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the issue is hte lack of any reciprocity, which has been my experience with many women as well. I dont even think many women are aware of how twisted their idea of what a friendship entails is due to how common this behavior is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:31 AM
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this tbh. Women dont make for good platonic friends, full stop. Its one-sided bullshit or they treat you well because they can show you off and/or want to fuck you. That's my experience 99.9 percent of the time with female 'friends', and why theyve left me disappointed almost every single time. FTR, im excluding coworkers or acquantacnes, because i dont dconsider those to be 'friends'. I get along with some women fine and can grab drinks or talk over the water cooler, but its not like a close fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:23 AM
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honestly, ive found that women that treated me well as a friend also found me attractive or someone they could show off to others for *insert reasons*. When a woman lacks attraction to you or doesnt deem you high value in a sexual sense, they tend to treat you like an orbiter even if your intentions are purely platonic. ​ Im not saying no exceptions exist, because they surely do, but this has been my experience for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:20 AM
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plenty of guys have posted photos of themselves on ask trp and trp before and they were shredded. They definitely exist on here
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:58 AM
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that's not entirely incompatible. He says its a waste of time and that he gets matches. Matches do not always translate to fucking or a date. I know of attractive guys that gte a lot of matches but most of hte girls are not that attractive and of the ones that are, only a select few will actually end up committing to plans. That's not even going into bots and shit. ​ So yeah, i believe it tbh
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:56 AM
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i dont care how hot you are or what your age is, two kids is a fucking big deal. You can't be asking for the world and carrying around that much baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 12:50 AM
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ugh it's not about you personally relating to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 08:57 AM
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I'm just providing you with their perspective. If you flipped it, you can see why there's apprehension there. I personally do not want marriage or children, so my viewpoints on the matter are moot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:32 AM
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nah, this is a misrepresentation. TRP would take no issue with a girl that dated a guy throughout her 20s and got married whilst taking care of other things in her life. It's the girls who party hard and fuck harder, that still want to have their cake and eat it too into their late 20s/early30s. The 'spinster' types. A good percentage of women do find and date their husbands during their 20s, and that's not what's being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:06 AM
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every three days?! what are you even mowing at that point? I feel like my lawn doesn't grow fast enough to warrant more than once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:03 AM
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it doesnt help that house work isn't even that fucking hard anymore. I've been single for most of my life and upkeep hasn't been hard. Cooking is the only thing that takes time, but you can meal prep or prepare quick, healthy meals with a wok, rice cooker, slow cooker, air fryer etc. It's not that many hours a week, so im not sure why we talk about it as if its 1910 and were washing clothes over a fucking board
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:02 AM
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Im assuming youre much older than the average poster on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:51 AM
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you can't really look at it that way. A guy that fucks the entire cheerleading squad will be coveted by most women. The only women who MIGHT take issue are those with VERY conservative/religious beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:41 AM
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You shouldn't take it offensively. Men are burned hard by a lot of women who are shallow and who do sleep around like its going out of style. I actually feel for your plight, because your dating is negatively impacted by the actions of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:37 AM
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Let's face it, women that weren't giant whores who had their priorities straight, as far as finding a good man that'd be suitable for a marriage/family is concerned, are not on the market in their late 20s and 30s bitching about their lack of quality options and need to 'settle' or 'make better decisions'. If she tried her hand at a marriage and it failed for understandable reasons, that's one thing, but you know damn well that a girl who's single into her 30s was not a traditionally minded, mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:31 AM
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you're looking at it the wrong way. Most women wouldn't care if he was a manwhore, you need to look at it in the lens of 'hey you seem like a stable women, i had my fun and neglected your type for decades, but now im ready to wife you up and have you take care of my children'. You have to understand that to a traditionally and/or religious woman, this would be abhorrent. The reason guys bitch about this more is due to the fact that most guys don't get to have as many partners/sex as women do, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:24 AM
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is he wrong, though? His delivery is a bit rough, but if you flipped the script, how would a woman feel? 'Oh hey, im looking to settle down with a kind, traditional minded woman now that ive gotten my tumulutous slut phase past me. The sex was great but I could never wife up one of those abusive hos. I feel like you'd make a fine candidate for the future mother of my children due to you conservative leanings and traditional nature'. IF that sounds gross to you, it shouldnt be hard to figure out …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:18 AM
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while this comic is a tad incel-ey, it's not far from the mark lol. I know of a lot of guys who settled with girls I would NEVER settle with, given their past. It turns out as wonderful as youd expect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:53 AM
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I think a major issue is that 'being yourself' works for naturals. If youre attractive or have high status, you may have taken those things for granted and erroneously assumed that what works for you, works for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:40 AM
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This is WAY overplaying the uniqueness of individuals. Can individuals have differing sets of behaviors/interests due to culture and/or religion? sure. Can upbringing, past trauma, or mental illness affect ones behavior? Yes. But at the end of the day, there are observable commonalities between women that are advantageous to know about. Same applies to men as well. Focusing on wholly unique exceptions to the rule doesn't really garner results, at least not the results men want. ​ Ive played the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:39 AM
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while that's somewhat true, and I could definitely see the advice here being misapplied an someone ruining their chances with an honest, good human being, it's kind of the reality of the modern dating climate. Although people skew more autistic on here, the discussions aren't that different from what ive experienced IRL, save for all the esoteric terminology. Guys are reaching these conclusions in their own lives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:11 AM
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While i'm inclined to agree that it's better to focus on one person instead of dating a slew of people, you cannot seriously pass this advice along to men, or even women. The reality is that most people are dating around and entertaining multiple options, so it'd be disastrous for someone to operate within the framework of dating one person at a time, because it puts them at a huge disadvantage and renders their behavior unattractive. As a man, I don't have the luxury to focus on one girl at a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:21 PM
