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Dudes with micro dicks get rejected quite a bit from what I've heard. Which is probably less than 3 inches. Like the girl laughs when they pull their pants down kind of rejection. Some of my friends have been rejected for having average penises. It probably happens more than people think. Women will rarely ever tell you why they actually rejected you. Dick preferences are fine btw, just pointing out that women do care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:53 PM
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Yes plenty of dudes have gotten rejected for not having a big enough dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:13 PM
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The west has fallen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:17 AM
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Cuddles, companionship, children, safe and easy sex, someone you can rely on, etc Framing it like "not attracted at all" is probably wrong, though, more like "not as attracted as they should be". A lot of it is just desperation to be in an LTR with someone who loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:22 AM
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Same reason a man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:45 AM
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It's genuinely crazy that he still lives in that dirty attic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:29 AM
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Yeah for sure, tall women are already rare as it is too. I've only seen a huge height difference irl between a woman and a man once. A 6'5 woman with a 5'6 man. It kind of reminds me when boomers and people on reddit go "just find an older woman who will likes to fuck virgins". Like bro what lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:23 AM
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As someone who is 6'5, I think there are more really short women who fetishize tall dudes than tall women who do. Most tall women want a man their height or taller, but they don't seem to be feral about it like 5ft women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:52 AM
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I also get it to some degree, especially on the dating apps. I have enough options where I'd never go out of my way to date some swamp creature. And the paradox of choice can make you constantly doubt the current person you're dating because someone seemingly hotter is now showing interest. But at the same time, we are playing on a different difficulty than them. It's kind of funny watching a woman on TikTok crying because she can't secure a 7-9 on a dating app, and seeing the unanimous support …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:26 AM
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? The OP was not making an argument about what she can or cannot do with her body. He was arguing for financial abortions. It was like a bot response, yours too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:22 AM
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I can't tell if you're trolling or have terrible reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:39 AM
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Tbh I have a lot of options and it kinda just turns into the same problem women have. Most of the options are emotionally unavailable, mentally ill, fickle, bad faith, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:38 AM
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Tinder genuinely does feel like it's either baddies or the most busted women you've ever seen in your life. I think I see a normal woman maybe twice if I use all 50 swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:27 AM
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Nah I'd live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:03 PM
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You can be pretty jacked with machines (mostly cable). A lot of bodybuilders don't even do barbell bench or deadlifts. Probably the only thing that machines can't replace is squats though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:51 PM
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They could survive it, they'd just come out of it traumatized like every Asian person I've ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:02 PM
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I think the hardest part is getting the 2nd date (in general). But if you only use dating apps, the biggest barrier is being attractive enough to get dates, for sure. I had to lose 200 pounds of fat and gain 20 pounds of muscle before dating apps became functional for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:47 AM
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Not sure how, you gave a weak anecdotal of some random redditors comment history, so I gave you a weak anecdotal of how it may not be his personality from my own experience. What counter argument were you looking for, that maybe he lives in a small town and has exhausted his options? Maybe he's really bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:53 AM
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I mean I go on a lot of dates and still haven't found a girlfriend. I'll complain about it, but a lot of it is my high standards. When you have options you become picky shrug. Not saying that's the reason your friend hasn't found a girlfriend, but this is quite common with men who do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:01 PM
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Moms/gfs will say men because they get angry and punch walls. Bouncers will say women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:10 AM
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Yeah, it's why I tell virgins to just lie. Lie until you can get that experience, like with anything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:29 AM
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Good lovers tend to be people who are naturally receptive. I don't think inexperience matters that much, it's extremely easy for a receptive man to learn how to give good head/foreplay. Now the lack of relationship experience is a different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:23 AM
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I agree, I never ask the question myself. And I think if the person is mostly perfect, you should at least find the context of a super high n count before judging. Some people just have a high libido and weren't looking for a relationship at the time. But I won't lie, if I found out the woman I'm dating had, let's say, 80 different sex partners, it would give me pause for sure. Although a lot of my dates have basically asked my sex history. It feels more common nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:31 AM
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A lot of redpill men have extreme views on n count, but every man has a number where they will get the ick if they find out. Mine is pretty lax. I think if you have had 100+ sex partners at a young age, you probably use sex as some kind of unhealthy coping mechanism. But I also apply to this men. Honestly most straight women I know feel the same way, if the number is super high they assume the guy is a huge slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:43 AM
