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I spent my first Christmas alone in my 36 year life yesterday. I rode my skateboard, got Chinese food, played video games, made cookies, and saw my FWB at the end of the night. It was the most relaxing and enjoyable Christmas I ever had. No GF or toxic family to deal with. I am out in my city right now getting myself breakfast and they are serving cocktails too. I feel good. I feel complete. Cheers gentlemen
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 03:01 PM
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Goddamnit I hate seeing this. Why does no one care about men!!!!
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 02:45 AM
1

31 the first time and 36 the second one. The 2nd relationship ended in March of this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:44 AM
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Been sexually assaulted by two partners. Somehow both times it became my fault and was told it was wrong of me to feel like I was assaulted and I should apologize for saying it. Thank god they are both out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:48 PM
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That “Best Answer” is absolutely horrific!!
/r/MGTOW29/10/20 10:59 AM
8

I see more women obsessing over their dogs now. It seems the older ladies do the cat thing. Young women do dogs because they have to care for it: like surrogate babies.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 01:56 AM
1

This is AWESOME!
/r/MGTOW22/10/20 01:13 PM
3

Holy shit dude!
/r/MGTOW17/10/20 05:32 PM
2

Sounds like you are doing good. Happy for ya.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 04:14 PM
3

Damn man. So sorry you had to experience that. I can relate. They suck you in its like magic, because once you figure them out and separate from them, you educate yourself and look back and can’t believe you fell for it. They are social predators. All the best and healing to you man. Thanks for sharing. It helped me today because for some reason its a tough one.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 01:58 PM
9

My narc ex was a cosplayer. All about being queen dick for the simps
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 01:53 PM
4

Its sick. My second narc female. I don’t know how these psychos find me. I’ve been a mgtow who dates for a few years now. Maybe it’s finally time to end that aspect and go monk. The last 3 women I have been involved with have abused me.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 01:46 PM
7

This is my most recent ex.
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 07:14 PM
3

Love your vids man.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 11:26 PM
3

Hey man. I don’t know you. But I love you, just how you are. Don’t give up. Focus on things in your life that give you happiness. Show love to yourself in the way you love others and you will have a great life. DM if you need to vent, sympathetic ear, or advice.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 02:04 AM
1

I would NEVER kneel for a woman.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 12:42 PM
5

Mother of god....
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 02:04 AM
2

These are f*cking pimp! Nice work!!
/r/MGTOW205/10/20 01:00 PM
2

Lots of love to you brother
/r/MGTOW04/10/20 11:25 AM
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LOL clothing.... clothing... is a “toxic” stereotype 😂😂😂😂 where do they come up with this sh*t??
/r/MGTOW204/10/20 10:39 AM
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Going through this now, for a second time. This time instead of my early twenties its in my late thirties. It sucks. First time it made me mature and I knew it would. This time I don’t know what its going to make me. Dark thoughts come and go and good thoughts come and go. I am on a strange path.
/r/MGTOW230/09/20 09:50 AM
2

Dude if something doesn’t “feel” right you need to run. Both times I ignored that feeling I got burned BAD! Do not ignore your gut!
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 07:21 PM
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It is unfortunate. I am doing my best to pick up the pieces.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 04:25 AM
1

Yes a narc mother.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 03:19 AM
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I have been with 2 female narcs. One a covert narc. The other overt mixed with covert. They both had the same way of speaking. They were both incredibly superficial about anything in their lives. Both kept tons of male friends around. Both had 100000 selfies in their phone. Both had poor boundaries in every aspect of their lives. Both would manipulate and belittle. Both behaved as perpetual victims. Both cheated on me with coworkers. Both sexually assaulted me in the exact same way. The emotiona…
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 01:07 AM
4

Happened to me twice in the last 4 years. Still haven’t killed my biological drive.
/r/MGTOW24/09/20 10:40 PM
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And she will still leave him for Chad. Women like this will be with a man who has 90% of what she wants and will come across another man with only the 10% the first guys is missing and go for the 10% guy. Only after the 10% guys fucks her over will she realize what she gave up if at all.
/r/MGTOW24/09/20 10:39 PM
3

Yes. Actually my best friend.
/r/MGTOW220/09/20 07:42 PM
3

Son of a narc mother her too. I’ve watched my mother gaslight and criticize my saint of a father my entire life. Its why I’ve been burned by 2 narc females, probably a third from way back before I started introspecting. Narc females are why I have gone mgtow.
/r/MGTOW19/09/20 10:20 AM
3