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I think it has a lot to do with the fact that as we get older, we prefer a higher gameplay: narrative ratio in games. Video games that have an intricate plot and span 100s of hours just arent as enticing as an adult. The stories are rarely all that great either, at least not when compared with other mediums. ​ For instance, I could never seriously play an indepth, narrative driven game like The Witcher, but I can easily spend a night playing a mario game. It used to be the reverse when I was you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:49 AM
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As opposed to what, though? While I agree that gaming can be unhealthy and a colossal waste of time, it doesn't seem that much worse than what the average person does, which is primarily binging TV shows, surfing the web, and chatting/messaging on their phone. It's rare for me to find someone with truly balanced interests, and I actually respect video games more than the alternative time wasters listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:47 AM
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If I ever find a girl half as thoughtful as what you described, I will be sure to put a ring on it lol. Seems like a dream to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:41 AM
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For the record, this is coming from a place where they recommend that you reject a guy that doesnt take you out to an expensive restaurant on the FIRST date. They also require the man to pay for the meal in full. I wouldn't pay any heed to what a fdser says lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:40 AM
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I can't speak for everyone here, but in my direct experience, girls are way more into you after they find out about your sexual exploits. Even if its with their friends. I didn't believe preselection until I inadvertantly experienced it. Say what you want about red pill, but preselection is a fucking thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:38 PM
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I have to strongly disagree with you here, Like it or not, women do value guys that get around, even if they state the contrary. When I was at my most promiscuous, girls were always piling in. Even women that 'wanted to take it slow' or 'were not one of those girls' suddenly had an interest in me after they caught wind of me banging their friends! It disgusts me to no end, even though I understand the evolutionary basis behind it. It's true. I wish that it wasnt, I truly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:36 PM
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yeah, that's the problem with all of these discussions - men and women operate differently in the sexual marketplace and you cannot ignore the ease in which women can obtain sex. For men, having lots of sex becomes a positive feedback loop that leads to more sex, and is a highly attractive trait. It's also a lot harder for men to achieve this vs. the ease in which women can obtain sex. It's only a double standard if you look at it with no nuance or in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:31 PM
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fair enough. But humans are humans and as long as both genders engage in this kind of thing, it's kind of silly to call out men. Women place men into boxes all the time and compartmentalize their interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:27 PM
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do you not agree that past behavior is relevant in evaluating a person? Are credit checks stupid? Where do you draw the line, I'm genuinely curious. Like it or not, a person's past decisions are often a very reliable indicator of risk. Society has reached a broad consensus on this, and while there are instances in which people can change, it often takes a lot of time, effort, and discipline before they are accepted again. In many cases, they arent (penal system)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:25 PM
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women do this all the time with men, so im not sure how it's 'wrong' when a guy does it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:16 PM
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ugh imagine sending that fucking beta shit to a girl
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:08 PM
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I dont even know why you're still in the same town as this bitch, let alone around her at all. She was a homeless wino for five years after the incident, and you still had her in your life (at a party) !? ​ Fucking move man
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:35 PM
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honestly, if the average woman had to endure even a fraction of what the average man does, they'd lose their motherfucking minds. I mean they'd be absolutely devastated, just crushed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:49 AM
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IM NOT lol. I wish more women talked like this openly and often around guys of all creeds and colors. We wouldnt even need TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:46 AM
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lol you just answered your own question, then. You're also oversimplifying the issue anyways, because a lot of these guys have good jobs, are caring, decent looking, and even funny! There are other reasons they are not as successful as other guys, and red pill teaches them what those reasons are and what to change in their behavior. ​ Tangentially, I always laugh when people talk about what they need to 'offer' these women, when most of these women are decidedly mediocre themselves. What a shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 09:23 PM
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this is a good way to meet bar skanks and women that party too much, but suboptimal for a girl that is worth a shit. Im pretty trp, but lets be honest here. A good strategy for QUALITY women is often having a brief coffee date, and then following up with a second one at their or your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:30 PM
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so many men have tried this and found it ineffectual. Why the fuck do you think TRP type knowledge is as popular as it is now? Ten years ago that strategy worked decently enough, but things have changed. You cant get mad at men looking for a way to succeed when theyve exhausted the other options. Most guys dont get shit being 'a good person'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:27 PM
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Sure, but social media and changing cultural mores changed the dating landscape and rendered alternative strategies that most men used to adopt ineffectual, or at the very least, not optimal. Never before have we seen such a disparity in the amount of sex men are having
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:22 PM
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you didnt create blue betas, but you certainly turned some to the dark side haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:44 PM
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women already were doing optimal feminine strategies, hence why red pill and the manosphere has blown the fuck up in the last five years. TRP was a reaction to these strategies, just because the sub was made post-trp doesn't mean that its a reaction to trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:39 PM
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because she has cog dissonance up the ass. She has created the types of men that turn to trp. She has FUCKED the type of men that are players and trp types. She is part of the problem and it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:36 PM
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sure, but as you get older and have done that song and dance a crapload of times, the novelty isn't there. Charming women isn't that hard not interesting past a certain point, and can become a hassle to deal with. That's why people, even chads, eventually settle down(marriage) and/or use escorts. ​ Spinnin plates and charming into the pants of girls gets old, but I can see why you woulnd't get this if you're younger
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:49 AM
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yeeeeep. I have no love for spinning plates or spitting game constantly. It's annoying as balls and almost a part time job lol
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:47 PM
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why though? If he can pull, and he values his time, WHY is this such a big deal? Maybe yall are super young, but as you get older, time becomes more valuable than constant pussy and the time required to get it. If you can afford safe and hot escrots/hookers on the regular, it's a big time saver and a lot less time and stress on bullshit
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:46 PM
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honestly who gives a fucking shit? If it is helpful for you and you can afford it WHILST being safe, I say go for it. Gaming and 'spinnin plates' is annoying as fuck and a colassal time sink of energy and time. If you know you can pull, why not focus your valuable time on other things other than horseshit women? Some people on this forum are fucking blowhards about seeing hookers too much, but I say fuck it man.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:44 PM