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I mostly just see this on reddit, it feels like karma farming. But usually they are whipped husbands/fathers (dads become irrational man haters when they have daughters). A good chunk of them are young virgins who just went the other extreme as incels, I guess you could call them simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:34 AM
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Tinder first came out when I was in college I think, and even as an obese guy back then I could get hookups. Which would probably be unheard of nowadays. But I think Tinder is pretty reliant on your location. I stop swiping after 3 matches and see where it goes, so I don't swipe that much. It gave me an idea why women are so "picky" on the apps, you might as well be if most right swipes are matches. My text game is actually pretty solid. First dates is where I typically struggle, but I've notice…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:07 PM
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Nah, Tinder in its early days was like free sex at the free sex store. Not sure about Okay Cupid, but I heard good things about it. Tinder is pretty awful. It's just bots, horny men, and women advertising their IG atm. To put it in perspective, I can get like 20 matches a week on bumble. On Tinder I may get 4. Some of them have led to dates/hookups, but Bumble has better quality and quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:09 PM
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I think that was okay cupid. Tinder would be much worse than 2012 okay cupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:54 PM
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And this is why men "overrate themselves" more. It's not so much they overrate, it's that women and other straight men underrate them, and they have a healthy view of themselves. Can you imagine if every man saw themselves as a 3-4? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:14 PM
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I think a lot of them are women LARPing as men. Especially the 40 year old married dudes who claim to be shredded lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:17 AM
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Ugly people in general are not treated with basic decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:14 AM
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I'm good, being physically attractive works way better than doing the dancing monkey routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:36 PM
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Some women approach really hot guys, yes. But I think you're underestimating how many women are terrified of rejection. Like my sister would never approach, even if it was the hottest man on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:31 AM
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He rated a young megan fox a 6 (I think). He lives up to his username.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:50 PM
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To be fair to them, I can take a bit to finish if I'm not super comfortable. Men's sexual excitement/gratification is more psychological than people think. I also didn't really communicate since I'm anxious first meeting someone. I think both genders would benefit from communicating their needs early on. At the very least you can find out quickly that they are a selfish lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:13 PM
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It's kind of funny, I have the exact opposite experience. I'll give a woman head for as long as it takes, even if we just met. They'll give up if I haven't orgasmed after like a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:52 AM
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I honestly can't tell if some of the feminist posters here are purposely bad faith or genuinely retarded. There's like 5-8 of them, and I swear it's a psyop to convince more men to go redpill through making the worst arguments imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:38 AM
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It's also incredibly easy to be overweight as a man according to BMI, especially if you are tall. I become "overweight" 2 months into my bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:15 PM
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OP is right, but I just want to say that women really aren't as afraid/cautious of men as neurotic women on reddit claim. If they were, I wouldn't get invited back to their place on the 1st/2nd date as much as I do. Someone who can bench their weight 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:14 PM
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It's just a little awkward tbh. I've dated virgin women and they tend to starfish. I tried directing them a bit, but they're super frigid. Idk, they're just bad at sex and you'll never know if they will get good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:02 AM
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I'm taking all the matches. All jokes aside, if a dude is short and ugly, he's probably not getting anything on the apps. You need a decent amount of matches to get anything going. Sometimes it's normal dudes who need to put more effort into their profile. Which typically translates to putting on stylish date clothes and having someone take pics of you in good lighting. Tinder in general is just bad. I don't get a whole lot of quality matches on there. Sometimes I'll get a hottie and we will hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:06 PM
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I started using the apps again about 2.5 months ago: 10 first dates. I am currently still dating 3 of them. Will probably go on another 1st date this week. I know 4 at a time is fucking deranged but I'm just experimenting. I had a good time on all but 2, they were really awkward. I could tell they didn't find me that attractive the moment they saw me. Usually out to drinks or dinner. I avoid coffee dates because they never feel romantic at all. All of them are from dating apps. I went home with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:02 AM
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That's actually what red pill used to be. It was something that came from 4chan after the first Matrix came out. Mostly anti government, right wing conspiracies. I actually find it very strange that the "red pill" is specifically about dating now. It sounds fucking stupid to be like "stop believing the simulation, women are actually very shallow!" Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:59 PM
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Bro one of my female friends has a fucking bald spot and she goes out on dates with cute dudes all the time. The dating apps are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:27 PM
