sextourist31 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	What is worse: Redpill or Blackpill ?		sextourist31	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 03:15 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	29 years old. Very Successful Academically yet Unable to Garner the Interest of Females OP seems to have been mislead by edgy girls on Twitter who mention 'Sapiosexual' in their bio's, but really just have a crush on a hot guy who wears glasses :)	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/22 08:28 AM
1	29 years old. Very Successful Academically yet Unable to Garner the Interest of Females You say absolutely nothing about what you look like. Looks are the primary factor in attraction. Once physically attraction is there, most women just need you to be educated. Being a PhD is not going to increase your value as a sexual or romantic partner. At the most, women interested in your field of study would want to socialize and talk to you just as men would	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/22 08:03 AM
1	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? One of the reasons women become uncomfortable and defensive when it is brought up how much more difficult it is for men to partake in dating, is that they take it as a collective attack on their gender and an accusation of being shallow. Do this simple experiment. If you're physically unattractive, just say among a group of women: relatives, friends, coworker that you fail to attract women and get laid because of your looks. You will be quickly shouted down and gaslit. Every aspect of your chara…	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 04:23 AM
1	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? One of the reasons men are lonely is that the pressure on men to be conventionally attractive is greater in order to partake in dating.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 04:14 AM
1	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? Getting 1000 matches a week, filtered to 50 hottest guys, conversations with 20, and 5 meet ups. Notice she's being extremely picky yet still in control.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 04:13 AM
1	The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have? IMO, dating stems from / only requires acquaintance and shallow socialization. It doesn't need true friendships.	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 03:11 AM
1	Many Red Pill coaches confuse "emotionally damaged" with "morally/ethically corrupt" and it confuses so many unnecessarily. Idk, would repeatedly chasing looks and excitement and lamenting being used for sex, falls under emotionally damaged or morally bankrupt category? What about cheating on good men?	/r/ExRedPill	24/09/22 07:16 PM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. So dating, sex, and relationships are not important aspects of a young persons life?	/r/ExRedPill	24/09/22 04:53 PM
0	is falling in love with a woman dangerous? If she doesn't love you back, yes	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/22 09:01 PM
2	My friend keeps telling me that I'm physically attractive and I have a problem with it True. I hope Tinder and Bumble fail miserably.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/22 07:39 PM
1	I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc. If sexual attention and casual sex is unwanted, she should mention it explicitly. We already know that most 'femcels' struggle/fail to find relationships. They can still go on Tinder and find dozens of guys to hook up with, but that's not what they want and its ok too. Its just not the same as being an incel, which refers to inability to find sexual partners.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/22 06:50 PM
1	I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc. They struggle at finding meaningful relationships, not casual sex. Male incels cant get either.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/22 06:42 PM
1	I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc. For being One Night Stand material, girls dont need to be conventionally attractive. Average and below average looking girls can easily get one night stands off Tinder. Have you tried using Tinder?	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/22 06:38 PM
1	I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc. It is real, but impacts way fewer women than men.	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/22 06:37 PM
-4	My friend keeps telling me that I'm physically attractive and I have a problem with it Real world dating was hard for men, but the mass migration of men to dating apps magnified the issue and also created a feedback loop into the former. Decent looking, fit, healthy, clean but sub-8 guys who used to do well irl, cant get matches on Tinder and Bumble because they don't meet the male model ideal. Similarly, a below average looking, overweight, low maintenance, low self-esteemed, wall flower girl who irl could only hook up with the hottest guys in her immediate proximity (class/offic…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/22 04:06 AM
11	My friend keeps telling me that I'm physically attractive and I have a problem with it Dating apps are brutal to men and can destroy your confidence. 70% of guys should stop using them	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/22 11:48 PM
1	The idea that men don't like overweight or ugly women is a misogynistic, misandrist Red Pill myth. I agree. Men are naturally a lot more forgiving on looks and have the ability to find a large % of female population sexually desirable. Patriarchy has caused men to become more shallow than they actually are, while women, less so.	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/22 02:31 AM
1	Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable? How can you equate a woman objectifying men's bodies to a man doing the same to women? Its not even the same thing	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 02:15 AM
1	Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable? He wants to prove women are hypocritical, but he doesn't understand we live in a patriarchy	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 02:12 AM