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I know it wont make you feel any better, but i can say with 110 percnet certaintly that ive cucked guys hotter nad more socially capable than me. Many of them had higher status as well. Women are brutal man, and it's not always the 'better man' they go for haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:59 AM
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this should be the default answer to all these questions tbh. The first point in particular. Women often conflate lifting with roided out body builders at the top of their field, and that's a primary source of confusion/contention. This isn't even relegated to women tbh, tons of guys hold this delusion as well. I cannot tell you how many times guys have said to me 'I want to start lifting but i dont wanna get TOO BIG, ya know?'. ppl ignorant lol
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:59 AM
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It is but Ive seen people do strenght programs whilst eating right and not getting aesthetic. Im not saying they look bad, but it doenst do it for people. 5x5 often results in centaur builds. I dont' get how you havent seen this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 09:02 AM
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I dont really fault people for wanting to do hyper because it often gets the desired body at teh fastest rate. Strength programs often dont get the aesthetic people want. Call it 'bro culture' but it's what most people end up doing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:34 AM
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Anyone that has gone from fat/out of shape to fit knows that this is fucking bullshit. You don't even need to do this to know - just observe how women act around muscular and aesthetic guys. Just because it's not impossible to shoot above your weight class doesn't mean that looks don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:05 AM
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a lot of people do 5x5 and dont get that much in terms of aesthetic. It comes down to genetics. Generally, a hypertrophy routine will get you aesthetic results (athletic build or bigger) in a shorter period of time than 5x5; for some, 5x5 will not produce aesthetic results AT ALL. Strength programs are not infamous for the desired physique. Furthermore, to hit a lot of the muslces that pop to women, hypertrophy is often needed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:59 AM
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I guess my only argument is that most guys that have the builds were speaking of are engaging in hyper routines. Id say teh vast majority of lifters in most gyms are doing hyper routines, and that results in the physique being discussed. Strenght routines are not even close to as popular and I don't get why people are acting like they are or that they result in that body type for most
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:30 AM
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you're engaging in this straw man shit where im talking about HUGE guys, when im not. Most guys with the build you speak of are doing hyper workouts. Ive been working out in the gym my entire life, and its not the strength programs that are the most popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:28 AM
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this is complete bollocks. Hypertrophy is the best form of lifting if you want to look good in a shirt, and id hardly call that lifting to be 'strong'. Do any of you fucking work out? some of the strongest people in my gym either look like they dont lift or they're fat as fuck, while the hyper boys have aesthetic bodies. This can vary on genetics, but at the end of the day, strength training is not what leads to that type of physique for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:09 AM
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a lot of powerlifters are also fat and dont even look like they lift at all. You can't seriously tell me that powerlifters often have the 'ideal physique'
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:08 AM
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I kind of see what you're saying, but in my experience, those types of women are fucking for a reason taht isn't just sexual in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:40 AM
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I couldn't disagree more. A lot of women get the vast majority of their sexual experiences within relationships, and the quality of that sex is often much higher than 'slutting it up'. I know it might be insane to you, but a lot of women can go months without sex and avoid 'slutting it up'. Some of the best lays Ive had were women that were only in relationships, while some of the worst were girls with huge n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:13 AM
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by pairing off early , I didnt mean THAT early. I meant like 20-25, college and/or maybe post grad. The people that paired off in college tend ot have happy marriages from what ive seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:37 AM
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BPD is discussed in TRP with a lot of regularity lol. i couldn't disagree more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:39 AM
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it's honestly crazy how true this is, at least for most European countries. Go to Latin America and you'll def see a culture shift when it comes to touch as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:36 AM
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I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss this. Do the posters of the donald seem well adjusted and pussy slayers to you? There is a large contingent of men that gets radicalized annually, and these men often suffer from social isolation and a lack of sexual fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:34 AM
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lol this is probably the best analysis of american dating ive seen in a while. if you dont pair off early on, the dating scene is an absolute nightmare for most and it results in a lot of cynical and jaded people of both sexes, for a myriad of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:33 AM
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well your comment about compiling 100s if not thousands of attributes is an impossible task, so it did seem facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:16 PM
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Youre being sarcastic, ingenuous, and dismissive. Attractive privilege is a well documented thing in both men and women, and yes, attractive people tend to have it easier across a myriad of metrics and are treated far better than their peers. There are countless studies in sociology, psychology etc that confirm this. Want a promotion? Much more likely to get it if you're pretty. Sexual marketplace? Gold mine if you're attractive. Being hired? Much more likely if youre attractive. List goes on an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:06 PM
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being attractive, man or woman, is a huge privilege tbh. the impact of the halo effect is immense, ESPECIALLY with women. ​ and it doenst' even out in the grand scheme at all, that's just wishful, just-world fallacy bs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:54 PM
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well she is a woman, what do you expect? They always trivilaize this shit and take it for granted, and when pressed, mention how they have gone through so much like having regular cramps, or that they have to suffer the pain of giving birth one day. It's real hard to be a woman, you see
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:52 PM
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seriously. If people actually had hobbies and did shit with their lives, they'd be meeting people and not completely reliant on romances formed at work.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:22 PM
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it used to be less risky, but in today's social climate it's becoming no bueno. Most companies are instituting polices that forbid office romances with threat of termination, so there's that too.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:21 PM
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I think that's going to be changing soon with all the me too garbage. Most companies are implementing policies that dissuade employees from dating other employees with punishments up to and including termination. Furthermore, a lot of men are reporting that they no longer want to mentor women, let alone flirt with them. ​ I'm not saying shitting where you eat was a great idea before, but it could pan out, and the consequences were less severe. Nowadays, it seems the juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:20 PM