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That's not really indicative of the general population, no offense. The women who post here are fucking weirdos. Every single woman I've made it past the 1st date with had casual sex with me. I think people are just operating on different definitions of what "casual sex" means. This idea that most women wait for commitment to have sex is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:43 PM
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Post physique
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:17 AM
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In my experience as a man who went from fat to attractive, what he said is true. They may not jump your bones on the first date, but they will let things slide way more. The whole thing is way more seamless and fun, you are not tip toeing on eggshells. The main thing: they will respond fast enough to have an actual conversation. Obviously men do this too. But men are typically the chasers, so it's blatantly obvious when a woman finds you physically hot. Night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:45 PM
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I'm honestly fine with "the algorithm isn't real" argument, but those same people will then use this sub as proof of something. It makes no fucking sense. This sub is way more niche than popular tiktok videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:02 AM
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Why does this sub always harp on the Margot Robbie thing? I've seen way more posts on social media calling 7/10+ male celebrities mid or ugly by women. Everyone is delusional about what average is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:53 AM
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I'd rate her a 6.5 just because of the freckles tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:49 AM
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Yeah I noticed that lmao. The posters here are so bad at debating it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:19 PM
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As a Marylander, they don't pick up on it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:46 PM
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Shit gets kinda expensive after the first date if they aren't splitting. In general, dating is expensive if you're going out of your way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:38 PM
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I personally think waiting until marriage is stupid as fuck. I've never dated a virgin or someone this relgious. But to answer the question, if I did that it's because I really like her. I'd never put that much effort into a pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:09 AM
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Yeah I may not be the target audience. Sometimes I feel like I'm in the "can't" group because she's either crazy after the 5th date or I fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:51 PM
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Nah. I love flirting with women. Being on the apps is a constant dopamine hit for me. I'd rather have a girlfriend, but this is fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:53 AM
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The key is to not give a fuck about what fat redditors say on this topic and just approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:02 AM
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That's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:48 PM
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booba
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:48 PM
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I went to Mexico last year and they were throwing pussy at me for free. God I love Latinas. I didn't want to leave. I can kinda see why a dude who isn't getting much in America would go somewhere else. They go from nothing to at least some woman being interested. If you do decently in America, you'll feel like a 9/10 in South America or Asia. I agree that they shouldn't complain about gold digging, but tbh I don't see a lot of passport bros on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:44 PM
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Tfw you're the top percentage of men 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:21 PM
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It wouldn't even make sense. Most men watch porn, most men have low physical standards for sex. Not sure how porn would make a man's physical requirements for a relationship higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:48 AM
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Most men have a limit, but it's like 20+. Only religious and redpill men need a super low number.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:32 AM
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I did picture "goth black girl" when I've read your posts. I actually matched with a woman who looks like you on Bumble, was very disappointed when she did not message lol. I'll find my goth baddie one day...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:10 AM
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Yeah I tried spinning plates once, and I genuinely don't get it. I used to work with dudes who had 3 girlfriends. Like how lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:52 AM
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Tinder plat puts you first in women's stack, which is important since women don't swipe a lot. I do okay free (I do much better on bumble), but the difference between free and plat is pretty big.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:07 AM
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It's mostly because they use self reported marriage and LTR statistics. They don't really know how much casual dating a fucking is going on between older men and younger woman. Or vice versa tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:18 AM
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To be fair, I've seen these "ugly" dudes that female friend groups shit on, and it's always some regular looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:23 AM
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This is true. It feels like women decide whether they are romantically interested the millisecond they see you in real life. All of my first dates from the apps go like this: She acts incredibly awkward the second we meet. They unmatch me or reject me after the date. I can tell from the start that if I invited her over, she'd say yes, or at the very least she wants a 2nd date. It feels like it doesn't matter at all what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:24 AM
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This happened to me a month ago. She got boyfriend treatment for 2 weeks, then ghosted me. It's always the ones I like the most. I have terrible tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:44 AM