Saved!
/r/MGTOW218/09/20 12:28 PM
43

This hits home
/r/MGTOW16/09/20 11:06 AM
1

My last relationship in a nutshell sademoji
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 01:54 PM
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That “Incel” meetup looks awesome. The other one... well that looks intolerable
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 10:55 PM
3

2 female narcissists in my life. Both told stories of victimization and overshared early. Both moved things way faster than I was comfortable. Love bombing was fair with the first, love bomb over the top with the second. Second narc really sold a future and then her mask slipped and it was hell after that. 2 months of pure hell until I finally said I was walking away. Little did I know she was already three months into a smear campaign and trying to monkey branch. She deliberately antagonized me…
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 12:21 AM
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Classic narcissistic behavior. He needs to run far far away. I’ve had 2 narcissists partners and my life and they are what pushed me past the red pill and onto mgtow.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 09:43 PM
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Mother of god
/r/MGTOW209/08/20 04:34 PM
3

I needed this today. Thank you
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 01:27 PM
1

This is hysterical
/r/MGTOW04/08/20 03:01 PM
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F*ck ya dude! Killing it
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 03:51 AM
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Horrible
/r/MGTOW213/07/20 08:57 PM
1

Good god. You can see it on this mans face he is heartbroken and he has to put on this fake happy face just to save this cheaters reputation. He is such a captain save a ho. Will man, she doesn’t deserve your kindness.
/r/MGTOW11/07/20 05:16 PM
1

Good god
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 04:50 PM
21

Mother of god
/r/MGTOW06/07/20 01:55 AM
5

Had a good laugh with this one
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 01:58 PM
1

Wow. Complete Narcissist
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 02:39 AM
2

I love this!
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 02:39 PM
2

Someone should tell him she is cheating. A girl always has her phone and checks it every minute
/r/MGTOW20/06/20 10:11 PM
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“Mentally and otherwise - who knows” Exactly! Hahah She is the only one who brought a dog. Probably like all the dog girls out there; where the dog is substitute for a child. Here bumble probably says shit like “I’ll love my dog more than you” or “If my dog doesn’t like you it won’t work out emoji emoji emoji”
/r/MGTOW19/06/20 05:48 PM
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Not one normal looking person in the whole lot.
/r/MGTOW19/06/20 11:47 AM
1

She is pure evil
/r/MGTOW19/06/20 11:38 AM
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How to say “Look at me I’m a doctor” without actually saying it. Good for you little fella, good for you!
/r/MGTOW10/06/20 01:47 PM
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Anyone know why this is?
/r/MGTOW05/06/20 02:40 AM
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Play a mans game. Pay a mans price
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/20 09:08 PM
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LMAO!!!
/r/MGTOW23/05/20 12:40 PM
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This is some extremely low effort BS. It takes 2 seconds to write a stupid saying and snap a selfie. These people get so caught up in their fee-fees they think they are changing the world with this pathetic virtue signaling trash posts. I cannot stand this behavior.
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 01:27 PM
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Infuriating
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 04:48 PM
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Lmao look at them sausage fingers
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 12:51 AM
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Almost wanted to tear up with this one. Awesome life man.
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 09:48 PM
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LMAO this is hysterical
/r/MGTOW02/04/20 07:03 PM
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This is perfect!
/r/MGTOW01/04/20 01:18 PM
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Hahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂
/r/MGTOW19/03/20 10:07 AM
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Thank you man. Good analogy. Trust myself is what I am taking away from this
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 11:33 PM
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Any tips to help deprogram? Working on fulling letting go, I feel I am so close!
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 07:28 PM
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Typical female nature nothing to see here
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 12:11 AM
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Been stuck going back and forth between accepting and rage for a few years now. Tough out there.
/r/MGTOW28/12/19 09:19 PM
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Lmao!! This is great!
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 03:16 PM
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Fucking hell this is great!
/r/MGTOW26/12/19 05:29 PM
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That man is a hero
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 01:01 PM
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I love how she worded the last sentence: “Is he insecure about my sexual past?” No he isn’t, just realized you are a whore. Sure call him insecure so you feel better about leaving him which you will eventually do because you are broken.
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 01:39 PM
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Just heartbreaking
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 05:32 PM
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35
/r/MGTOW18/11/19 04:17 PM
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Lmao
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 07:43 PM
1

Congratulations man! Damn, this is an uplifting post.
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 05:25 PM
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Can’t wait until I get to that feeling of empowerment and peace
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 06:31 PM
2