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Honestly, their level of skill doesn't neccesarily indicate a high n count. I've found that many high n count girls werent that great at giving head or even sex, while girls that primarily dated one guy at a time were hella skilled. Two people comfortable in their sexuality can really hone one another's skills, far more than sleeping around will do
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:14 PM
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ive never fucked a girl that was over the age of 26 and im not in my 20s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:00 PM
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I don't have a good answer but I will say it creeps me out a lot. If a girl has 2-3 cats, it jsut feels wrong
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:35 AM
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I dunno man, I fucked more sluts as a beta than normal girls lol. I'd say the hardest girls to bang are attractive women who have their shit together, because they tend to be the most discerning when it comes to the full package. Losers can bang sluts easy peezy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:20 AM
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uh, did you not see that she's talking about other girls dating these older men? these arent' all direct experiences, but even if they were, it's still anecdotal. I don't get what's so hard to understand about this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:05 AM
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that's fucking bullshit. You're just going to invalidate his life experiences because he has a penis? Ive seen both kinds of relationships discussed above and it can go both ways. Anecdotal is useless for making any determination; you can't say someone's anecdotal evidence is better than the next person;s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:54 AM
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that's a huge assumption. Not defending sean because I don't know sean, but these girls rarely go on to lead an 'uneventful and mildly difficult life'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:20 AM
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to be fair, both of your experiences are purely anecdotal, so yeah, theyr'e of the same usefulness in this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:56 AM
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that last part is why TRP emphasizes lifting and fitness so heavily as the first step. If you're attractive, it's easy to build confidence because people fucking treat you better, full stop. Don't have ot fake shit or a be a naturally confidant motherfucker if people treat you well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:35 AM
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goddamn man, you're a clown. You can still read information and discuss topics whilst being a high value man, it's not as if you're pursuing pussy every minute of your goddamn life. Furthermore, for those of us with jobs that have immense amounts of downtime, it's a godsend. At any rate, this discussion is pathetic, because you apparently think you need to be a social media whore to get women and that's fucking sad. Bro, you should also stop reading books because that doesnt lead to POOSAY
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:36 AM
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whenever someone posts a 'gotchya' answer like this, I have to shake my head. Reddit isn't even on the same level as other forms of social media, and if you think it is, you're straight up delusional. When im reading ask historians or perusing political discussion, that is inherently more valuable than anything i do on social media. Even if i'm engaging in the more shallow aspects of reddit, i'm not getting tons of personal validation in my actual life from it
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:56 PM
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lol when I worked in bars I fucked al ot of coworkers that had bfs
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:33 AM
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lol preach
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 06:19 PM
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It depends on the severity and type of scumbag, but if im being honest with you, it often seems they want the attention of scumbags anyways lol. I'm also of the belief that people should and do have agency, so it's not my job to police their behavior barring an extremely situation they cannot get out of on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 06:17 PM
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this logic sucks. There's nothing wrong with turning down a girl because you have integrity and hold yourself to a greater set of virtues than the next guy. You shouldn't be such a slave to pussy that you forego your own principles. ​ And for the youngins out there: male friendships last longer and mean A LOT more than any pussy you are getting. By fucking a girl that is taken, you could destroy a friendship that could have lasted a life time. Pussy comes and goes, and is ultimately worth nothin…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:53 AM
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at the very least, women need to realize they cant always have their cake and eat it too. If you wanna live the spinster lifestyle into your 30s so be it, but stop acting like you can do that and still have a family with the ideal man. There are oppurtinity costs and trade offs to most decisions in life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:12 PM
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it's not even rare anymore. Women talk openly around men they feel comfortable with. Not all but most. Dude is an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 07:01 AM
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for fuck boys who are obviously fuck boys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 06:39 AM
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men that do this are often very clearly men who would do this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 06:39 AM
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every guy that I knew who strung along women was quite clearly the type of dude that strung along women. I can't tell you how many times i've heard women bitch and moan about a fuck boy who was clearly a fuck boy. I'm not denying the ol' switcheroo happens with guys that dont' seem that way, but it's pretty damn rare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 06:38 AM
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when men say this, it's not because she put out too fast, it's because of who she is. If she's a mega slut fucking every guy in town it doesn't mean much. If she's a shitty person/personality sucks, it stands to reason that a man would be down to fuck her but not date her. I've NEVER heard a guy say that a girl put out to fast and that is the SOLE reason he won't date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 06:37 AM
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man if youve never heard a woman describe her sexcapades, you haven't truly known many women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 03:00 AM
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LOL. this guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 02:59 AM
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The fact that you were unsuccessful and can only recount one unsuccessful encounter with a women speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:42 AM
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its not a compliment but its not an insult either. It's what it is. Im not trying to be a provider and i don't put off those vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:31 AM
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at this point in my life? Honestly prefer it. I don't really want to be seen as the guy that's gonna be a provider or anything like that. I don't want kids and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:21 PM
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Ill give an example from my life : I know a guy that's pretty socially awkward and can be quite dull, but he models on the side. He can go on tinder and f-close attractive women that night with minimal effort on his part. When he goes out, girls get closer to him and give him insane amounts of openings. He can go to a bar/club and leave with a girl with a very small amount of effort. He has to practically try not to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:13 PM
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I think the issue is that were going to extremes when talking about this. Ugly guys need a lot more game while attractive guys need a lot less. It's not about being fully autistic or the most suave motherfucker. You can still get laid as an uglier guy, but you're gonna expend a lot more effort to obtain a girl and keep her interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:11 PM
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he's not entirely wrong. I know some pretty awkward guys who coast on their attractiveness. They still manage to get laid a lot and have enough girls stick around for a period of time. You definitely need more game if youre less attractive, but that's obvoius