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I think with women a lot of it is mental, it's incredibly easy for them to get the "ick" with just the smallest tidbit of information. I've had times where young coworkers were attracted to me, then figure out I'm 30 and go "oh nvm you're too old" (some of them would eventually sleep with me anyway). So it's not much they find the 40 year old more physically attractive, it's just their mind makes the 23 year old a complete non option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:11 AM
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I never really understood the moral grandstanding with "he ended the friendship because I didn't feel the same way! What a terrible person!" People end friendships all the time for much more petty reasons lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:40 AM
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Yes, typically much older women 70+ or if they are disfigured. Most ugly women can go on a dating app and get loads of attention though. One of my friends is 100 pounds overweight and has a bald spot, she still can get a date whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:08 AM
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Tbh blue pill sounds more conservative than liberal. It's very just world fallacy, pull yourself up by your bootstraps. At least when it comes to men's issues anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:36 AM
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This is true. They will invite me over on the 1st or 2nd date, have sex. We see each other for 2 months, and I say no to commitment because I saw too many red flags. To them it probably comes off as deception, but I was genuinely considering them at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:33 AM
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Because a lot of normal people believe this about male heterosexual dating. You can go to any thread outside of this sub about a dude struggling with dating, and the top 10 comments will be "it's your confidence/personality, women don't care as much about looks." Shit, my female coworkers literally told me this about a week ago when I told them I only ask women out on dating apps who make it clear they think I'm hot. Otherwise it's a waste of time (especially on dating apps). It's not so much th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:30 AM
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She literally praised a woman in this same thread for dating a 26 year old man when the woman was 35. You can't make this shit up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:09 AM
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Unless you're a fat woman trying to go after the hot guy in the friend group. Then it's all blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:04 AM
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Not really sure how anyone can argue otherwise. If you ever worked with a bunch of men and then a bunch of women, the difference is crazy. It's not even a healthy bias either. Like if women's in group bias is a "red pill" talking point, then I guess red pill is right sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:48 PM
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I can get a hookup maybe 2 times a month (different women). It does take a bit of effort, wouldn't describe it as easy. From dating apps that is, I'm too shy to cold approach. But I'm not sure if I'd be considered average by this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:01 PM
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This would heavily depend on location and age. A mid dude living on a college campus is going to have a completely different experience than some normal 30 year old who works in tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:58 PM
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I mean you can find the person physically attractive and also love their personality. Which is how most wives/gf would assume their partner feels about them. So hearing "yeah she's not the most beautiful person I've dated, but I love her" would probably not go over very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:02 PM
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It is kind of funny how women can get away with saying shit like that. Even my own bias doesn't register it as a big deal, but if a man says the same thing about his wife, I'm like "bro...no..."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:58 PM
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I don't really think that's what pick mes are doing though. Pick mes just prefer the company of men and act like simps for the men they like. Every pick me girl I've ever met are all in happy LTRs/marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:52 PM
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I've been dating both currently (although I don't go lower than 24 on the apps). And the biggest behavior change is that women in their 30s tend to take it more seriously. They want to ask you a bunch of interview type questions before you meet. Now this isn't all of them, and some 25-28 year olds were like this too, but this was just on average in my experience. Younger women tend to go with the flow more, they flirt more etc. It's not that they necessarily have higher standards or are avoiding…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:34 PM
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Is anyone even arguing women get dates easier? Their argument would be that they have a hard time finding a good man to commit to them. Honestly, any women could send me their last 10 matches, and I could pick the top 3 guys who would commit to them assuming there is compatibility. It's incredibly easy to spot a dude who wants a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:22 AM
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And honestly it's not your fault either. I've seen the matches/dates my female friends get. Completely average women getting rizzed up by really attractive men. The competition is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:13 AM
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They most likely enjoyed the conversation, but there's probably 2 other guys they are more interested in for whatever reason. They ghost to focus on dating their favorite, then may come back if it doesn't work out. It's rude, but it's just very easy to do since it's online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah I can't think of a single instance where I've ever heard anyone call a woman a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:58 PM
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This basically. It's helpful for people who have low self-awareness. Which is a majority of the population. But if you constantly analyze why you do what you do, therapy is more of an exercise to persuade the doctor to give you drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:32 PM
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The hardest rejections are after you like her, you've dated for a couple of months and she randomly disappears. After that happens a few times, the rejections before that feel like nothing in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:11 PM