1	Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable? Women usually cheat because they are not respected by their partners, so they look for respect elsewhere. We still live under a patriarchal rule and there are severe consequences for women treating sex casually. Women almost never cheat for sex, and almost never want casual sex.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 02:10 AM
1	Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable? As a male feminist, I believe that women's grievances regarding dating, sex, and relationships are more legitimate than men's. I have seen my female friends ghosted by f*boy after f*boy and it takes a big toll on their self esteem. That is why, sub reddits like u/femaledatingstrategy unfairly get a bad rep.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 02:08 AM
0	Will dating ever head in the right direction? Idk, as a male feminist, I'd be careful in judging role models for Gen Z females who encourage them to be 'Boss Babes'. And we cant equate a woman drugging men with reversed scenario. Women still live in a patriarchy and go through so much. We dont know what those men must have done to Cardi B.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 12:45 AM
-1	Will dating ever head in the right direction? honestly, I sense some misogyny here in judging the celebrity culture that girls follow. Kim K and Cardi B are good strong role models for girls	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/22 01:36 PM
-1	Will dating ever head in the right direction? Women like Kim Kardashian and Cardi B are good feminist role models for Gen Z girls, as they are all about empowerment and being a 'boss babe'.	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/22 01:34 PM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Who said I'm angry? I'm just stating a fact that men face more pressure to be conventionally good-looking nowadays if they want to partake in dating and hook up scene. Why does this fact make you uneasy?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:46 PM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. What else does it mean? A guy needs to be conventionally good-looking in order to partake in the college hookup scene, get laid off Tinder and Bumble, while a girl can be short, fat, mediocre looking and still get laid every day with guys way above her league.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 11:34 AM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. So if many women try a few hook ups, how come 'many' guys dont get the same opportunity? Who do they try these hook ups with?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 11:29 AM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Then why are women enjoying the hook up culture? Why are more women than men partaking in it?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:42 AM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. It means men face more pressure to be conventionally good-looking than women, yet no one dares to acknowledge that in mainstream society and culture. If its an acknowledged fact there wont be bitterness, because we can all accept that's how its supposed to be.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:33 AM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Why do most young women on college campuses have hook ups and FwBs then? Why are more women part of kink, poly communities than men?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:22 AM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. But the college dating / hook up scene is a reality for a guy his age. Are you saying he should overlook it completely. Next you would tell him to ignore the online dating scene too.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:19 AM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Do not look at college hook up scene Do not look at online dating scene You need to understand your role and work to acheive that. It is true that the hook up scene is extremely unforgiving to guys, and even unattractive girls can easily have sex with 'Chads'. But it is a phase those girls will grow out of by their late 20's. That will be your time to shine. You need to build a stable life by then so you are seen as an eligible husband by then.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:15 AM
1	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? And yet you will line up to be his cum dumpster for a few minutes if he offered	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 12:12 AM
1	Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit. Hook ups are common in the sense most dating nowadays involves "hooking up and then seeing where things go". Also, unfortunately, most girls cannot expect really attractive/hot guys to date/court them and prove their seriousness before getting physical. Guys who are not that good looking, are usually whining why they have to show their seriousness from day 1 and cant f*** around.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/22 11:21 PM
3	Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit. Does this count responses to messages or just messaging first?	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/22 12:24 PM
2	Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit. Not really. Hook up apps have made it way easier for the good looking guys to stay passive, cast a wide net, and just have girls showing up on their doorstep to have sex. Know a few guys who could be struggling male models, are very hedonistic, and who love Tinder and Bumble.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/22 12:22 PM
16	Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit. Notice that in order to 'prove' that women are more shallow than men and find fewer men attractive than vice versa, these redpillers and incels only bring up observations and stats from the hook up and casual sex scene. They will never talk about couples who are dating long term or married.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/22 12:17 PM