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:10 PM
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well duh. But that doesn't mean that ugly guys shoudln't improve themselves and work on game. They don't have any other options. At least they can get something if they apply themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:07 PM
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no girls 'suck at texting'. It just means she sucks at texting to you, ie she's not that interested. If she's interested she'll message you
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:39 AM
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well I woudln't argue against the latter part, but im not sure I agree with the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:44 PM
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Yeah but based on my experience, it would be a disservice to tell monogamous/relationship minded men that a high partner count is a non factor in the succcess of such arrangements. I just have not seen that to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:18 PM
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ok great, but that isn't an arrangement most people can get behind. Furthermore, it goes beyond just cheating and openness; i've found that there are a host of other mental/emotional issues that are usually present with high n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:10 PM
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IME yes. If all men were on an equal playing field when it comes to getting casual sex, it would probably change a lot, but that will never be the case. With that said, even a lot of 'chads' want to date a girl and end up chasing someone eventually. I think the percentage of men that truly just want casual sex into their 30s is very low
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:50 PM
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going off of that recent study, it seems men are fairing far worse in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:42 PM
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this is assuming that a high partner count for a man means the same thing as it does for a woman (it doesnt)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:39 PM
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are you seriously going to tell guys that a high partner count has no bearing on relatoinship stability? How is your flair red lol. FTR, a lot of girls I knew with a partner count that high had issues and they were not good at maintaining relationships. A lot of them would also cheat eventually. Exceptions always exist but it's a red flag if you're going ot invest heavily in a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:38 PM
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yeah, the whole 'games are the primary reason men arent getting laid' is bogus. There are definitely instances of utter addicts, but most of those guys turned to gaming because they werne't doing well in other areas. Should they try to maximize their qualities and improve? sure, fine, whatever, but at the end of the day, most of these guys turned to gaming because they sucked IRL. Good looking/socially competent guys still game and get laid and have girlfriends. It's not some niche hobby anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:16 PM
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it's defiintely a multi factorial thing - the issue is that whenever things of this nature are brought up, people try to blame the issue entirely on men, as if women are completely unaccountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:15 AM
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to elaborate on your point and bolster it further: there are plenty of guys that game hard and still get their dicks sucked on the reg. I knew a ton of dudes that played games all the time but had no problem with women. Why? Because they were attractive. Go to your average frat house in the mid 2000s and tell me how many guys you see spending a full day playing halo and hitting bongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:04 AM
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I think a lot of people on here are pretty damn out of touch. you have people that are either too old or people that lucked out and haven't had to be on the dating market for quite some time. Sometimes both. The other day you had some women seriously arguing that nothing fundamental has changed due to social media and online dating. That is just so fucking out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:56 AM
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stop providing women with attention or time that don't reciprocate. You're being a time ho
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:35 AM
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eh, I disagree. Things are way different now. Never have men felt so disposable and at such a disadvantage. Hell man, I can remember things being different even ten years ago. Shit has gotten A LOT worse and blaming it on video games is not gonna suffice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 06:47 AM
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You keep harping on vidya and porn but outsie of extreme examples, i think it's usually teh symptom and not the cause. Most guys i've known that have dropped out so to speak have done so because they were let down/burned/rejected too much and it destroyed their self esteem and/or mental state. Enough bad experiences can ruin men, they're humans too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:10 PM
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the cog dissonance is hilarious. open relationships are fucking bullshit and she didnt expect him to do well in such an arrangement. that's it, that's the extent of it. She's mad because she's not the only one benefiting. If you care about emotional bullshit you don't ask for an open relationship
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 05:24 AM
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for a lot of guys, yeah for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:03 AM
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I was gonna say that Ive gone on dates with HOT women, I mean like dancers and shit, when I was overweight and didn't have that much game. So you're good man
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:54 PM
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ive seen a lot and i'm consistently shocked at what girls want. I had a girl link me violent porn vids to emulate, and I don't even want ot talk about the other one's desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:35 PM
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lol whatever. Ok so people were just engaging in vanilla sex and these things completely unheard of unless a culture was in a 'period of decadance'. Do you realize how ridiculous that sounds? Honestly, I think you have some puritanical views that are heavily influenced by religious thought. You're talking some victorian age bullshit right now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:17 PM
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I know who caligula was but i'm confused as to what a 'caligula face' entails. I have never heard the expression, i'm assuming a leer of sorts, but enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:15 PM
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is that a fact? I think BDSM, anal, and other fetishes were prevalent in the decades preceding porn. If you wanna go way back, look at naughty pottery in ancient greece, medieval japan, or even books like the KamaSutra.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:14 PM
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so you think girls arent requesting this shit ever and they never enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:11 PM
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I dunno about that. Ive had two girls ask me to do some fucked up shit in the past year. Most definitely wasn't to make other men happy, because it's niche as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:10 PM
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why are you framing it as if men are like that and women arent? Other women are asking for and doing these things too. you may be traditional but most people arent; I think you under estimate how freaky girls are on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:08 PM
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DUDE seriously. I'm a pretty vanilla guy overall and women are the ones always asking for some fucking weird shit. ALWAYS. I'll get into some stuff but some of it is beyond the pale
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:07 PM
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whats a caligula face?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:06 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:02 PM
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if they were, we wouldn't even be here. Why would red pill even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:02 PM