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I mean I do this to as a man. I get enough matches where I gotta focus on maybe 3 at a time. Although I'm typically the one reaching out and moving the conversation forward, obviously. It's pretty easy to gauge interest. They'll respond quickly and flirt with you. If they seem barely interested and still want to go on a date, get ready for an awkward job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:07 AM
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You can always spot all the redfems with this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:11 AM
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Like yaaaas queen cringe skull emoji these MEN amirite 💅. I would be classified as more of a subhuman freak than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:08 AM
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I mean number 7 is just being polite if you're a big dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:37 AM
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Eh not really. Just say your nervous and use that autism to your advantage (you know what I mean). Learn what to do and execute it if ever given the chance. Pre gaming with drugs helps a bit too if you ever get invited over. For LTR experience, well you just gotta con your way into that one, similar to how I conned my way into this office job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:38 AM
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I'm a homunculus in a wheelchair, got any tips for me to pull some baddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:01 AM
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It depends. If I get invited to a woman's place and ate a fart bar before hand, that's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:48 AM
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Aside from reproductive rights and some of the issues left over from 3rd wave feminism, this is mostly true. The majority of feminist discussions on social media are basically red-pill tier whining about the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:23 AM
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I have never been in that situation with a stranger, but I'd like to think I'd step in, even if it's foolish. Only time that's ever happened when it led to violence had to do with my little sister. But yeah, you really should not expect it. Buy a gun or learn how to use a knife if you are worried about your safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:32 PM
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Most people in the 25-35 age range are going to have more hobbies in common with younger people than older, probably a closer sense of humor too, since we all grew up on internet memes. They may have a mismatch in maturity, but this can happen in any relationship. I'm sure I'm a manchild compared to 23 year olds who are double majoring and took care of their 8 bothers & sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:31 AM
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It also doesn't help that most of them are chronically online rad fems, this sub specifically. If I showed their comments to the normal women I know irl they would probably cringe or roll their eyes. Like the "blue pill" people who post here are not normal at all, no matter how much they try to pretend they are vs the incels or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:18 AM
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You can always tell you're in a subreddit full of rad fems when the topic of paper abortions gets brought up. This place pretends to be "red pill vs normal people" but it's actually "fat radfems vs incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:01 AM
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Anyone who says women are just as horny as men should take 150mg of test a week and see for themselves. It's quite literally just biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:58 AM
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Yeah you're just advertising it at that point. 16 weeks. Recomp. Doubled in size lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:50 AM
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It's probably comparable if the women is on dating apps just getting dicked down by whoever, from number's standpoint. You can only have so much sex with different people. Both could fuck a different person every night. The male celebrity would have a lot of high quality options though. It would be all baddies. Btw I enjoy your threads, the thought experiments are interesting to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:06 PM
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Idk, I'd be watching like 5 or 6 kids by myself for 6 hours straight sometimes. It got hectic but was never super stressful or anything. 1 or 2 would be fairly easy. The worst part is the screeching. Chores would make this more difficult, but at the same time, you don't have a boss and you can do the bare minimum in that regard. Every stay at home mom I knew growing up was watching daytime TV or napping along with the kids half the time shrug. My mom included. It can be difficult due to the "job…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:02 PM
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For someone in STEM to be making enough to be the sole provider, not really tbh. They'd be like the network engineer, system administrator, software developer or whatever at that point. You kinda have to know your shit and put in long hours. I just thought it was a weird example out of all the other fields you could pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:39 PM
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I'm starting to notice a trend that all the women who post in this subreddit have braindead easy office jobs. I can kinda see why they'd think being a SAHP is harder when they're essentially at work just watching tiktok clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:25 AM
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God reading this makes me want to eat a bullet. I literally work nonstop the full 8 hours at my office job. I have to be incredibly fast just for my backlog to not become insane. Maybe one day I can sit there and watch a TV show at work lmao. When I worked blue collar it was grueling 12 hour days, thought the office would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:15 AM
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It would be more brutal for the ftm getting hit with all that test so suddenly. A lot of random violence, higher suicide rates. Mtf would probably enjoy the attention for a bit, then get annoyed because, well, they aren't as horny as they used to be. They'd also have the menstrual cycle. Both would realize how little being physically stronger matters in today's society lol. I also think a lot of women believe that if they were turned into men, they'd just be the cutest, best dressed, sweetest ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:20 AM
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I thought it was strange that they used the one field where you can't actually bullshit your way through once you get the job. Like wouldn't HR, sales, or management make more sense to use in that rant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:50 AM