Same dude. Recently for me too. Universe has been trying to shove a blue pill down my throat for weeks. Then a chic slapped me in the face with a red pill and I quickly gobbled it down. Now she hates me for it and I thanked her for the favor :’)
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 06:06 PM
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Incredibly sorry for the loss of your friend
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 05:39 PM
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Hey man. Let’s talk. This happens, it’s natural. If you catch yourself beating yourself up. Try to turn that off with positive thoughts or fight it off. Try not to give into impulse, do not contact her. You’re gut was telling you something when she would not commit to discussing your future together. That is confirmation she was not thinking about it; specifically a future with you. You left. That was the right thing to do. Strong, be strong. You looked out for yourself. That’s awesome. Stay the…
/r/MGTOW08/10/19 08:08 PM
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Goddamn so much truth
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 08:14 PM
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I do plenty alone, everyone is different. I’d like to connect with like minded males I can call friends, nothing weak about it.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 11:02 AM
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I have thought this. Just lonely I guess and since I don’t associate with women, looking for friends
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 10:44 AM
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Awesome. Perhaps we can meet up sometime
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 10:43 AM
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Thank you
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 10:42 AM
2

Maybe I’ll give those a try, not much of a creative though.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 10:42 AM
1

Hey, my sister lives in Naples. Don’t play ball though
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 10:41 AM
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Thanks man. Very good advice
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 12:56 AM
5

I don’t. Just looking for male friends.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 12:09 AM
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There is little things that I attend. Indie markets and the like. Mostly for women and BP’s. Unfortunately my interests are very solitary, books, computers, painting.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 11:33 PM
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Yea I have quit chasing pussy. Just don’t have any friends anymore.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 11:25 PM
1

I am not a student
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 11:25 PM
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Yea, I know. Looking for friends Irl. I can spend time with.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 11:18 PM
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I admire you knowing what you want. I still haven’t figured it out.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 08:11 PM
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I am a lonely man coping in a meaningless world.
/r/MGTOW06/10/19 04:43 PM
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Gosh. A multitude of things. Manic is the best way to describe it. I was all over the place. I just had to call her out. Simultaneously had to know why. Felt confused, worthless. Fight or flight was raging back and forth. I can best describe it as the worst emotional roller coaster I have ever ridden.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 07:24 PM
1

This is awesome man! Thank you! I was really missing the part out decluttering my life, this is what I need now.
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 12:23 PM
2

Been struggling with this lately. Any tips?
/r/MGTOW02/10/19 04:32 PM
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I’d participate.
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 11:37 AM
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Wish I had male friends to do this with. All are blue pilled simped to the max and abandoned me since their wives/gfs don’t want them hanging out with a single dude.
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 03:09 AM
1

Thank you everyone for the advice. Been struggling, but doing ok.
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 03:52 PM
2

Thank you
/r/MGTOW20/08/19 07:31 AM
7

Had an ex abort a pregnancy without my consent. I’m still not ok.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 09:32 PM
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No joke, teared up. Wish I could find a bro like that.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 12:55 PM
20

Like a poem. Well stated
/r/MGTOW22/07/19 12:12 PM
1

Can’t get to it on mobile. I’m not subscribed, wonder if thats why.
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 02:41 AM
3

Love this brother
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 09:47 PM
2

Fucking love this
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 11:58 PM
10

This is terrifying
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 07:04 PM
2

Proud of you my man.
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 06:54 PM
1

Obsessed. Still playing Call of Chernobyl mod for Call of Pripyat.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 12:46 AM
5

I had mandatory me too training today as well and they said the same things. And it was female and a female lawyer. We may work for the same company 😂😂 OP, if you want to DM me feel free.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 12:11 AM
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Be strong, no benefit can come from you contacting her. Silence will work best for all outcomes.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 02:35 PM
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Same, man that felt good.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 02:28 PM
2

I wish I had this. All the guys I know are cucked as hell with their wives and GF’s
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 12:10 AM
1

I have an answer for her: Because those women are full of sh*t
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 08:49 PM
8

“Pushpop” not gonna lie I lol’ed
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 12:32 AM
1

Baller!
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 08:41 PM
2

May I ask what you do for a living?
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 08:08 PM
2

Amazing!
/r/MGTOW07/03/19 01:51 PM
6

“Male privilege”
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 05:34 PM
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Lmao this is so stupid. There would be no pyramid on the left because women would destroy each other to get to the top of it.
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 06:18 PM
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She was never that good looking in the first place.
/r/MGTOW13/12/18 09:12 PM
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Nonsense, I have not yet begun to defile myself
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 05:49 PM
4