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yep. Like I said, I feel bloop type men get punished the hardest. Ive seen so many well meaning, idealistic guys that hold all the notions we commonly associate with bloops get fucking rail roaded by a thot. It's depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:15 AM
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well the post is fucking stupid to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:55 AM
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that's your personal bias showing. You're defining status on a character/moral level, which isn't that useful. Vast majority of high status men aren't leaving their wives for their secretaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:48 AM
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you literally just contradicted yourself. Low status men don't have a secretary. Furthermore, low status men arent getting married, theyre just having a kid and dipping. Big difference. Even then theyr'e still on the line for child support or they go to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:27 AM
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yeah but ive seen a lot of guys that could be more discerning or at least work on themselves more in order to be a better catch. These guys are often not hopeless. If anything, it seems like blue pill guys get hit hardest regardless. So many guys with blooper mentalities end up ignoring a girls sordid past or over looking her glaring issues because they're trying to be idealistic. Seen it happen a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:23 AM
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I think another issue is that with high standards, you often only run into crazy. A lot of guys have to adjust their standards and see that there's more to life than their dick getting rock solid for a certain type. Ive been with mostly hot girls and hot girls are often stacies or have serious issues. It's just true. The level of attention they get today just exacerbates it all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:08 AM
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yeah I kinda cringe at that shit as well. IME, women that were attracted to me never even asked for cunnilingus and they all fucking cummed in intercourse. Women that werent were a lost cause. A lot of guys just dont know any better, which is unfortuante.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 09:58 PM
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mate guarding is the dumbest thing ever. Ive seen people get into fights over that kind of shit and it's pointless. Even if the girl gets off on you doing it, fuck her. Not worth it
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:39 PM
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you dont even have to game other women, just go off and do your own thing. Meet some cool people, male or female, or engage with friends or acquantances you havent seen in a bit. Just don't have tunnel vision for one bitch
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:37 PM
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NEVER compete in a bar setting. Back off and do your own thing, if she values you she'll come to you, if not, well fuck her then. Competing makes you look like a fucking insecure loser and also can result in an actual physical altercation. What's the point? Girls that play these games don't deserve your attention. Let them have their fun, they'll see that you dont need them and come around or wont. either way your self respect and dignity is intact; you're more than a monkey
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:35 PM
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then tell them it's not going to go anywhere and let them go? I dont see what the issue is
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:04 PM
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man, as long as you're honest and upfront about your intentions, you have absolutely nothing to be guilty about. Think about how many guys these girls led on and still do lead on, think bout all the orbiters and 'friends' they have that they damn well know are into them. You think they stay up at night worrying themselves about it?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:12 PM
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yeah it's honestly extremely unattractive to know and hear about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 07:02 AM
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yeah, because nothing turns a man on like hearing about all the guys she's seeing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 06:59 AM
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I mean some people can, but as much as we don't like to admit it, we are products of our environment.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:15 AM
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the problem is a lot of men aren't getting the proper role models and messaging. I totally get how normal dudes get lost and kinda just give up. They are just bombarded with utter BS their enire lives with no voice of reason
/r/askTRP24/03/19 03:47 AM
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well there's no reason you cant do both. And getting your finances in check doesn't require a six figure salary.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:25 PM
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I cant personally show you but I know of a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:13 PM
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OP didnt' elaborate properly in his original post. If you look at his posts in this thread, he literally outlines that she attracts and hangs out with dudes at bars. It's definitely not ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:48 PM
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one in five marry someone their junior. That isn't most men and a difference of ten years is a far cry from '40 somethings are getting 20 somethings'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:00 PM
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this is such fucking bullshit. Most men in their 40s aren't divorcing their wives for young 20-something year old girls. What on earth are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:13 AM
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if a girl is stupid enough to invest in a guy that is a literal bum, she's a lost cause to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:12 AM
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double standards are always going to be a thing so get used to it lol
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:38 AM
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thing is, he stated she admits to taking out coworkers to the bar who are sexually intersted in her. That's a huge red flag. Mixing booze and flirting is a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:52 AM
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the fact that booze in the mix makes it worse. Does dude think a girl cant do a quickie or blow a guy before coming home to him? Cuz that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:51 AM
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these chicks almost always cheat. It's one thing to be flirty in a service job for tips or something, but it's a whole nother ball game to actively hang out one on one with guys at bars and flirt. That's just the reddest of flags. As I stated above, i've rarely seen this kind of situation be innocuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:39 AM
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hanging out iwth other dudes and flirting at a bar is disrespectful behavior to the max.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:38 AM
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you shoulnd't feel good about it lol. Look man, take it from a guy that's been 'that co worker' or 'that friend' : she will cheat. I can't tell you how many times ive been the guys you describe and ended up dogging their gf. Sorry but it's true. It might not happen right away but sooner or later it will. Think about it dude : she's hanging out with guys and getting drunk lol. And admits to flirting. You gotta be fucking kidding me here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:37 AM
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I'd consider it a huge red flag if a woman I was DATING said 'flirting is needed in a mans world to get ahead'. I'm sorry but it's 2019 and that's a bullshit statement. She's trying to justify some bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:35 AM
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I think this sort of thinking has resulted in a clusterfuck of epic proportions. Women that actually value sex and intimacy are doing the right thing by holding out, but other women are not following these rules, so guys are afraid of being used (and rightfully so), so they tend to push for sex hard and fast. It would take a huge cultural change for this to work, and women would have to mostly all be on board. It USED to make sense, but in the days of hook up culture and social media, not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:12 AM