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There's also quite a bit of downtime while watching kids. Most of the time, they're in a corner doing their own thing. The job where I was on my phone the most or just talking to coworkers was when I worked at a daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:41 AM
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In this economy, being a sole provider is going to be harder automatically. Modern SAHP is a pretty good deal tbh, since it's typically expected that the sole provider comes home and gives the other parent a "break". I have a unique perspective on this because I've actually worked at a daycare. Taking care of kids is a fucking breeze compared to being in an understaffed customer service department, or doing construction. They are also your kids (will typically only be 1 or 2), and you're in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:32 AM
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Well it's a "problem" to that specific person, that's why they are complaining. Most complaints are people wanting something they aren't entitled to. You could invalidate almost all complaints of dating with this logic for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:27 PM
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Ah gotcha. Men bad women good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:22 PM
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In that exact specific scenario, in that context, the dynamic would still exist. It does not matter that she did not do anything. Once again, you are just arguing that he's a bad/selfish person. Which is fine, but that's not the same thing as the concept not existing. There's also a million different scenarios where you could use that word. A lot of men get "friendzoned" after going on a few dates, some of them get lead on. He asked her out, she said no, wants to stay friends, hence the term "fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:13 PM
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These are all different arguments to the dynamic itself existing though, you're just arguing that they are a bad person for complaining about it. It's also way more nuanced than that. You're basically taking the most bad faith interpretation possible of either situation. It's completely normal for men and women to catch feelings when in these situations, then complain when they don't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:03 PM
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We aren't talking about whether someone should be complaining about it though, we are talking about whether the concept of the "friend zone" exists. If you can have a relationship where one person wants more and the other person wants to stay friends, that is what the "friend zone" is. How does that not "exist"? "You're analogy doesn't work unless it's this specific scenario that actually happens all the time". My female friends willingly get into situationships all the time and then complain ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:26 AM
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By that logic, "situationships" don't exist. But I don't see anyone telling a woman that this phenomenon does not "exist" when she's complaining about a man not giving her commitment. It wouldn't make sense because she's currently experiencing it. This sort of feels like a random justification. She took "action" by rejecting you and wanting to stay friends. Even if she didn't, I don't see how that changes the bad feelings about it. It just seems like you guys say it doesn't exist to invalidate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:47 AM
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The people who say it doesn't "exist" are rworded. It's just a quick way to describe a relationship where one person wants to be more than friends while the other wants to stay friends. No one said it's a physical zone you can enter like the Auto Zone lmao. People just have an issue with men complaining about it specifically. As someone who has had many platonic female friends, I've honestly never seen a normal "friendzone" relationship. It's almost always one person following the other around l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:29 AM
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Doesn't matter too much to me personally. I've dated conservative women and lefty/alt women. The latter is a bit more fun just because they don't care too much about marriage/commitment, but the conservative women definitely talked about politics less. As a man, you're probably fine as long as you're not super right wing. If you are, your pool is going to be way smaller, or you have to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:19 PM
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A 30+ year old who stays fit is mogging average people in their 20s, regardless of gender. Just for the simple fact that they aren't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:27 PM
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If you're not in the west? Men easily. If you're in the west, then it's a bjt more complicated. Men probably have a higher cap of success (most will never reach), and women tend to have way more safety nets. Other than abortion rights being up in the air, we are doing the dance of "women are independent humans who deserve to be seen on the level of men, but they are also weak and need to be protected." And it kinda gives them the best of both worlds. Although nothing is better than being a hot, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:42 PM
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It's more common than the women on this sub suggest, but not as common as the men suggest either. Most of my hookups/flings from dating apps are younger women, though (I'm almost 30). I wouldn't really classify them as anything, they just wanted to have fun and swiped on me, idk. But I am probably taller/more muscular than most younger dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:04 PM
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Therapy is pretty useless if you have a lot of self-awareness. But drugs from a psychiatrist? Different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:48 AM
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They do, but it's only in the context of a western man doing the passport bro thing. A western women who makes 50k and meets a hot millionaire is pretty glamorized by women. There are so many "power imbalances" that women find attractive that the word has to be treated like a meme when used. Like just assuming a 35 year old is abusing a 24 year old because of the age gap is so r worded. It's like assuming I throw my girlfriend around like a ragdoll because I am 4 times her size.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:48 AM
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The 60 year old who is paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:54 AM
