efforts. A fuck out of pity would be a blow to their ego, but doing it through advice would circumvent this I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:31 AM
2

They might want a pity fuck, but at the same time, they want the woman to be like, "shut the fuck up, be a man, and now fuck me. ;)" or something like that. By a pity fuck, they want the advice they need that would make the girl fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:30 AM
4

Just get a prostitute, gymcel, and maybe if you're lucky you'll be able to fuck a few fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:28 AM
8

I think all men want to know what's wrong with them, if they can fix it, and if not what can they do to kill the pain and just accept it. A lot of men are stuck on step one and flailing around grasping for something, trying to find out all the objectively fucked up aspects of themselves..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:25 AM
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I feel like I'm in the minority for saying that women are, on average, more empathetic then men. Generally women do understand and feel the struggles that men go through. I wouldn't just because this is generally the default view of society. It's red pillers that question this as the status quo. Stating that would be just stating the obvious general knowledge that people default with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:23 AM
11

Girls be out here acting like the definitions of words changed so that they can not take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:18 AM
1

Most guys could be having sex if they got with fat women I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:15 AM
6

I have trouble considering anybody seriously now that I've come into contact with the idea of Schrodinger's slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:37 AM
10

Yeah. There's just something wrong with the picture of marrying that girl, and then looking out into the audience at a row full of your friends who fucked her too giving you thumbs up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:35 AM
0

I mean it's fine if you had sex with 50 people and I've had sex with 51. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:33 AM
13

Can't have your cake and eat it too. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:29 AM
2

You're right. Being an asshole doesn't get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:18 AM
2

Imo if you've got those things you're capable of banging as hot girls as you want, except maybe not if you're short.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 06:09 PM
2

hammerhaunts is right though. That's the reason it's complained about by pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:48 PM
1

Yes this is what I was going to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:44 PM
1

I've heard of big dick energy. I just never assumed that it actually meant you had a big dick in all cases. That guy is definitely not ugly. Anybody with those jawbone things sticking out of his face is the very definition of Chad. That's the mark of the beast when it comes to Chads. It's the #1 defining factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:39 PM
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I usually get wet dreams so I still end up cumming eventually. Even while I've refrained from cumming, I don't feel much different. I guess I've always been a very disciplined person. I have an addictive personality I think, but yet at the same time, I can ghost my addictions and not feel too different if I really put my mind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:29 PM
1

You mean it's racist against other races? I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:24 AM
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I do think that Chad is a different kind of human. Like if you ever played RuneScape, he's like an admin who can do whatever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:39 AM
1

Hey, if a guy thought that white guys have it easy with women, I wouldn't think that was racist. I'd love that guy and take it as a compliment. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:37 AM
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Don't believe that shit. Just look at all the muscular white dudes. World's Strongest Man competitors? Mostly white. Don't have that blacked cuckold mindset. Idc if you never get laid. Don't ever think your race is inferior to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:36 AM
2

I can kinda understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:30 AM
1

What do you mean? Chad is a manifestation of human transcendence sent here by the reptilians to troll all the ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:26 AM
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cheating How are these guys cheating when they're unattractive? I honestly believe that physically unattractive guys are more likely to bear a certain amount of resentment and bitterness toward women and life in general because things aren't handed to them the way that they are to physically attractive people. That's true, but if you get em early then I don't think they would treat you that bad. As a possibly unattractive guy, I don't find myself having trouble accomplishing anything else except…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:24 AM
1

Only if you have some kind of chemical imbalance in your brain or are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:09 AM
1

Gronk Lmao, Gronk is a great name.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:06 AM
1

Why did you ever date non-attractive men in the first place? That's what makes me question your story
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:59 AM
1

They say that, but they'd also say that if you were an ugly asshole that it's still over for you. TRP at least holds out some hope that becoming an asshole will lead them to getting laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:53 AM
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Well, the latter I imagine would make things easier. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:44 AM
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That's what I'm saying. I think it's almost better to be fat than be really skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:43 AM
2

I oscillate back and forth wondering if game is even real, because it seems like it's just a numbers game of shotgun approaching, and that the only "game" that matters is you being able to indifferently move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:42 AM
2

There is no behavior as a byproduct of having a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:40 AM
1

Maybe I don't have a sex drive as high as some people but fapping is something I can take or leave as long as I don't think about anything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:39 AM
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Lol I've done this and that's bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:38 AM
2

Yeah I think that's what I thought of when I first heard that too. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:15 PM
1

The biggest Chad I know is a black dude, who's about 6''2 and 200lbs, 13-14% bodyfat. He lifts and is good looking. But his attitude is just so positive and uplifting. It's like his love for life is infectious. He's very optimistic. I've met others like him, who are also extremely successful with women. This sounds like an incel meme. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:10 PM
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I'm perfectly fine with people discriminating against not good looking people if this is actually what they mean and it is somewhat merit based.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:54 AM
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Are the people you have chemistry with generally good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:55 PM
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That would be okay to say if buttuglyness wasn't something you were born with, and attractiveness is something you could develop, but it's not. There's really no merit to it. You just spawn in this life good looking or not. It's a worthy thing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:54 PM
1

That's because you literally don't know what frame is either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:38 AM
1

Well sometimes I guess I smile when someone's trying to do that to me. I think I had a girlfriend that was so good at bringing people into her frame that I am able to see all frames and only really engage with the objective information. I'm still not sure if I really know what frame is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:17 AM
1

What is not alpha about you then? I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:00 AM
1

I got intp once, but I'm white from the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:48 PM
1

I don't see why sexual relationships have to be this way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:23 PM
1

Were the people you fucked good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:38 PM
1

I don't think I ever enter my friends' frames. I think I get grouchy and disengage when someone tries to enforce their stuff on me. I don't see what's stopping both people from being in their own frames though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:37 PM
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If I had gotten laid in high school, I wouldn't have even known TRP existed. I would just stick to what I did before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:31 PM
1

I don't even understand what this means. Like I'm not thinking of frames when I'm talking to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 08:54 PM
2

People who lost their virginity in high school are alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 08:52 PM
1

I mean, you can reach a limit, which typically means you need to get heavier, which means to eat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:37 PM
0

As a man I definitely have a hot enough level. Like 7-10 may as well be the same thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:43 AM
1

I have an intuition that men and women pretty much feel attraction the same, but have different ways to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:40 AM
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Lifting to be strong makes you big though, and there are limits to strength while you are small, hence why there are weight classes in arm wrestling and other strength sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:38 AM
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