God I hate this trend
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 09:46 PM
1

A little bit yes. Removed the bar end mirrors and put on low profiles in the stock mounting location and then bar end weights. Helped a lot.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 06:12 PM
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LMAO. I said to myself when I saw this... “She looks familiar” I quickly realized, I did not recognize this woman, she just looks like every f*cking woman I see nowadays.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 08:42 PM
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When they can’t control you with sex they move onto someone that they can. 99% of the time while they are still with you.
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 03:41 PM
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Can you explain your method?
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 08:23 PM
2

Not to mention the projection from these people. They will assault you in black clothes and ski masks with red bands on their arms while screaming NAZI for wearing an American flag hat.
/r/MGTOW27/07/18 02:54 PM
4

So awesome! Motorcycling, D&D, Painting, paddle boarding. Looking to start solo bike traveling this year as I just picked up a cruiser at a steal (Won it in a grand opening drawing for a new dealership. 2018 Rebel 500) Any tips for a solo traveler? 34 and never traveled alone before.
/r/MGTOW24/07/18 08:09 PM
3

Good god are you me? Lived nearly this and was coming to say my piece, but you beat me too it. I have since found fulfillment in hobbies and work. What about you?
/r/MGTOW24/07/18 07:57 PM
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I have kind of lost my appetite for it all. I get more satisfaction from working on my budget. Haha
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 08:57 PM
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I have spent some time in the scene and am MGTOW. I had a sub and found it far far too much mental energy to give the sub what she needed. I hamstered that I could still be mgtow and have a sub and I was wrong. I couldn’t give the sub the emotional attention she needed without it interfering with going my own way. Others in the scene would have thought me neglectful. So I ended it and no longer am in the scene. Hope this gives some insight.
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 08:54 PM
3

Damn... thank you. And your closing statement... so true
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 02:11 PM
8

How the shit did they get ALL of them to wear the shirts?
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 03:08 AM
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Dude, I was just thinking like you today... still am. It is definitely a struggle. Looking forward to seeing the advice her as well.
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 05:50 PM
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Thank you! Great info
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 05:33 PM
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Is that the GS310? Looking for advice on my first Enduro/dualsport.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 12:43 PM
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SUV and a bike. Plan is to replace the SUV with something that has 4WD since I bought it in FL and it wasn’t needed. Now I am in NC. Plan is to buy the new vehicle with cash. Buy a couple more bikes for variety and eventually a weekend car like a porsche. Still working for that promotion, so I can move these plans along quicker.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 05:35 PM
2

Love this
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 03:51 PM
1

I feel for you man. The feelings of wanting intimacy still linger with me as well.
/r/MGTOW19/06/18 08:48 PM
1

Hell yea man! An amazing machine isn’t it? fist bump
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 04:05 PM
1

This is so spot on!
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 03:54 PM
2

Good call. I will now refer to it as my bro.
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 02:48 PM
2

Nice! Great bike to learn skills on! Happy for ya
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 02:48 PM
2

Awesome! Make and model?
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 01:36 PM
2

Damn straight. Thanks and ride safe!
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 01:20 PM
1

So much truth
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 01:19 PM
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Dainese Nexus Boots, Alpinestars SP8 gloves, Dainese Veloster leather jacket, AGV K3 SV. Only thing I wasn’t wearing was my Dainese Delta C2 leather pants. And honestly don’t know why I didn’t throw them on that day. Summer I roll with Alpinestars GP air textile, Scorpion Klaw 2 gloves, Cortech perforated Latigo air boots, and Leatt knee and shin protectors I slide over whatever comfy long pants I have on. Always wear my gear.
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 01:04 PM
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Pros: Fast, more comfortable than a supersport seating position, more affordable, Renthal fatbar stock, brembos stock, traction control, light for a 1000cc, looks, great exhaust note with stock setup. Cons: Throttle is jumpy takes getting used too, saddle can be a bit uncomfortable in longer rides, vibrations in footpegs. It is so much fun with all that power in the low end. You can zip right past anything.
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 12:54 PM
1

You are definitely on to something
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 12:46 PM
1

It’s a fun ride
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 12:45 PM
2

Thanks
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 01:47 AM
4

Amen!
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 01:05 AM
1

Awesome. Always wanted to get into this. Any advice on where to start?
/r/MGTOW14/06/18 05:35 PM
8

I'll take "Things that never happened" for $500 Alex.
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 08:56 PM
1