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In a general sense? Yes, women won't be mean to you or judge you as harshly for being overweight (usually). Men are more openly mean about fat people, even if they are fat. For sex and dating? No lol. There's a reason why the advice men get 95% of the time is "go to the gym". Not to say women won't date fat guys, they just won't have a raw visceral attraction. A lot of men find fat women insanely hot. I think a lot of people also confuse big overweight, manly men with your typical obese guy. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:43 AM
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Shooters shoot. That's all there is to it, player.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:35 AM
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This is very true. Women on dating apps are either below average or smoking hot. I rarely ever saw like 5-6s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:40 AM
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I can see someone seeing bitter if they got 0 play before. It definitely got easier for me the more I got into my 20s. But that's mostly because it takes time to put on lean muscle. Showing your physique and decent job title on dating apps definitely helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:41 PM
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Those dudes who get a lot of matches are also shooting a bit below their league (you kinda have to with the gender disparity). Some average guy probably isn't too excited about matching with a 2 or a 3. It's great if you're in a situation where you can't meet women naturally or if you're too afraid to approach irl. But you definitely need something: a hot face, good physique, or a very meticulous profile with nice clothes in every pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:34 AM
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The main problem is that the phrase has never really been funny. "Terminally online" is also a better way to put it because at least it's more accurate. Most miserable people online are still working full-time jobs or going to school, so it's not like going outside is making a big difference. The other problem is, at least on reddit, it's always said by a loser who is pretending not to be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:48 AM
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Not sure. I'm 6'5 and muscular, but I probably got a mid face. I'll consult the blackpillers on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:43 PM
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I see this quite a bit at the gym and with zoomer couples in general. Skinny men with obese women is a pretty common thing to see at grocery stores too. I'm pretty sure most of the single zoomer men are just fat/obese. It feels so rare to see an obese young man out with his girlfriend, or any woman really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:48 AM
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This is so true lol. Every single time someone says "wow he's so ugly and with a beautiful girl" and I get to see the couple, it's always some slightly above average woman with an average guy. I'll see a really ugly dude with a hot woman sometimes, but it's incredibly rare. Mostly on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:03 PM
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Yeah I'd say this is the case like 95% of the time, especially if it's from the apps. I've been accused a few times of leading them on in terms of wanting a relationship when we never even discussed it. I thought we were just having fun and seeing where it went.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:39 PM
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He meant that the original guy you replied to was arguing sarcastically (I think).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:00 PM
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It seems pretty controversial for some of the radfems who post here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:29 AM
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I was more talking about a "look" than behavior/ personality. Lanky/skinny, thick glasses, not an overly masculine face, slightly unkempt hair, maybe overdresses with a lame style. That one dude from Criminal Minds is a good example of a nerdy looking attractive guy, his whole swag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:05 PM
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That's true, typically they're referring to Chris Evans or Hemsworth, but I've met some Cumberpatch fans or whatever the hell his name is. Not sure what "type" that would even be. I do have some irl friends who like feminine/alt men, but it does feel more rare for sure. Could be selection bias though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:39 PM
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I think a lot of women who post on reddit tend to like the more alt/nerdy type men, from what I've seen. I see women on reddit make the claim all the time that Chris Hemsworth or Henry Cavil aren't that attractive. Almost every single woman I've met irl has said the Marvel dudes are hot (the Chris' mostly). I think the only common thread is that bodybuilder competition level muscle is unattractive. Either way, it's probably safe as a man to assume having muscle + being lean will get you more sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:29 PM
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Oh wow the OP totally described me. I can command waiters over with just my hunter eyes. I'm not a delusional dork at all, no sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:06 AM
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I've dated a few big women and they seemed to be able to get a date whenever they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:51 AM
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I personally can't stay hard if I don't find her sexually attractive. If you have a nice body, then sometimes your face doesn't matter too much when it comes to sexual attraction. Your face tends to matter a bit when it comes to being girlfriend material, but some men may not care if they like your personality enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:00 AM
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Women do attempt it more I think, men finalize it. Haven't checked the stats in a while. Men are just better at killing in general. Whether it's others or themselves. Testosterone is a powerful hormone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:08 PM
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I think we're just better at it. We put that ruger to our brains and end it. Women want to overdose while taking a bath or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:54 PM
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I'm going to be honest with you, this will probably annoy the radfems and incels who post here, but you just have to approach. If dating apps don't work for you and you're not in a position to date friends of friends, then you have to approach. Getting into a relationship is mostly a luck thing, or you dating a high number of people until you find someone you're compatible with. Yes, even if you think you're ugly. If you can't take rejection or don't care enough to do it, then don't. But whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:54 PM