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Telling her what you did is a good way to deal with it if you'd like to maybe potentially have some sex in the future. If she comes around she comes around, if not fuck it. This is if you don't have oneitits, however. Leaving her is another valid option, it's up to you to gauge what you can handle. But putting the ball in her court and going silent on your end is an effective strategy. Just don't initiate any texting ever
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:45 PM
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dealing with women is fucking annoying most of the time, so no, I don't blame you. If something easy falls into your lap, by all means take it, but expending effort when you have more pressing issues to deal with is likely a waste of your hard earned cash and time. A lot of people on here advocate 'spinning plates', but that shit is annoying af and exhausting in my experience. Just focus on you for a bit and when you have more time, vet and reward women that seem to be worth it.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:39 PM
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25 is young, you have plenty of time. you can literally turn your life around in under a year.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:33 PM
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Assuming you can carry your own financial weight, I really don't think this would matter at all. All the positives outweigh the negatives. It's only an issue if you both don't make enough combined to raise a family or afford the COL of where you live, but assuming that's controlled for, this seems like an ideal situation/partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:31 AM
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yeah, your personal honor and self respect is more important than sex. If more men called this shit out and hard nexted, women would maybe learn something.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:22 AM
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Yeah, i'd maybe allow her to come over and fuck me after that, but i'd be wary of doing anything with her in general. I dunno, I think it's perfectly fine to hard next on this one, even hooking up with her might be too much validation if she disrespects you that hard.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:21 AM
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it's not a cheat code, it's shit that men have known for years. It's just that that weve all been fed a bunch of bullshit by the media and academics for years and that conditioning has had a profound effect.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:57 PM
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you say no but everything above screams mental illness. I'd guess there were other red flags along the way that you ignored.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:36 AM
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really no reason to analyze it because it's all irrational, mental behavior. She clearly has mental issues and needs to go to therapy. I personally think you dodged a bullet if you leave her
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:35 AM
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the worst part is a lot of those snaps are probably to other guys as well.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:55 AM
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yep. and look at all the orbitesr and 'friends' she has that shes spurned throughout time.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:50 AM
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As long as you dont' actively lead them on, you shouldn't feel guilty. Also, think about all the fucking orbiters and guys they string along if you really want to assuage your guilt.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:50 AM
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yeah, I could see this being a point of confusion and generally agree. A woman that's truly submissive in every aspect of her life is a huge red flag and results in her literally being pressured to sleep with losers and cheat. you want her to be submissive to you, not a general pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 01:08 AM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 01:05 AM
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yeah just the idea that they'd want to hold you down. Like ive been a scumbag for a good portion of my life but I have nthing but support, or at the least, neutrality when it comes to my sexuality and women im seeing
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:04 AM
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whatever, i dont care what term you use, insert 'promiscuous woman' or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:04 AM
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lol when I read shit like this, it always makes me realize how next level shitty people's families can be. I've never had this issue with my family
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:33 PM
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I have no problem with that, and would even argue that it's smart for you to have some insecurity. I think extremely high n-count men are not necessarily good choices for a serious LTR, but they are often attractive and intoxicating to women, so you have a lot of women gunning for them, hoping that theyll be the one that'll lock them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:06 PM
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I don't really have a need for labels but it's convenient in this instance. I tend to see a correlation between promiscuity, or 'sluttiness', and mental issues and behaviors that are incompatible with LTRs. I don't disagree with you that it's a symptom and not the cause, but at some point the chicken and the egg argument is redundant. The outcome is the same regardless of what precedes what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:04 PM
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Ok you're either willfully ignorant or delusional. Two of the biggest properties he starred in were game of thrones and Aquaman. the former is watched by virtually everyone and girls swooned about him then and even were willing to overlook his blatant rape of danys. The latter is also popular with women; super hero movies are no llonger the ddomain of white, nerdy guys. Women have gushed over his aquaman look for a while now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:03 PM
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yeah it's also unrealistic because it's likely you still have feelings for her and she's gonna try to manipulate you and may succeed. There's no going back when an LTR destroys the compact between the two of you. That's the truth; people just like to play sociopath in the comments
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:42 PM
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I don't give a fuck if women dont' want a promiscuous man. It's just that it's rarer that women care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:40 PM
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You already know the answer. I had a roommate who has a girl friend who pulled the same stunt. Guess what ended up happening? she fucked at least 3 people that we know of and i could have been one of them if I had no honor. Get rid of the bitch
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:35 PM
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asking whether or not you should see a male or female therapist is asinine in my experience. I've had therapists that were female and pretty real, and ive had male beta cuck therapists that were more of a bitch than a bitch. It can go either way. If I had ot give you any advice, i'd say stay clear from therapists that are just generally unknowledgeable. You can tell who's good based upon their opinions of CBT and knowledge of medications. Once they start spouting off some fairy tale bullshit, yo…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:34 PM
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if you're in an LTR, you're not employing a IDGAF attitdue. Dont confuse prioritizing your needs and your mission over someone in your life with 'not caring'. It's fine to care, but you have to still be guarded and make sure the affection is earned and most importantly, reciprocated. The woman is complimentary to your life, not the focus. You can love and appreciate her, but it has to be from a reasonable place. People are too obsessed with this idea of intoxicating, cloying, all encompassing lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:30 PM
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yeah, and it's fine to realize that she won't reciprocate your feelings, what isn't fine is to continually associate with her to your own detriment. Once you determine that she will not like you back, you are free to put her on the backburner if not cut her off completely-you dont owe anything to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:29 PM
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TRP has no issue with caring if the girl has earned that kind of commitment. It's just an issue of not over extending yourself and becoming the loser in the power dynamic, which results in exploitation, rejection, and sadness. Basically, you go into it guarded and only show comfort and care if it's earned. And even then you don't over do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:27 PM