'16 Suzuki GSX S1000 It's an animal.
/r/MGTOW19/07/17 07:24 PM
2

Hey man. I'm in St. Pete and I'd be down. Send me a message.
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 08:31 PM
2

There are no chicks with dicks only men with tits....Thanks Ted.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:40 PM
0

So good! Upvoted.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:42 PM
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Great advice here.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 02:58 PM
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You are correct. They are fucking with you. It seems as if their statement gets to you a little, which may be why you are looking for some kind of retort. A witty comeback could be: "Nope, just pretending to be. If you need help with a hysterectomy call me." Personally I would say: "Nah, you know I chose to do something different" Or "I chose to do something different" Because, I could care less about how they feel about it, and because its a genuine answer. Good luck!
/r/askTRP24/12/15 02:52 PM
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I have heard this one before. I usually respond with "Relax" Let the hamster do the work.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 02:37 PM
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Pm Sent
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:04 PM
2

Fuck, you give the best advice.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 09:06 PM
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UPDATE: I didn't even send a "K" I ignored it, and this morning I received a message, blaming me for all kinds of crap, that never happened. and her last sentence read "...If you do this to me again, it will be the last thing you do." Her number is now blocked. Gentlemen, I attract crazy bitches, and apparently I am terrible at seeing it, before escalation.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:11 PM
1

Very good insights. I wont be providing any comforts to her at this point.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 06:35 PM
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As simple as this is, its perfect. I guess I caught a bit of sympathy, and started overthinking my response. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 04:40 PM
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I enjoyed reading this. The observation of the mirroring posture is excellent. It is definitely something to look out for when meeting with people, it really does put the mind at ease.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:39 PM
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Don't date girls with an abusive past. Learn from my example: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pn69v/my_relationship_with_a_covert_narcissist_long/
/r/seduction28/10/15 06:28 PM
1

Its amazing how all of the stories I have heard about the types of females are nearly identical.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:59 PM
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She claims molestation from her father as a child, but they have a relationship now. NO IDEA if that story is true.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:40 PM
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The right guy at the right place at the right time, theses bitches will jump ship, especially the disordered ones.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:31 PM
1

Hey thanks. Yea for awhile she did, than BOOM dropped like I never existed. I am going to read that site now. Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:14 PM
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I loved reading this. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:22 PM
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From everyone I talked too, they all say the same thing. Its almost like we all dated the same person, even though its nearly impossible. These people are everywhere. I kind of disagree on borderline, my research has shown borderlines have a lot of anger. This chic rarely got angry.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:07 PM
1

Thanks man. Doing research, sharing my experience, and immediately meeting new people has already helped me. I do have a tendency to look for the good in people, very good insight. I am working on being firmer with boundaries, and not just communicating them, but enforcing them. I see now she is a terrible person, and I only stayed with her for her looks. I put my self worth into that aspect of her... bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 08:43 PM
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I will check it out. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 12:24 PM
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Thanks man. I do have a mild depression, meeting up with a therapist next week to get myself back in line emotionally. I see I communicated my boundaries, but didn't enforce them. I took on a "She did not know it was a boundary" mentality and rationalized each incident as being different. Until I got fed up and called it off. Should have never let it get past that second meet up. Currently having some success with Tinder, and whenever I go out. I will start writing up some FR's.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 07:49 PM
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Ha-ha, you are so right man. Working on it now.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:32 PM
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Thanks I needed to hear that. I really hope I can regain what I lost from all of this. And hopefully my story can help others. I have 2 girls I am currently seeing, but have no intentions on committing too. One I have already had the conversation with, the other I see her Saturday and will let her know my intentions. Time to brush up on plate theory.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:28 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to read it. After the split in that last week. I could see her change in front of my eyes to someone completely foreign. But, all the while she was hijacking things about me, that she must have liked to bring with her as she left me. I felt like my identity was hijacked. It makes me sick thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:51 PM
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Thanks man. Its been difficult so far, I have been spending a little bit of time with a couple women. (Sex is involved) but arousal is difficult. I feel no attachment. Her number is blocked, and she doesn't know where I moved too. She is also blocked on social media.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:49 PM
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You are correct. If she was a 5, I would not have even responded to her after that second meeting, where she dropped those bombs. She pulled me back in numerous times over that final week. The term emotionally ragdolled is spot on. It was all to feed her ego, I let it happen and the only reason I can think why is because of her looks. I am still struggling with it as well, her looks are an addiction to me. I have kept no pictures, blocked all social media, and eliminated all reminders, but I sti…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 04:42 PM
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Good way to put it. Thank you.
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