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Men are just goofballs. Any random joke told to me by a stranger is a man 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:36 PM
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I thought his requests seemed unreasonable, but at the same time I don't know the context. She could have been making out with dudes at surfer parties or flirting with men in her DMs. Jonah would have to explain what he meant by "you broke my trust" or whatever. He does seem like a really insecure guy in general. Her releasing those private messages years later is way more deranged though. The one thing I learned from this whole thing is that, apparently, most of the women I've dated are "abusiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:44 PM
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This thread is a certified FDS classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:53 AM
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Which is ironic if you look at her post history lmao. Like I don't think you can get more chronically online than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:33 PM
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They either tell just tell me, mention my height a lot in convos, or their bios will have height requirements. Almost all of them ask "are you really 6'5?" It's like the only thing they notice from my bio lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:24 AM
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Fat dudes who soyface at marvel movie trailers. Women find them irresistible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:35 AM
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Yeah same. I'm pretty sure 80% of my matches on dating apps are due to being tall. Either short girls with a height fetish or tall girls looking for an NBA prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:27 PM
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Man this sub is depressing. Imagine you're some normie lurker who's having a long dry spell, and this 38 year old virgin is basically calling you a loser for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:11 PM
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I prefer curvy but the slim ones in these pics are also hot. 4 and 6 are probably the most attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:43 AM
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Is there any good dating advice for autistic men? Other than just using drugs as a crutch to lower inhibition/neurosis. I don't even know if that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:40 AM
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She looks like she came out of a lab, but I'm still smashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:21 AM
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Yeah, with very rare genetics and many years of body building. If someone has a body like that IRL, they are most likely on some kind of PED though. His delts/traps are insanely big/wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:34 AM
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Ain't no way there are pimps in Maine lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:27 AM
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Probably because the young women looking for dick on dating apps are not the same people who post thousands of comments on reddit. I'll typically see young women on TikTok talk about how self-aware they are that they're attracted to "toxic" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:20 PM
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It's the same two people making the topic too lol. Hmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:10 PM
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Don't care unless her reason is to wait until marriage. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:39 PM
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I think the only solution is to blast more gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:09 AM
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I got pretty bad knees too. Sleeves help a lot but if it's too painful I wouldn't risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:41 PM
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I'm just joshin btw I don't even ride the bus. How much do you squat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:05 PM
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I agree with him, I was referring to the comments telling you to never lie (everybody is lying all the time). If you have sex and she finds out you were lying, well at least you're not a virgin anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:37 PM
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If you don't need a wheelchair after leg day then it wasn't hard enough. Put another 100 pounds on that jawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:15 PM
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Sorry sweaty, it's leg day and I train till failure, I'm not standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:44 PM
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Telling virgin men over 25 not to lie about their experience to a girl they're dating is genuinely insane LOL. What universe do redditors live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:39 PM
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You probably shouldn't take dating advice from anyone who has 1000+ comments in a gender debate sub in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:01 PM
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Cowgirl RULES.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:35 AM
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To give neurotic people anti anxiety meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:05 AM
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I'd be like slaaaaaay queen, get that bag 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:48 PM
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It's why I lurk it tbh. One of the few subs where deranged men and women can meet to argue about their insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:14 PM
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Can a nerd translate this jawn for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:32 AM
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I agree that women are usually pretty busted without makeup. Men naturally mog on them. Dudes rock, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:19 AM
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Those were your numbers at 5'6, but you're skinny? Or did you have to stop going to the gym and became skinny? I only ask because I feel like a 5'6 125-pound man would look pretty muscular if they benched 250. You would've had to put on a good amount of muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:37 AM
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