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The slut one's the most annoying because my reasoning for not wanting to date sluts isn't because of their numbers, it's because of the behaviors and issues they usually have. Exceptions exist, but it has never been about the number to me. It just so happens that girls with startingly high n counts tend to be unstable and not good partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:06 PM
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almost every 'gym goer' I know likes one of those hobbies. My gym has a fucking swimming pool. A lot of people like to cycle for cardio. I know of more than a handful that dance. You're generalizing people and making an ass out of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:04 PM
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jesus christ. First off, not everyone lives in a state or country where they can work out outdoors 24/7. Secondly, there are things you can do in the gym in a more time efficient manner than you can do outside. I prefer cardio outside, and I like to dance, but none of those things are going to build and maintain the muscle tone I want. It's a 3-6 hour time investment weekly, quit pretendin that most people in the gym are there 24/7. that's a small subset of people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:02 PM
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lol thank you. People also vastly overestimate the amount of time people spend or need to spend in a gym to get the results they want. most people can go 3-4 times a week at 1-1.5 hour increments and obtain the physique and level of health they want in their lives. It's not a huge time investment and it pays huge dividends in mental and physical health, while making you more attractive to boot. I'd go as far as to say if you're not working out for that length of time per week, you're a lazy, unh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:00 PM
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you do realize that a guy can spend three days a week for a grand total of 3-4 hours in the gym and still look like a million bucks, especially with a proper diet. furthermore, I don't go to the gym for women, I go to the gym because I like fitting in nice clothes and I like feeling like a million bucks. It clears my head, allowing me to have better mental stability and clarity while keeping me healthy physically. The physique is just an added benefit. What exactly would be a more valuable use o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:58 PM
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I really wish this could be fucking stickied because it gets tiresome hearing about the straw man 'dur hur girsl dont like juiced out wwe looking roid heads' . Like no shit, no one's talking about that so stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:56 PM
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the poster youre replying to is just willfully ignorant. Hugh Jackman is lusted after by millions of women, and it is in part due to his masculine features and build, which is clearly built in the gym. I also have ripped friends and they can go on tinder and get matches within minutes and literally go home with a girl within an half hour. These people are just willwfully delusoinal, for what reason I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:45 PM
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I think you guys heavily strawman what 'ripped' entails. Are you talking about roided out monster freaks? Then sure, yeah. But jason mamoa or the Rock are two people that are 'ripped' and girls SWOON over them. So explain taht shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:43 PM
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I disagree, but Im not sure what you mean by 'ripped'. Jason Mamoa is fucking ripped and is shirtless in all of his productions and women SWOON for him. Virtually every woman I know thinks hes the hottest thing. Guys i've known irl that were ripped always were slaying, always. Girls would touch on them, flirt with them, and ultimately go home with them with minimal effort on their part. So yeah im still going with 'girls like ripped guys' until I see real evidence to the contrary. If you're talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:41 PM
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like i said, fragile ego.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:31 AM
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uh no, shell contact you, shell show up in your feeds. Look man, this isnt a contest around who can care the least and be the most inhuman. You spend a lot of time with a person and it's hard to move forward if they're able to contact you/you see them. You sound like you have a fragile ego if you care that much about this. If you can stand it and it won't hinder you mentally, then by all means, do it.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:10 AM
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well i'm talking about practice and reality. Unless you're a sociopath, you're unlikely to be unphased by further communications with an ex. Maybe some people deal with it better than others ,but why risk it? You stand to gain NOTHING from further communication other than detrimental effects to your psyche. At best it's an annoyance, at worst it's bringing you down. Severing ties and moving forward is effective and works; there is no shame in it
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:03 PM
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Yeah, unless you're an absolute retard socially, your biggest barrier is your weight. Get that in check and you'll be able to pull much more successfully. It's not that you coudnl't pull now, but it's gonna take a lot more work for far less benefit than you could otherwise. The amount of game required to get a woman is directly proportional to your looks imho
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:03 PM
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oh the exes will contact them, so it's best to block
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:45 PM
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First of all, get rid of this idea that alphas are some sort of inhuman monster that doesn't need or feel emotions. I don't care how 'badass' you think you are, you will likely still get a tinge of sadness or regret or something when you see her pictures or when she messages you stupid shit at 1 am on a saturday. Secondly, once she's you're ex is it's for a good reason. She either left you, you left her, she cheated etc. There is absolutely no reason to allow her to remain in your life, unless y…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:44 PM
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extremely common. most people have it covered in the comments, but watch their actions, not their words. Their words are meaningless. They are talking to dozens upon dozens of guys simultaneously across various apps at all times. Remember that always. You think youre the only one she messaged 'I miss you too'?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:40 PM
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i've never met a guy that was uber successful with women that didn't say things that would make the most shameless of people here blush. It's just a fact and people like to deny it because it's not pc. High SMV guys get away with a hell of a lot of bs. Girls might tire of it eventually, sure, but it takes a while lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:33 PM
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lol reminds me of how I said some misogynistic things on a drunken rant once and a girl still slept with me a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:28 PM
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everywhere? Men listen to women complain and bitch all the time for nothing in return. Men help women that are struggling irl all the time. Men pass legislation that literally favors women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:18 PM
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uh, men listen to women complain and bitch all the fucking time, often for no tangible benefit. men also tend to help women out if they see them struggling with say a flat tire, or some other problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:17 PM
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id like to see the alternativve universe where men have no sympathy for women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:56 PM
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Why do you all talk as though sex has to be absolutely mind blowing the first time? Nerves, alcohol, or a billion other variables could result in a bad first time. If you like someone, you're going to give them more than one chance fucking christ. You can't determine sexual chemistry in one night every single fucking time. Comfortability and communication can make the sex become great over time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:08 AM
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